Lori Drew
Since the dawn of time, girls have been catty to each other.
Two girls will collaborate in the ostracizing of a third girl, calling her names behind her back, spreading rumors and playing little jokes on her with the goal of inflicting as much mental and emotional anguish as they possibly can.
While women never completely grow out of this, most do tend to lose interest in these kinds of activities as they age and mature.
Most women, except, of course, for Lori Drew, who is currently in the running for the title of “Most Hated Woman in America.”
For a while, Lori Drew, who ran a successful local advertising mailer business called The Drew Ad Vantage, was a respected, popular member of her community. She has since…gone downhill somewhat.
She lives in a nice house.
She’s a member of the St. Peters Chamber of Commerce
She’s married to Curt Drew, who’s employed as a Realtor at their local Coldwell Banker.
But now, as you can see, Lori Drew’s business is fighting a sudden public relations downturn.
During seventh grade, Lori Drew’s daughter, Sarah, was friends with Megan Taylor Meier, a 13-year-old girl who, like many 13-year-olds, struggled with her weight and had self-esteem issues. These issues Megan had were compounded by a diagnosed case of Attention-Deficit Disorder and a long battle with depression – a condition which she she had been seeing a therapist for since she was in the third grade, after talking about suicide.
Here’s Megan Meier’s MySpace account.
The Meiers and Drews were friendly enough that Megan had been on a vacation trip with the Drews, and the Meiers had been storing a foosball table for the Drews until Christmas.
Sarah Drew and Megan Meier started the eighth grade together, and their on-again off-again friendship became a little more chaotic, as 13-year-old friendships tend to be when two girls are involved.
For some reason or another, Sarah Drew and Megan Meier squabbled, probably over something stupid, and stopped being friends.
If you’ve ever known 13-year-old girls, or if you ever were a 13-year-old girl, you know what that’s like.
Well, Sarah Drew told her mother, Lori Drew, about how Megan was mean to her and how pissed off she was about it.
That’s when things started to get really stupid, because like many other boomer and post-boomer helicopter parents, Lori Drew was unable to keep her nose out of what should have been her daughter’s business.
Lori Drew created a profile on MySpace with the name ‘Josh Evans’ and put a picture of a ‘really hot guy’ on the profile picture. 16-year-old ‘Josh Evans’ had just moved into the area from Florida, was being home-schooled, played the drums and the guitar, and didn’t have a phone number.
And, coincidently enough, he wanted to be friends with Megan Meier.
Megan was thrilled that ‘Josh Evans’ was interested in her enough to add her to his friends list. She showed her mother, Tina, the friend request and begged to be allowed to add the teen to her friends list. Tina, after looking the boy’s profile over, let her daughter add him as a friend.
For six weeks, Megan chatted with ‘Josh’ about things 13-year-old girls usually talk about: school, parents and sex.
Lori Drew, using the experience that comes with advanced age, did her best to get Megan Meier to confess secret desires, crushes and other vulnerabilities to her online ‘boyfriend.’ Shortly after starting this relationship, Lori Drew started letting other people into the “joke.” An employee of Drew Ad Vantage named Ashley was recruited to help keep the joke going. Another girl in the neighborhood also had the login details to the Josh Evans account.
Then one day, on the 15th of October, 2006, six weeks after stringing along Megan Meier, ‘Josh Evans’ started getting mean.
I don’t know if I want to be friends with you anymore because I’ve heard that you are not very nice to your friends.
Megan Meier responded with a frantic e-mail that basically said, “I don’t know what you’re talking about!”
The next day, after handing out invitations to her birthday party to friends at school, Megan came home and asked her mother to log into Megan’s MySpace account for her so she could see if Josh Evans had replied to her e-mail. She was hoping that the boy would show up to her party, which was in three weeks. After all, it would be nice if she and her parents could finally meet the boy who had captured her heart – as long as she could find out who had been talking to him and telling him that she wasn’t nice to her friends.
But Josh Evans wasn’t being nice.
Josh’s account had, in fact, forwarded her correspondence with him to a number of other online friends. All those secrets, all those confessions – now everyone Megan Meier knew at school could read them.
And read them they did, with many of them responding as younger teenagers are wont to do – with mockery and name-calling.
Megan’s mother had a dental appointment and was pressed for time, so Megan’s mom told Megan to sign off as she walked out the door.
Megan didn’t sign off. She responded to the online cruelty with name calling and threats of her own. When her mother called her, after she had arrived at the dentist, Megan was still online, crying and telling her mother that everyone was being so mean to her. Megan’s mother again told her daughter to log off.
Shortly after that, a sobbing Megan called her mother and told her that people online were posting bulletins about her, saying things like, “Megan is fat” and “Megan is a slut.” Again, Megan was told to log off by her now-furious mother.
After her dentist appointment was over, Megan’s mom returned home, went to the room where the computer was located and reviewed the messages her daughter had seen and was sending. Seeing how out-of-control things were on her daughter’s MySpace account, Megan’s mom expressed her disappointment in her daughter’s behavior, logged out the account and ended Megan’s MySpace activities for the night.
Megan’s mom didn’t catch the last message in Megan’s inbox, however. That message was from Josh Evans and said:
Everybody in O’Fallon knows how you are. You are a bad person and everybody hates you. Have a shitty rest of your life. The world would be a better place without you.
Megan ran to her room and stayed there, quietly, while her parents cooked dinner downstairs.
Her parents, sensing something was wrong, ran upstairs and found their daughter, who had hung herself with a belt in her closet.
Emergency services was called and an ambulance arrived empty and left with the 13-year-old in the back.
As the ambulance was in front of the Meier’s house, Lori Drew called the 13-year-old who had been brought in on the joke and told her to keep her mouth shut about what they had done.
The Josh Evans account was deleted.
Megan Meier was dead the next day.
Lori Drew went with her family went to Megan’s funeral and mouthed the right words of remorse, all while knowing that what she had done had driven Megan, a girl the Drews knew was on anti-depression medication, to kill herself.
A few weeks after Megan’s suicide, the thirteen-year-old that Lori had recruited into the “joke” felt a wee bit guilty about her part in it and talked to the Meiers about it, explaining what had been done to their daughter by someone they thought was a family friend.
The Meiers, responding with incredible restraint, only went so far as to smash to pieces and drop off on the Drew driveway the foosball table that they had been asked to store in their house until Christmas.
“Merry Christmas” was spray-painted onto the box.
The Drew’s response? Call the police and file a report.
Here’s a partial transcript of that report:
In reference to their daughter’s suicide, Drew explained she wanted to “just tell them” what she did to contribute to the Meier’s daughter’s suicide. She instigated and monitored a “my space” account which was created for the sole purpose of communicating with Meier’s daughter. Drew said she, with the help of temporary employee named “Ashley”, constructed a profile of “good looking” male on “my space” in order to “find out what Megan (Meier’s daughter) was saying on-line” about her daughter. Drew explained the communication between the fake male profile was aimed at gaining Megan’s confidence and finding out what Megan felt about her daughter and other people. Drew stated she, her daughter, and Ashley all typed, read, and monitored the communication between the fake male profile and Megan. Drew went on to say, the communication became “sexual for a thirteen year old.” Drew stated she continued the fake male profile despite this development.
According to Drew “somehow” other “my space” users were able to access the fake male profile and Megan found out she had been duped. Drew stated she knew “arguments” had broken out between Megan and others on “my space”. Drew felt this incident contributed to Megan’s suicide, but she did not feel “as guilty” because at the funeral because she found out “Megan had tried to commit suicide before.”
Drew explained the neighborhood had recently found out her involvement in Megan’s suicide and her neighborhood has become hostile toward her and her family. Despite the recency of the suicide and several neighbors recommending she not confront the Meier family (especially on Thanksgiving), Meier stated she and her husband attempted to contact the Meier family three times, “banging on the door” although Mr Meier had already told them to leave.
Good stuff there. You have to love the fact that Lori Drew told the officers that she didn’t feel guilty because Megan had tried to commit suicide before.
Also interesting is that Lori Drew mentioned to the officers that the communication had turned sexual.
If that’s the case, did Lori Drew – a woman in her 40′s – admit on a police report to manipulating a 13-year-old girl into a sexual conversation?
If so, Lori Drew could be considered as something of a sexual predator, as she used the anonymity of the internet to lure Megan Meier into what could be viewed as a sexual relationship. After all, many, many people have been arrested for grooming children for a sexual encounter.
Or maybe this whole situation could be just seen as a prank that went a little too far on a girl who couldn’t hack it, as this anonymous blog here would have you believe.
Does Lori Drew deserve Hell?
- Yes (96%, 13,316 Votes)
- No (4%, 603 Votes)
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Consolidated information on the Drews. Let ‘em know how you feel.
Curt and Lori (The Bitch) Drew: 636-272-2670 – home
Curt Drew: (314) 520-8688 – cell
(636) 379-8500 – office
Lori (The Bitch) Drew: (314) 520-7916 – cell
Don’t let ‘em rest until Lori jumps off a building.
wow this is a real sick bitch a sexual whore a mental slut one of them women that fucks herself with vegtibles she has a reservation in hell this woman thinks with her pussy u only wish the btk would meet her on a cold lonely nite the only thing is she would like it this is a sexual beast
DIE Lori Drew! DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE….. BURN in hell till your flesh peels off….DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE, DIE!
If I had a daughter as ugly as Lori Drew’s fat daughter I would dislike any pretty girls too. I didn’t know adults were so stupid as to harass a child. She is a real sicko, and now that she’s gotten off I hope she can’t live with herself, but I have a feeling it won’t bother her a bit. So much for a decent jury in this country.
I just saw the latest on fat ass Ashley Grills who created the account ratting out that bitch from hell Lori Drews. Lori Drews I hope you die a slow, painful death and burn in hell like you deserve. May every day of your miserable life be lived in hellish torment you sick, pyscho bitch. Your twat of a husband too.
I really agree with you that Lori Drews is a pyscho bitch, but I don’t think that anyone, doen’t matter who, really deserve hell!
even not a person like Lori Drews..
Lori Drew, I pray to a god that doesnt look down on you that you read this.
You, a grown woman, led a thirteen year old girl to kill herself. You basically murdered her.
you are a bully, a horrible person, a malicious, preturbed, sick person.
I say this from the bottom of my heart.
I hope you rot in hell.
They are scum of the Earth. They can rot in Hell along with other worthless and evil scumbags like Adolf Hitler and Saddam Hussein.
Everyone and anyone who can reach out to the Drew’s and make their life miserable should. I am glad to see that people on the web have outed their numbers, although they no longer work. If there is anyway to continue harassing them (within legal limits), boycotting their business, people should. Let’s all drive that scum of a family out into the booney’s where they belong, as lowlifes like them have no place in our society. For me, they are on par with child molesters. The worst of our society, the very bottom of humanity. We slaughter pigs, but not cows like the Drew’s, and it just doesn’t seem right.
She doesn’t deserve hell, I agree, but she defienetly should be punished in some way. At least Jail. People are doing such horrible things to her, she probably DOES feel remorse.
If she regrets her actions because she’s getting shit on for them, that’s not remorse. Lori Drew is scum, and I strongly believe what she did is hell-worthy.
I’m a relative of one of those shot by Sung-Hui Cho at Virginia tech,and i am having a hard time having any sympathy for the Meiers.Tina Meier bemoans cruelty against her daughter,but in fact her daughter was the one doing the bullying in the first place.Tina claims she is not behind the nastiness agianst the Drew family,but aren’t they being just as cruel to Sarah Drew,the same age as Megan?Sounds to me Tina can’t practice what she preaches.Eric harris wrote things online–nasty things–about classmates,ansd certainly Tina as well as Lori Drew has heard of them.I’m sure that prompted Lori’s concern for Sarah.Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold were somewhat creative and outgoing,like Megan,burt claimed to be bullied.Did their victims deserve to die if Harris and Klebold thought they were harassing them?And does the fact Megan only killed herself(thank God!!!!!!!!!!!!)automatically make her the “good” one?Sarah Drew may have been worried that Megan was planning something.You never know,because a few days ago,a group of third-graders with almost the same disorders as megan plotted to kill their special-ed teacher–all because the teacher scolded one of them for standing on a chair!!!!!!Megan killed herself because ,obviously,her parents taught her that her mental issues meant any wrong she did was never her fault–it was always someone else’s.Sarah Drew and Ashley Grills have their whole life ahead of them,and the suicide of a potential Columbine should not be allowed to rule their lives.And we need to ask Tina meier–is harassing someone in the “real world’ somehow better than doing so online?We all know she is lying when she says she had noting to do with it.
Lakshmi, You’re just as evil as Lori Drew. What rotten, disgusting excuses for human beings you both are. I would suggest you’re either part of the Drew family or close to them in some way, you seem to have the same evil running through your blood.
Put the psycho bitch in prison for 20 years to “think” (if capable) about the consequences of her sheer nastiness. What a pathetic, disgusting rotten-to-the-core, bitch.
You are an idiot !!
You have NO idea what you are talking about!!!!
Perhaps you can go on the net and look up some good pychotherapists Rachel…looks like u are in dire need of one….
You have my deepest sympathy for your loss at Virginia Tech. That has a horrible tragedy, but your grief has clouded your logic. Connecting ones depression with mass murder is a logical fallacy. You have insufficient evidence to state that THIS particular young woman would commit mass murder. It is impossible to make such a claim. There are many depressed individuals in this country that live in darkness. One would have to research the statistics to say exactly. One would also have to research the specific details to the individuals that committed these mass murders to make a comparison, yet that also would be a difficult task to prove. No one deserves to die. No one deserves to be bullied. This act was initiated by an adult against a child. There is no excuse for this kind of behavior. If one does not speak out about such behavior then it will perpetuate. Mrs. Meiers is protecting the memory of her daughter and other children using the internet. What example does this adult women set for her daughter and other young women.Speaking up and seeking justice for a dastardly deed is no way analogous to bullying. I have witnessed bullying first hand by adult women against another adult woman. So if one does not speak out bullying will continue.
Well said.
wow, Lakshmi Patel,to bad you were not with your relitive that day. The world would be better off without you or any of your gene pool. In the words of G_D, “hey you, out of the gene pool”.
Lakshmi Patel, I think you overlook the most important fact. Lori Drew is way over 40 and should know how to handle a fight between teenagers. And definitely she should know not to take part in it or escalate it. There is no excuse for what she did. But she didn’t stop at taking sides for her daughter but thought up an extremely vile and malignant plan to utterly destroy a 13 year old girl. There can’t be any excuse for this.
Besides that what you write about suicide and depression is so stupid and far from the truth. The girl was 13 and virtually run over by a grown up who put in all her experience to ruin that girl’s life up to the point to tell a girl with a history of depression that the world would be a better place without here. Lori Drew even knew about the girl’s psychological problems. This might even qualify for 1st degree murder because it was forseeable that the girl would commit suicide. And seriously I hope that she will spend the rest of her life in jail.
Just one more word concerning your allegment that Meagan started the fight. With teenagers it is always difficult to really what or who is responsible. From my experience in most cases both are and often Kids don’t even remember what caused a fight. During that age kids change and spend a lot of time in emotional turmoil.
Lakshmi Patel you are a fuckin sick moron…it doesn’t matter… megan is dead as a result of this sick twist and i agree with all the other replys that you have received…maybe you should join lori drew in hell
Lakshmi, how did it feel when you lost your relative at Virginia Tech ? and yet you say you have no sympathy for the Meirs. What a cold hearted moron. I bet you have no children of your own, otherwise you would know how valuable a child is.
Plus, where did you come up with that crap about Meagan planning something??
And then you “thank God” for killing her self” ! How dare you. Have you no shame. And which God you are thanking here? Sure it is not my God. Perhaps it is the cow that you and your ancestors worship. You are full of shit.
I think he meant , thank god she only killed herself and not others too.
But having said that, i too disagree with all he has said.
Lakshmi, you think you’re smart, but your logic is seriously flawed and twisted. Sad that you’ve lost someone close, but if that is one of the life lessons you got from it, then your entire life will be bleak. You need to reflect a little harder and really take a good look at what you’ve become, and where you are going (spiritually, psychologically) and maybe grow up.
oh, it just struck me why you are defending Lori Drew .. it is because she reminds you of your “holy” cow !
Lakshmi Patel – the world would be better without you in it.
Lakshmi, I hope we are not related because I will legally change my last name.
IF a Lori Drew manipulated my 13 year old daughter with mental issues into hurting her self. I would take out my hockey stick and beat the living daylights out of Lori Drew.
If Megan was bullying Sarah Drew- Lori Drew should have went to the school principal or guidance counselor or told Megan Meier’s parents.
I have been bullied myself at school when I was young. I almost committed suicide back then. At least my enemies were my age, however there were signs their parents knew what was going on and approoved.
When I was 25 I collapsed and ended up in a mental hospital. It took me 10 years to recover. I still use medicines but I feel good now. I’m 46.
I’m totally shocked by this story and even more shocked that there are people around who defend Lori Drew.
People who defend Lori Drew are in the same league with people who defend and are members of Westboro Baptist Church and blame America for 9/11. In fact, I put Lori Drew in th same league with other monsters like Susan Smith, Jim Jones, and Osama bin Laden.
Ashley Grills and Sarah Drew have there whole lives ahead of them, Megan does NOT thanks in part to Lori Drew. How could you say you lost a loved one in the Virgina Tech shooting and yet be so cold and calus. I hope Sarah Drew reads every nasty post on the internet that is about her and it makes her feel horibile and cry to her mommy. The thing is the Drews know this wrath is coming and they are prepared to shelter their daughter and comfort her a chance Megans mom didn’t have. In a matter of hours a harmless friend online turned on her daughter and caused her such emotional distress she took her own life. That harmless friend was not harmless or a friend it was the predetor Lori Drew. Think about if it was someone you loved and you didn’t get the chance to comfort or help them.
Lori Drew is no different from Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold or Osama bin Laden/September 11 Terrorists. Drew and Harris/Klebold were bullies and got their jollies doing that and they felt they were bullied themselves and retaliated. They are all evil psychopaths of the worst kind.
Lakshmi, I’m sorry for your loss, but there is no comparison between the 2 situations….You know what? Hormonal teens and pre-teens can be mean and bully, however, it’s the ADULT’S JOB to PREVENT IT, not ENCOURAGE AND PERPETUATE IT!! Blaming the victim is not only cruel, it perpetuates the problem! The parents on both sides should have worked with their girls to get through the problem. This ANIMAL in the guise of a parent knew this child was on anti-depressants, and still took great joy in torturing and tomenting this little girl…She certainly deserves to to be punished for what she did, if not here on Earth, then when she faces eternal judgement…
Blaming the victim is blame shifting. Plain and simple. Evil figures like to blame the victim.
Oh and Seung-Hui Cho engaged in victim blaming when he said, “You caused me to do this” and his anger filled video manifesto.
I am skeptical if he really had a relative killed at Virginia Tech. If that is the case, than he would not be inclined to blame the victim.
Parents fighting their children’s peers is so wrong. I’m currently going through a similar situation with my 18-yr old daughter. The mother of her ex-best friend is going around telling other girls that my daughter is crazy because she stopped talking to her daughter. It’s hurting my daughter, although it’s not turning her suicidal. There should be a law against this trashy behavior.
Yeah, we ALL need the state to create more protective laws; end womens suffrage now!
I know everyone is angry at the Drew’s, and they may deserve to burn in Hell, but what everyone is doing on the internet about what they did is what what they did to Megan, you people really have to grow up.
Remember: 2 wrongs DON’T make a right.
we totally agree with you..it’s like a Salem lynching here….grow up and let a higher source take control of the situation….
yes, 2 wrongs DOES make it right! if she did that to one of my kids, I would have blown her head-off … if it was the last thing I do.
Two wrongs don’t make a right, but three lefts do!
The fact that anyone would compare what we do here, a bunch of adults posting our opinions and insight (or lack thereof) on an open forum, to what Lori Drew did, which was manipulate a teenage girl on a private forum which eventually led to her death, is just plain ridiculous! We may be petty to some of you, but our actions haven’t led anyone to thier death that I’m aware of, and even if it has it was probably one of the sick fucks that deserved it!
In conclusion, if you don’t like what we have to say, then go to some bleeding hearts forum that sympathises with pieces of shit like Lori Drew. You’ll fit in nicely there with the rest of the scum.
please find lori’s new numbers as they have disconnected the old ones. these people need to be fucked with for life!!!!!!!! never let these sick fucks rest!!!!!
admin – Eh, I’m not sure you should do that.
What are the TOP FIVE things people want to tell LORI DREW?
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1. hang yourself
2. hang yourself
3. hang yourself
4. hang yourself
5. hang yourself
check out jack banas, what an asshole!!!! St. Charles County Prosecutor Jack Banas personally asked to review this case in November. He decided against filing charges, because he believed no state or local laws were broken. Thursday night he said the federal indictment would not change his mind. He still believes there was no violation of state statute.
Ummm…. there’s like one thing I have to say to Lori…. Hang yourself and….ummm… I HOPE U BURN IN HELL FOR THIS SHIT!
Hmmm,
I’m yet to find any good came out of an act of vengeance!
Just like everyone else, I too am upset by a so called adult that should have known better …..but didn’t act better.
“Duty of Care” is own by all to all. Lori Drew did not act responsibly by all accounts. The reported facts ….. well …. not a good look. But also, other children (then) have been named too.
“Two wrongs don’t make a right” …. so the old saying goes.
Are we not contributing to exactly the same sort of thing that Lori Drew did?
What make us ….or this site ….any different to Lori Drew?
Because Lori Drew did wrong ….. is that our justification to do like wise?
Think about that too?
Are we not at risk here of perpetuating an identical cycle?
We may be no better than Lori Drew good people!
Consider rising above your initial disgust and the repulsion that filled you (and me) as the story unfolded.
Remember the 13 year old Megan and her family!
PLEASE DON’T PERPEPUATATE the wrong.
We don’t have to like Lori Drew or those to have been involved in this sadness. They are to be pitied for the sorrowful beings they are.
In their heart of hearts, they know they are very wrong and responsible for a tragic event.
They can not recover the moral high grown they lost …. and they will never live that down.
CAUTION: Good people ….. think about the moral high grown and try hard to maintain it. Fight for it in your heart of hearts too.
Don’t justify letting it go …… to only join Lori Drew in a place of regrets and shame of one self.
Ponder this good people:
“Vengeance taken will often tear the heart and torment the conscience.” ~ Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860, German philosopher)
The bravado Lori Drew displays in public disappears once she is alone and her own thoughts return to her about what it is she knows she did wrong.
Lori Drew lives with herself …. and she will pay the price she knows must be paid. Her judgment day will be upon her soon enough.
I worry about this site ….because we have the benefit of hindsight. Nonetheless ….we all run the risk of fuelling the cycle and fanning the flames ignorance, bitterness and vengefulness yet again. How mature or humane would we be if we DON”T learn the sad lesson from Megan’s death? Would we honour her memory by repeating the tragedy?
Ask yourself this ….. Isn’t there a little of Lori Drew in me if I too do as she did? ….especially now I’m informed and knowing what actions like her did to the trouble 13 year old …. Megan Meier?
Please think about it.
R.I.P. Megan.
Quentin, Australia.
Oh, boo hoo! Do you think we should send her a gift basket, too? “Sorry that the fact that you helped drive a young girl to suicide has made things uncomfortable for you and your family.”
Defaming a 13 year old girl with mental health issues, and defaming a 40+ year old mother who set up a fake MySpace account in order to embarrass said 13 year old girl are NOT one in the same.
To Lori Drew: Live by the sword, die by the sword. Unfortunately, because of your immature actions, your own daughter will now have a much more difficult time making friends. The first thing I do when I meet a new friend is Google their name, just to see what comes up. You can’t outlive this. Your family won’t outlive this. A terrible tragedy you helped create is now forever associated with your family name, all because of a spat between two teenage girls. Such a waste…
Lori Drew is mentally ill. Lori Drew needs to admit she needs help to manage her mental illness. Pray for her, people, so she can be redeemed because if she is not redeemed for her atrocious, immature behaviour she will go to hell.
In all probabilities Lori Drew is not mentally ill, but has many personality problems and the only treatment is that they have to change. Mental illness is treatable at least, unlike psychipathy, which anti-social, narcissism, and paranoid, which has been displayed many other evil monsters.
A can of gasoline, a match, a dark night, the exact adress of this piece of shit…. come on you people…solve this problem
This mother obviously has the mentality of a 13 year old girl. She needs to go to hell just for being such an awful parent. This was not a prank, this was an assault.
I would like to thank PYSIH for this article. I read about Megan just last Friday, but the source did not give the name of the offending family. Great research, and send Mrs. Drew to hell!
Send Lori Drew a text message. Her cell is on, but she doesn’t pick it up (no surprise).
1) Go to txt2day.com (free internet text message service)
2) Enter Lori’s cell number: 314-520-7916 (exclude the hyphens so it looks like 3145207916). Her husband’s # is 314-520-8688
3) Provider is Cingular
4) Type a loving message to Lori
5) Send
you rock! keep posting her numbers as she keeps changing them…….
“manipulating a 13-year-old girl into a sexual conversation”
Someone needs a little visit from Chris Hansen.
Yes its a very sad story, but are the rest of us in any better position wishing death on another person. The story plainly shows wrong doing by Drew don’t get me wrong, but what kind of parents let a 13 year old girl have a myspace account without looking into what myspace is even about, all the porn solicitaions and ” grown up” blogs and whatever. Even knowing that their child was depressed enough to be on medication and still have a myspace account that has upset her days before the accident. I have a 14 year old step daughter,and I check her computer everyday to see what websites she has visited and who is sending her email messages. Why leave her at home when shes 13 take her with you to the dentist. NOT ALL THE BLAME SHOULD BE ON DREW, WHAT KIND OF PARENTS DO WE HAVE IN THE COUNTRY THESE DAYS, GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR KIDS MONITOR THEIR COMPUTER, BLOCK WEB SITES, KEEP COMPUTERS OUT OF BEDROOMS AND IN “FAMILY ROOMS” AND MAYBE SOME OF THESE SADS STORIES WON”T BE ON THE INTERNET ANYMORE.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AND GOD DAMN GROW UP.
