Father Blames Daughter For Making Him Molest Her
As the name of this 43-year-old individual has been hidden from the public in order to protect his daughter, we’ll just call him Bob.
Bob has been in prison before for sexual assault, and now he’s back, after pleading guilty to sexually abusing his daughter.
Between March and July of 2005, Bob was separated from his wife. During that time, his 5-year-old girl would visit him in his basement apartment and stay overnight on a regular basis.
One day, after returning from daddy’s apartment, his daughter told her mother that daddy had touched her sexually.
The mother immediately called the police.
The police came over and interviewed Bob, who admitted that he had touched his daughter – but told the cop that she had started it.
Bob also told the officers that his touching of his daughter wasn’t sexual in any way and that he didn’t enjoy it at all or get any kind of pleasure out of it.
Evidently the subject of orgasms came up in daily conversation and Bob just had to show her how it was done.
In an interview with a child abuse detective, the little girl said that she didn’t think what they had done was bad because her dad had told her what they were doing wasn’t bad.
In a pathetic attempt to “apologize” to his girl for what he had done, Bob wrote a letter:
I only wanted to show her that I loved her and that some things would have to wait for her to grow up, but to give knowledge of what to expect. I had only wanted to answer your questions as best as I could. I know that showing you was not the way and giving in to you was wrong. I didn’t want you hating daddy because I wouldn’t tell you what you wanted to know.
Bob finished the letter with a request to his ex-wife that she allow him to still say goodnight to his daughter.
Bob remains free on bail until he can be sentenced on the 19th of February, 2008.
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This is just wrong on so many ways! Why on earth would they ever allow this person to be free and still see his child!
Surprised there are not more comments here. Heard a similar story where a man molested his step daughter. When questioned by the police he tried to talk his way out of it by saying that she had complained of being sore “down there” and so he felt he should kiss it better.
Some people are really, really sick fuckers. This one has my vote for hell.
Man… there are so many posts on this board that I have never seen before. I can’t believe I missed this!
What a sick bastard. A FIVE year old? If a 5 year old child had enough knowledge of sex to ask such a question, I would have her at the doctors office the next morning.
My daughter, at five, knew “SEX” as follows:
Mommy and Daddy love each other
Mommy and Daddy touch each other in special Mommy and Daddy ways – in PRIVATE, because it’s something that is very special for them
Daddy puts a sperm (shown as a finger wiggling) in Mommy and sometimes that sperm finds one of Mommy’s eggs (shown by making a circle with thumb and forefinger)
And when that happens, BOOM! God makes it into a baby!
That is ALL kids need to know at that age. And if any kid knows much more than that – something is drastically wrong!
Blaming the kid… I have heard it all now. Fry the fucker!
Folks this sick fuck won’t last 30 days inside. The “cons” have a way with perverted child molesters like this. There are a few others that need atonement….The Judge who released him and the bondsman that posted the bond……..They are “enablers” and the country is full of them.
There is a man here in our Australian Prison system who raped and killed young girls. Rumour has it that other prison inmates got to him, pinned him down and inserted a bit of pipe up his arse. They then threaded some barbed wire into the pipe, removed the pipe and then ripped out the barbed wire. Now, although he is still alive he has a colostomy bag. A small amount of justice for those girls.
Turtle?? Where are ya? I think we can both learn from this.
Now that is an idea!! I’ll have to make a note. Now make the barbed wire rusty and covered in weeks old shit and you have the beginings of something special.
OMG that’s awesome! I should not say that, but I believe that many of the child molesters/rapists get off FAR too easily and end up repeating when they get out.
Now if that gentleman didn’t learn his lesson, I’d be amazed beyond belief.
Amy…..Wouldn’t it be great if this would deter other molesters from acting upon their sick and twisted impulses? Sadly, it won’t. I hate to hear about bad things happening to people, but I can’t feel bad for this guy. This is definitely a “what comes around goes around” situation. Granted his suffering is different than his victim’s, but now he is suffering in his own hell just like his victim suffers daily in their own hell that he caused for the victim.
C’mon, Corset Lass, at least he didn’t kill her like Mr Keigley
NavyCop….He may not have killed her physically, but he definitely killed a part of her soul. When your a victim of childhood sex abuse and rape, it is something you never get over. You learn to move forward, but it is something you never forget.
Mr. Keigley is definitely someone that I don’t think deserves to breathe the same air as the rest of us. How terrifying it must have been for his daughter to be raped to begin with! Then she had to deal with the reality and horror that she had been impregnated by her own father. Finally, the utter hope and desperation she must have felt knowing that she there was nothing she could do to stop her own father for killing her because of his own sick and twisted impulses. That poor girl experienced more hell in her young life than some ever experience in a lifetime! I’d love to personally go postal on his ass!
