Raymond Lance Betros
28-year-old Raymond Lance Betros has an odd fetish.
He likes sodomizing handicapped women.
Now, these women can like it, or not like it. Either way. Raymond Betros doesn’t really care.
In 2002, a paraplegic woman in her 20′s who had major brain damage and crippling disabilities from a car accident met Raymond Betros on the Internet after he saw her webpage. The two hit it off, and the woman’s mother allowed Raymond to wheel her daughter around and spend more and more time with her. The woman’s mom felt that Raymond seemed nice, helpful and actually enjoyed spending time with her.
Not long after the two started hanging out together, the disabled woman told another friend that she had finally lost her virginity.
That little tidbit managed to find its way back to this woman’s mother, who wasn’t pleased – to say the least. The mother confronted Raymond Betros, accusing him of taking advantage of her daughter and telling him that she was going to call the police. Raymond responded to that by saying that her daughter wanted the sodomy.
That’s so not what you tell the mother of your girlfriend. That’s like #1 on the list of things not to tell your girlfriend’s mom.
Of course the mother asked her daughter all about the sodomy and what’s a girl going to do? Admit to her mother that she liked it? That wasn’t going to happen, and it didn’t. The girl told her mom that she wanted the sex to stop, and Betros was arrested.
He pled guilty to a count of felony battery and was sentenced to six months in jail and three years probation.
Now, five years after Raymond Betros served time for that sexual encounter with a handicapped person, he’s been accused of the same thing.
In August, a handicapped woman in her early 20′s went to the cops and accused Raymond Betros of sodomizing her repeatedly over the past year, despite the fact that she had told him to stop.
This woman related that Raymond had met her online and had been so helpful at first, but then, after a while, he had started to pressure her for sex. When she told him that she didn’t want to, Raymond would roll her over onto her stomach and strip her clothes off.
She would try to fight the sodomy, but since she has very limited use of her hands and no use of her legs, she couldn’t do much of anything but yell at him.
Once Raymond had finished his business, he would threaten to choke her to death if she ever told anyone what he had done.
An investigation into Raymond Betros was begun by the local police and Betros’s love of handicapped women was revealed. He had actually been cultivating relationships with two other women who were wheelchair-bound while he was involved with this one.
The detective assigned to the case, Andy Bowman had this to say about Raymond’s methods:
He was gaining their trust. It was good at first. He was a sweetheart. He would start to become more demanding. He would become more violent.
On the 17th of October, 2007, Raymond Betros was charged with first-degree sexual battery of a handicapped person, a charge that could land him in prison for 30 years.
Couldn’t happen to a nicer guy.
Does Raymond Lance Betros deserve Hell?
- Yes (93%, 122 Votes)
- No (7%, 9 Votes)
Total Voters: 131
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17 Comments »
what an a hole I hope he rots in hell what a horrible thing to do to someone
what a hero, taking advantage of women with a handicap *sheesh*
we have a saying here in Holland “there’s a lot of crazy people in an asylum, but the majority is still out on the streets”
sad to see so many examples of that saying being true.
a hole?…lolwho says a hole
I happen to be the mother of one of those victims…after his 1st conviction….I tried very hard to keep him away from my daughter….but because he had a “high dollar” lawyer, thanks to his parents…who changed the WORDING in his probation restrictions from: NO CONTACT WITH HANDICAPPED FEMALES TO: Cannot be EMPLOYEED with HANDICAPPED FEMALES…I COULD DO NOTHING TO KEEP HIM AWAY FROM HER!
I HOPE HE ROTS IN HELL!!
I knew your daughter. She said she was in love with him.
SO DO I “MOTHER OF ONE”…. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER AS WELL..
I say a hole because I have a small child and it is just habit…I don’t really like to swear in front of her because I don’t want her picking it up
@IPattyKake
An admirable stance, but probably futile. by the time the kid’s 10, he/she will have a bigger swear vocabulairy then you.
Still, that doesn’t mean you should try, by all means keep it up! :)
lol she already does have a better “swear vocabulary” than me but I am a firm beliver in your kids will act the way you do.
It shames me to say that this guy was a Betros. I am a Betros, and I know many of my relatives are wonderful well to do people. I’m glad that I don’t know who that one is.
How convenient, just take off her clothes, roll her over on her stomach and start banging away.
She probably should’ve defecated. Maybe that would’ve got him to reconsider, unless he’s into scat. :)
You owe me lunch.
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Sorry, I’ll try harder next time.
Oh man, that’s just not right!
And oh so stinky……Max
Translated from German – “Why should one react so? There is also other possibilities a solution for this problem to find.”
Imagine you have limited to no use of your arms and legs and you require assistance in day to day life. You come to trust the person who feeds you and helps you go to the restroom. Imagine the helplessness and betrayal you would feel if that person were to rape you. Imagine how much worse it would be if they did it repeatedly. THAT is why we react so. There is no other possibility – it’s rape if the person says ‘no’.
Here’s a crude translation of my post into German:
Stellen Sie sich vor, dass Sie zu keinem Gebrauch von Ihren Armen und Beinen begrenzt haben, und Sie erfordern Hilfe in Tag zu Tag Leben. Sie kommen, der Person zu vertrauen, die zuführt Sie und hilft, Ihnen, zur Toilette zu gehen. Stellen Sie sich vor, dass die Hilflosigkeit und der Verrat, den Sie fühlen würden, wenn jene Person Sie vergewaltigen sollte? Stellen Sie sich vor wie viel schlimmeres, das es wäre, wenn sie es immer wieder gemacht haben? Deswegen reagieren wir so. Es gibt keine weitere Möglichkeit – es ist Vergewaltigung, wenn die Person „nein“ sagt.
I lived in Middleburg. I know this guy. I don’t agree with what he did. But, they also aren’t mentioning the fact that he was married to Shannon for two years. I know Shannon. Shannon is mean, hateful, and a liar. She’s smart. She knows what she is doing. And she tries to get whatever she can out of people just because she’s in a wheelchair. I hung out with her for a little bit and I had to stop because she was such an angry person.
I know that Raymond wanted a divorce and I know she said, “I’ll get you back for leaving me.”
Why isn’t that in here?
i went to school with raymond and shannon. they met in high school. shannon was a really angry person. i know they had two kids together. shannon begged raymond to have kids. she wanted to be a mom. but, she didn’t want to do anything with the kids. raymond had to do everything for them.
even now, shannon is trying to give the kids away to adoption.
i worked with raymond for awhile too.
he had two jobs trying to support them. did everything for his family.
shannon was always mad at him. she would call work and yell at me to speak with raymond.
she also has a medical condition of being bi polar. i felt bad for him that he had to deal with her. she seemed pretty crazy.
i know that she was pissed because he didn’t want to be with her anymore.
she told everyone that he would regret leaving her.
i don’t know about all the other girls that it talks about in here.
i just know that he’s in jail right now because shannon said he was raping her. they were married. she wanted kids. she was crazy. he wanted to leave after awhile. he couldn’t handle it anymore.
i don’t know if i believe everything in here.
but, there are two sides to every story. and i was around him a lot when he was married to shannon. i don’t believe shannon.