Hey David, here’s some practical advice: don’t give out parenting advice when your experience is limited to used/secondhand children. What kind of mother gets knocked up by a guy that’s not going to stick around and be a father? What kind of father marries such a slut? If BOTH parents can’t even handle their own love lives, don’t try raising a kid. Maybe you should try grammar before you try raising a child, or the child can blame everything on “second/third dad told me ‘LOG off the computer it’s 1200 youre 13 AND DO IT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!’; so I logged off at 1:00 p.m., 1300 hours, an hour after he told me to.” I bet you’re either a fun drunk to fuck with or a fun pawn to dish off; people like you are the reason the rest of the DECENT world has friends they can laugh WITH.
Used/secondhand childred…boy you’re a guy with heart! Hope you get to this note ’cause you’re a really IGNORANT person to write such a comment about innocent children who have nothing at all to do with this conversation!!!! Hope you’re not raising any either!!
Man William its real funny, I am mean I am rolling on the ground laughing at how you can call yourself a DECENT person. Especially after words like that. I bet you are the guy in the bar kicking the chairs out from under the drunks just so you and your buddies can get a laugh. I would also bet that in Junior High, High School, (doubt you went to college) you were the bully. As it seems so clear now that you are.
Man William its real funny, I am mean I am rolling on the ground laughing at how you can call yourself a DECENT person. Especially after words like that. I bet you are the guy in the bar kicking the chairs out from under the drunks just so you and your buddies can get a laugh. I would also bet that in Junior High, High School, (doubt you went to college) you were the bully. As it seems so clear now that you are.
so ur saying that people should not give their kids any privacy and be stick in the ass parents and what the fuck kinda parent suducces a thirteen year old you stupid fuck
David,
You are completely wrong. Pull you r head out of the sand. This is 100% Lori Drew’s Fault. How can a child be expected to compete cognitively with an adult in the realm of psychological torment? You think Megan should have just shrugged it off? I guess you could handle adults abusing you to the point of suicide when you were thirteen? Wake up and smell the blood David. I wish Osama Bin Laden dead every fucking day and it does me loads of good. Fuck the Drews they have blood on their hands, criminal prosecution or not.
You’re a sick, sick woman. To think that you feel that you had NO involvment makes me SICK. You defended youR precious little angel with words said against her, and you made a beautiful girl kill herself over words similiar to what HURT your BABY GIRL…ROTTEN, ROTTEN, MAY YOU ROT!!!! You will never be able to hide from this no where you go….
are you a compete idiot? we don’t want her to die, we want her to live a long disturbed tortured life until she decides to hang herself! see how more fun it can be!
lori is being searched out by the online virtual lynch mob and it’s a creature that she can’t stop!
oh yeah, your a pussy too!
SUPPORT THE DEATH PENALTY
David @ 1:22…lick my ballz, douchebag. Who the hell are you to be giving advice? Type in CAPS, can’t spell, act like you’re the moral authority? Get a freaking clue, JACKASS.
Well I hope the majority of the posts here dont describe the “moral authority”..if so, our society as a whole is nothing more than a lynch mob. What this woman did is unspeakable and punishable in my opinion, but to harass that family via phonecalls,text msgs,etc. is in essence doing the same thing that she did to the young girl. I have 5 kids and I’m really not sure what I would do if this happened to one of mine, although I would hope that common sense would prevail and I would not stoop to thier level.
Hippy,
Nice sentiment, you are probably a good parent but we don’t live in that world. Malice, aggression and the victimization of the weak are rewarded in our society ESPECIALLY when it comes to the mentally ill.
These Drew cunts have forced us all to snake a very dirty toilet. The farce that our suburban communities are somehow healthy environments to rear children in is crumbling at long last. I have been aware of the facade since I was 10 and some very interesting suburban “anomalies” occurred in my home town…google Ricky Kasso.
The suburbs foster a boring, nosey, unproductive, and particularly detail focused brand of petty competition. Of course it’s not the way the houses are laid out…it’s the outlook and the goals of the people who move into them. The idea that we can all have our own Liliput is bunk. That we can stand on the balcony and look at everyone else’s Island without having to contribute to an actual society or dialog but for the occasion to show your neighbors up…preposterous. It’s the worst perversion of the American Dream.
Kids under these circumstances learn HORRIFIC lessons….fear your classmates, be caddy, be petty, be cruel….compete, compete, compete…then you can really show johnny down the block just how many micrometers make you a better ken doll.
We need a serious value reassessment in this Cuntry.
You know it’s serious when atheists like myself are calling for values reassessments.
WAKE UP AND SMELL THE BLOOD
dear hippy, your a pussy and the world will stand and cheer when lori hangs herself after realizing she’s a diabolical nut who does’nt deserve to be alive.
man that blog is fucked up. Ha – ha nice for giving out the phone numbers
Jacob sorry forgot your a fu king professor. How many kids do you have? I have a freaking clue and my family and I are fine and have no problems because we talk to each other and watch what our kids do, talk about someone who can’t spell.
And who am I , I own my own business,with a 6 figure income, have three cars, a nice house, and great family, I think I can give advice to anyone.
You’re going going to give me advice because you have a 6 figure income, 3 cars, a nice house, and a great family. Gotcha.
In my humble opinion, you are a douchebag and I doubt you have a clue, much less anything else you say you have.
I own several businesses worldwide and make well over 10 figures. I guess I TRUMP you with that, David. Haven’t figured out who I am? I am that fat, fish lipped, ginger, blowhard with a bad comb-over Donald Trump. That’s right! So I should give YOU advice by asking you to leave your nasty wife for a younger prettier woman who hasn’t bore some OTHER man’s children. You and I both know your wife has seen better days. Replacement time!
Would you say, “He’s fired,” Psychochick? — LoL
if a 13 year old is old enough to babysit, they’re old enough to sit at home alone and not go with Mommy to the dentist.
Thanks for the lecture, CAPS MAN. Wow, are you ever a know nothing, condescending, douche. Save your crappy advice to the only person who gives a flying f*ck…your dog.
firstly, this breaks my heart. having been a 13 y/o girl once upon a time, i know how weird it is and how easily you get caught up in things, and get hurt (and this was before the internet, too!).
Lori Drew is a crazy b*tch from h*ll and i feel very sorry for her daughter, to have to have a mom like that. this is the first place i’ve seen her named, let alone the phone numbers, so thanks PYSIH.
secondly, just because you p*ss me off ‘David’, stop being a d*ckwad. If you have read any info on this case you’d know that Megan’s mom was very careful about her daugthers internet access and did her very best to ensure she was safe online. seeing as you’re such a super parent you’ll know that you can’t keep your kids safe 100% of the time, even if you try.
as long as you have a 6 figure income though. thats the main thing.
David, your trolling is top notch sir!
LOL @ Kaiser. Well done, sir!
This is an example of BAD POLICING.
Why are their NO trauma counsellors being offered to the community.
Lori Drew is a well developed PSYCHOPATH, but having a posse get to her is NOT the answer; responsible policing IS the answer.
No one, no one at ALL Is acting like an adult.
This is an example of a VERY sick psychotic America.
Don’t be stupid! Of course having a posse is the correct answer. Lori Drew appointed herself a posse and proceeded to stalk and defraud a child online. The internet posse is probably going to be the only retribution that bitch receives. And may she take all of it to the hilt.
Thank you Virgina! My whole point in a nutshell.
Thanks, David.
I keep a blog on US/Canada DYSFUNCTION and TRAUMA.
IT is outrageous that this past week, the US CONgress had hearings on the growth of domestic terrorism and called those who advocate free speech TERRORISTS. One of those who offered testimony was a lawyer for an organization getting huge funding to protect children from internet abuse? Where are THEY speaking up about this outrage?? Nope, they are busy lining up with Homeland Security, ever buying POLICE GADGETS and computers for domestic spying on citizens at a cost of BILLIONS of dollars.
Fiddling while ROME BURNS.
This story has ALL the elements of dysfunction: sex, DRUGS (Big Pharma ones, and I’ll bet MORE will surface), violence (turned against Megan herself), traumatization … and yet LAW enforcment just stands by while things go totally INSANE..
WHERE ARE THE ADULTS??
America has endured seven years of what I refer to as a psychoticbubble, produced by neocons all of whom are ON DRUGS. The society is reflecting all of this and things are only going to GET WORSE.
Someone has posted on blogginintheburbs that we must get active and DEMAND that the police department get bombarded with complaints. And I think that must be done, PRONTO.
Really, this woman and her husband are PSYCHOPATHS. And they are training their daughters (of which I think there are two?) to be the SAME.
Unbelievable.
The entire phenomena that we are seeing is called SCHIZOMANIA. A very useful term …
I hope you KEEP blogging on this. This is IMPORTANT stuff, imho. An important question to bear in mind over the upcoming days of America’s decline IS:
WHERE ARE THE ADULTS?
ps, what you are seeing here is RAGE, not Wrath. IT is what happens when cognitive dissonace sets in and SHAME is in place. Sad, isn’t it??
Where are the adults, Virginia? Where are they, you ask? Driving teenaged girls to commit suicide via myspace, ma’am.
I enjoyed the lead story.
Last time I said it looks more and more like most women are the same, I got a slap across the face.
Now here is an article on just that.
More than 80 % of restraining and intervention orders against men are faked outright.
Hey the upside is that more men than I care to mention are just the same.
I finished having associations with many people, due to that phenomenon of being one person tin public adn another in private.
I did not realise so many are inflicted this way until I began my 28 year oddesy, in the same guise when on holiday the same front can be seen whilst behind doors much manioulation and scheming and pure rancid behaviour occurs.
L
This woman deserves alot of cruelty directed towards her CNN didn’t reveal her name that really made me mad. In today’s age you can find these things out with the net. Isn’t that right Lori Drew. This story is national right now all people have to do is look at all the blogs on the internet. Her day will come
They removed his picture at that Caldwell page.
Also if you use ‘Sales Associate’ and enter Curt Drew you will find his picture here:
coldwellbanker.com
international. I’m from Canada and I read the story earlier today.. this woman is so beyond stupid and she actually thinks shes gonna get away with this. 8-) The nerve of people these days, they just don’t give a damn about hurting other people. She should get a lesson about karma and how everything she’s done is gonna come back and bite her in the ass really hard.
Hey, Haywood. You don’t think that PYSIH has a picture of Curt Drew? Come on now! If there’s a need, we’ll put it up.
We still haven’t been able to find a picture of Lori Drew, however, which makes us sad.
Admin,
Did you notice they took yours down? I’m just trying to be helpful. And they took his picture at http://www.coldwellbanker.com down too then at least he might lose some bitnes.
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Fine fine fine fine!
Cease your nagging.
His picture has been posted on a new post, which has produced a trackback above this comment.
Happy now?
I still need a picture of Lori Drew.
All the mailboxes are full. Damn shame.
no, these people should have death wished upon them, id rather see these F*cks die and stay that way other than having them around to even risk a reoccurance.. ITS A NECESSARY EVIL FOR A GREATER GOOD.. let these “sinners” die and let the civilized people get back to our lives.. without worrying if some worthless parent is gonna freak on our poor kids
home
Curt D. & Jori J. Drew
269 Waterford Crystal Drive
Dardenne Prairie, MO 63368
(636) 272-2670
business
St. Peters Chamber of Commerce
Family Savings – Drew Advantage
2977 Highway K, #200
O’Fallon, MO
314-520-7916 (phone)
Curt and Lori (The Bitch) Drew: 636-272-2670 – home
Curt Drew: (314) 520-8688 – cell
(636) 379-8500 – office
Lori (The Bitch) Drew: (314) 520-7916 – cell
Hi to all of my fans…!
Please call me, write me, text me (from one of the Internet’s FREE texting sites) or just stop on by the house. I’d LOVE to hear from you!! You’re the BEST!!
Here’s another great idea. The following list of companies are the people I do business with in my crappy little coupon book scam called “The Drew Advantage”. I’m guessing that many of them don’t know that I harassed a CHILD via the internet until they committed suicide but I’d BET they’d like to know! Maybe they’ll increase their business with me because of that!! Here’s the list!!
Imo’s Pizza
2260 First Capitol Dr
Saint Charles, MO 63301
636-946-5040 or 636-281-4667
Slackers CD’s & Games
1313 Highway K
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-240-9237
Frank Leta Honda
500 Auto Mall Dr
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-336-5000
Tri-County Fence & Deck
1902 Service Rd
Wentzville, MO 63385
636-887-4030
McVicar the Trickster
(phone number only. This guy does kids birthday parties)
636-485-9803
Arcade Amusements Plus
11429 C Dorsett Rd
Bridgeton, MO 63044
314-401-9346
Kuhn’s Sports Cards and Collectibles
322 Fort Zumwalt Sq
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-978-8665
TW Glass, LLC
(No physical address. Email only: trevorw6366@yahoo.com)
314-852-3056
Divine Nails
132 Mexico Rd
Flint Hill, MO 63346
636-281-2800
Gulliver’s Travel
204B W Pitman St
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-379-2700
Michael-A’s Hair Studio
7825 Mexico Rd
Saint Peters, MO 63376
636-279-1999
Star Stamps & Coins
500 S 5th Street
St. Charles, MO 63301
636-949-2203
Monticello Dental Care
4122 Keaton Crossing Blvd
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-300-4280
Curb Appeal
838 Midpoint Dr
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-978-7588
Playtime Party Center
1225 Wentzville Pkwy
Wentzville, MO 63385
636-887-4244
A Pocketful of Toys
9987 Winghaven Blvd
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-561-3222
Air Comfort Service, Inc.
(No address listed.)
St. Charles, MO
636-866-0248
St. Charles Fence & Deck Co.
8485 Veterans Memorial Pkwy
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-240-4935
Custom Cleaning
211 Hughes Ln
Saint Charles, MO 63301
636-447-2299
The Vacuum Shop
380 Mid Rivers Mall Dr
Saint Peters, MO 63376
636-397-1566
Kirk’s Electric
1160 W Terra Ln
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-240-1661
Show Me Blinds & Shutters
2561 Abbydale Dr
Saint Charles, MO 63303
636-928-2872
Lawn Authority
1004 Donner Pass
St. Peters, MO 63376
636-928-5296
David Anslinger MD, Auriculo-Staple
199 Feise Rd
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-379-5934
Abilene’s Restaurant
275 North Service Rd
Wright City, MO 63390
636-745-7445
St. Louis Decks & Home Improvement
Wentzville, MO 63385
http://www.stlhomeimprovements.com/
636-359-0357
Patriot Sunrooms – St. Charles
1831 Scherer Pkwy
Saint Charles, MO 63303
636-916-1100
Curt Drew (Gundaker) (Lori Drew’s husband)
2 Crossroads Plz
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-379-8500
Stefanina’s Pizzeria
8645 Veterans Memorial Pkwy
OFallon, MO 63366
636-272-3499
Leave it to Weaver Home & Commercial Improvements
304 Tcw Ct, O Fallon, MO 63366
http://www.leaveit2weaver.com/
636-561-8424
Surface Sealers
314-565-6144
El Patron Mexican Restaurant
8600 Veterans Memorial Pkwy
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-281-8226
Seamus McDaniel’s
7434 Village Center Dr
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-561-8089
Philly Grill
2508 Highway K
O’Fallon, MO 63368-6625
636-379-8646
El Azteca Mexican Restaurant
4265 Keaton Crossing Blvd
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-300-1123
The Crooked Tree Coffee House
559 1 Capitol Dr
Saint Charles, MO 63301
636-669-5282
Max & Erma’s
2024 Mid Rivers Mall
Saint Peters, MO 63376
636-970-1900
Stumpy’s Barbeque
2924 Highway K
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-978-6889 or 636-939-3555
Cecil Whittaker’s Pizza
2968 Highway K
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-978-0001
Angelino’s Pizzeria
114 Triad Ctr W
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-272-3339
Great Wall Buffet and Grill
2867 Veterans Memorial Pkwy
Saint Charles, MO 63303
636-724-8555
Dairy Queen
2675 Highway K
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-240-0014
Talayna’s World Class Pizza
340 N Main St
Saint Charles, MO 63301
636-896-9447
JJ’s Restaurant
200 Fort Zumwalt Sq
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-978-1737
Noll’s Restaurant & Lounge
519 S Service Rd W
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-281-9228
Madison’s Café
2974 Highway K
O’Fallon, MO 63368
636-978-7355
Richbuilt Basements
1805 Everest Ave
O’Fallon, MO 63366
636-978-3479
Corgans Cleaning
Saint Peters, MO 63376
corganscleaning@charter.net
636-940-8334
Thanks for ALL of your help. Have a GREAT and BLESSED Day!!
Toodles,
Lori
How does it feel being fu with fat bitch!
First of all I would like to apologize to everyone out there about this women being part of the community in which I live, for this:
Lori Drew says:
November 20, 2007 at 8:14 am
Hi to all of my fans…!
Please call me, write me, text me (from one of the Internet’s FREE texting sites) or just stop on by the house. I’d LOVE to hear from you!! You’re the BEST!!
Here’s another great idea. The following list of companies are the people I do business with in my crappy little coupon book scam called “The Drew Advantage”. I’m guessing that many of them don’t know that I harassed a CHILD via the internet until they committed suicide but I’d BET they’d like to know! Maybe they’ll increase their business with me because of that!! Here’s the list!!
OMG! This is in unbelievably poor taste; Lori Drew must have no conscious to solicit fame and fortune from this young girl’s death.
One of my friends businesses, Richbuilt basemnets and remolding is on this list and I am sure he would not wish to be associated with Lori Drew.
Lori drew is one word and it isn’t very polite, I also love how she is playi the sad/sorry/innocent card, I didn’t know about this until this morning when I had to do a reading for my theology class, what HUMAN being would do that to a thriteen year old child
Hey David
It’s easy to hide behind the guise of the computer and invent identities isn’t it? Just ask Lori Drew. Six figure income MY ASS. Even if that was true (which it isn’t) that doesn’t make you worthy of spewing advise to anyone other than, maybe, your own wretched family. Oh, and BTW I’m the Queen of England!
But it IS true anna b. I heard he made $7895.95 last year, mostly collecting soda cans in a shopping cart. That’s six figures, ain’t it?
Yup, and he owns two homes and 3 cars. 2 single wide trailers and 3 beat up old cars that should get towed anytime soon.
HEY DAVID, THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY ALL THE FAULT OF THE DREW’S. NO MATTER WHAT MEAGAN DID SHE WOULD NOT HAVE KILLED HERSELF THAT DAY IF LORI HAD NOT ACTED LIKE AN EVIL SPOILED CHILD. THE DREW’S SHOULD HAVE LEFT THIS LITTLE SQUABBLE TO THEIR DAUGHTER AND MEAGAN. LORI’S HUSBAND SHOULD BE ASHAMED TO BE WITH SUCH A DEVIOUS DECEITFUL PERSON AND IF HE HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH THIS GIRLS DEATH HE’S NO BETTER. MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON THEIR SOULS. I REALLY HOPE THAT THE DECENT GOD LOVING PEOPLE OF THIS TOWN DO NOT LET THESE DETESTABLE PEOPLE GET AWAY WITH THIS ATROCITY. IF YOU CANNOT GET JUSTICE THROUGH THE COURT SYSTEM HIT THEM IN THE POCKET BOOK. THE GOOD PEOPLE IN THIS TOWN SHOULD BOYCOTT THEM, THEIR BUSINESS, AND ANYONE THAT DOES BUSINESS OF ANY KIND WITH THEM. THEY SHOULD BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THIS IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER AND IN THIS WORLD MONEY SEEMS TO BE THE ONLY WAY. THE RED TAPE OF BUREAUCRACY IN THIS COUNTRY ALWAYS GETS IN THE WAY OF REAL JUSTICE. 4degrees prob said it best.
you guys are fucking hilarious! Man, where’d you get all those numbers???
Brittany…the power of Google!!!
I sincerely hope these people rot in hell for their part (and it’s a large one) in Megan Meier’s suicide and the absolute destruction of the Meier family.
No doubt there’s a raging (and building) shitstorm reigning down on their heads at the moment.
Btw, if you’ve been sending our good friends, Lori and Curt, text messages from the site txt2day.com I might suggest you try another. They can block their numbers there. Try gizmosms.com Works great.
Tell Lori I said YO!
what kind of person does that to a sweet, innocent 13 year old girl? Lori Drew is evil incarnate, and she deserves the hottest, darkest, worst layer of hell. She deserves headlice and herpes. She deserves to eat shit for every meal. I had friends who were mean to me when I was that age, what little girl doesn’t? But for a full grown adult to get involved, especially to such a severe degree, is dispicable. Lori Drew should be punished. She deserves jail for this at the very least. Poor Megan’s family should be able to hang her from a belt, or at least be able to go after her with a couple of baseball bats.
How sad that Lori Drew has not offered an apology or shown any remorse to Megan’s family. Lori Drew should at least apologize. Is she not adult enough to do even that?
This story is allegedly going to be on O’Reilly tonight. LOL…Bill only has a few hundred MILLION viewers around the world. Wonder if the Drews will be tuning in?
Wow, are they screwed.
Confirmed on O’Reilly. Per the Fox site:
Tuesday, November 20:
• Cyberspace shocker: Parents say online bullies forced their daughter to suicide. Do they have any legal recourse?
After receiving several phone calls about Lori Drew and researching this incident on the internet my wife and I have decided to no longer advertise with Drew Adantage Advertising. We are also very upset about this tragedy and agree anyone involed should be punished. We are unable to contact Lori Drew and have already committed to the next issue. The Drew dvantage phone line has been disconnected. I speculate Lori Drew will be unable to send out anymore coupon magazines but, if we do appear in the next issue it was beyond or control.
Thank you fo all your concern and bringing this story to our attention.
Corgans carpet Cleaning
Scott and Michaele Corgan
636-940-8334
God bless you!
This is a very sad story. Lori Drew needs to confess to her crime and do her time!!!
This is so Horrible! When I read about this I thought I was reading it wrong. I did not know our country has gone to such sh*t that we have grown women harassing 13 yr olds online!! This woman needs to go to prison along with everyone else involved… I would have expected this from another young girl, but not a mother! The fact that she has no remorse is probably because she wants to continue to seperate herself from this situation but hopefully once she is indicted she will offer up atleast an “I’m Sorry” – not like it will make a difference though. Her denial really ticks me off though- and I am very surprised at the restraint the Meier’s family has shown- because I know if that was me- Ms. Drew wouldn’t need to worry about jail or suicide, because I would kill her myself.. My heart goes out to the Meier’s family and I hope justice is served!!
i am also an advertiser in the magazine, it is to late to stop december from going out, if it is even going to print, and would ask everyone not to boycott anyone until the 2008 ads start. i have a feeling therre will be no 2008 publication and if there is that would be a more reasonable time to boycott. we advertisers have no control over december’s issue.
This pieces of shit should not be let off the hook. All law abiding and God fearing citizens of this country should raise our voices and get the State Attorney to file the appropriate criminal charges in this case. There are many charges to fit the ocassion. I don’t understand how initially it was dismissed. I can see many obvious charges pending, such as online solicitation, harassment, malicious intent, sexual related charges, etc. Let’s not rest until justice is served. Off with their heads !!!
I also see negligent homicide, manslaughter II, and I would love to see Lori hanging from a tree. If that were my child dead, the story would have ended up the day after with good old fahion street justice … I would let the jury decide. As a juror, I would acquit …
I’m sorry, I am burning with fury on this incident. I just posted the Drews Information on Myspace … I wanna see justice !!!!
I just saw the O’Reilly Show. There were two attorneys on who said the Drews can be charged with a crime. There is a law that says if you harass someone under a false name, then it’s a crime. They also recommended the Meiers family should sue the Drews in Civil Court, they have an excellent chance of winning, and the settlement would be huge. One attorney said she would sue them for everything they are worth.
I hope the Meiers do sue the Drew family. Lori Drew chose not to act like a grown up when she was endangering Megan Meiers. I bet she grows up now.
I’m happy to see the businesses that have posted here saying they have cancelled their ads with the Drew Advantage company owned by Lori Drew. I hope the others do the same.
I need to add that the law the attorneys were referring to on O’Reilly, said if you harass someone under a false name on the INTERNET.
Keep up the pressure on the companies that advertise in “The Drew Advantage”. Harassing that bitch Lori and her lapdog, Curt, is always going to be fun but it’s through financial means that they’re really going to feel the heat. Call or email as many of their clients as you can and urge them to spend their advertising dollars elsewhere. Maybe when Lori Drew is on the street eating out of a dumpster and selling her various holes for $5. each she’ll realize the error of her ways.
While you’re at it, why let Lori have all the fun? Drop Curt’s boss, Doug Pollard, a line and let him know how you feel about him and his company employing an accessory to manslaughter.
dpollard@gundaker.com – Curt Drew’s boss
Ms. Drew played directly on the sensitivities she knew would cause maximum damage to the Megan. Ms. Drew lured Megan in a way she knew would be most devastating to the child.
This wicked MOA Drew used is the exact methodology that a child predator employs to bait, lure and reel a child victim into doing their will. Child grooming was utilized over weeks and weeks to gain the child’s trust… and once trust was obtained, she exploited it into a relationship. (Another Child Predator Hallmark).
When Ms. Drew saw her bullets were hitting it’s mark, she turned up the heat. She invited others to partake in the sick, twisted mental assault on this child, keeping the pressure up. Even her business employee joined in the game.
Ms. Drew then delivered the final blow that many depressed 13 year old girls would crumble under.
She mentally raped the child and left her for dead. Better said, encouraged her for dead.
Ms. Drew remains smug and defiant about her actions – even seeks to attack this grieving family while their beloved daughter’s memory is fresh in their mind.
She has committed the unthinkable…. and doesn’t even acknowledge she abused this child.
Child Predators go to jail for their actions. Physical contact is not required for a conviction. Evidence of any kind of sexually charged grooming of a child by an adult is worthy of a charge of indecent liberties with a child…. or at the very least harassment.
If even assisted suicide is criminal intent, driving someone to it should at least qualify as something more heinous than an ordinary parking ticket.
Danny Vice
I don’t know who scares me more, Lori Drew or all these whacked-out crusaders for vengeance screaming for her blood.