Sorry for not being clear…I was just being sarcastic. I think this guy is beyond despicable and take Evil into a new Realm. Again, my apologies for sounding like a heartless arrogant prick. I’m not heartless, just arrogant and I proudly call myself a prick.
NavyCop….No worries and no apologies needed. I knew what you meant. I should apologize. Sorry if I sounded like I was on a soapbox. Definitely didn’t mean to make you feel bad or feel that you needed to apologize. Sometimes I think my biggest problem is that I have too much heart. Also, there is nothing wrong with being arrogant or being a prick when you are defending the rights of abuse victims!
I don’t feel bad. I just should be a little more clear when I am being sarcastic. My feelings are impervious to pain. :) The guy is still a total douche.
thanks, Mulch. You have given me a laugh ,which is sorely needed after reading that sad , sick fuck story.
Horrible. I feel stained from this story. He won’t get much time. I know most of you are officers of the law but…. As I always say you get more time for having a semi-large bag of marajuana then you do for vehicular homicide, or in this case showing your 5 year old daughter how to.. I don’t even want to say it. Poor thing. She is going to feel so damaged when she is old enough to understand this.
Another dumbass that needs his thingy cut off and sewn to his forehead after it is shoved up his anal and then shoved in his mouth.
Sick Freak.
I was not aware of the incredible abilities 5 year old girls obviously possess when seducing a man. Lamest excuse ever.
Wow Mazzi! When my son was 5 he thought sex was sitting down at a table with an equal amount of boys and girls and having a party with cake and ice cream.
In my defence, this is not what I told him, he just announced to me that he knew what sex meant and gave me his definition…ahh innocence.
It’s so typical of a pedophile to blame the child, unfortunately the child will also blame herself, no matter how often she is told it’s not her fault. She will also probably always carry guilt for “getting him in trouble”, this is suffering that molestation brings to a child her whole life, it doesnt end with the actual abuse.
When the person or persons that are supposed to love and protect you, sexualize and exploit you instead, who can you trust and how “lovable” can you ever feel?
My heart aches for this child. This guy won’t get any time, it’s a freakin shame!!
No he probably won’t get much time, since this happened in Canada. they have worse sentencing guidelines than the US. But they’re still head and shoulders ahead of the Brits when it comes to pedophiles.
Sure, a five year old knows all about sex…right…another shitbag asking for death.
Well said max… Here in dear old blighty he’d probably get a little bit of community service which would involve gardening etc, and then he’d be assigned to group therapy where he could sit in a circle talking about his problems… I can picture it… “hey guys, i’m bob and i’m here because my hot little cutesie five year old daughter slipped into her tweenies nightshirt and slippers an goddam seduced me there an then! I mean whats a guy to do?” ho-hum! Well i dunno people, but maybe bob needs an insight into sex jail style? Castration should be mandatory for this sick fuck, i’d happily do it for him… With rusty cheese wire! ;( grrr!
WHAT???? Please tell me your fucking kidding?!
Are you serious, Loula?? Is the British justice system that bad? I knew they were more lenient, but I guess I just supposed it was in reference to the death penalty or something. Is it all crimes they are rather passe and indulgent about? But a pedophile? My God, they should be at the top of the list, not the bottom. That is as sick as the actions as this prick.
Here’s a pedophile story that breaks your heart. It’s from ’03, but the victim(s) stories give you insight to how insidiously vile these offenders are, so the story is, unfortunately, timeless.
I hope that the relationship of the offender to the Joyce Meyer group does not start up another wave of linking her church to crimes. Since I was looking at the Chris Coleman case (a JMM member and former security personnel), it’s not unusual to link to other catch phrases; hence, other stories linked to JMM.
This other URL will map registered sex offenders in your neighborhood (or elsewhere). Note, not all sex offenders are registered. Likely, a small percentage of actual offenders. Nonetheless, we persevere as best we can. Making them as public as possible is a plus. Unless the freaks get off on the notoriety. Sick perverts. Anyway, we want to identify them as much as possible so Bubba-the-Bum-F’er will recognize him in jail and have hisself a nice li’l play date.
http://www.rickross.com/reference/meyer/meyer11.html
http://www.familywatchdog.us/Search.asp
this is commonly called SOCIOPATH behavior. They tend to blame others for their actions. Nothing is their fault, they are the “victims”.
One more parting shot at Bob the Baby Raper. You, sir, are a douche, not worthy of continued life in prison society, let alone civilization. So help me, you better keep on the good side of the guards. They’ll out you as the chi-mo that you are.
Have a good day all. I gotta go home and do some research on my next write up. *Evil Grin*
lol….this kinda reminds me of that Beavis & Butt-Head episode where they tried to sue a female classmate for giving them stiffies. :p
This guy’s an idiot and I will gladly laugh at him. Ha ha ha ha! :)