This is a link to an online petition for the local authorities who dropped the ball. So far it has over 500 signatures. They’re going for 1000. PLEASE SIGN IT!
petitiononline.com/Meier/petition.html
Curt D. & Lori J. Drew
269 Waterford Crystal Drive
Dardenne Prairie, MO 63368
(636) 272-2670
Curt’s Cell: 314-520-8688
(Lori’s Advertising Business)
Drew Advantage
2977 Highway K Ste 200, O Fallon, MO 63368-7862
Mr. Curt Drew
Sales Associate
Coldwell Banker Gundaker
2 CROSSROADS CENTER
O’FALLON, MO 63368
Office Phone: (636)379-8500
Fax: (636)379-2144
Lori’s Cell (314) 520-7916
i don’t think the mother was out to get the girl to kill herself. having said that, i’m sure she was out to cause the girl as much mental anguish as possible and the total lack of guilt from her part really tips the scales for me.
roast beef for me please.
I actually heard about this originally through Encyclopaedia Dramatica. Sad to see their article was not actually entirely fictional for a macabre humor but in fact quite true.
What was going on in that mother’s head? I mean I understand wanting to protect your child and the like but from what? Some mean comments? I mean they stopped being friends, oooh big flippin’ deal.
That was really childish of her is all I can say, I mean it literally and metaphorically, it was childish and plain stupid, and now a young girl is dead because of it. Hope you sleep well Lori.
Oh, sorry if the double comment annoys anybody but I just thought you’d like to see this if you haven’t. I apologize if this has already been posted but I wasn’t going to meticulously read every comment just to check. SO according to this blog Megan somehow had it coming:
meganhaditcoming.blogspot.com/
What do you think?
How sad that a grown woman would do this to a child.
If there is but one universal law working on this Earth, it is: “What goes around, comes around.” There’s no stopping it – Lori Drew has set those wheels in motion and will experience the circumstances of her little hoax.
There’s comfort in knowing that.
Anna B, thank you for posting the link to the online petition! I’ve signed it, and hope others do the same.
Lori Derw will burn un hell.
My hope is sooner than later.
We are currently organizing a protest on Lori Drew’s street. It will be an entirely peaceful protest. We encourage everyone to bring banners, candles, etc. We will also be collecting donations for the Meier family to cover fines and other expenses they have paid over the last year for acts of “vandalism.â€
The protest will be this Saturday, November the 24th (One year after the discovery that “Josh†was actually a fake myspace account) near the Drew household (269 Waterford Crystal Dr. Dardenne Prairie, Mo 63368) We are planning on noon, but I will keep you posted.
This is the best we can do at the moment, and the closest thing to justice we can get. I encourage all of you, if you think this is wrong, if you want to do SOMETHING, please come.
To anon, who posted the website, Megan had it coming…….
I’ve never seen anything like this in my life.
1.Lori Drew bullies and taunts a thirteen year old to her death.
2.When the Meiers have a “moment of anger”, and smash up her foosball table, and drive a truck through her yard, she and her husband press charges against them. She’s very, very fortunate that is the worst they did to her.
3. When Tina Meiers goes to the newspaper with her story, Lori tells her to “give it a rest”.
4. When the National News stations came to Tina Meiers, Lori told her to stop talking about it.
5. Now, there is a web page blaming Megan for her death, and proclaiming that “Megan got what she deserved”.
These people don’t have a coscience. They are totally depraved. The FBI needs to find out who is responsible for this site, and if it’s Lori, or one of the people who helped bully Megan, then they need to be committed to a pshyc ward for the criminally insane.
I’d love to see one of the tech savvy people on here explain how to set up a website called “Lori Drew Has It Coming”. Now THAT would be a site worth checking out.
OMG…call Lori Drew’s cell number: (314) 520-7916 and listen to the message she’s put on there. You’re not going to believe it. Unfreakinbelievable.
That psycho bitch has to made to pay.
I just listened to the outgoing message on Lori’s voicemail… and honestly… I really hope someone hacked into it and changed the message. If she actually put that on her outgoing message, she really has no soul. But this is Lori Drew we’re talking about. How ridiculous!
Her husband’s WORK cell phone also has a similar message. Call it and see 314-520-8688
How the hell do you hack a cell phone anyway without the password. Hard to imagine.
What does the message on her cell phone say?
It basically says that if you want advice on how to make a fat teenage girl kill herself, to leave her a message because she’s an expert. Blah blah blah, she would have killed herself anyway, blah blah blah, she was fat and stupid, blah blah blah.
yeah…what does it say?
I don’t feel like wasting minutes on either of these scums
If she really left that message on her cellphone and the media gets wind of it, things will go from bad to worse pretty damn quick for her. I can’t imagine that someone would be that stupid.
Ok, I actually called it back so I could accurately report what it said:
Hey this is Lori Drew world famous teenage girl murderer. If you need any advice on how to propegate a the suicide of an influential teenage girl, leave a message, I’ll be happy to return your call. To the media outlets my statement would be that I did it for the LOLs (LULz??). At the time we were just doing it for the LOLs. It’s not our fault she offed her self to be quite honest with you. So, so what? She probably would have done it anyway. She was obviously a fat, angry bitch. I’d off myself, too, wouldn’t you?
That’s it. One hell of a human being, don’t you think????
Thanks for the detailed report Becky. From what was said its obvious to me that her numbers been hacked by someone from one of the many websites that have been covering this. Its easy to hack a cellphone voicemail if the original password hasn’t been changed. Its usually 0000.
That’s what I figured too. What I don’t understand is why they don’t change their cell phone numbers. Another weird thing is that the phone actually rang, indicating that it is turned on. You’d think she’d at least turn the phone off.
if anything you’d think that he battery would be dead by all the calls. And on top of it they would probably call the cell company to have them disconnected.
is the message on her husbands cell a guy voice or girl voice? someone said they were similiar.
Hell for that matter you’d think that they would have moved after someone threw a brick through their window, or when the swat team showed up at their house. Get a hint. MOVE! Change your names.
Too late now though. She’ll have to deal with the wrath of the anonymous.
Has anyone called her cell phone that is listed here? Someone posted it elsewhere and OMG the message is just totally PSYCHOTIC! You have to hear it to believe it; but she says all kinds of deragatory things about Megan and says “So what” that she killed herself she would have done it anyway. The woman is mental!!!
I checked Intelius and it is her cell phone.
PHONE REPORT FOR (314) 520-7916
RECORD 1
PHONE (314) 520-7916
NAME LORI DREW Run a Background Report
SERVICE TYPE Wireless
CARRIER Swb Mobile Systems – Mo
ADDRESS Maryland Heights, MO 0
COUNTY ST. LOUIS
No, that’s not the sad part. The voicemail, could, in theory, have been hacked. The sad part is that she basically said “so what, she would have killed herself anyways” in the police report, and to the parents of the victim.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=hzba6tS_h_U
Poignant music and video. The tide is rising.
The final plan for Saturday’s demonstration is this:
First of all, we have the right to assemble, but not to threaten, yell, throw things, etc. This will be an entirely peaceful (and quiet) demonstration. We will not be allowed to stand in the street or on private property that we do not have permission to stand on. There is a common ground area across from the Drew home that I will try to get approved by the subdivision’s council for Saturday from 12 to 5pm.
I ask you all to please bring candles, flyers, etc. BUT, please do not stoop to the level of the Drew family. We are not there to bully the Drew family. We are there to bring attention to this situation to ensure that justice will be served.
Please, leave your pitchforks at home. We don’t want to see any banners calling them names, threatening the family, etc.
I hope to see you all on the common ground across from 269 Waterford Crystal Dr. in Dardenne Prairie on Saturday from noon until 5pm.
Thank you for helping us in search of justice for Megan Meier.
-Lauren
Someone hacked the voicemail, obviously.
That seems pretty obvious, but at the same time, it IS possible that she used it as an excuse to mouth off at the most fanatical Megan supporters, and then claimed it was “hacked” to both absolve herself of guilt and as evidence of how she’s the “victim”now. Of course, this is very unlikely, I mean, to do something like that would be incredibly spiteful and manipulative, and I think we all know how uncharacteristic that is for Lori Drew right?
That’s very a very “anonymous” style message on her voicemail. That’s been hacked, no doubts here.
Alright, I just got off the Megan had it coming site and I don’t think anything has ever made me wanna just smack the f*ckin taste out of someones mouth like that blog did… IF anyone ever finds out who the little bitch is who set up that blog to “inform” the public, please give her an ass whooping for me?! I cannot believe the stuff people say. She deserved to die because she was mean and thought she was fat?! what 13 year old isn’t mean sometimes and thinks she is fat?!! wowwwww, some people just really, really, should have been aborted….
no one deserves to die and those who think someone does, deserves to suffer
So, basically you’re saying that Lori Drew should, at most, “suffer” for what she did. (I”m being very generous and assuming you’re not some evil bitch who’s defending her). And that everyone who thinks that she should be punished should also “suffer” for committing thought crime?
… Brittany, is your last name Drew by any chance?
I wonder what Lori and Curt Drew’s life is like at the moment?
NOT ALL THE BLAME SHOULD BE ON DREW, WHAT KIND OF PARENTS DO WE HAVE IN THE COUNTRY THESE DAYS, GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR KIDS MONITOR THEIR COMPUTER, BLOCK WEB SITES, KEEP COMPUTERS OUT OF BEDROOMS AND IN “FAMILY ROOMS†AND MAYBE SOME OF THESE SADS STORIES WONâ€T BE ON THE INTERNET ANYMORE.
DAVID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And Virginia
You’re woefully uninformed. The Meiers were more attentive, and better parents than most. They did everything right! Everything you are ranting about! Megan was strictly monitored. She did not have her own log on. The computer was in a family area. She was not allowed to be online without a parent present. She was told to log off, but just this once, mom didn’t pull the plug. But, with this sort of gang attack, once is all it takes. Instigated by Drew by her own admission. See The Smoking Gun for many of the police calls that occurred within the past year.
The devil is in the details. Many of the details of this story are what makes it so poignant, what made me heartsick since hearing of it. Details many versions of this story have exaggerated or missed entirely.
See you Saturday, and thanks, Lauren. I’ve written to officials, followed this online, on TV and in newspapers, but I just wanted to DO something. Something positive to let the Meiers of my concern. Something to help them get some measure of peace in knowing that the community is behind them, we care, and we won’t let the officials just sit on this, as they have for the entire past year.
Did anyone else catch that this guy’s name is actually pseudonym?
Yeah, I notice that too. Trying to pass a Vietnamese based on the spelling.
Satan’s (Lori’s) little helper’s full name is
Ashley Grill
i called those numbers and they dont work
Correction:
The full name of Lori Drew’s helper is Ashley Grills (not Grill)
david — your brokeass dont make 6 figures…your a lyin lizard!!
here is a website I came across that has some info on ASHLEY GRILLS. It’s her punk community profile.
stlpunk.com/u_profile.asp?userID=73192
Someone (Concerned Parent) on this blob (post #580) tells where you can find a picture of Lori Drew:
hitsusa.com/blog/317/megan-meier-suicide/#comment-6167
He/she says Lori is woman in the middle in the 6th picture down.
stpeterschamber.com/home/pop-up/savor_06.html?page=5
She’s on the LEFT, btw. Post this link EVERYWHERE on the net!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Say hello to Lori’s accomplice – Ashley Grills. No bleeding heart stuff here. Give her a call!!
Ashley Grills (accomplice):
6337 Star Buck Dr
OFallon, MO 63368
636-240-5013
Somebody PLEASE call all of those businesses and out this psycho so they discontinue contact with her!
[...] If you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting!People are out in droves collecting information about your favorite woman in America – Lori Drew. [...]
PYSIH Guy,
Great job and great title to your site. Google picks it right up on the first or second page and with the catchy name, no doubt you’re attracting some attention!
I wonder what Lori Drew’s giving thanks for this Thanksgiving?
Probably giving thanks that nobody has burned them in effigy in the town square.
Thank you for your kind compliments. The new theme for PYSIH is being coded as we speak. In another week or so, it will be ready to be unveiled.
Is the march on Saturday legit? I live in the St. Louis metro area (of which Dardenne Prarie is a suburb) and I would be seriously tempted to attend.
can the poster, Lauren R., provide more details, do you really have a city permit? Have you notified local media?
Ummm, why isn’t this bitch rotting in jail? Anyone who is pathetic enough to take it upon herself to harrass and instigate suicidal tendancies in a 13 year old girl belongs behind bars. And no remorse is shown for the pain she has brought this family? Fucking bitch. There’s a nice warm place for her, waiting in hell, no doubt.
Too bad all of this high-minded outrage couldn’t be directed toward something useful. Did you know every six seconds a child dies of starvation? Do you care? No. Did you know millions of children around the world live in poverty, work as slaves or soldiers, yada, yada, yada? Do you care? No. Me neither, obviously. I haven’t done a single thing in my life to help a child anywhere? Just making a point on perspective. Compared to thousands of other things that are happening this very second… this is nothing.
ROT IN HELL DREW FAMILY!!!!!!!!
FUCK ALL OF YOU!!!!!!!
…Ok bossman, whatever it takes to let you sleep at night.
Bossman, you do seem a bit loco. I wonder if Lori and Curt Drew are wondering whether (or when) some nutjob is going to pop out of the woodwork and disappear them.
Clive makes a very valid point. There are kids being bullied on every street corner in this country. What have any of us done to help? Myself, none. It’s the “ignore it and it will go away syndrome” that most all of us have chosen to do. I guess it’s much easier to lash out at someone on a screen than in person.
What a world has been following this sad tale – and we don’t condone violence against the evil lori drew – we do agree that economic boycott is reasonable. why?
1) Lori Drew, allegedly an adult, showed poor judgement. do you want to entrust your marketing dollars to someone who demonstrates poor judgement
2) Lack of remorse – Lori Drew and her husband Curt Drew *what a lucky guy* has not said one word with remorse – instead allegedly telling the Meier’ to get over it.
3) Misuse of employee’s – having Ashley (we wont name her) help commit this deed… are you pleased that your advertising dollars paid for this employee that helped to push a 13 yr old over the edge?
We understand that Coldwell Banker Realestate has removed Curt from the web site and probably from their employment. Realtors are expected to be highly ethical and trust worthy. Curt Drew might not have tapped a word into MySpace, but he has not counseled his wife to desist and now – to show remorse.
If the law cannot prevail then the publics right to protest should help. It won’t being back Megan Meier, but maybe it will save another poor girls life. We vote Lori Drew to suffer Hell.
Lori Drew. LORI DREW! We await you. We await you in hell. We await your enternal damnation, while poor Megan Meier, glorious in heaven will spite you for eternity.
Lori Drew, we are not in a rush to welcome you to hell. First, ye shall live in damnation and shame on Earth. Thou business shall fail, ye husband’s as well. Your friends shall shun you, as have your neighbors. There shall be no place that will welcome you, short of Iran or Venezuela.
Lori Drew, you will welcome Hell, where we will await you with open arms, with others that deserve enternity in our un-earthly resting place.
Come to Hell Lori Drew. and May Megan Meier rest peaceful in heaven.
“There shall be no place that will welcome you, short of Iran or Venezuela.” LMAO!
*Hey, I’ll bring the pitchforks!*>:P
DIE LORI DREW!!!!!!!!
DIE YOU FUCKING WHORE!!!!!!!!
FUCK CLIVE AND ALL THE PUNK ASS PUSSIES THAT THINK THIS BITCH SHOULD NOT PAY.
KILL A CHILD
PAY THE PRICE
I am not saying the bitch should not be hog tied and burned at the stake. I am saying, that we all need to pay attention to people directly around us to prevent something like this happening again.
Copied from the “hitsusa” blog…
TO: 460. Lauren R. ~ WE ARE SO HAPPY THAT YOU HAVE PLANNED A CANDLELIGHT VIGIL IN MEMORY OF MEGAN. I WANTED TO GIVE YOU THE UPDATED INFORMATION THAT WE HAVE AND I WOULD LOVE TO MEET YOU ON SATURDAY.
**********************************************
THIS IS MEGAN’S MOM TINA MEIER, AND I WANTED TO UPDATE EVERYONE ON THE DETAILS FOR THE CANDLELIGHT VIGIL FOR SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 24, 2007.
*WE ARE MEETING AT 6:00 P.M. AT THE FORT ZUMWALT WEST MIDDLE SCHOOL PARKING LOT.
*PLEASE BRING A CANDLE, CUP TO HOLD THE CANDLE AND SOMETHING TO LIGHT THE CANDLE. (IF YOU CUT A SMALL x IN THE BOTTOM OF THE CUP, YOU CAN SLIDE THE CANDLE THROUGH IT AND THEN YOU WON’T HAVE WAX DRIPPING ON YOU)
*WE WILL THEN LIGHT THE CANDLE’S SHORTLY AFTER 6:00 P.M. AND START WALKING FROM THE SCHOOL DOWN WATERFORD CRYSTAL DRIVE TOWARDS MEGAN’S HOUSE AND END UP IN FRONT OF THE DREW’S HOUSE.
*THERE IS A COMMON GROUND AREA ACROSS THE STREET AND WE WILL HAVE PA SYSTEM AND MICROPHONE. IF ANYONE WOULD LIKE TO SPEAK, READ A POEM, ETC., THEY ARE MORE THAN WELCOME.
*THIS WONDERFUL IDEA CAME FROM STUDENTS WHO WANTED TO SEE JUSTICE FOR MEGAN AND FOR THAT WE ARE SO HAPPY. NOTHING WE CAN DO WILL BRING MEGAN BACK, BUT WE CAN ALL LEARN FROM MEGAN AND TAKE A PART OF HER WITH US EVERYDAY FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES TO TRY TO BE A BETTER PERSON AND THINK ABOUT THINGS WE SAY TO PEOPLE BEFORE WE SAY THEM!
*****REMEMBER THIS IS A PEACEFUL CANDLELIGHT*****
VIGIL AND WE HOPE TO SEE EVERYONE THERE!
Burn Lori Burn!
Tina and Ron, I’m so sorry for what’s happened to you both. It was so wrong, and shouldn’t have happened. I wish there was something I could say that would help, but know that you’re both in my prayers and thoughts.
I hope you’ll sue the Drews in Civil Court. I think the eighteen year old that was involved should be named in a Civil Suit, too. Even if you don’t want their money, donate it to a charity, and when the Drews hand over the keys to their house to you, turn it into a homeless shelter for teens.
I wish I could be at the prayer vigil tomorrow. I don’t live close enough for it to be possible.
May God bless you and keep you in the palm of His hand, and may He bless you with His wisdom.((()))
“Give it a rest” No Lori, not until you show some remorse……an innocent child is dead because of your actions. There must be a reckoning and justice for the harm you cause to the Meiers. No Civil suit or criminal charge will be enough.
[...] The post was about a story that has become quite popular lately which involves two neighbouring families with 13 year old daughters. The two daughters were friends at one point, but then broke off their relationship when certain things occurred (I’m not sure what exactly). So to get revenge the mother (Lori Drew) of one of Girl A created a fake online identity as Josh Evans with the help of others and befriended Girl B (Megan Meier) on her myspace account. Over the course of a few weeks Lori portrayed Josh Evans to like Megan, which resulted in Megan falling for Josh. Lori/ Josh then abruptly broke up with Megan by telling her that she treats her friends badly, and then sending out all the juicy details of Megan’s confessions to Josh to a number of Megan’s fellow students. Many of then harassed her on her myspace account calling her fat and a slut, and then Josh left his last comment on Megan’s myspace that stated “Everybody in O’Fallon knows how you are. You are a bad person and everybody hates you. Have a shitty rest of your life. The world would be a better place without you.” Megan, who had suffered from depression for several years of her life hung herself that night in her bedroom closet and later died the next day in the hospital. Lori Drew, and others who were involved have never been charged. You can read more about it HERE and HERE. [...]
If you want a pitcher of Lori Drew check out
minger.net there are two there. I hope the best for Megon’s family.
Help me, help me. I think my mom is going to kill me next. My mom manipulated me and made me do this. Oh fuck it, I’ll kill her first. She’s a crazy bitch and being burned to death is too good for her.
Sarah Drew I`ll help you give your life to Jesus. May God show his mercy to you, Sarah, Jesus loves you. He died on the cross for you, Sarah please let God the merciful one change life. Sarah, don`t worry about your mother, God will punish her.
Maybe you need to read something other than the Bible if you think this is really Sarah Drew. What sane person would go to a site like this asking for help and plotting a murder? Of course, you Bible-thumping types find your way here all the time and that baffles me to no end.
I hope Megan’s parents sue the Drews and bankrupt them so deeply they’ll never recover. I’d rather see criminal charges, but civil charges will do, and I suspect the Drews care a LOT more about money than they do about anything else. Psychotics, every one of them. I hope it makes international news when their karma comes around to bite them.
Lori Drew is an emotional predator that drove an emotionally distraught girl to suicide. While Lori is no better than a sexual predator, the law may say otherwise. I see a civil suit coming and a huge public backlash directed at the Drew family, who so far have expressed no remorse for their actions.
Lori do us all a favor
KILL YOURSELF BITCH!!!!!!
Wow, they live in an ugly house.
I called a bunch of the advertisors this morning and all I had gotten a hold of had quit advertising with drew advantage. Thank god. Hopefully they will start feeling a financial burden, at least
LORI DREW IS A PREDATOR. WHERE IS CHRIS HANSON WHEN YOU NEED HIM??
Please, all of you, do everything possible to make sure this Lori Drew gets her just punishment.]
I’m in India, I tried calling all the Drew’s numbers to tell them, politley, exactly what I think of them.
I will call the businesses listed and tell them I think they should boycott Drew and also call the mans employer, to say he should be fired.
My heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of Megan.
Krish
the girl needed to die she was eatin all the food
lori drew saved the food lets face it
kill the children save the food
I found this on myspace, follow the link myspace.com/curtdrew
These people are sick and sad.
I just find this entire situation very sad.
this is terrible the Megans family deserves justice for what has been done to them.
myspace.com/curtdrew
He looks gay. No wonder why he married someone like Lori Drew. I bet he was pussywhipped by her. She is a scary killer. Has Nancy Grace ran her down below whale shit? If not, why not?
Lori Drew is a sexual predator. She is also responsible for the death of Meagan. I hope Lori Drew and her daughter Sarah are raped, sodomized, and get AIDS. That family needs to burn in O’Fallon. I wonder how Lori’s parents feel about their daughter. Are they proud of her? Do they disown her? Or did Lori kill them off a long time ago?
I will get you Lori.
Jesus
yeah it was pretty shitty what she did but ultimately megan killed herself and its her fault for doing it
what kind of person kills themselves over some loser on myspce other than someone who so totally sucks they would kill themselves over something pathetic like this any chance they got
if it wasnt this it’d have been something else
anyway lori drew deserves all the shit she gets and i applaud you guys for piling onto her as she is total scum but ultimately it was megans fault
affluent white girl from the united states who’s slightly fat kills herself over some guy she talked to on my space her lifes so bad oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
i have little sympathy for megan nor for lori drew
god in a pokeball, I hope you were just kidding when you wrote that juvenile little poem. I find nothing remotely funny about this situation. Lori Drew is a sociopath with pedophilic tendencies, and an all around filthy bitch. Her an her family deserve everything that’s coming to them.
Criminal action must be proven first before they should sue the Drews. Other wise the Drews will just claim bankruptcy and get out of paying anything – not matter what the out come in civil court. I hope the county, city prosecutor or the feds brings some sort of charges that stick. Justice has not been served.
satur9 the voice of reason ladies and gentlemen
how is the truth juvenile
honesty over lies juvenile
assumes i am joking or trolling for telling the truth
well okay the save the children post was in bad taste but the other was serious
lets faec it she killed herself over something stupid she had no value for her own life
i would never kill myself let alone kill myself over SOME GUY ON MYSPACE
emotionally distraught teenager or not ultimately it was her decision
if she killed herself over something like this then if it hadn’t been this it’d of just been something else
only a matter of time before she died
though this doesnt excuse lori drew’s actions at all but she did not commit a crime whatsoever
trying to legislate against this puts our very privacy at risk it’d be a slippery slope to hell
lori drew should be ostracized by the community though
Anyone that doesn’t feel Lori Drew belongs in Hell (Virginia and David)is just stupid. PERIOD!
YOU ARE BLAMING THE VICTIM YOU IGNORANT ASSES! I say you join Lori in hell!
Hey, god in a pokeball – why don’t you try Loser.com instead. What does Megan being white have to do with this? If you were on a boat and the boat was sinking, I would tie you to the sail. You sound barely literate. Drop out of school or slept through English class?
Also there is a possible law that is applicable in hhe case. In January 2006 Pres. Bush signed into law the Violence Against Women and Department of Justice Reauthorization Act of 2005
it has 2 sections that apply….. alkso after that is an exceprt from hte Us Criminal code (i think that’s what it is called)
Read htese, then contact your congress men, Senators, Governors, no matter the state you are in. This is a federal law- we need to all help bring Lori Drew to justice.
SEC. 113. PREVENTING CYBERSTALKING.
(a) IN GENERAL.—Paragraph (1) of section 223(h) of the Communications
Act of 1934 (47 U.S.C. 223(h)(1)) is amended—
(1) in subparagraph (A), by striking ‘‘and’’ at the end;
(2) in subparagraph (B), by striking the period at the
end and inserting ‘‘; and’’; and
(3) by adding at the end the following new subparagraph:
‘‘(C) in the case of subparagraph (C) of subsection
(a)(1), includes any device or software that can be used
to originate telecommunications or other types of communications
that are transmitted, in whole or in part, by
the Internet (as such term is defined in section 1104 of
the Internet Tax Freedom Act (47 U.S.C. 151 note)).’’.
(b) RULE OF CONSTRUCTION.—This section and the amendment
made by this section may not be construed to affect the meaning
given the term ‘‘telecommunications device’’ in section 223(h)(1)
of the Communications Act of 1934, as in effect before the date
of the enactment of this section.
SEC. 114. CRIMINAL PROVISION RELATING TO STALKING.
(a) INTERSTATE STALKING.—Section 2261A of title 18, United
States Code, is amended to read as follows:
‘‘§ 2261A. Stalking
‘‘Whoever—
‘‘(1) travels in interstate or foreign commerce or within
the special maritime and territorial jurisdiction of the United
States, or enters or leaves Indian country, with the intent
to kill, injure, harass, or place under surveillance with intent
to kill, injure, harass, or intimidate another person, and in
the course of, or as a result of, such travel places that person
in reasonable fear of the death of, or serious bodily injury
to, or causes substantial emotional distress to that person,
a member of the immediate family (as defined in section 115)
of that person, or the spouse or intimate partner of that person;
or
‘‘(2) with the intent—
‘‘(A) to kill, injure, harass, or place under surveillance
with intent to kill, injure, harass, or intimidate, or cause
substantial emotional distress to a person in another State
or tribal jurisdiction or within the special maritime and
territorial jurisdiction of the United States; or
H. R. 3402—29
‘‘(B) to place a person in another State or tribal jurisdiction,
or within the special maritime and territorial jurisdiction
of the United States, in reasonable fear of the death
of, or serious bodily injury to—
‘‘(i) that person;
‘‘(ii) a member of the immediate family (as defined
in section 115 of that person; or
‘‘(iii) a spouse or intimate partner of that person;
uses the mail, any interactive computer service, or any
facility of interstate or foreign commerce to engage in a
course of conduct that causes substantial emotional distress
to that person or places that person in reasonable fear
of the death of, or serious bodily injury to, any of the
persons described in clauses (i) through (iii) of subparagraph
(B);
shall be punished as provided in section 2261(b) of this title.’’.
(b) ENHANCED PENALTIES FOR STALKING.—Section 2261(b) of
title 18, United States Code, is amended by adding at the end
the following:
‘‘(6) Whoever commits the crime of stalking in violation
of a temporary or permanent civil or criminal injunction,
restraining order, no-contact order, or other order described
in section 2266 of title 18, United States Code, shall be punished
by imprisonment for not less than 1 year.’’.
SEC. 115. REPEAT OFFENDER PROVISION.
Chapter 110A of title 18, United States Code, is amended
by adding after section 2265 the following:
‘‘§ 2265A. Repeat offenders
‘‘(a) MAXIMUM TERM OF IMPRISONMENT.—The maximum term
of imprisonment for a violation of this chapter after a prior domestic
violence or stalking offense shall be twice the term otherwise provided
under this chapter.
‘‘(b) DEFINITION.—For purposes of this section—
‘‘(1) the term ‘prior domestic violence or stalking offense’
means a conviction for an offense—
‘‘(A) under section 2261, 2261A, or 2262 of this chapter;
or
‘‘(B) under State law for an offense consisting of conduct
that would have been an offense under a section
referred to in subparagraph (A) if the conduct had occurred
within the special maritime and territorial jurisdiction of
the United States, or in interstate or foreign commerce;
and
‘‘(2) the term ‘State’ means a State of the United States,
the District of Columbia, or any commonwealth, territory, or
possession of the United States.’’.
http://www.usdoj.gov/ovw/docs/federal_violence.pdf
FEDERAL VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN STATUTES AND ELEMENTS FOR FEDERAL PROSECUTION
Cyber Stalking
18 U.S.C. §2261A(2)
It is a federal crime with intent to (1) kill, injure, harass, or place under surveillance with the intent to kill, injure, harass or intimidate, or (2) cause substantial emotional distress, or place in reasonable fear of death or serious bodily injury a person in another State or within the SMTJ; to use the mail, any interactive computer service, or any facility of
interstate commerce (including the Internet) to engage in a course of conduct that causes substantial emotional distress or places such person in reasonable fear of the death of, or serious bodily injury to, that person or a member of that person’s immediate family or that person’s intimate partner. A single communication is not sufficient. The statute defines a “course of conduct” as a “pattern of conduct composed of 2 or more acts, evidencing a continuity of purpose.”
If the FBI investigated, then why in the world didn’t they use this law to prosecute Lori Drew, as well as the eighteen year old who was helped perpetrate the hoax???
I’m speechless that charges weren’t brought.
there were no charges? civil lawsuits are a bitch.
There are plenty of statutes under which to charge this hag. I have no idea why the Feds are dragging their feet. I’m sure if Lori Drew were male, there would be no problem bringing up online sexual predator charges. She used all of the same tactics common to internet sex predators. Unbelievable.
true and she pretended to be a guy. wouldn’t that fall into the same category. it was a “guy” saying all of it.
@Brittany: That’s the part I don’t get. It seems as though there is ample reason to charge this woman. I don’t understand why local police are acting as though they’re powerless here. It’s a really bizarre situation. Someone call Dateline!
it’s politics. they like to cover their tracks. it’s government. she is a part of the chamber of commerce. they might just brush it under the rug like all other political conspiracies. (I think I spelt that wrong)
I know this is a tragic story and I know what lori did was extremely wrong, but this story reads as extremely biased. Does anyone else get the feeling like something else is missing? Like her side of the story? There might be a reason why no charges were filed.
I know this is such a sad story, but lets try to refrain of a public lynching when we don’t even know all the facts.
The article in the New York Times says the Drews laughed about how they were going to “mess with Meganâ€.
I wonder if Lori has done any soul searching since this has gone public and feels any remorse now for what she’s done.
My guess is, she may have received legal advice not to express remorse or say anything since there is a possible Civil Suit against her some time in the future. So where does she go from here? How can any good come from this situation if she never publicly expresses remorse for her actions, and does something to make amends.
My advice to Lori is, it’s time to be a grown up. Accept the responsibility for what your part in this was, make your apologies, and if the Meiers sue you in Civil Court, then bite the bullet and pay the restitution awarded by the courts. If the Meiers don’t sue you after you’ve expressed your remorse, and apologies, then do something worthwhile to make a real difference in the world. After you’ve received therapy and counseling, work with the people in this world who have real needs, such as the homeless, the abused, the mentally ill, but every day that you live and breathe, say to yourself, “I’m going to do something today that is going to make a difference in this world for the betterâ€.
Begin to teach your children about what is really important in life. Ask them what do they want to become, a good person or a bad person. Then inspire them to be the best people they can be by your example.
Last year, your actions caused many people to suffer. Beginning today, let your actions cause many people to be helped and comforted, and let it continue this way for the rest of your life.
We, the police, are dragging our feet because we know Lori Drew will kill our children. We also know she is a sexual predator. The woman is evil. We are watching her closely because we fear for her husband their children and our children. But we’re to scared to do anything because we’re just a small town police force. We’re all just a punch of country pumpkins.
Alex, on November 27th, 2007 at 10:20 pm Said:
I know this is a tragic story and I know what lori did was extremely wrong, but this story reads as extremely biased. Does anyone else get the feeling like something else is missing? Like her side of the story? There might be a reason why no charges were filed.
I know this is such a sad story, but lets try to refrain of a public lynching when we don’t even know all the facts.
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Alex,
Have you not seen the full police report on smokinggun.com? It’s in Lori’s own words. Who needs more than that. The heinous creature admitted to all of it in a sociopathic style – so matter-of-factly that it makes me physically ill. She said she didn’t feel “as guilty” at the funeral because she had heard Megan had already tried to kill herself once before. WHO THE HELL SAYS THINGS LIKE THAT. WHO PUTS THAT IN A POLICE REPORT. HANG THE WITCH!
There may not be a recourse under criminal law, but there certainly are several options available to Megan’s family in civil court. A suit for intentional infliction of emotional distress could require Mrs. Drew to spend YEARS defending herself and result in further shame and ignominy PLUS, if justice is served, total financial ruin.
There is recourse under criminal law. It’s just that the state is too weak and/or stupid to take it.
You can bet that if Lori Drew were a man who had stalked, groomed, and entered into an online relationship with sexual and romantic overtones with a thirteen year old girl, the state would be pressing charges. Since Lori is a woman, they’re going to shrug and say there’s nothing they can do.
There ARE laws against cyberstalking, there ARE laws against predatory behavior online. It’s just that the State of Missouri isn’t interested in pursuing it.
How stupid an dheartless can you be Lori Drew and this Ashley Grills? Karma will come……
Karma is a bitch! What comes around goes around and the Drew family will meet with Karma.
To the idiot David . . . The girl could not log on the computer herself, it was in a common area,and the girl suffers from depression. No one can change America’s mind about this Lori woman. Voice compassion for the victim’s family if you have nothing better to comment on. Or better yet, do what I do in most cases and don’t comment at all.
We’re so impressed that you are a business owner and rich to boot! Hold on let me see who I am today. I am a pampered housewife who spends most of her days cooking and cleaning for the ones she loves. I am leisurely working on my masters degree only because I love learning, not because I need it for a job. My husband defends this country with much pride and dicipline as a soldier. We married at 18 and are still on our honeymoon 13 years later. We have 1 child and 4 vehicles, all but one are paid off. We have a large 1500sqft. house and we do it with less than $40,000 a year. The difference between me and you David is that mine is all true, and even if yours was true, I would still be more impressed with mine!!!!!!!!
When is the next vigal?
I feel sorry for the Meier family and wish the best to them. Hopefully, someday they can overcome this tragedy although there is nothing that will bring Megan back.
As far as Lori Drew is concerned, I advocate that she will pay for what she did for as long as Megan is gone- in other words, forever.
This should be a warning to any boys that want to date Lori Drew’s daughter. If she did this to a girl that didn’t want to be friends anymore, can you imagine what she would do to a boy that dumped her precious daughter flat on her ass?
When is the next vigal, I would be honored by being there.
Tina and Ron I think of you daily, you have all of our full support, The Drew’s will meet their maker and one day megan will have the last word.
Stay as strong as possible in such a hard time, bless you all.
When is the next vigal, I would be honored by being there.
[...] prosecutor, St. Charles County Prosecutor Jack Banas, while revolted at Lori Drew’s behavior, has decided that Lori Drew will not be prosecuted for her role in the events that led to Megan [...]
Prosecutor Won’t File Charges In MySpace Suicide Case
Created: 12/2/2007 10:20:25 PM
Last updated: 12/3/2007 10:00:37 AM
(KSDK) – Monday, St. Charles County Prosecutor Jack Banas addressed the media in St. Charles, and the media around the world, when he announced there will be no charges filed in the MySpace suicide case of Megan Meier.
Banas said there are no charges that could be applied under current law. He also said, “I think you have a lot of facts that have gone out across this country that are a misstatement of facts.”Advertisement
According to Banas, the fake MySpace page was not created by the mother of one of Megan’s friends who she had a falling out with. The fake MySpace page was actually created by an 18-year-old employee of that mother, though the mother knew about the page.
For the first several weeks of the MySpace page, under the fake name of a 16-year-old boy named Josh, the conversation was friendly, with no indication of negativity, said Banas.
The messages were being sent by the 18-year-old and by the neighbor’s daughter.
Then, said Banas, the password was given to another teenage girl. That girl sent messages to Megan saying that she (pretending to be Josh) had heard Megan was mean, and that she (pretending to be Josh) did not want to be her friend.
The 18-year-old did not know about the messages, Banas said, when she got back on the MySpace page.
“The young lady who was working for the [neighbors] did start sending messages back to Josh, through Josh, back to Megan. When she did, she got responses back from Megan questioning why he was being nice,” when he had been mean just days before.
At that point, Banas says, the 18-year-old went back through the previous conversations, saw the negative messages, and wrote some negative messages of her own. She also wrote that “Josh” would not reveal who had said Megan was mean.
Megan then engaged several other girls with MySpace pages to try to determine who had told “Josh” that she was mean. Those girls sent a flurry of messages that were largely negative.
It was after this exchange that the 18-year-old typed, “This world would be a better place without you.” That was the last statement from “Josh.”
When Megan Meier’s mother came home, she found Megan crying at her computer. Mrs. Meier looked at the conversation, and told Megan not to use such language, said Banas. He also said that Megan then told her mother that she couldn’t believe her mother was taking “their side.” Megan then ran upstairs. A short time later, she had killed herself.
Banas says there are some facts that are not disputed by the people involved, but that there are other disputed facts. He says the 18-year-old told different stories.
“The 18-year-old told another story to the Meier family lawyer, that she was yelling to [the neighbor] what she was typing,” said Banas. “She later told the FBI that [the neighbor] was not present, that they later told her what was going on, but said that [the neighbor's husband] was there.” Both of the adults deny being there at the time the final messages were being sent.
However, Banas said, the neighbor “admits she had been present on several occasions when her daughter was sending messages,” but not on the final two days when the messages were sent.
Banas said he looked at all of the applicable state laws. The statute on harassment does not include Internet activity, he says. The statute on stalking does include the Internet and other forms of communications, but he says the key is the intent. Because the MySpace page was set up to find out what Megan may have been saying about her former friend, and because the first several weeks of messages were not negative, Banas says prosecutors could not prove that the intent of the MySpace page was to cause harm to Megan.
“The undisputed fact is that the intention and the purpose in creating this and the purpose of the conversation going back and forth was so that they could find out what Megan was saying about [the neighbor's] daughter.”
“Their purpose was never to cause her emotional harassment that we can prove,” said Banas.
Banas did say that any reports that there was sexual content involved in the conversations are erroneous. He said there was never any sexual content in the MySpace conversations.
However, he also said several times that any adult who knew what was going on should have done something. “There is no question the adult should have said something to stop this,” said Banas. He also said several other teenage girls apparently knew what was going on, but did not tell Megan. He does not know if the parents of those girls also knew, but said any adults who did should have done something.
Banas said the prosecutors were never brought a case until the Meier’s family attorneys contacted federal prosecutors, and the FBI began its investigation.
“When I was called by a local reporter and asked about this case, there was never an investigative case brought to my office, so I could not say whether it was or was not a crime,” said Banas.
As part of the investigation, the St. Charles County Prosecutor’s office talked with several people, but not with the 18-year-old girl who actually did most of the typing and created the page.
“The 18-year-old girl that has been involved in this case has been hospitalized and is under psychiatric care. Her psychiatrist would not allow us to talk to her, and understandably so,” said Banas.
My eldest boy (9), has a little friend who inevitably resorts to insults and/or blackmail on this stupid online game.
I end up messaging the boy and telling him that I monitor everything my boys do online, and that he WILL stop acting in such a jerky way, as well as telling my boy that he needs to not be rude and give him a reason to be rude.
My boy’s dad? Not so much. Last time I heard, the ex had massive porn on his computer, as my eldest said he didn’t understand why he kept seeing ‘girl’s butts’ on his dads’ computer. What is worse is that after the fact I found out that my ex’s websites were linked to ‘Amber Lynn’s anal adventures.
Because I have not seen the supposed emails, myspace posts, I can’t say for sure, but my guess is that any POS person who engages with a minor in any context should be allowed to commit suicide.
that’s crap. Obviously Lori instigated the conversation or at least the idea of creating the myspace page. If that’s the case and she wasn’t present the last two days, she was still present prior when the negative comments started.
I’m Lori Drew
It’s time I dropped the charade. Yes, I made this blog. Yes, I’m Lori Drew.
My daughter had nothing to do with this. Everyone needs to leave her alone. None of you can possibly know her involvement, and none of you can possibly know what she’s gone through. She’s just a kid. She doesn’t deserve these brutal verbal attacks. Please stop.
Now that Mr. Banas has made public the announcement that there will be no charges filed against me or my family, I feel it is time to speak out about this tragic affair. I cannot count on any media organization to fairly represent my story, as they have grossly misrepresented and sensationalized the story so far. So, I must present my case here, on the blog that has been my only outlet.
You don’t understand what the last two years have been like, living in this town, dealing with these people. When we came here, the Meiers seemed like a great family with whom we could form a friendship. Tina sold us our house and our little girls became fast friends. It was typical. Sleepovers and vacations and events in the community. The girls were inseparable.
We knew Megan and we liked having her around, at first. But as the months went on, we saw a change in our daughter. She was increasingly disturbed and defensive. We thought the effects of puberty were taking hold. But, we soon realized the negative influence was Megan. Megan had her bright and perky side, but she also had her dark side. We knew that she suffered from depression, so we tried to be supportive and patient. We talked to Ron and Tina about our concerns, but they would have none of it. Their precious Megan couldn’t be the problem — and they said we should feel bad for even suggesting it of a poor, mentally ill child.
It only got worse from there. Megan found out that we had gone to her parents and she worked to drive a wedge between our daughter and us. We fought back the only way we knew how: we supported our daughter and explained to her what we thought. She agreed with us, and that’s when the fallout started.
When Sarah stopped going along with Megan’s antics, Megan took it especially hard and lashed out. She called my daughter every nasty name in the book, swore to never be friends again and stormed out. Then a few days later they were friends again, Megan would try to manipulate Sarah, Sarah wouldn’t buy it, and Megan would become furious again. Then came the MySpace attack. Not the one you’re reading about in the news, but the one that started this whole thing.
After the final break-up in their frienship, Megan coordinated a MySpace attack on my daughter. Since she didn’t have access to MySpace herself, she had to work through friends. I wasn’t too surprised because I knew that Megan was grounded from MySpace the previous year after she made a fake profile with a friend to go prank and bully a classmate they didn’t like.
Fortunately, that prank didn’t go far, and neither did her latest attempted prank on my daughter. But the damage was done to my child, and I knew what kind of child Megan was, depression or not.
Now I had nothing but sympathy for Megan’s condition. But my sympathy has limits. When you come after my daughter and try to hurt her like that, my patience wears out. This troubled child was no longer able to poison my baby in person, so she decided to reach out on the Internet to do it instead. Like any parent, when you see the ill-behaved child next door causing trouble for your family, you want to wring the neck of the parents who let it happen. But, as Megan’s parents made it clear earlier, they were not about to come down on their precious Megan. I had no recourse with them. And, forbidding the children from seeing each other was not effective because Megan could simply harass my daughter online.
Then, my daughter heard that Megan was lobbying her parents to get her MySpace back. I was instantly terrified. That little monster was a tremendous poison for my daughter as-is. I didn’t want to think about what kind of damage she would do if she had total access to the internet. I talked the situation over with people I knew and trusted, who told me to be very afraid. Teenage bullying was rampant on MySpace, and there were very few, if any, legal options for people being harassed. Everyone’s advice was: if you’re harassed, your only option is to delete your profile and run. It won’t stop people from saying bad things about you, but at least you won’t have to see it.
I wanted to hide my daughter away from all of this, and delete her MySpace, but she begged and pleaded with me to let her stay. I know it’s MySpace and it’s a social hub for teens today and I didn’t want my daughter to be the only one without, so I relented.
Instead, I worked with a couple of people I knew to create a profile so I could keep tabs on Megan. They helped me add pictures and graphics and music so it would look like a boy that Megan would want to talk to. We didn’t totally know what we were doing with the Josh Evans persona, or where it would lead, so I kept it quiet. We did our best to shmooze Megan into opening up. I complimented her pictures and said how great she was. I very gently asked her about her school life and her friends hoping that if she was planning any attack on my daughter that we would be one step ahead of her and could take this evidence to her parents, show them what their daughter is up to so they would finally take action.
A couple of weeks went by and Megan was buying it. We were surprised at how she could be so nice to “Josh” and still have an undercurrent of negativity when she talked about school friends. We wanted to make sure she wasn’t going to try anything to get back at Sarah, so we kept the account going. When Megan started talking about being in love and wanting to do boyfriend/girlfriend stuff with “Josh” I got concerned. How do we keep going for information AND figure out a way to let her down gently once we were convinced nothing was going to happen? What if we let her down, and she regressed and came after my daughter anyway? I was becoming very confused and concerned then. Megan was unpredictable and I absolutely did NOT want her harassing my child. I didn’t know what to do, so I kept going. I played down her innuendo. Anytime she became explicit, “Josh” backed off and kept the compliments above board.
Then I found out that Megan’s parents were actively monitoring the account! Everything that had been going on, they were witness to. This troubled me deeply: were they not concerned when their 13 year old daughter wanted to have heavy duty make out sessions with a 16 year old boy? Hello!
I had “Josh” friend other people that Megan knew all the while so that if anyone else knew of anything that was going to happen, we’d have that much more chance of staying ahead of the game. One of the girls we friended even figured out that the profile was fake. We let her in on it, and asked what she wanted. Turns out, she wasn’t friendly with Megan, either, so she wanted to help. I gave her access to the account.
It wasn’t long after that that we saw what was being said on other accounts: Megan was still mad at Sarah and was very quiety spreading cruel rumors. She kept it off her own MySpace because she knew that kind of stuff would get her grounded off it again. I was furious! Not only was Megan obviously not going to stop until she had her revenge, but now there was no way to get any evidence about it.
That’s when I decided I would have to teach Megan a lesson and give her a taste of her own medicine.
I decided that I would shut down the Josh account, and not be nice about it. Megan’s feelings be damned, and to hell with her consequence! I was going to protect my daughter no matter what. So I sent the break up e-mail to Megan saying that Josh didn’t want to be friends because Megan was very cruel to her friends. Naturally, Megan freaked, and I tried to keep the messages short and sweet. As a last resort bargaining chip, I figured that if she really loved Josh then maybe he could pressure her into stopping her lies. But it didn’t work, and the situation devolved lightning fast.
Megan was screaming at Josh for answers on who he had been talking to: she wanted to know who ratted her out so she could take out revenge on them, too. I shared Megan’s messages with everyone involved and encouraged everyone to stand up against her and not take her crap anymore.
Instead, once the word got out about Megan, so did all her romantic replies, as well as a few secrets and the MySpace crowd ganged up on her.But I didn’t realize that this group would react that way. I expected a certain amount of bullying, and I was OK with it. I wanted Megan to get a taste of what she had been dishing out this whole time. But I didn’t want it to go as far as it did. It’s true that the slut and fat references came out of what I shared. And by the time I was done with work on that day, the bullying against Megan had progressed pretty far. I had heard about the “better off without you” message and that’s when I told everyone to cool it. Megan had been punished enough, and I was satisfied that she would think twice before bullying or manipulating anyone again.
That night I saw the ambulance lights at the Meier house, and then I saw them take Megan out on a stretcher. I was stunned and horrified. I wasn’t sure what had happened, and when they had said Megan tried to kill herself, I didn’t believe it. Yes, Megan suffered from depression, but she was always laughing and smiling when we were on vacations, or at sleep overs. After the shock wore off, I panicked: what if Megan ended her life after what happened on MySpace? It seemed ridiculous. When kids were bullied, they went to their rooms and cried — even the depressed ones. They didn’t hang themselves
I was distraught over the event, so I instructed the key people involved to stay quiet to protect themselves against any counter-bullying, and I deleted the Josh profile. I kept the truth from the Meier family because there was simply no reason to come forward. Their little girl died the next day at the hospital. Their lives were destroyed. What good would it do to inform them that their daughter’s MySpace boyfriend was a fake? They wouldn’t believe that their daughter was a MySpace bully and a real life manipulator when she was alive, so why add to their grief now? I stayed quiet. I went to the funeral to pay my respects to this troubled child who took herself to a tragic end. We mourned the loss of a girl who once was a good friend. We all tried to get on with our lives.
Little by little rumors of the cause of Megan’s suicide spread. Of course the Josh break-up was mentioned, as was the MySpace bullying. People talked about the need to stop MySpace bullying. There were a couple of news reports, but it never went anywhere.
Until six weeks later when one of the girls involved decided to link me to the issue. When Megan’s parents found out that the Josh account was me, they focused all of their rage and pain and guilt at me. Instantly, what had been a mysterious suicide with no definite answers became a personal vendetta.
Just like Megan, her parents showed their dark side and scared the holy hell out of me when they dumped our smashed foosball table on our driveway. Instantly I knew we were dealing with unbalanced people. Aggravated by their child’s death and their own culture of anxiety, I very much feared for my family. I made sure to report the incident to the police so the Meiers would know that we would stand up for ourselves and that the police were watching, should they choose to do something rash.
A little bit after that, I decided to try to diffuse the situation and confront the parents. I would lay out everything I knew, all the intent, and everything I thought. If they didn’t want to accept the truth about their daughter, then there was nothing else I could do. But I would at least try. Unfortunately, Tina & Ron would have none of it. They wouldn’t talk to us, they wouldn’t deal with us. Ron pretty much came unglued when we made one last attempt. They had nothing but raw hatred for us, and they wouldn’t listen. That’s when I realized it was hopeless.
The police investigation was especially frightening. We cooperated as best we could. I provided my statement, but I was not satisfied with the officer who took it. He got most of the details wrong, and he left out intricacies that I’ve explained here. When I tried to get the report corrected, an officer at the desk said she was familiar with our case, and flat out refused to allow us to amend our statement. That was the beginning of the backlash. That it came from a police officer truly shook us.
The investigators asked both us and the Meiers to remain quiet about the issue while they conducted their work. They warned us of small town mob violence and undue media attention. We agreed and went on with our lives. We heard almost nothing for nearly nine months. Our lives seemed to be getting back to normal, despite the family down the street that still grieved visibly and had devolved into fights and separation. I truly felt bad for them. They lost their baby, and now they were tearing themselves apart because the pain wasn’t getting any better. I made sure to kiss and hug my Sarah every night and tell her how much I loved her. We actually grew closer from it.
Then the investigation was over. No charges would be filed. We were relieved. It felt like a weight had finally been lifted from us. But not so for Tina & Ron. They had focused their rage on us and blamed us for everything. I could understand their pain and their guilt, but I had had enough of their accusations. One day I did snap and told Tina to “give it a rest.” Looking back, it was insensitive to say. But, you have to understand that for months we had been dealing with a family that didn’t want to listen to our side of the story and only called for us to “be gone.” Like I said, my sympathy has limits.
After the investigation, Tina made it clear she wasn’t going to let this go. We weren’t sure what to expect, but we had grown to be dismissive of her and her incoherent ranting. Then came the newspaper article, which instantly painted us as hoaxers who were out to make Megan kill herself.
You see, this is why I now have an extreme distrust for any media: they paint the story in whatever way gets the most readers. Everyone from Pokin to Andersoon Cooper has painted this story as if we set out to destroy Megan, as if her suicide was a foregone conclusion of our actions. But it’s not. We didn’t know Megan was going to do what she did. If we knew it was going to end like that, I wouldn’t have started this whole thing. I had no intention for Megan to be so drastic. I wanted her to learn a lesson so she could be a better person. I didn’t want her to die.
Then Sarah Wells outed me. Then the hate and harassment and threats poured in. Even against my daughter. First there were dozens of calls, then hundreds, then there was national news, and everyone went crazy.
That’s why I started this blog and posted as “Kirsten.” I was so angry at the world for being so unfair, especially when it came to my daughter whom I had sworn to protect from all of this. I took a low blow at Megan’s memory because I desperately wanted the world to at least get a glimpse of the truth.
But that’s all over now. The final word from authorities has come down that there will be no charges, so I don’t have to remain silent. There’s no point in hiding anymore. The internet has made it clear that mob revenge must prevail, even if there’s no justice in it. So be it.
Here I am, internet. Come get me.
This is beyond description. I am disgusted that people like you even exist. You candy coat your obvious pathology, and now act like you’re the victim?! Its not mob revenge you’re dealing with, its legitimate outrage and disgust! You’re actually boasting that you and your daughter have bonded over the whole thing?! You are a textbook sociopath. May you reap what you’ve sewn.
Oh, what a sad, sad tale. That’s all it is… a mere fabrication. I am sure the last half is partially true, but somehow, I believe that Lori Drew took what she did and performed a clever spin. “Oh well, she did it first” does not fly, ma’am and neither do your heinous lies and hounding of a 13 year old to her death.
If you aren’t LD, you make an excellent case getting into her head. In the event you ever wander back to this site; here’s another response for you from another 40 something year old mother that managed to raise 2 boys alone through teenager hood.
It was not your place to give ANY 13 year old a ‘dose’ of her own medicine.
You SHOULD have taken the adult route and cut off your daughter’s dayum internet access which is what MOST of us reasonable and responsible parents would have done if you felt she was being unduly bothered and didn’t know how to handle herself and were concerned that this girl kept communicating with her via internet…NOBODY wins when this shat escalates…and eventually virtually all of it is forgotten by kids this age over time as they learn to fight their own battles…and they NEED to learn to fight their own battles…otherwise, you rob them of their OWN self esteem and initiative.
Your own actions to protect your daughter may be the very type of over controlling and manipulative behavior that are causing the very symptoms for which she was being picked on in the first place. I myself was an obese and depressed teenager and it has taken me YEARS to get my self-esteem back from my own mother who could not let me do ANYTHING without her well meaning but constant criticism and ‘showing’ me the ‘RIGHT’ way to do things…to this day I still cannot even load a dishwasher ‘right”’…she goes back and readjusts the positioning of the dishes…as well as pointing out to me repeatedly that I was getting too fat…children, teenagers, are not idiots. They don’t need YOU or any other adult to point out the most obvious things to them. They KNOW they are fat…they just don’t know how NOT to be. Unless you are asked and you have a reasonable and healthy solution, just shut up about it. Maybe you should look at yourself and see the role you are modeling for her instead of empowering her to see herself as a capable person.
You became involved in a teenage drama and literally exacerbated it. Feeling ‘entitled’ because your own daughter was being picked on and getting in the middle of it in such an underhanded way was simply…irresponsible, as well as supremely ignorant.
Teenagers DO talk about each other. It’s one thing for them to do it amongst themselves…and a totally different animal when another adult with years of experience in manipulating becomes deliberately involved with the sole intent of ‘teaching’ a 13 year old a lesson.
There is a limited amount of control any of us have over our own children let alone someone else’s. Children with special needs can be difficult…I should know…I have one. Not all of them are capable of having the social insight to see the error of their ways and some of them are clinically paranoid and ‘see’ things in the behavior of other people that are either not there or they magnify them in their own minds. You were dealing with an immature child that had some psychiatric issues. You ASSUMED that her parents were not adequately ‘disciplining’ her…it has not apparently occurred to you that her parents were doing the best THEY knew how to do….You should have been the adult in this situation; and not become the ”judge’ masquerading as another child in order to inflict a ‘lesson’ you felt you were otherwise unable to teach her and ‘needed’ to teach her. Go look a little closer at yourself in the mirror.
I don’t wish you to rot in hell.
I do, however, expect that G-d will deal with your heart and introduce a personal trial in your life such as Megan’s psychiatric issues with someone that YOU dearly love and feel utterly powerless to control…for a time…a long enough time, until you gain wisdom…so that you can see what it is like to be on the other side of the fence.
It’s called Karma.
WOW — you are a case! Don’t worry, God will take care of you a thousand times more than you could even fathom. Your reprehensible lack of remorse and now your admission that you created that horrendous meganhaditcoming website makes you an even more abhorrent witch. Between you and Ashley, do you tip the scales at 500? God help you if you ever say one more disgusting thing to the Meiers or about their daughter.
Not mob revenge. It’s moral outrage at YOU. The more your fat self speaks the more you display your filthy, black, lack of a soul. You should count your blessings that the Meiers have been gracious enough NOT to do physical harm to you or your family — incredible restraint on their part which you should acknowledge. Your poor, poor, poor daughter — to have such a misguided mother who has the GALL to respond the way you do to situations. How does all of this bounce off of you? Did you catch the name of this website — think about it! Luckily, I won’t see you there, nor will the majority of the normal decent people who are outraged at you.
Well, well, well … Isn’t that SOMEthing?
“…her parents showed their dark side and scared the holy hell out of me when they dumped our smashed foosball table on our driveway. Instantly I knew we were dealing with unbalanced people.”
Unbalanced? I think you’re damn lucky that’s all they did!! And for a middle aged woman who pretends to be a teenage boy to pry into her daughter’s social life, you have no right to call anybody “unbalanced”. Thank heavens for my mom who knew when to mind her own business and not make me a social outcast.
Wow! Just WOW! How does it feel to be the most hated Mommy in the United States? I pray the Meier family has the will to sue the living shit out of you, take everything you have left. And I hope that every where you go in that small town of yours, they spit near you. Because thats what you deserve Lori. And when Megan’s parents find out you admitted to the Meganhaditcoming blog, I hope they bitch slap you into eternity.
no way is lori drew dumb enough to post all that
civil cases are still possible and no one is that
stupid….be serious
Yeah, some pathetic loser wants us to think they are this ice hearted bitch? Woah, do you ever need attention. It’s worse than a Michael Jackson impersonator. I’m the “real” Lori……..what a fucking tool…
..to the REAL Lori (as if you would ever access this page)..:
Satan called, he wants his throne back.
Okay, I agree. Is Lori really THIS stupid to post before a civil suit?? ROTF!!! Better yet she admits to YET ANOTHER internet personality? Who is it? Kristen, Lori, Josh???? Do I detect multiple personalities or is she just clowning around again, that silly girl!
This gives a whole new meaning to the word sad. This bitch deserves to rot in hell along with her entire family!!! I remember what its like to be 13. Good for the commenters for displaying her phone numbers, these people deserve all the grief america can dish out. LORI DREW…..DO THE WORLD A FAVOR & KILL YOURSELF. Take you family with you. Even if you don’t….karma will have its way with you, I can guarantee this. You are a poor excuse for a human being. What a shame!!!!!!!!!!
How convenient to pass the buck onto “unnamed†teenagers, aka minors. You just knew when the Drews finally hired a lawyer adept in playing America’s favorite pastime, i.e. the Spin Game, that there was going to be some concerted effort to pass the buck and shift blame elsewhere. Classic America 2007.
However, the initial police report filed by Lori Drew will stand in perpetuity as testament to her duplicitousness and in sharp contrast to the web of spin currently being woven by her lawyer. Don’t be fooled.
why would “k weber” post as wanting information on the vigil and shit then all of a sudden turn into Lori Drew. WTF???
Well, after reading your post here Lori Drew, I must say its very sad that the authorities have not yet found anything to charge you with. What a rambling and moronic post. The fact remains you were supposedly the adult in this situation and your actions during the entire episode were and continue to be, at best, juvenile. Your immature and adolescent actions cost a young girl her life.
I have great hopes that someone, somewhere, will find a way to hold you responsible for your actions. You obviously do not have the capacity to show any remorse. You should hide yourself in shame.
I heard there is a problem with the Meier’s driving on the lawn of the Drew’s?
TOO BAD to the DREW’S
Lori Dew,
You are without doubt one of the least mature people ever to be allowed to procreate.
I have read the part of the police report that is posted here and if what she says in the report is true, her attorney is nuts. He is a member of the court and is not supposed to lie about the family. If what the lawyer is saying is really the truth, Lori Drew is guilty of filing a false police report. I know it is not much, especially since she deserves soooo much more, but it would be something. Then the civil suit comes and they are wiped off of the city rolls completely. They will be shunned in any town they try to start over in. If we keep the memory of Megan alive, the guilt will follow them for the rest of their lives and their families lives forever. We will never forget Megan or Lori Drew.
oh lord you guys,I AM NOT LORI DREW? i am just fowarding info to those who care, I live less than 2 block from the situation so it hit me close to home, Lori Drew will pay one day and I am certinally NOT her!
Drew and her family getting off easy does suck but on the better side….after many calls Her business is closed. Her husband was fired – allegedly because of the Meier suicide. The dear daughter, Sarah – accused by the attorney of doing all the dirty work has not one freind and was pulled from the local public school. And poor poor Lori. Her community/prior friends/co-workers/neighbors/the world won’t talk to her. Boofrickenhoo. Court of public opinion sure can be tough, can’t it. Burn Lori Burn, and bring anyone that helped you with you…..
Back in the good ol days Americans would take the law into their own hands when the laws of the land failed to protect them. They called it lynching* (* putting a person to death by mob action without due process of law, http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=lynching).
Nuff said
they could still lynch her. there’s enough people who would like to see her dead I’m sure that there’d be too many suspects to even pursue it.
Dont lynch her….let her live! i’m sure she will be begging to go to jail! atleast there she will be safe….at the moment she will constantly be looking behind her back, ever her shoulder! Dying would be the easy way out for her… yyeah she would go to hell! but now she has to live hell on earth and still going to spend eternity in hell too!!!!!!!
I’m glad to hear that Sarah Drew has no friends any more. Perhaps it will make her wake up and see what a psychopath her mother is, and when she’s old enough, Sarah will walk away and never look back.
It’s just a pity that Lori still has no remorse and thinks that SHE is the victim here. What a waste of oxygen this woman is. Stalking, preying on, and emotionally abusing a child to death. Poor Lori, boohoo, how awful that people find your behavior vile.
Let’s hope the Drews end up as financially bankrupt as they are morally bankrupt.
What goes around comes around, Lori Drew.
David (on November 19th, 2007 1:22 pm), you’re RIGHT ON the money!!!!
The person I feel bad for, besides the Meier family is Curt Drew. He had nothing to do with this. It was his brat-ass kid and dumbass wife. Now this guy’s life is ruined and he probably didn’t even know why until it was way too late.
I will though say I think her blog meganhaditcoming (if it is infact her) says a lot about Lori Drew though. If you look at the November postings, she’s still pretending to be a teenager even after all of this. You would have thought she would have learned.
THIS IS REALLY SAD….WHAT A LOSER THIS LORI DREW IS!!!! SHE DESERVES SERVE PUNISHMENT!!!
POOR MEGAN,SHE WAS SO YOUNG,AND ATTRACTIVE…MY BEST FRIEND KILLED HIMSELF THE SAME WAY,AND I KNOW HOW HEARTBREAKING THIS IS…MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO HER FAMILY…
The mother who pretended to be the boy should do jail time. This also shows her lack of maturity and ability to mother her own children. Nobody deserves hell and can be forgiven. However, I have yet to see this woman ask for forgiveness for the hateful things she did to this young girl. She is responsible for this child’s death. She should spend the rest of her life in jail. Shelly
I have a question. If an adult talked to a child in a sexual manner online there should be a law against that at the very least. Is this woman not guilty of being a sexual predator at the very least? Does your state have any laws regarding sexual behavior towards minors? shelly
“”David on November 19th, 2007 2:04 pm And who am I , I own my own business,with a 6 figure income, have three cars, a nice house, and great family, I think I can give advice to anyone.”"
Whats the go David?? You think you all that? Did your wife walk out on yah? Step-daughter, what happen to daughter? Oh wait a sec, perhaps you douchebag another lady and brokeup their family. What ever the reason, good for you.
You think you check on your step-daughter’s computer makes you think you know everything, well, good luck. You might have access to her computer, but you wont know what she talks about while you’re not around.
So stop trying to be a hero like you know everything, otherwise you would have been the world’s riches man and not a sorry sob like one of us.
your brother from another mother.
I’m amazed about this case; Ldrew – you are a wierd unit!! Very happy also to get the link to this blog in one of our major online papers! This story is getting a fair bit of air play over here. Bravo to Jacob & Kaiser very nice take down of David, well done to the others as well who took a swipe at our 6 figure man!
To that other peanut who said that nothing gets done by all this talking and that its harder to take a swipe at someone in real life – a forum exposing all the phone numbers of clients makes it possible for financial attack – one post advised a client is no longer advertising, others say the publication has been cancelled and the old man lost his job – is that nothing getting done? Anyway good form – bit dissappointed in the lack of criminal charges though, she does deserve all kinds of pain and less krispy kremes.
As you’ve probably have guessed, coming in at the number one spot on YAHOO, GOOGLE and PYSIH this week was your best friend and mine -THE MOST HATED PERSON IN AMERICA AND NOW GOING INTERNATIONAL—- Lori Drew. Lori Drew, is the one, the most hated women in America at the moment, she posed as a “cute†16-year-old boy on MySpace, fostered an intimate internet relationship with a 13-year-old ex-friend of her own daughter, and drove the girl to suicide. Lots and lots of Tons of people came to read about just how horrible a person Lori Drew is. I’m sure she’ll be the most popular evil person on PYSIH.com for quite some time.
Hey Lori, The internet that you played wrong with has came back to bite you. R.I.P. Megan..
I think that LORI DREW will be forever looking over her shoulder.She has shown NO REMORSE and at least should cop a MANSLAUGHTER 1 charge.I do not beleive that LAWYER of hers for one minute.He was never there.Is busy constructing a case based on heresay banter from LORI DREW.I doubt it’s credibility and his ability to sell this Rubbish to a public that he obviously thinks are gullible to buy it.
I think the Prosecutor is a spineless man with no backbone or lazy or both.If there is no substance in this then why are they legilating to make this an offence.He should be sacked because he obviously has no heart.
It was obviously a Conspiriacy and LORI DREW should be charged with abetting the delinquincy of a Minor at least.They have blood on their hands and I beleive they willnever ever find peace.
Interesting to know that her hate rate is running at 97% which is more than some of the most revieled criminals.
What respect should anyone show in the Constitution or credibility of the American Judicial System.They bent the rules at Guantanemo Bay and lost me that very minute.
It is one set of rules for the poor and the Black and another set for the DREWS and the rich.
I hope they never find peace.Well may we say GOD BLESS AMERICA ,because no one will bless LORI DREW.
Is it that surprising how hated she is? We tend to hate people who hurt children more than those who hurt adults, and we hate those who commit a crime purely out of spite than those who do it for gain.
A pedophile is a despicable creature because he hurts children for his own pleasure. Lori Drew is even worse because she does it for the sake of hurting the child.
Anyone have any idea if any of this is really true?
Seems like a load of trash to me.
WoW…this is the first I’ve heard of this story! I am at a lost for words, speechless, saddened, and appalled all the same! I have no clue as to whether Lori Drew is liable in any way for Megan’s death in legal terms; but I do believe in kharma and she will get whats coming to her.
Megan was only thirteen for Christ’s sake…what a beautiful girl!
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Lori will go to hell. Say Hi to Satan when you get there…..
I guess I wanted to be like everyone else, and call the hounds of hell on Lori Drew…but then, I realized that in doing so, I would become like Lori Drew. I would become a sour, meddling parent, whose life revolved around their kid’s drama. I did that once, not like lori did it, but I thought I could help my son by giving advice to his girlfreind at the time…what a mistake that was…lesson learned, nobody died or got hurt, at least not too much emotionally…
What Lori did was despicable, because she was a grown woman, with the insight and experience of a grown woman. Megan Meier was a 13 year old, with not only the normal teenage drama and angst of a “new” teen, but the additional psychological issues as well. Lori Drew knew this…as well as probably knowing the excitement of a girl who opens her heart to “love” for the first time. How exciting it can be, how painful it can be when it cools. What went over the top in my opinion, was that not only did that “first love” cool, it bacame ugly and angry, all this in the early teenage stage, and all this to a girl with self esteem issues, and issues of depression. It proved too much for her, and a truly caring adult would not have put her in this position…
And that is where I think WE need to tread carefully…because, while “snot-slapping” Lori Drew, adult to adult, is at least a fair fight…going after her daughter might not be such a good idea. Why? Because Sarah Drew was following her mother’s example…Sarah Drew was listening to her mom, because she trusted her mom…trusted her to protect her, and trusted her to do the right thing. As adults, we need to handle the adults, and let the kids handle themselves…it is part of growing up…
I couldn’t send Lori Drew to hell…because it would be better for her to live a long life, and see the bitterness in her daughter, knowing that she put it there with her stupidity…
This is a horrible tragedy, however it’s not making it any easier for anyone with the amount of comments suggesting revenge. Everyone needs to get on with their lives. From reading some of those posts I can see what a horrible thing was done and my heart goes out to the families involved RIP Megan
I heard Lori Drew is hiding in a cave on the mountainous border between Afghanistan and Pakistan. Don’t know where they found a burqua that big but she’s in good company now.
I think the whole story is fucked up, lori drew is an idote for getting into her kid’s business, if you dont like what somebody is saying to you just walk away be the bigger man in this sitaution. the parent should of explained this to the daughter or have a simply sit down with megan’s parents discuss things and if nothing resolves try to take legal action fighting fire with fire does not always resolve things. I would have expected more form a parent, to be more responsible and to teach their kids the right thing to do in life’s problems. Lori Drew is to blame and she does deserve to be forced out of that community and sent off into the world, but then yet again this incident could happen agin to another family. Maybe its best to keep the virus in close quaters keep it from destroying other people’s lives.
I think Lori has been judged unfairly. Sounds like a loving, caring mother.
i’m pretty sure most people here earn 6 figures. that decimal point is a real bitch, though.
Hector on December 7th, 2007 12:09 pm
Your post was very well said!
I could not have said it better.
I believe Lori Drew did wrong she did what she did out of revenge and that is an evil word.
Yes when someone hurts our children we want to strike back but at a weak child? Usually both parties are not as innocent as they may seem and I believe Lori Drew’s daughter was not as innocent as Lori makes her out to be. Both girls probably did mean and hateful things to each other.
Now Megan’s parents yes they should have paid more attention to what their daughter was doing online. Escpecially if they knew she was weak and depressed.
As a parent I went to my children’s email account went back thru their history to see what sites they went on, and some say well you don’t trust your child. It not just that you can’t trust others on the internet.
There should be laws in place for things like this.
Hopefully Megan’s family can do something in her honor to get a law in place.
Maybe us on this site can help her.
For an adult to act as she did and not even feel guilty about it or say SORRY.
And I don’t want to hear that same old story my lawyer told me not to say it………..BS!
A little girl died!
If you don’t feel guilty and teach her daughter that what she did was wrong yes one day it will come back to bit her in the butt!
TO THE REST OF YOU WITH TEENS THIS IS A WAKE UP CALL! WATCH YOUR TEENS, AND PAY ATTENTION TO THE SITES THEY VISIT, THE IM’S THEY GET, THEIR EMAIL, ETC.
And if they have a myspace site get that site yourself and pay attention to what is going on, on that site.
There are ways to trace where they have been, get the tools and trace where they have been on the internet and watch them carefully!
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH MEGAN’S FAMILY , AND FRIENDS, AND THE NEIGHBOORS WHO KNEW MEGAN AND LOVED HER.
GOD BLESS
Carlie on December 8th, 2007 3:03 am I think Lori has been judged unfairly. Sounds like a loving, caring mother.
LMAO
You must be either Lori Drew herself or realted to her.
She is not a loving caring mother she is an evil woman who is very immature, very stupid, and evil!
She might care about her daughter but she is not doing the best job being a good ROLE MODEL for her daughter!
she has to be one of the worse rold models I have seen!
Shelly on December 6th, 2007 5:04 pm I have a question. If an adult talked to a child in a sexual manner online there should be a law against that at the very least. Is this woman not guilty of being a sexual predator at the very least? Does your state have any laws regarding sexual behavior towards minors? shelly
I GUESS THE COPS OUT THERE DON’T PRESS CHARGES AGAINST ONLINE PREDATORS!
[...] like a good ol’-fashioned shunning, [...]
This kind of thing… it’s bullying when kids do it to each other and there is (thankfully) a growing awareness of the unacceptableness of bullying and many schools now have anti-bullying policies that they enforce… So when an adult does it to a child..? How can it not be seen as a gross abuse of power? How could the woman herself not anticipate the possible consequences? This whole thing is horrific. 10,000 hours of community service would be a start.
yes…and instead she gets nothing…not justice at all!!
did you ever get your lori drew pictures? minger.net/2007/11/22/pictures-of-lori-drew/
admin – Yep! Got them a while back, thank you.
So is there anyway to still contact Lorie? This lady will definetly rott in hell. All around it’s a really sad story, but im sure justice will be coming soon for the Meier’s family. Slowly but surely.
Becky – unfortunately you are RIGHT!! Law enforcement does NOTHING about online predators, unless they’re a pedophile. Nothing.
We are really sick of the horrible and disgusting way the law has dealt with this and how now they & the media are DEFENDING poor poor Lori Drew. The story and her attorney’s statements keep trying to rewrite history. Something we talk about on our site as the internet addicted & personality disordered do all the time. You know, bending the time-space continuum to play victim!
Frankly, all one needs to do is go back to The Smoking Gun and re-read Lori Drew’s initial statements to police. It’s all there – but we guess Jack Banas and company can’t read well. Or are willfully ignoring the facts.
Danny Vice hit it on the head. MO Law officials want this to go away before the next election cycle. It shows, EOPC has said time & again, the major failings of the law when it comes to internet predation. The victims from our site will tell you, law enforcement does NOTHING or says “there’s nothing we can do.” For example, Nikki Catsouras’ family probably got the same bum’s rush from law enforcement in Orange County – particularly now that the Cal. Highway Patrol said in its press release it’s “not responsible.” Heck yes it is!
A sociopath can fool anyone. Any time. And behind a keyboard, they feel invincible and totally anonymous about carrying out their sickness at the expense of others.
Here’s just three of our stories of how this can happen to anyone:
We have a number of victims on our site – looking for help or justice with their online predator or sociopath.
1. Victim JT. One of the many wives of Nathan Thomas – Thomas is a serial bigamist and sex addict who meets his victims online (inocuous sites like single parents). Once he’s convinced them he’s ok, profiles and grooms them – he regales them with FALSE stories of being with the CIA and covert missions in Iraq. All lies. JT finally found out what he was via our site (another of his victims outed him a couple years ago) and the detectives in Vancouver are now telling her SHE has to do all the legwork to charge him with bigamy and fraud and sue him for annulment of their marriage.
JT is a single mom now, struggling to make ends meet and can’t find a lawyer to take her case or anyone to help her because she’s too broke. Thomas knew this and has even called to threaten her not to take action. She’s pressing forward but its almost impossible. Media attention could bring her nightmare to an end. She is getting counseling for PTSD.
Thomas – On the Run
2. TM. This single, disabled mom was preyed on by a man she knew from college – 30 years ago. He is married, well known in his community, was the former publisher of a well known children’s magazine and former marketing director of a famous entertainment company. He had a seemingly spotless reputation. Once he restarted their relationship, knowing she was severely depressed and being badly abused by her ex-husband – he seduced her into an online affair, knowing she wouldn’t question his agenda. He sent a homemade porn video to one of her friends – who sent it to the FBI – FBI did NOTHING (we have a copy) He also got her to give up the names of her female friends, under the guise of “we are friends” & he wanted to get to know her other friends. This predator tried to start actual physical affairs with at least 2 of them. Once TM found out about him from other women he threaten her children. TM went to NYPD. After some investigation, it was found this man was not only up to his neck in online porn & phone sex activities but , he was a long-time client of former NYC Midtown Madame, Julie Moya. Information turned over on him was used partly to arrest Moya and shut down her Julie NYC brothel. (do a search on “Julie Moya” – you will find it.)
The man was NEVER CHARGED by police with the many counts of soliciting they KNEW aboutand is walking around free as a bird – still working for a family publisher in Midtown. He has blamed her for every negative thing that’s happened to him since (probably all done by other victims of his!) and has run an & offline smear campaign on this disabled, single mom – knowing she has no money to fight him. (we got some of the posts on his hate site taken down because they violated our copyright 0 we don’t know if she did anything or was even able to) She was hospitalized for the trauma after it all and is still in counseling. By the way, he is also a political blogger using a false name and new online nickname as well.
TM’s story
Update on TM’s story and her cyberpath’s abuse of FREE SPEECH
3. RM – was involved with a man she knew from her church during a separation from her husband. Had no reason not to trust him. Found out later he was an online predator. Caught a serious STD from him and is still being treated for medical issues, on her own dime. After confronting him and coming clean to her husband she then exposed him. – the man sued her for “ruining his reputation” and blamed her for his “band” disbanding. She had no money to fight him and his unscrupulous lawyer.
This man also had her husband thrown in jail and despite settling with her – is continuing to harass her via the legal system. We have heard from 3 other women this man has preyed on this way – including a possible illegitimate child. Now that he’s sued “RM” – all his other victims are scared to come forward.
RM’s Story
This is one of the reasons we run our site. To help people like Megan’s family and these women find some degree of justice. To know they were emotionally raped, blamed by the media and public, manipulated by a predator and traumatized is hard. All of them deal with varying degrees of PTSD.
This deplorable lack of response by law enforcement & officials just empowers others to go out to use and abuse via the internet. All the laws in the world don’t mean a thing when law enforcement refuses to enforce them.
Now let’s see what happens to MHIC. Let’s see if it goes beyond the “uh… we’re investigating” phase. Complaints have been made to federal & state as well as ISPs and guess what? There they sit, hiding behind “free speech.”
MHIC falls squarely into the pervue Communications Decency Act of 1996. So does Lori Drew’s behavior. So does the behavior of California Highway Patrol and death scene ghouls towards Nikki Catsouras’ family.
Law enforcement’s response in Missouri? Unacceptable. Law enforcement’s law of response to all these things? Deplorable. Media’s cover up and “sympathy for the devil”? Typical.
Lori Drew was very wrong for what she did.It was very juvenile and immature,and she should have “making a young girl life miserable” on her conscious for the rest of her life,but the way it was played in the media…they made it seem as if she was the direct cause of the suicide.Lori might have been the reason for Meagan feeling down,depressed and not agreeing with her parents,because she felt as if they were not supporting her.The parents described arguing with her right before she went upstairs to hang herself.I think that the parents are actually more to blame for directly triggering the actual suicide.
Well, I hate soccer moms, so I would’ve already loathed this bitch before her actions. But since her evile is so magnanimous, she goes beyond the detestable soccer mom identity and has ascended to Soccer Murder Mom. Fear not, people, she will burn in hell. I don’t have kids, but if I did they would not be allowed on the internet. I hear about these crazy news stories involving internet mishaps, and really guys, don’t let your kids on the internet.
I AM Big MiMi
daverich—did the parents pretend to be a boy who liked her?NO…did her parents harrass her?NO…so ho is it more her parents fault and less lori’s fault???
lori drew is a phyco bitch and needs to burn in hell
“I expected a certain amount of bullying, and I was OK with it.” (bullying of your daughter was not ok, but instead of teaching her how to cope with it, you teach her how to be crazy/psychotic?
Need I say more?
Um, yes, I do.
You were ‘terrified’ because the girl you helped push over the edge’s parents busted up your foosball game and left it on your lawn?
Even though you had essentially busted up their family and pushed their daughter to suicide?
Terrified? I am not buying it.
Whether or not you want to pretend you are not complicit in this child’s death, you certainly are guilty of many things.
Like being a shit-assed poor example for your daughter. For not being an adult and dealing with any of it in a mature manner. Of selfishly only thinking of yourself. Your child was bullied? Well, boo hoo. Your child is not dead because of bullying. You are not a victim in this and you need to get some serious counseling and parenting classes.
I have known people like you, and I do not buy your story that you (as Josh) backed off when the girl wrote about personal feelings/sexual feelings. In fact, I believe that you encouraged it, and then in order to humiliate the girl more, you were responsible for conveying that information to other people. And, no doubt relished it. We all know someone like you. That’s why so many people are able to imagine that not only did you engage in inappropriate talk with this teen, but that you most likely also ‘upped the game’ in order to get her to reveal even more salacious/embarrassing info. The fact that supposedly ‘Josh’s’ final message was that the girl was a slut kind of lends credence to you prying for personal info to embarrass her.
If your convenient little story about how it was actually YOUR daughter who was bullied before you made the bad decision to not act like an adult, then you’d probably have no problem posting info the dead girl wrote about your daughter, as well as posting the entire sequence of communication you started while posing as a boy that at the beginning was actually nice to her. Post all of the writings between you, your consorts, and the girl.
Oh, let me guess…. you can’t. Not because it would disprove your twisted story, but because of ‘legal isssues’ and all that crap, right?
If you are not willing to post writings that you, yourself made to this girl, then you are just a gossip, and a liar, and no better than someone like me, who might claim that your daughter is an ugly, vindictive slut with a mean streak, with a psychotic mother who is an adolescent herself, and who would stop at no means in order to childishly ‘pay back’ what was being said about her nasty daughter.
In fact, I’d like to see the message where ‘Josh’ asks her what she thinks of her friend’s trash mother. I’m going to guess her reply was that you are a nasty, ugly, mean *unt.
My oldest boy has had an on/off friendship with a boy that is a sneaky, mean bully. He bullies when he thinks nobody will know. I am obviously biased, but my child is more attractive and more well-liked than this child. His bullying consisted of telling my child that he was better at everything than him. Even better at art, music and writing, when I am actually an artist, musician and writer. And I could tell the difference. What did I do? I forbade him to have any friend that was mean and negative. Yes, he complained, but I am the parent, and I enforced it.
I spoke with his parents, but they were not interested.
Two years later, just recently, this child located my child on an internet game called runescape, and he began his bullying again, ordering my son to give him online money and eq. When I found out about it, I personally sent the boy a message from the gamesite telling him that I was ‘G’s mother, and that I monitor all of his computer usage, and that I would not tolerate what he was doing.
Did I make up a fake website to ‘deal’ with my son being bullied? No. Did I try to write to him to get nasty details about his life or feelings so that I could publicly humiliate him? No. I dealt with it in an adult manner. And no doubt will have to continue to do so, as bullys rarely stop.
My son has not been happy about this sometimes, as he really does like almost everyone, and didn’t like being kept from being friends with this boy. But, since I love my son, I’ve had no problem enforcing the separation. My son is not an adult, and it is my responsibility to keep him away from people who could harm him, even if he disagrees. It’s called ‘being a parent’.
You should try that sometime. If you had, maybe this child would not be dead.
Lori- your 15 minutes of fame (or is it infamy?} is over. Give the microphone back.
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Lori is clearly hot to trot. Fat as fuck, ugly as a hat full of busted assholes and a world famous teenage girl murderer to boot. Oh yeah, not to mention completely batshit insane.
Get in there my son, give her one for me.
As the list of comments shows, there really are a lot of twisted people out there, Lori being one of them.
Revenge is *so* easy. But do try to make the hard choice and do your best to prevent something similar from happening again. To do this, you must try to understand (not accept) what made the Lori act as she did.
Go for a run, have sex, or do something else that allows you to let the frustration go. Then, take constructive action.
Good advice.
Next time your girlfriend boffs your best friend, take the time to ‘understand’ them, instead of just kicking them to the curb.
Maybe if the Drew Troll had gone for a run once in a while, her hubby would have wanted to have sex with her, and she’d have been too busy to mess with some teenager’s life.
And further, perhaps if Drew Troll had taken some constructive action in dealing with her own child’s petty teenaged ‘problems’, there’d be one less dead teen to be talking about.
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“As the list of comments shows, there really are a lot of twisted people out there, Lori being one of them.
Revenge is *so* easy. But do try to make the hard choice and do your best to prevent something similar from happening again.”
couldn’t agree more.
to the people who posted lori’s personal contact information; you are not much better than her! an eye for an eye just leaves everyone blind.
grow up, and apply that energy someplace where it’s better deserved.
Since I have a christian background I kinda have a more unique and detailed perspective on “hell” and frankly I wouldn’t wish it on anyone (save maybe the truest monsters of humanity like Hitler, Stalin, Pol Pot, the guys who captained slave ships, etc). That being said, the bitch definitely deserves to go to prison for a while and then be anal raped in civil court.
Daverich
? shut up. dip shit
[...] favorite mom, Lori Drew, who evaded any legal entanglements in her home state of Missouri, might have to deal with federal [...]
Wow that’s great you gave their phone numbers. They will never be able to hide even if they change them or get them unlisted. You can pay 70 dollars for that crap right of the internet now. Well we can all just hope Lori jumps off a building but I think someone should just put her out of her misery. Why wait. Also really good point about her soliciting or priming a child for a sexual encounter. Right now they are saying oh this is unprecedented and they don’t know how to prosecute this case blah blah blah blah. Right there is the perfect prosecution. She is an adult who admitted to having sexual talk with a minor under a false identity. What the FR$%#$% Bingo there is your prosecution she’s a registered sex offender for life, her children can no longer be around her because of that and she hopefully kills herself before she can do jail time. A perfect ending.
1. That’s not the Lori Drew involved in this case. That is a completely different person
2. Despite what the site administrators would ahve you believe, Lori Drew is NOT responsible for “Megan Had it Coming” blog
I really wish the site administrator would check his/her facts. It really loses credibility when so many errors are made.
admin – the picture was taken down as soon as it was verified that it wasn’t her, and as soon as errors are brought to our attention, we verify and fix them ASAP. As for the meganhaditcoming blog, notes have been made on those posts that Lori probably wasn’t responsible for them.
As for credibility, why are you looking for hard facts from a site called “People You’ll See In Hell?”
Rumor has it that Lori has opened up another publishing magazine with a close friend or family member. All of the graphics designs will be done by VALDEZ DESIGNS.
There is another magazine that is trying to replace Lori’s called St. Charles County Hometown Values which is legitimate, and they are actually donating money EVERY publication to the Megan Meier foundation. This is the magazine people should use for advertisement. They are donating money to a worthy cause.
Don’t be fooled by another named Lori is trying to hide behind.
Kudos to the St. Charles County Hometown Values!
Valdez Designs huh? we’ll see how long it takes for them to go under.
I recently was looking at homes in the area and came across this story. I am curious why nobody has blamed the medications (SSI are known for irradic behavior).
Even though I feel like the community got together for a cause I also feel like if this is an indicator of the types of kids in the Ft. Z school district then maybe I need to stay clear of these type of people who seem cruel not only to the victim but having the character and the morals to victimize children who were 13 and made a mistake by being wrapped up in this.
I can’t tell if this is a good community of bad if these children are indicators.
Why aren’t charges of sexual predator, mlicous assult to a disable child under 14 y.o not charged to this cunning and evil women who maliciously is responsible for the suicide of this disabled child.
Why aren’t charges of sexual predator, malicous assult to a disable child under 14 y.o not charged to this cunning and evil women who maliciously are responsible for the suicide of this disabled child.
Well young girls are always been predated by sexually hungry men and it continues whether they go to hell or heaven
L.A. grand jury issues subpoenas in Web suicide case
In a novel approach, prosecutors are looking at charging a woman who posed as a boy and sent cruel messages to teen with defrauding MySpace.
By Scott Glover and P.J. Huffstutter, Los Angeles Times Staff Writers
January 9, 2008
A federal grand jury in Los Angeles has begun issuing subpoenas in the case of a Missouri teenager who hanged herself after being rejected by the person she thought was a 16-year-old boy she met on MySpace, sources told The Times.
The case set off a national furor when it was revealed that the “boyfriend” was really a neighbor who was the mother of one of the girl’s former friends.
Local and federal authorities in Missouri looked into the circumstances surrounding 13-year-old Megan Meier’s 2006 death in the town of Dardenne Prairie, an upper-middle-class enclave of about 7,400 people, located northwest of St. Louis.
But after months of investigation, no charges were filed against Lori Drew for her alleged role in the hoax. Prosecutors in Missouri said they were unable to find a statute under which to pursue a criminal case.
Prosecutors in the U.S. attorney’s office in Los Angeles, however, are exploring the possibility of charging Drew with defrauding the MySpace social networking website by allegedly creating the false account, according to the sources, who insisted on anonymity because they are not authorized to speak publicly about the case.
The sources said prosecutors are looking at federal wire fraud and cyber fraud statutes as they consider the case. Prosecutors believe they have jurisdiction because MySpace is headquartered in Beverly Hills, the sources said.
It’s still unclear who created the fictitious account. In a police report, Drew told authorities she, with the aid of a temporary employee, “instigated and monitored” a fake profile prior to Megan’s suicide, “for the sole purpose of communicating” with the girl and to see what the girl was saying about Drew’s daughter.
The grand jury issued several subpoenas last week, including one to MySpace and others to “witnesses in the case,” sources said. One source did not know who else had received subpoenas; the other declined to provide that information.
Thomas P. O’Brien, the U.S. attorney in Los Angeles, declined to comment. Thom Mrozek, a spokesman for O’Brien, also declined to comment.
MySpace officials could not be reached for comment, nor could Drew or her husband, Curt, be reached.
Attorney Jim Briscoe, who represents Lori Drew, said: “We have no knowledge of . . . anything dealing with a grand jury anywhere dealing with this case. . . . The only comment I have is we can’t comment on rumors from anonymous sources.”
The news came as a shock to Tina and Ron Meier, Megan’s parents. Both said they were unaware of the grand jury and had not been contacted by the U.S. attorney’s office in Los Angeles.
“If MySpace is considered the victim, fine. I don’t care at this point,” said Tina Meier, 37. “We’ve been begging for someone — anyone — to pick up this case. If the Drews can be charged — and even get the chance to be convicted — it would be a day I could be happy with.”
Cyber-bullying has become an increasingly creepy reality, with the anonymity of video games, message boards and other online forums offering an outlet for cruel taunts.
Former federal prosecutor Brian C. Lysaght said such a prosecution would be “not as much of a reach as it might appear at first glance.” In recent years, he said, Congress has passed a series of statutes that make criminal conduct involving the Internet federal offenses.
Still, it could be difficult to draw the line between constitutionally protected free speech and conduct that is illegal.
Laurie Levenson, a professor at Loyola Law School in Los Angeles, said the idea of using a fraud charge to tackle the unusual case was “an interesting and novel approach.”
“But I doubt it’s really going to lead to the type of punishment people really want to see, which is this woman being held responsible for this girl’s death,” she said.
Levenson, a former federal prosecutor, said that if the grand jury brings an indictment, it could raise 1st Amendment issues and questions about how to fairly enforce such a law on the Internet, where pseudo-identities are common.
“This may be a net that catches a lot of people,” she said.
Kurt Opsahl, a senior staff attorney who specializes in privacy and free speech issues for the legal advocacy group Electronic Frontier Foundation, said the potential of this case to set legal precedent criminalizing online speech is worrying.
“The right to speak freely online is hugely important. Whistle-blowers create pseudonyms,” Opsahl said. “So do many people who anonymously report on corporate or government bad practices.”
In the neighborhood where the Meiers and the Drews live, protecting the 1st Amendment has not been the main concern.
Teenagers and furious neighbors have protested in front of the Drews’ one-story, white house. Virtual vigilantes have posted the Drews’ home address, phone numbers, e-mail addresses and photos on websites such as RottenNeighbor.com.
Tina and Ron Meier, high school sweethearts, have struggled to deal with their daughter’s death; the couple is getting divorced. Their youngest daughter, Allison, now 11, splits her time between the two.
The mounting tension and heated emotions worried community leaders enough that they are having the St. Charles County Sheriff’s Department regularly patrol the suburban neighborhood. Late last year, Dardenne Prairie’s Board of Aldermen passed a law that makes cyber harassment a misdemeanor — with a maximum penalty of 90 days in jail or a $500 fine or both for each violation.
A number of area communities have passed similar measures. And Missouri Gov. Matt Blunt pulled together an Internet task force, which put the final touches on a proposal Tuesday that would make it a felony crime for adults who use online technology to harass children.
scott.glover@latimes.com
p.j.huffstutter@latimes.com
Times staff writers Molly Hennessy-Fiske and Ted Rohrlich contributed to this report.
i have a lori drew in my life but their native americans a mom and daughter i wish they would let up and get a life and let me find a ssbbw!!!
the mom works at a school and the behaviour in oregon chat room 1 and phone chat represents the mom,daughter and the school.
this could be the behaviour that killed that girl at the native american school in Salem Oregon.
I’m at a loss. I have a 12-year-old daughter and I could never imagine doing this to anybody her age. I can’t get past knowing how it feels to have someone be mean to you and hurt your feelings like that. I was a pretty unattractive teenager and it is awful to have people point out your deficiencies. There were times when I didn’t want to be on this earth any more, too. I have tried to teach my daughter to have empathy for less fortunate children and so far she’s done pretty well at befriending children that others ignore or belittle. She defends them to her other friends and is nice to them when some of the others aren’t. I have impressed on her the hurt that comes from being snubbed because your clothes aren’t like everyone else’s or your hair isn’t as pretty or you have braces or glasses or not quite the right kind of shoes or your family has no money and doesn’t live in a big expensive house. I believe more people should try to teach their children not to be so damn mean. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t but you still have to try.
Here’s a guy who loves Lori Drew
Daniel Barber
347-406-4357
the native american lori drew is seen as a person that gets on on being cruel this took place at safeway by one of her own trolls that turn back to being human theres no doubt she will be the talk of the town for a very long time they can stop me from phone chat and oregon chat room one on yahoo but they cant stop who they dont know .. oh yeah thanks again dominick now the trolls wont know whos eyes are on them oh yeah gess what i recorded their bogus calls that they made to the man.
the troll that turn back into being human had the look on her face as if “i can believe she had me acting like that she used me as her way of getting off!!!”
Lori Drew is pure evil.
hey native american lori keep up the good work,your playing hero and the way you chat in the phone chat rooms and on yahoo oregon chat rooms dont match!!! ..it makes you look like a flake that gets off on useing and talking people into things does the native american bbw cps worker get off the same way you do???
haha, good stuff posting phone numbers
the native american lori mom is sure to shake a hand and make a friend then put her ear to the wall,i wonder if they got my landlord acting like them? i already know the bald guy that is shape like a pear at safeway is soup’d up after the native lori put a download in his head.
hey bus driver how much lori do you got in you? oh you use to have some in you ..then you seen how they hound and want to know whats behind they way they act”it all started when i moved next door to the native american lori drew..”
wait dee….lori had a penis?
I don’t think that Laurie Drew meant to cause the suicide. But it is obvious the bitch needs some psychiatric help. And judging from her pics she needs to call jenny.
Yes she did, but Jenny would not want her as a client!
To all who are calling that phone number listed for Lori Drew, ITS NOT HER NUMBER ANYMORE!!….YOU ARE NOW HARRASSING AN INNOCENT PERSON WHO JUST HAPPENED TO PICK A NEW PHONE NUMBER FOR HERSELF A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO. THAT IS NO LONGER LORI DREWS PHONE NUMBER!! I JUST GOT THE PHONE NUMBER BECAUSE I WAS BEING HARRASSED BY A CRAZY BABY MAMA PLAYING ON MY PHONE, I AM NOT LORI DREW! DID YOU HONESTLY THINK THAT LORI DREW WOULD KEEP THE SAME NUMBER!!! PLS STOP CALLING ME AND TEXTING ME WITH THIS MESS. I AM JUST AS OUTRAGED AS THE NEXT PERSON BUT I AM NOT LORI DREW SO PLEASE STOP CALLING ME!!!
TO ALL YOU SMART WHO KEEP CALLING AND TEXTING THE WRONG PERSON (ME) THIS IS MY LAST WARNING. YOU ARE HARRASSING AN INNOCENT PERSON (ME), AND YOU ARE VIOLATING MY FREEDOMS AND PEACE BY EXCERCISING YOUR FREEDOMS (OF SPEECH), HOWEVER FROM THIS DAY FORWARD, I HOPE YOU SMART PEOPLE COVER YOUR TRACKS REALLY WELL BECAUSE I AM TURNING ALL OF THIS BULLSHIT OVER TO MY LOCAL AUTHORITIES AS WELL AS TO MY LOCAL FBI OFFICE FOR THEM TO INVESTIGATE EVERY SINGLE CALL AND TEXT THAT HAS COME THROUGH TO ME. FOR THE LAST DAMN TIME, I AM NOT LORI DREW!!!!! I JUST GOT THIS PHONE NUMBER A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO! STOP CALLING ME AND TEXTING ME!!!!!
admin – Contact your phone company. They will issue you a new phone number. Thank you for issuing your last warning, we’ve always appreciated a good last warning.
I do not believe Lori deserves Hell. She is still a person. I know that’s a pretty weak arguement but it’s the best I have. She, in her own mind was just doing wat was best for her daughter. However, a slow painful death would do just nicely and I and I’m sure many others would be happy to have the honors.
Rest in Peace Megan xx
I hope that Megans family can live out the rest of their lives with some hope in their hearts. I feel for them.
The people responsible for Megan’s death, through cyber-bulling I hope they never have peace in their lives, and have to live out their exsistence with guilt, shame and absolute unhappiness, forever. They deserve it in my eyes.
Rest in Peace Megan xx
the native american lori was raised dehumanizeing people and misuseing like she use to use my daughter at walker ,tim your another sock puppet or do you get off like they do?
dont feed the trolls!!!
Lori deserves to clubbed like a baby seal, and then rot in Hell. I hope someone burns your fuckin’ house down, Lori!
Hey…leave baby seals outta this…you sick wrath…perhaps anger management classes might help??
To ADMIN, well since you are the smart ass behind this madness, then you should know that you are responsible for taking the phone number listed for Lori Drew off of YOUR website since the phone number listed is NOT HER DAMN PHONE NUMBER!!!!….are did your brilliant mind miss that part. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO TO RECTIFY THIS SITUATION IS TO TAKE THE DAMN NUMBER OFF OF YOUR WEBSITE…..ITS NOT THE NUMBER FOR LORI DREW WHICH IS INCORRECTLY LISTED ON YOUR WEBSITE. WARNINGS NEVER WORK FOR ASSHOLES LIKE YOU, HOWEVER MY ACTIONS WILL!!!! I AM NOT CHANGING MY DAMN NUMBER AGAIN BECAUSE OF YOUR MISTAKE. YOU PRINTED THE WRONG PHONE NUMBER SO TAKE IT OFF OF YOUR WEBSITE……SIMPLE!!!
Admin – Negative. I’ve declared that post a historical landmark and, as such, it is ineligible for any changes. Our homeowners association would be very upset if that post was changed.
Look, Jean…I have seen that phone number on several web sites, not just on this one, so calm the hell down.
If I were you, I would just change your damn number, it is not that hard. There are a lot of people that probably alredy have it by now.
Seldom have I encountered a more evil or worthless piece of garbage then Lori Drew. Do you feel proud in helping push a girl with emotional issues to sucide. Do you think your daughter will have any friends now that their parents will see you as a pschyo bitch? While you can’t be charged unlike many of the criminals on here, you’re no different from them. Refusing to accept responsblity and blaming the victim. Burn in hell with the rest of them
I’ve reconsidered and now would like EVERYONE TO PLEASE GIVE ME A CALL!!! C’MON NOW>>>CALL TODAY!!
Jean you must be on the rag, calm down woman. Take some midol! Everything will be a-ok.
what a freak, she need by-ploar meds…this shit is sick to read, what bored people we are, me included because I came to read this crap.
Response to Jeans’ messages: Jean would imply that you’re female although it could be a males name but I highly doubt it, yeah you’re probably a girl. Its a simple thing to do a name search for Lori Drew and guess what keeps popping up? I bet it’s your number. aww damn internet, it causes so many problems. might make you want to kill yourself (all respect for megan, no joke intended). Its the simple truth, now while you’re on this site trying to SCARE PEOPLE WITH YOUR CAPS LOCK TYPING, heh, there are others posting your number on other sites. Happy hunting and hope you change your number. :)
Jean is probably Lori’s daughter.
Mark, you crack me up! I love the CAPS LOCK part! Haha, funny. I actually remember one of my friends calling Jean’s number one day and a guy picked up. They recorded it and everything. That is the day that changed my whole life because then I started looking at this site. Haha.
the nerd mgr at safeway is a sub to the teen next door as well as the rocker dude up stairs i go to work to get raped well the boss turns his cheek they changed my hours so the native american lori drew can get off its in thier eyes and voice and texting at rapid refill ink.
Dee- I must say…. I cannot understand a word of what you’ve written.
Step away from the crack-pipe, please.
Also, I have no clue why you keep babbling about ‘native american/Lori Drew’. Is she supposedly Native American? And that would have to do with this case how?
I am Potowatomi Indian, and I’d like for you to please stop tossing around the term ‘Native American’ for no apparent reason.
Thank you.
c
the same thing happend at my last job first impressions l.l.c the boss was less then human.
Dee- if you communicate in real life like you do here, I think you should be grateful that you’ve ever had a job.
c
Is it a bad thing to be called “Native American?” I am sorry but I am lost. I am Native American and I have heard several people call us “Prarie niggers” and “Indians”. Where I am from, the tribes and people here like to be called Native American. Sorry, I am just lost.
Lori Drew deserves to die for what she did! Driving a young girl to suicide is the same as murdering her.
One of these days, Lori Drew…….. We’ll get you for this just like Ted Bundy
Megan was one of my BEST FRIENDS. Sarah [lori's daughter] USED TO go to my school. I really can’t stand the fact that they are still living…. that is how much i hate that family… and as a christian i know i shouldn’t say that, but I HOPE SHE ROTTS IN THE PITTS OF HELL =]
Haha, that is awesome! So, Jean, are you male or female? I am very curious!
In my belief I believe that any person who poses as a teenage boy just to find out if their child is getting harrassed, bullied or what not and then harrasses the person on the other line should definately burn in the fiery flames of hell. I hope she gets whats coming to her.
As we all hope so too. Lori seriously needs some help and maybe someone to tell her how sad she is, etc.
Suprisingly I lived in missouri when this story surfaced and I just now found out about this and Am outraged lori drew is terrible what fourty year old woman does that? That is something honestly I dont think most thirteen year olds themselves would do. Hopefully the most recent law will stick i will be watching the news for updates
Let’s face it Lori Drew is a Cunt!
The horrible prank: pretty evil, but not hell worthy. Many people have done crueler things without thinking of the consequences. (Though to be fair, they’re usually 14, and not 40).
Trying to cover up her involvement: Creeping on hell worthy, and I’m not sure why the hell she wasn’t charged with obstruction for that.
Filing a police report against the family (the victim’s family didn’t even vandalize the bitch’s house, they destroyed something that they were storing for said bitch): Well, at least she isn’t even TRYING to get sympathy here…
Trying to play the victim card: Oh, wait, I spoke too soon. “Mr Policeman, please come protect me. I feel unsafe because all my neighbors unreasonably hate me for doing absolutely nothing wrong, and for trying to cover up the fact that I did something, which was completely innocent!” Yup, she’s going to hell.
The whole “but she was suicidal anyway” excuse: What the hell?! Everything the woman says is a load of disengenuous bull. Even if she only found out about the past suicide attempt until the funeral, as a so-called “family friend” she must have had some inkling that the girl had her own demons to deal with, and even she were dense enough that she didn’t (blatant stupidity on her part doesn’t seem like such a stretch), the fact that she was a thirteen year old kid alone means that this sort of emotional abuse from an adult is probably damaging, and not okay, by any stretch of the imagination.
“Banging on the door”: Man, she just keeps digging the hole, doesn’t she? “I know you’re in there! I know your daughter just died, and you blame me despite the fact that I’m completely guiltless, but there’s the issue of paying back for MY DAMN FOOSBALL TABLE!”
In an unrelated story, Lori Drew was seen demanding a kidney from a teenage boy as compensation for a damaged fender, after swerving to run him over with her car. Asked for comment by reporters, she only said, “Walking around with dark clothes and one of them iPod thingies, this probably wasn’t his first collision attempt. Really, I put most of the blame the parents for not teaching him to dive out of the way when a car plays a joke on him.”
I mean, Jesus would have forgiven Hitler if he had just said, “I’m sorry, what I did was wrong” before dying in the bunker, this woman can’t even do that.
Oh, bonus damnation for David and the blame the victim crowd: What the hell is wrong with you people? I suppose you’re the same people who expect rapists to go free “because she had no business walking outdoors at night,” and defend pedophiles because its the fault of unattentive parents. By your logic, if you let a bull out next to a playground, and proceed to poke it with a stick, then whatever bad stuff might happen to those kids is the fault of the bull, who everyone knows is naturally agressive. Hell, by your logic, any of us shouldn’t be held at fault for smashing your face in with a shovel, since by your posts its clear you have a history of asking for a good bludgeoning!
Bravo!!!!!!!!!!!
I voted for no hell. Thanks to Lori Drew, the next time I’m caught grooming a naive young thing, I can use the Lori Drew defense to get off! I just have to say that I was planning to destroy her emotionally, and not to sleep with her, and there’s no crime there!
for those who blame Megan’s parents, it seems they are suffering morre than you can possibly know. How easy it is to judge their responses and actions as parents when you are not in the situation yourself but how shameful for someone to try and do that to someone who has lost a child. Clearly, anyone who would do that is the very definition of a clinical sociopath. I am convinced that Lori Drew is most definitely a clinical sociopath. The traits that define a clinical sociopath For those wondering: the following link describes the traits of a clnical sociopath:
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t94752/
(Pay special attention to traits 5, 6, 7, 8 and 15.)
As for Lori Drew and her employee who created the Josh account, it’s only a matter of time before the authorities find a way to charge them with something. The public outcry is too loud to be ignored and it shows no signs of dying down. And the Drews’ lives will never be the same again now that Lori Drew has been identified as the socoiopath she is. Those who would defend her never fail to point incessantly to Megan’s emotional and mental troubles as the source of her suicide but they fail to acknowledge that Lori Drew is CLEARLY an unbalanced, emotionally unstable woman and they try to deflect her role in this matter, excusing her behavior. The truth is most parents would never have stooped to the level she did, creating a fake online identity to fool a 13-year-old child? That’s just – sick. Healthy mature adults do not respond like that. The fury that has been unleashed on her by the public is a Karmic comeuppance. Do a search of her name on any Internet search engine and it’s clear she is one of the most hated people in the country, that’s a whole lot of bad energy coming your way. Also, if she truly believed she had nothing to hide or to be ashamed of she would have come forward as the creator of the account instead of deleting it and trying to hide her involvement. If she did nothing wrong as she claims, then why hide?
I looked at the DSM-IV guide and I came to the conclusion that Lori Drew is narcissistic, paranoid, and anti-social. She obviously has personality problems, which is very common in psychopaths.
lori drew should be cut into pieces and scattered all over the world! her pic on each piece of sick meat that she is!
so that people will know what a sick bitch she is!
her soul will not rest and hope that her future spawns will suffer for their entire life!
sick sick sick bitch of a whore!
Okay Im The Only Thing I Have To Say On This Subject Is To The People Blaming Megans Parents For This:
If U Think That Refuseing To Let Ur Kids Have A Myspace Account Or Something Similar To It Is Going To Stop Them, You Are Very Wrong. Kids Can Get On Myspace at School and Whats To Stop Them From Making One At A Friends House Or Something Like That? Megans Parents Allowed Her To Have One And Monitered Her While She Was On It, Incase You Didnt Read The Article Above It Say, “Megan was thrilled that ‘Josh Evans’ was interested in her enough to add her to his friends list. She showed her mother, Tina, the friend request and begged to be allowed to add the teen to her friends list. Tina, after looking the boy’s profile over, let her daughter add him as a friend.” Her Parents Knew She Had An Account And They Did Moniter Her While She Was On It. It Even Says That Tina Told Megan To Get Off Before She Left For Her Appointment.
So If You Want To Try To Keep Ur Kids From Having A Myspace, Or Facebook, Or Whatever Then The Best Of Luck To You,
But If You Are Going To Give Them The Freedom To Have One Then At Least Watch Out For Them. Set Some Ground Rules, Set Time Limits, I Dont Care. Just Keep And Eye On Them.
The myspace was created by an adult to lure a teenager which resulted in her suicide, because of her posts. You fucking Moron.
Sarah Drew is just like her mother.
Have you seen the photo of Lori Drew? I can see why she had nothing better to do. Yikes. Some people horde, some become addicted to gambling, others cyber bully a teenager into committing suicide…you know, the usual. Maybe if she had joined Jenny Craig or fought for world peace, she would have filled her time better? Just an idea.
You can burn off fat, but not evil. She looks like Fred Phelps of Westboro Baptist Church. They are all psychopaths.
Yeah, you’re right, she kind of does look like him, but ol’ Fred is totally bonkers. Fatso knew exactly what she was doing. That’s way worse, don’t you think bro?
BTW, since you mentioned Fred Phelps, have you ever read Jon Michael Bell’s article on Fred and the WBC. It’s a long read, but really interesting if you dislike them as much as I do:
http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepages/michael_haggerty/expose3.htm
Yeah, Fred is senile and should of made peace with death. Lori Drew knew what she was doing. When did MySpace become MySnoopSpace? I really think Lori Drew really did this because she took everything as an insult and thought the Meiers were causing her problems and wanted to lash out at them.
Yes, I have read that link about WBC you have shown. Long read. They are actually a hate machine and they will find someone else to hate and lately they have with soldiers and young people who die.
Ever heard of Michael Crook for his infamous Forsake The Troops? He is also like Fred Phelps and shares the same hatred for soldiers, young people who die, and gays. He admires WBC and called them right thinking. He also supports Lori Drew and called her a hero. Crook shares the same sentiments with Fred Phelps, except with abortion, they are the polar opposite when it comes to abortion.
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/334035/the_internets_most_hated_man_the_strange.html?cat=49
Methinks Lori Drew and Michael Crook are from the same gene pool that spawned Fred Phelps. They are all disgusting scum of the Earth.
haha what a lardass, that lori drew. if angry humanitarians don’t get her a heart attack will. karmic retribution, ya dig?
Lori Drew can i ask you a question?
Can you sleep at nigth?
Can you wake up every morning?
Well Megan cant do it anymore
Shame on you fucking Lori PIECE OF SHIT Drew
Megan cant because Megan decided to kill herself. Megan let a “boy” become that much of a concern with her life. I hate to say this, but this girl may have done this regardless. There is a lot of stress and humiliation in everyones life, some people choose to kill themselves to deal with it.
I would like to say that Lori Drew’s actions were awful and she is morally wrong, and because our laws don’t protect feelings, it is our job as society to punish her. I believe that her community and some of the people on this site are doing a good job of this. This is a good example of how a good society runs. We can’t change how other people act, we can only change how we react to them.
That hellish bitch to Lori Drew deserves worse than hell! What she has done is the lowest of all lows, I hope that people in her neighbourhood harass her until she commits suicide!
There is a purgatory, which can be worse than Hell, but that is temporary and you can go to either Heaven or Hell. I can’t think of anything worse than Hell. Well, scumbag derserves Hell along with 9/11 Terrorists and Pol Pot. She can take Fred Phelps and Westboro Baptist Church with them to Hell as well.
I voted no. It’s a joke that went to far.
Convict the lady of being a sexual predator, cyber bully(whatever that is), or basically anything else really.
But the fact of the matter is that she had nothing to do with the girl killing herself. If that girl was loony enough to kill herself over something that started ON THE INTERNET and her parents didn’t even know the extent of this girl’s depression, then how on Earth could anyone else have known that?
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The type of evil that Lori Drew is capable of is so scary to me . . please please let justice remove this product of satan from our streets. She should never be permitted to go on the internet again.
In memory of Megan Taylor Meier please pray that Curt & Lori Drew’s daughter Sarah is brutally beaten and raped.
i hope this never happens, if it did, im sure you would feel guilty as hell.
You better prey if you have children this never happens to them either…you’re just as pathetic making this comment…mike
Looks like the justice system does work. Have fun in a box for the rest of your life you worthless piece of molecules Lori.
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I think its interesting how some of the news outlets were refusing to print Lori Drew’s name, even though she’d already confessed and tried to shrug it off as unimportant, despite Meier’s suicide. Now that she’s under inditement, she HAVE to print it. Hahaha.. fuckers
And this is why I don’t use Myspace…
another example of soccer moms out of control. Drew needs 18 months in prison.
This woman, Lori Drew, is a true psychopath. While I, like many others, would like to see her receive a life sentence, it’s unlikely that she’ll get more than five years. No judge is going to throw the book at someone when application of these newer internet laws is still being debated. Also, people seem to be giving the other perpetrator, Ashley Grills, a free pass just because she confessed. She should be charged with the same crimes as Drew.
nah we just want the big fat ass moma fish, lori!
love satans helpers
lori and jack what a couple of assholes. St. Charles County Prosecutor Jack Banas personally asked to review this case in November. He decided against filing charges, because he believed no state or local laws were broken. Thursday night he said the federal indictment would not change his mind. He still believes there was no violation of state statute.
call jack banas state rep who thinks lori did nothing wrong and give him a piece of your mind on this case maybe he”ll wake up and change his mind!
St. Charles County Prosecutor Jack Banas personally asked to review this case in November. He decided against filing charges, because he believed no state or local laws were broken. Thursday night he said the federal indictment would not change his mind. He still believes there was no violation of state statute.
JACK BANAS!!!!!!!! ASSHOLE
St. Charles County Prosecutor Jack Banas personally asked to review this case in November. He decided against filing charges, because he believed no state or local laws were broken. Thursday night he said the federal indictment would not change his mind. He still believes there was no violation of state statute.
“an eye for an eye makes the world go blind.”
lori drew is one of many people whose understanding of action and consequence stands in no relation to the reality of their lives or of the lives of the people around them. though punishing her is necessary, addressing the problem with more than just sending her to “hell” is essential. your anger and wishes for vengeance are the same basic impulse that got her into trouble. as i understand it she was trying to protect her daughter.
wild animals often act the same way. a threat to the child is not ignored, it is eliminated. strange though it may seem, people are often at the mercy of their most fearsome instincts.
the comments are very revealing. this doesn’t mean that i believe any of you would actually hurt lori drew, but many have thought about it…that in itself is worth some attention. that being said, not a single person mentioned lori drews daughter. poor girl.
be well,
-d
How a mother could behave in this manner belies belief. It is hard enough being a teenager nowadays…..you have to have a very thick skin if you have any physical appearance that is anything other than todays ideal……without adults joining in to torment and bully the fragile and vunerable. This woman manipulated this child in the worst way ever, not content with making her believe that a boy liked her she continued to belittle and demean her……how could she sit in her home and think that this was an acceptable thing to do. Has she put herself in Megan’s parents shoes or considered how she would of felt if it had happened to her little girl? I am afraid that if (God forbid) this ever happened to my daughter at the hand of a neighbour who was purely seeking some kind of perverse revenge, i would not be responsible for my actions. I admire the Meier’s for their restraint and the Drew’s should consider themselves very lucky that they have civilised neighbours…….I seriously doubt that they will be able to live their lives comfortably from now on though and rightly so. Maybe Mrs Drew will feel what Megan felt before she took her own life….a feeling of hopelessness, pointlessness and depression…..we can only hope that she will then appreciate what a terrible thing she did.
Oh puh-lease… “manipulated in the worst way ever”??? The whole thing went on for what, a couple of weeks? Lori Drew decided to knock it off and pretended that the boy didn’t like Megan anymore because she was “mean to her friends”. Big deal. That’s hardly the worst thing she could’ve done, c’mon now.
Again, what was going to happen when Megan started dating and broke up with a real boyfriend? If a virtual friendship ending was too much for her to bear, she surely would’ve killed herself over a real break-up. And would everybody be blaming the boy if that happened? Of course not!
She was too emotionally disturbed to have been on MySpace in the first place. Her parents should have gotten her the help she needed, and they should have monitored her social activities on the internet.
How can anyone be so dumm. You can not expect or start a serious relationship with someone on internet, but not met him/her in person.
World needs more people like Lori, to teach everyone, not to trust people so blindly.
I believe that those who think otherwise are naive and mentally inferior.
The world needs no Lori Drew. Lori Drew is a biggest scumbag on the planet, save Dnepropetrovsk Maniacs, Osama bin Laden, Adolf Hitler, and Joseph Stalin. And no, I am not comparing her to some serial killer, terrorist, or genocidal maniac. Anyone who supports Lori Drew is a worthless scumbag and needs to get a MRI on their head.
you guys need to layy the fuck off. Leave that woman alone. You really dont have a life if ya keep on bother her. loser only call people to harass them
Ana, that’s a rather ironic comment.
lmao
Really Man. Do you think she sees it even a tiny bit?
Anyone who defends Lori Drew is a sickfreak and just as bad as she is.
1st off, one thing that gets you sent right to hell, is killing yourself so “poeple you will see in hell” ya one is megan!!! 2nd so all of you have like no idea what you are talking about!! It is ALL, I mean ALL, her moms fault. Who lets thier 13 year old little girl be on myspace or any other dating site. If you do not have a myspace don’t say it is not a dating website. Bc I have one and that is all people use it for these days! And read a god damn newspaper bc she is being charged with hacking into a myspace account. Which she did not do!!! And they say that they are charging her with this because she lied on myspace. If that is the case, they should charge the other 100,000 people that lie on there too! And they should charge megan too because she said she was 16 and she was only 13, that is lying. SHE KILLED HERSELF BECAUSE HER PARNETS WERE GETTING A DIVORCE AND SHE WAS DEPRESSED SINCE SHE WAS IN THE 3RD GRADE!!!!! NOT NOT NOT BECAUSE OF LORI DREW! LORI DREW, I LOVE YOU BECAUSE YOU GOT ONE LESS LITTLE UNSUPERVISED OUT OF CONTROL SLUT OUT OF THE OUR WORLD!!!!!
Megan when you see your mom and dad in hell with you, you can tell them the truth…..
That it is really THEIR fault you did this!
My goodness, aren’t you the angry one? And so out of touch with the reality of the situation. When did you start having these delusions? Allow me to correct you on a couple of points:
1. She wasn’t indicted for lying to Myspace per se, she was indicted for “lying for the purpose of causing emotional or physical harm to another person”. It’s all about intent darlin’.
2. She was very much supervised: She had her Myspace account with the full knowledge & approval pf her parents, and her mother knew her password in order to check her chatlog.
3. Myspace is not a “dating site”, it’s a ” social networking website offering an interactive, user-submitted network of friends, personal profiles, blogs, groups, photos, music and videos internationally” (their description).
If you’re using your Myspace account to get laid, well, just don’t print this letter there. Most guys don’t go for the off balanced, raving lunatic type.
Now why don’t you go and take that Xanax you forgot to take and lay down for a while.
Max
It’s still a stretch, these charges. She didn’t intent for Megan to kill herself. I mean, who in their right mind would think that a girl would kill herself over a virtual friend? I’m sure she didn’t intend any real harm at all. She was upset that Megan was bullying her daughter, and she pulled an immature (but not criminal) prank to get “the inside scoop”.
Supervised or not, Megan was too young to be on MySpace. Why was such a volatile child allowed on the internet in the first place? The parents were clearly negligent here.
I learnt this news on the news site in my country, and I deeply received the impact, and was ruled at the same time by the fury.
I sincerely hope for the thing that the United States justice gives a hard blow to this rubbish even if the law doesn’t judge.
I feel sorry for sentences in this translation engine.
Lori is an evil person that caused a lot of pain to a young girl.
Megan was an unstable young girl who was too concerned with what others thought of her.
If there is one major thing I’m teaching my daughters, it is, your social life is not what will matter when you graduate. There is way more to life than boys. Too bad for Meagan that she let what she beleived was a boy ruin her life.
Can you think of any 13 year old girl who ISN’T obsessed with what others think of her?
Many 13 year olds aren’t obsessed to the point of killing themselves. Lets not turn this tragedy into something that lowers the bar of responsibility for our teenagers. Many teens suffer humiliation and become stronger for it. Suicide should never be an option. People shouldn’t rationalize it either, it sets a bad example for other teens.
Agreed! Most people get through the teenage years with far worse humiliations under their belts than what Megan experienced. Her parents should never have allowed her on the internet in the first place, especially if she’d attempted suicide in the past. We all know that it can be a nasty place. How was Lori Drew supposed to know how sick this girl was, when apparently not even her own parents did? And you’re totally right about rationalising it- it does set a terrible example! (Your boyfriend breaks up with you? Why just kill yourself over it, and then the whole world will blame him and make him suffer!)
i wonder if lori kills herself shouldnt all you people be judged by your own law?
because you all seem to be doing exactly what she did.
she should rot in jail….but you should not get to her level.
one more thing let these be a lesson to us all, dont involve yourself on your kids problems, you can gide them but you cannot fight their fights.
First off, little Sarah K- I am going to guess by the tremendous insight you were able to put into your post, that you are somewhere around the age of 14. Meaning that you should not be on MySpace, either.
And, I hate to break it to you, but the majority of people on MySpace aren’t just little 14 year olds trolling for a booty-call. There are actually some adults, such as myself, who use MySpace specifically for social networking and keeping up with old friends. Doesn’t sound as sexy as your scenario, but it’s true.
I’m going to guess, based on your post, that you DO use it as a dating service. Good luck with that whole ‘wanting to have a fun, cool, serious relationship, but ending up having to settle for the anonymous and meaningless random sexual encounters that come from attempting to date that way. How’s it working for you so far?
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Max the Cat, I’ll have to disagree with you on this one… “If you’re using your Myspace account to get laid, well, just don’t print this letter there. Most guys don’t go for the off balanced, raving lunatic type.”
Um, because I’m guessing that is kind of the type of girl guys are looking for when they’re just trying to get their groove on. Nice, sane girls generally tend to not like that kind of thing. Nice girls tend to like having hot sex with people they didn’t meet on MySpace.
I do agree that parents should be aware of what their children are doing on computers, and should monitor those types of social sites. But when the parents themselves need monitoring, because they are twisty, harrassing, and abusive, that little idea goes right out the window.
Scenario- Poor, depressed girl gets on internet social website…. and doesn’t end up ‘meeting’ a hagly troll disguised as a teen boy who just wants to be cruel and abusive. She decides not to kill herself. End of story.
It was harrassment, it did skate on sexual things- one was a teen and one was an adult.
Nothing more needs to be said. Predator.
c
Glorybug wrote:
Max the Cat, I’ll have to disagree with you on this one… “If you’re using your Myspace account to get laid, well, just don’t print this letter there. Most guys don’t go for the off balanced, raving lunatic type.”
Um, because I’m guessing that is kind of the type of girl guys are looking for when they’re just trying to get their groove on. Nice, sane girls generally tend to not like that kind of thing. Nice girls tend to like having hot sex with people they didn’t meet on MySpace.
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You have a excellent point there Glorybug. Judging by some of the links I’ve seen from the “stars” of PYSIH, Myspace isn’t exactly a hotbed of mental health ;>)
Lori Drew should be punished for her roll in Megans death. As an adult, she knew what she was doing and knew that it was wrong.
To have the nerve to attend the young girls funeral knowing full well what she had done is just disgusting. Then to go on and say that she didnt feel guilty because the Megan had already tried to commit suicide once before…are you serious?
Lori Drew should never have got involved in the dispute between her daughter and Megan. If Lori had any brains at all she should have just chalked this up to a petty like squable between two kids and kept her nose out of it.
For everyone out there who is saying that its wrong to harass Lori Drew and her family, your right, it is wrong. At the same time though, if Lori Drew thought that a 13 year old will mental issues could handle such treatment then she has an adult with metal issues should be able to handle the same treatment.
What goes around comes around and usually when it comes back to you, it bites you in the ass 10x harder then what you gave out.
[...] Hell, you’ll read about mothers who drown their kids, mothers who starve their kids to death, mothers who drive other kids to suicide…and now we have Sofia [...]
While I think that Lori Drew did something immature and silly, I don’t think she should be charged with a crime.
I think that Megan’s parents have a greater share in the responsibility here. First of all, why does a 13 year old have a MySpace? Why would they allow a young teen with mental health issues to be online in the first place? We all know the types of things teens are up to on social networking sites. Why was this girl not getting mental help in an institution of some sort? She was obviously extremely mentally fragile. Why was her self-esteem so horribly low? To answer that, we’d have to look to the family, not Lori Drew- what went on in that house to leave that girl so troubled?
We all know how nasty the teen years can be. If this girl killed herself over a rather mild remark from a virtual friend she didn’t even know, what would she have done if she broke up with a REAL friend or boyfriend? Killed them, as well as herself? It was bound to happen sooner or later, some small hurt, and if this is all it took to make her kill herself…. well, it’s obvious that she wasn’t getting the help her parents should have gotten her.
How many times have you all called someone a name online? What if that person killed themselves because you called them a jerk? Should you be charged? Only charged if you used a fake name? How is this supposed to work?
Lori Drew is a mama bear who took things to a petty extreme, yes. But a criminal? No. I’m sure she wouldn’t have done it if she’d known how disturbed Megan was. If the parents didn’t know, how could Lori be expected to?
This situation has been blown out of proportion, I think because the parents need someone else to blame for their negligence.
Lori Drew is a mama bear who took things to a petty extreme, yes. But a criminal? No. I’m sure she wouldn’t have done it if she’d known how disturbed Megan was. If the parents didn’t know, how could Lori be expected to?
How many mama bears do you know that pretend to be underage boys in order to seduce and humiliate the enemies of their daughter?
Let me guess, you’re a friend of the family and your “realist” attitude comes from wanting to protect them? There should be a diagnosis or syndrome for people like you.
No, I don’t know them at all. Not even from the same country. Just heard about her being charged, actually.
There was no ‘seduction’. The girl killed herself over what she thought was a falling-out with a virtual friend, not even someone she knew in real life. Have you ever heard of such a thing? Does that not suggest that her issues went waaaaaay deeper?
So if I go kill myself now over you ‘being mean’ to me, you think you should go to prison? Ridiculous.
Are you an adult?
If I tell you to jump out of a window, and you’re a responsible adult
and you choose to do it for your own reasons, it does not make me a
murderer or complicit in your death.
If you are a minor, I am an adult and, if I stalk you; giving
false information to a web service in violation of their terms of
service and the laws of the United States in order to find out
information about you and cause you emotional distress and to abuse
you, then yes, I’ve committed several crimes.
Can you see the difference now?
As to seduction, there were pictures exchanged and meetings requested,
compliments were paid in the beginning in order to entreat this girl
into divulging sensitive and compromising information that had the
ultimate goal of harming the girl. (The word harming is chosen in the
strictest use of the word, please look up the definition before you
try to hang your entire argument on it)
Perhaps you should read these:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cyberstalking#Definitions
While you may not find Wikipedia a credible source the supporting
sites are the valid points and they can be further validated.
You claim that the weakness was strictly the victim’s fault, but you
fail to address the relationship of an adult to a minor. Consider it
carefully before you continue.
As to your motives, state them clearly.
couldn’t have said it better…you’re actually the only human being on this site who made any sense at all….congrats..
Girls are catty lil brats to one another as a mother of 3 daughters i’ve heard it all! But for an adult to get involved is madness! This woman needs to pay for her crimes!such a sad sad story it brings tears to my eyes………..
I don’t think that the law needs to get involved in this as i don’t think that the internet needs to be on trial. Is this “woman” responsible for this girls death? yes. As a tax payer i would like to see a court get involved and have her tried. In short i would like to see HER life destroyed and i would like to see an eye for an eye. Though we do not need any new laws.
This “woman” may be able to get out of a case on mental stability though. There is something wrong with a woman who pretends that they are a child on the internet. We feel this way about sexual predators but not about this woman? I would like to see her children being removed that house hold i would like to see her husband leave her. I would like to see her die alone. She clearly doesn’t understand what is acceptable and what isn’t. Clearly doesn’t want to teach her child how to handle situations herself. Situations like this make me afraid for our society.
As far as posting her number, address, and business info I am all for it!!! I think more people should do this. She clearly needs to know that reality is calling and that she is responsible for the death of a child. She will be judged one way or another. IF her child every grows up her child will judge her too.
When i see her in hell i will insure to slap her across the face. I am very pleased with those people who are condemning her to a life of ruin. Anyone associated with this “woman” needs to be tormented… including her family. If her husband loves their children he will leave with them.
would you want your address and phone number continually posted as well…why don’t you wait with the rest of the world for the verdict…what you write does not make this world a better place in which to live…think about it..even for a moment!!
Would you want your child stalked on the internet and told the world would be a better place without your child? After all of that would you want your child to commit suicide?
The world wasn’t messed up by a few people discussing someone who attacked a child. The world was messed up when a few people couldn’t pay enough attention to the actual boundaries of humanity, and stepped into the dark edges where they became predators of human kind rather than members of humanity.
Children unfortunately are bullied every single day of their lives, we cannot always be watching them 24/7 but I can assure you if I had an unstable child like the one who was sadly provoked (most children don’t just off themselves by the way) I would make it my priority to do my damndest to see they lived in a safe environment at home!!!!!!!!
the public has the right to pass judgment on whomever they please. If she didn’t want to be judged on this behavior then maybe just *maybe* she shouldn’t have put herself in that situation to be judged.
The government has a responsibility of “innocent until proven guilty”. The public do NOT have that burden.
The real parents here did everything they could to protect their daughter. They did make it their priority. It isn’t standard operating procedures to have to protect your child from her best friends mother. The woman you go on vacations with… etc. You can only protect from so much before you would have to a psychic to know whats coming.
I still say harass on. A grown woman harassed a child to the point of death, if the public feels that she should be harassed back that’s their right to do so. Public information is public information. She can hide that info… it does mean that her lil business is gonna have to go. To bad for her. I’m sad for her… really.
As being a part of the public I may also pass judgement on who and what subject I choose as well….in saying this is your criticism constructive… I think not…Is it how
a good Christian should behave…I think not….is your behavior and your comment morally and ethically right…I think you know the answer to that one as well….
dweezle i don’t come here to be constructive. This is actually a guilty pleasure site for me. Honestly this isn’t philosophy corner or anything.
I will take your comment about my behavior not being that of a Christian as a compliment. Thank you.
Moral and ethical is an interesting concept, one that i take lightly as long as ya know… no one dies.
Though i agree with your right to publicly judge you are being a tad bit of a hypocrite about it.
I was also the one who pointed out to you that you were the only one on this site that made any sense,,,having second thoughts now….
Just because we choose to disagree, doesn’t make me think you’re a bad person. That said, call it a simple minded approach, but I’m swayed by arguments that are complete and functional.
I attack arguments based on their weaknesses and defend my opinions until they are defenseless. You present to me that this child was endangered not by her abuser, but by her environment and thus the env. bears more responsibility. I attack that as a fallacy. Then you attack those who attack and try to say they’re in some way worse, I attack that as an overstatement.
A good argument is often seeded with weaknesses that can be exploited as traps. For example, I’ll sometimes say something that I know has an easy response or phrase it so it can be twisted in a predictable way. The reason for this weakness in my argument is to allow me to segue into a far more devastating counter-punch or topic, in this case the development of your argument, though I did not intend to offend you to the point of questioning my sense or senselessness.
The weakness I was waiting for you to aim at was the attack on a child, which is the foundation of my argument and my belief in all of this. If this wasn’t an attack on a child then it’d be easy to persuade me that two adults have the right to trade insults on the internet. This, however, was radically different. Seeing as this particular case probably will be lost on legal technicality, and the publically confessed actions seem reasonably damning, I don’t have a problem burning her in effigy. If that makes it seem as if I’m being senseless or rude, I apologize. I assure you my senses remain intact and my anger with Lori, not you for disagreeing with me.
Back to Sarah’s comment about the Dweez being a “Tad Bit” of a hypocrite I am not even going to try to understand what that is suppose to mean…I think you’re a Tad Bit confused…..
“I am not even going to try to understand….”
well then conversation with you is pointless.
This is what’s wrong with our country.
Lori Drew is what’s wrong with our country or some other detail?
Yeah…what is your point about our country exactly….
Jason, you are most definitely a lawyer and if you are not one…you should really consider taking the bar exam…we can agree to disagree!! It’s called ” Freedom Of Speech…thank you!
I’m a computer programmer, my older brother is the aerospace engineer, and my younger brother is the one who will in all likelihood pass the bar exam next June. If I ever had to defend someone like Lori Drew, I think I’d torpedo her case and then hang myself once I knew it failed the appeal. I feel like I have too much self-respect to approach the bar. I know lawyers I can respect, I just know I wouldn’t be one of them.
Thanks for the vote of confidence and I’ll take the comment as a compliment.
Your most certainly welcome my good man!!!
Dweez
Its frightening to think what Lori Drew’s children will grow up to be like, if they watched their own mother doing sunh horrendous horribly unkind acts. How a mother could even have a thought process like Lori Drew is terrifying to me. What a cruel woman.
Hey Dweezle! One reply you are defending some crazy comment from Patel that a deceased victim of harassment has responsibility in the crime against them and then you are defending a comment made about a faceless stepchild somewhere. Someone comments on the state of our country, you get pissy, then to another reply, you suggest therapy? Well, give them the name of your doctor because you are so irrational you are one to write!
Megan rott in hell loser mom and dad are coming if they “loved” you they would have stopped you. P.S. you were ugly when you was allive now that you are in hell you probly still the ugliest there
TROLL!
You might want to take a look at the ugliness inside yourself, Troll.
You might also want to deal with that anger now, before it destroys your life.
That is not a nice thing to say to someone that died. I think it’s rude of you because what if someone did the same to you when you die? I hope you can turn to the light and hope. I was depressed like she was and I know what it feels like to be on the wrong end of happy. I hope you can apologize to her spirit. Poor girl. R.I.P. Megan
Megan please forgive comment number 315 because they are damned without a heart.
WOW, thats just wrong . What a AssHat, sick fuck you are Boo-Hoo. Do you kiss your mother with that mouth ??
That, and sucks her dick with it too.
Although Lori Drew is dirt, I’m worried about the precidence a conviction would impose on Internet free speech. This case has import far beyond the sad story of this handful of people
George, I agree with you in theory. Completely.
Unfortunately, it is a dilemma. Lori Drew did something horrid. And she should have to answer for it. But in order for her to have to answer for it, laws have to be created, or creatively applied, which sets precedents. And precedents are like Mose’s stone tablets to judges. They cannot and will not go against them.
So what’s the answer? Only a complete overhaul of our criminal justice system – and not the type of overhaul that is being done today. Today they are trying to fine-tune every single possible action a person can make, and regulate it. I think they need to burn all the law books, all the legal history books – and start from the beginning.
We need to put in a system where the public (jury) really DOES judge the individual based on the entire situation. And the judges need to oversee the process so that gross errors are not made.
And we need to kill most of the lawyers. They all act like it is a freaking GAME. They could give a crap about society and fact – they just want to win.
In the meantime, you may as well take a deep breath and accept the fact that it’s not going to change, and we will continue to lose our freedoms, one byte at a time.
I feel bad for Megan and her Family, but at the same time I don’t really believe that what the Drews (Lori or Ashley or whoever else) did was something that would affect a normally healthy person in the way it affected Megan (who obviously had previous mental health issues). So while I think its horrible what happened, and unfortunate and the Drews bare some responsibility I am also left wondering why Megan was allowed to participate in roaming around the net and places she could have run into mean comments and interactions. She was obviously too fragile to handle interactions with her peers and others (its a difficult age and they are cruel) and was previously suicidial, why wasn’t she in a hospital or being watched 24/7 for her safety. What happened isn’t something that would make a normal child of that age take their life and if there had been previous attempts by Megan to take her life why would her parents have allowed her to be in any situation which might cause her to go over the edge? She shouldn’t have been in school either, cause words don’t just have to be written they can be spoken and I am sure they were too, at school. As heartless as it sounds and I don’t mean it to, Megan, it seems was unstable and anything could have set her off and apparently did. If it hadn’t been this it would have been something else. Books, words, TV shows, they don’t force children to hurt themselves or do bad things, if they are prone to doing such things they’ll do it regardless of the outside stimilus. That said I think the Drews should feel terrible for their involvement but I don’t feel they murdered Megan, she did that herself as hard as that is to hear… ultimately she made the choice she did not anyone else.
Lori – is that you?
Ok – from the top – repeat after me.. don’t blame the victim… dont blame the victim… dont blame the victim… see how easy that was?
Lori Drew is NOT being charged with murder. She is not being charged with negligent manslaughter. She is being charged essentially with internet harassment, stalking and bullying. Which is exactly what she did.
Now, the fact that the victim was a fragile little girl and Lori Drew was a big grown-up lady just makes it that much worse. Especially since this particular (supposedly)grown-up lady knew the child and KNEW she was mentally fragile.
But even if this had been a random woman and a random teenager – GROWNUPS DON’T DO THAT! Lori Drew is a mom to a girl the same age as Megan. What in the world would prompt her to HARASS a child like that? HUH?
That alone is sick enough to make me want her punished, but when you add in the specifics here – Lori Drew should pull some jail time and mandatory community service when she gets out. Maybe sitting on a suicide hotline or something. Fucking bitch!
And Lo – we will never know what might have set Megan off, will we. We only know what DID. A cruel, heartless woman playing with the emotions and love-life of a little girl. A woman pretending to be a boy who was interested in a girl, at an age when some girls are desperate for a boy’s attention. And then, she cut that little girl off at the knees. So don’t try to give us that bullshit! Lori Drew is to blame – her accomplices are also to blame to a lesser degree, and there are no excuses.
Thank you, have a nice day.
Could not have said it better myself Mazzi.
Mazzi:
You also forgot that she took that information and put it out there for all to see. So she didn’t do it to make her feel bad she did it with the express decision to execute a plan of humiliation
This is where the prosecutors turn into cowards. Take a look at the statute in most states concerning Capital Murder.
1. To cause the death of another while in the commission of a crime.
Note, that is a very basic definition of Capital Murder. It is not required that you intend to cause the death of another, or that you even intend to cause physical harm to another. Rather, that you are in the commission of an illegal act, and that illegal act causes death to another. To help you out here.
A man walks into a bank with a note that says: “I’ve got a gun, give me all your money.”
Now, he never draws the gun or shows it any way. But, the teller is an old lady with a heart condition, she reads the note, has a heart attack and dies.
The robber never touched her, he only passed her a note. This is Capital Murder. He walked into the bank with the intent of robbing it, the teller was so scared, she had a heart attack and died because he was robbing the bank.
Now, to bring this into line with this story:
Lori Drew was upset that Megan might be talking about her daughter. So, she created a profile on a website for the sole purpose of causing mental & emotional distress to Megan, with the absolute knowledge that Megan had in the past attempted to commit suicide. She accessed a secured server and specifically violated the terms of service of that server and website, which were posted in a conspicuous and public place, she violated the laws of her state and The United States Of America and the end result of her actions was in fact the death of Megan.
Now, did she intend to cause Megan to commit suicide? No, noone truly believes that.
Did she intend to cause mental and emotional distress to Megan? Yes.
Was she aware that Megan had suicidal tendencies? Yes.
Did she show Megan any type of compassion? No.
Did she violate any laws? Yes.
Did she intend to violate any laws? Yes. She intended to use the internet to harrass this young lady and knew that harrassment of another individual, for any reason, was and still is illegal.
Did her actions directly contribute to the deather of Megan? Yes, Megan would not have committed suicide if she had not been emotionally upset over the incident.
Question for all of you: Is this Capital Murder and would you convict if you were on the jury with it laid out like this?
I’ll refrain from answering and let the rest of you, since you all know my answer anyways.
Never seen such a worthless and screwed up person since Seung-Hui Cho. Lori Drew is moving out.
http://blogs.riverfronttimes.com/stlog/2008/09/lori_drew_moving_from_waterford_crystal_drive_sold_house_megan_meier_myspace.php
Anyways, Lori Drew has many personality problems, particularly narcissism, paranoia, and anti-social personalities. Most likely she is a collector of injustices, envious, and feels extremely entitled to everything. I wonder if she is a bastard child of Fred Phelps because they almost look alike. Phelps rails against adultery all the time besides homosexuality, which makes me think he does those things.
She deserves to rot in Hell along side with Joseph Stalin, Pol Pot, and Osama bin Laden for sure. She can ask for Jim Jones (People’s Temple leader who caused 909 people to commit suicide, in which mostly the followers were killed) as her soulmate in HELL!!!!!!!
Anyone who sides with the Drews and blamed the Meiers are total fuck ups in their pathetic sorry ass head. They should have their head examined with a x-ray. They are no different than Lori Drew.
It appears Lori Drew told her hairdresser about this.
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2008/0923081drew1.html
Lori Drew. A sick old fuck that preys on emotionally unstable teenagers. She’s not mentally ill, she’s just fucked in the head. She knows damn well what she was doing. If I gave her my version of true justice, I’d make her bleed from the eyes and make her apologize for driving Megan Meier to suicide, involuntarily. Then, I’d hang her and make her pathetic family watch – scar them for life – set them fucking straight. Now that is true justice.
I disagree with what Lori Drew did in as much as she pretended to be someone else and duped the poor teenager. However I DO believe in confronting people directly when they have done something very mean to your children. Two of my son´s friends would follow my daughters to school every day and call them horrible names, telling them theywer sl…..s and that their mother was a sl….t, making fun of them, etc. They were only about 11 or 12 years old but I finally went straight up to those boys and bullied them and insulted them and continued to insult them for weeks after. Talking to parents does not work. The parents either take their own child´s side or the child disrespects the parent and doesn´t obey. One of the boys is now afraid to walk in front of my house and the other one cooled it and crosses the street when he walks by on his way to school. Maybe I overdid it, maybe I am a little nuts, but it got them to leave my daughters alone. That was a few years ago and I am still very cold to them if I ever happen to come across them. I don´t think it is wrong to protect your child´s self esteem from bullies. But it should be done directly.
See if anyone came and told me that my sons had been calling young girls sluts, i can assure you i would not turn a blind eye.
While i dont believe in belting my kids, id think up some other punishment that they would not forget in a hurry.
Your sons friends sound like real assholes and id be having a word with their parents anyway.
Good for you for teaching those friends of your son’s what a parent should act like. Behaving like an adult never gets anyone anywhere. Better to resort to the level of an 11 or 12 year old. After all, that’s all they understand, they are, after all, only 11 or 12, or in Meagan’s case, 13. yeah baby. you go girl. Oh, wait a minute, that kind of sounds like what Lori Drew did, only not DIRECTLY, of course, which, as you pointed out, is so much better…
i just read above how ‘meghan should have been hospitalized’ and ‘clearly it wasn’t the Drew’s that caused this because she was already depressed and fragile’…does any woman out there remember being a 13 year old? i do and it was a lonely place to be even with having MANY friends. you are totally insecure, worried about what everyone thinks and scared. i don’t know a single girl that DIDN’T go through a time feeling like that – i cannot imagine how much WORSE it would feel if you felt like everyone was against you which is exactly how meghan must have felt. a friend of mine’s sister killed herself around 18 years ago after she was bullied and told something similiar to the last note that Lori Drew wrote “the world would be better off without you”. i would like to think that karen (my friends sister) was just feeling incredibly lonely and maybe even wanted to hurt herself to gain pity and have people leave her alone and stop picking on her but unfortunately she took enough pills to kill herself in her sleep. her five year old sister found her the next morning when she tried to wake her for school. meghan sounds very normal to me and experienced many feelings that every NORMAL teenage girl feels INCLUDING suicidal thoughts. being a teenager is a SCARY time and it’s up to adults to reassure their kids of who they are and who they will be some day and to make sure our kids treat each other with kindness and the way they would like to be treated themselves…NOT ENCOURAGE their kids to bully and they even be the ring leader. that is just disgusting. i hope she gets prison and feels everyday what that young girl must have felt.
People who’re posting the Drew’s private contact information and stating: “Don’t let them rest until Lori jumps off a building” ARE AS GUILTY AS LORI DREW HERSELF OF INTERNET HARASSMENT.
I didnt see the posts you mentioned, and while i hate Lori Drew and what she did, i have to agree…we dont want to stoop to her level. Well, some of you probably would…lol.
naaa I go lower. Like the lower intestines. I like to liik at people’s lower intestines.
Ew, Mulch!
Have you ever looked closely at the lower intestine? Funny little things. Do a great job and smile all the time. Tell them to do something and they smile warmly and nod.
I agree. I think the woman is the scum of the earth, she must have been really unpopular as a teenager and has probably obsessed about it ever since, especially since she felt the need to revert back to that age and go full out “mean girl” against a child. Too bad she set such a nice example for the daughter she was so concerned about. Its a little bit hypocritical through when people protesting what she did are posting her private numbers and encouraging her to hurt herself.
Hey, i was bullied in primary school. It was rough and it affected my self confidence. Kids can be really nasty.
I now have a daughter who was recently being bullied at school.
Now i could have gone in, guns blazing and told the little bitch that was picking on her that if she kept her crap up, i was gonna rip her head off and shit down her throaght.
I was tempted( just joking). But instead i went throught the school administration and we worked out how to solve the problem in a peaceful, non suicidal way.
My daughter and this other girl have now decided to agree to disagree. They will probably never be friends, but they show each other respect and refrain from throwing insults at each other.
If nine year olds can figure it out, im sure Megan and Sarah could have if given the chance to do so.
But thanks to Lori, its never gonna happen. She acted like a child herself, and refuses to admit any responsibility for her actions.
I can understand where you coming from. However, I am more inclined to believe that Lori Drew had a normal childhood. I am not defending her in any shape or form. I think this stems from her personality disorders she has. It is true that some people bully because they were bullied themselves.
However, in Drew’s case she probably never had to deal with rejection in life. Also, I suspect this has to do with jealously, pent-up anger, and self hate. She seriously had too much anger and wanted to lash out.
correction, that would be JUSTICE SERVED!
seriously wtf is wrong wit dis ladyy likee act ur fukin agee WHO THE FAWK makes up a boyfriend to a youngg teenn likee datt naww dis lady is a wasteee N SAYING DAT MEGAN IS UGLY N FAT ARE U DUMBB HAS DIS LADY SEEN HERSELFF ANYWAYSS megan R.I.P N OTHER LOVEDD ONESS
Although I agree with you I need to say that you should really stay in school. English is not that hard to learn.
I don’t know Lori or Megan, or anyone involved. In fact, I’m in Canada…but when I read through these posts, I see a trend of Internet harrassment.
OK, I understand that frustration, and what Lori Drew did was so wrong, on so many levels, but that’s what we’re mad about.
We’re mad that Lori manipulated Megan, we’re mad that she ultimatley lead to the death of Megan…
So what do some do? Come on here to voice thier opinions, when someone doesn’t agree with someone else’s opinion they harrass them.
Isn’t this the same thing? Respect people’s posts, respect their opinions, the way you’d want yours to be respected.
This here is the problem. NO ONE has stepped up to be the bigger person in this story, and the same is going for the posting on this blog.
Do I believe Lori Drew should go to jail? Yes. I think she should serve at least 20 years. She’s a horrible person. What “grown” woman would mess with a teenage girl? When I first read this story I thought Lori was maybe 13, to find out she’s a parent is even scarier.
She’s not only responsible for the death of Megan but she’s a pretty crappy mom. Mother’s are supposed to teach their child respect, and how to deal with situations. This is obviously not an efficient way to deal with anything.
I will forever pray for very bad things to happen to the entire Drew family. It’s sad to wish something on someone but I hope the entire drew family rot’s in hell.
I join you in prayer!
I know a lot of you are gonna jump me for saying so, but i kinda feel soryy for LOri’s daughter.
With a mother like Lori, the girl has no hope of ever becoming a productive member of society.
From the time that kid was born she was subjected to Lori’s idea of mothering. No wonder the kid turned out to be a bitch.
Hopefull she will one day get out from under her mothers influence and make changes in her life…before she reproduces.
47yo takin revenge on a 13yo?
lori drew INSTINCTIVE WOMEN?
lori drew BRAINLESS MOM?
lori drew NOT RESPONSABLE OF HER ACTIONS AT 47?
.thanks every god. The Internet is making some kind of justice. taking this under evrybodis eyes. Murdered at 13 on myspace.
[...] récemment, l’affaire Lori Drew a déchaîné les chroniques. Lori Drew, mère de famille quadra, s’est inventé un profil [...]
People of the earth please dont worry. Lori Drew will recieve a special gift this coming year. All of her negative energies that she used to destroy an innocent young life will come back to her and manifest itself in a different form. You get what you give.
I cannot wait to see the look on Lori’s face when she meets me in person.
D
Lori’s next move will be to write a book and get rich off this whole ordeal.
You know folks will buy the book because they are so curious about what was on Lori’s mind.
Here in Australia there have been several people who have been banned from making profit from writing about their crimes. They can write the book, but all proceeds must go to charity.
Hopefully the same will happen with Lori’s story. I say they should set up a Megan Meirs fund, with all proceeds going towards teen with depression. And all Lori’s royalty checks should fund it.
I hope the fat cow and her fat cow daughter both rot in Hades. If she had done that bullshit to my daughter she wouldn’t have the opportunity to write about it later…
this woman deserves every bit of nasty karma to be unleashed upon her. she and her fast, nasty daughter deserve to rot in jail. i hope the meier family cleans them out in civil court and destroys their lives, the way the drews’ destroyed megan’s.
That’s the stuff in our days. Suicide is so trendy , that’s because kids are fools and adults belive themselves so smart in comparison with kids , that they make bad jokes and stupid things that affect very much the kids. The school is also to blame , many hours spent learning shit , why? It makes teens lose their mind , the society we live in has nothing good everything is based on making bureaucrats more rich , and follows the interests of useless twats al around the globe . A change must be made , here in Romania the situation sucks , school kills people and politics destroy them . So as a conclusion it’s the fault of all the people for what happens , don’t try to deny it , it’s true , I took some action in stopping this senseless system but one man is too small for a entire planet , everyone is to be blamed for the things that happen :me , you , the rest , etc.
MEIN EHRE HEISST TREUE.
what a piece of s&^t. Is this person and adult? She has no shame. How can a 40+ year old adult be so concerned about another persons 13 year old child. What an emotionally insecure person. if this had been my daughter, Lori would be dealing with one very angry father.
One more thing , parents are losers most of them , they don’t focus their attention on children they are always interested in how to spend money , how to earn them , what to do during a honeymoon , how to fuck with their partener or how to hook up with another person they like , splitting up the family , adults are nothing but sex machines , more than spoiled full-grown kids , they are always interested on how to preserve their marriages or how to find a new person to mate with , ignoring the kids and their duty for them . Kids aren’t good , adults aren’t good , what is good is something in between , something that knows all the problems kids or adults have , the teens should rule the countries , not old twats with a fat belly , real teens not spoiled assholes or other gay fuck-ups . Take action , riot in the streets we can’t allow this to continue. It’s time to change the arrogant adults and emo kids , that cut their bodies to shreds just for fun . And never should families shed even a tear , it’s their fault for not making the child their top priority , and not raising him accordingly. MEINE ZEIZT KOMMT NOCH.
Wenn du so denks dann ist deine zeit schon vorbei du depp!
Gut das jemand hier ne bissla deutch kann oder?
C’mon guys, thats not fair…English please!
Maybe your parents darl…
I can assure you that as a parent, i do not think i am selfish. Everything in my entire world is about my kids and what is best for them.
Sorry you have such fukwits for parents. But dont categorize me in the same bunch as them.
what a twat
sorry,but did you reffered at me ? if not then have a nice day , if yes GFY!
sorry,but did you referred at me ? if not then have a nice day , if yes GFY!
sorry,but did you referred at me ? if not then have a nice day , if yes GFY!
HEIL HITLER!!!
Heil dich selbs im arsch depp!
Drecksäcke wie du sind der Grund das keine deutche darf stoltz zeigen. Mausficker.
Seine Mutter hasst Seife und Wasser!
Ich habe ein Gefühl gehabt, das riecht, war der Arsch seiner Mutter.
hahahahaha!!!!
Yeah lol She should wash her crack lol :)
Von 99 Luftballons
Und dass sowas von sowas kommt
lmao!
I completely agree that although Lori Drew is a horrible person for doing this, she is innocent. Look people, lying is wrong, but the internet isn’t real life, if you treat it like real life people will take advantage of you and people need to know this. At the same time, the Internets anonymity is one of it’s greatest attractions. It’s a place where no one knows your race or religion or socio-economic status, but it’s also a place where everything should be taken with a grain of salt. Everytime I fill something out on the internet (besides making a purchase), I lie. The fact is you don’t know who is taking that information and what it is being used for. Sure this is a horrible thing to happen to a girl with a promising future, but people need to learn to question things more rather than taking everything at face value. It would’ve been nicer if it didn’t take a young girl to die for people to realize this, but it’s good if something positive can come out of this tragedy.
Also, I’m going to post something next that says the girl needed to die because she “was a bitch.” Hopefully if you’ve read this you’ll be able to objectively look at the rash of reactions to what just demonstrates my point mentioned above of people needing being more careful of what they believe.
Hello lori drew… your daughter is a fat pig like you
megan meir was a bitch. she dservd to die stupid cunt. 10r1 dr3w is my an hero
cut it out, drew family member.
which one are you anyway, lori or her daughter? only the 2 of you could be so senseless and hateful.
AFakeName: Another Epic Troll maybe???
Your comments are for shock value and have no merit. And honestly, your not that shocking. I have heard worse. Grow up you idiot.
Wow! I mean just….wow. It took you what 30 seconds to post that? Gosh. I am almost impressed.
would have impressed me more if you put in a few smilies.
You do know that your IP has been lodded and can be traced? If someone shows up on your door step at 3 AM with a baseball bat asking if you really are a fan of a fat ugly whore don’t be suprised…
Wow, blame the victim. You’re no better than Lori Drew. In fact I put them in league with people who blame America for 9/11 or followers of Westboro Baptist Church. Blaming the victim is what a psychopath does.
Safety and peace my friends!
Each one has the right of thinking as he may please , this is democracy after all , you chose it , no one has the right to ban nazis from replying , why don’t you ban communists , gay , gypsy , satanists , rockers , hippies , etc. This is democracy and you can’t change it! Have a nice day!
Wir mögen nicht Hass hier arsch depp.
Versuchfrieden oder gehen Sie weg.
was für, Scheiße-Vogel. gehen Sie jetzt weg.
Your not a nazi…your a nazi wanna be. Your no one.
A man dies , but his ideas live on. Everyone’s idea will be followed by someone , none may be forgotten , some ideas may be buried by others , but in the end it’s better if you let people express themselves as they please , as an example the Germans that try so much to hunt the nazis , would better let them express as they wold please , what’s wrong in wearing some interesting sign on your arm , that resembles a cross. Nazis are hated , but everyone seems to have forgotten the Japanese killed in Hiroshima and Nakasaki , the Russians killed by Stalin , the injustice made by the adorable Americans for their own interests , everyone is for his own in our days , don’t try to deny it . Everyone has his own fault for what happens . Thanks for reading! God bless the world ! GODSPEED !
Ach, schließt die Hölle schon, dummer Arsch ab.
Lori is a stupid bitch that needs to die and her daughter looks like a fat ass pig. Bitch needs to put the fork down!
You fat fuck!! The daughter should go to hell too
I feel sorry for both sides. The Meiers family for their lost, and the Drew family for having to wake up every morning knowing how much words can hurt. Like the words that are being used here on this blog.
A person can never take words back after being said. People forgive, but don’t forget.
Years ago, I tried to commit suicide. Took 101 tranqulizers. I was rushed to the hospital and was saved.
Suicide doesn’t cross a persons mind on the day they try to die. I thought about why, how, when, for months before I took those pills. (And let me tell you all one thing, it was the hardest and most emotional time in my life, knowing I was giving everything up). A lot of times I would say things to my friends and boyfriend about dying, no one listened, and I figured the world would be better off without me.
Today I am so faithful, and thankful for being saved and given a second chance. And realizing that the only real problem I had was….PMS.
I understand the build up to somone committing suicide very well. My brother, who suffers from mental illness, has tried many times. He does not tell anyone he is going to do it. He pretends that all is fine. And then one day, you get a call from the hospital, or you go visit him and find him locked in his car in the garage trying to gass himself…..
So we stay vigilant and hope he does not one day sucseed.
I feel sorry for the Meiers family. They lost their daughter, and it never should have happened. Lori should never have pushed as hard as she did.
As for Lori’s family…well, i kinda feel sorry for them, but then i think, well her daughter knew what she was doing. She had a consience and a mouth, and at any time she could have said, ” enough mum, your going too far.” but she didnt. She sat back and laughed at another persons misery.
Anyone that knew about what Lori was doing and didnt urge her to stop or notify Meghans parents are also just as guilty.
They virtually handed Megan the noose and told her to use it.
I HATE you lori drew
If I ever saw you in public I would strangle your daughter in front of you while forcing your eyes open and directly on her.
I would then crucify, and after 7 days of giving you nothing to eat but water and brusselsprouts
I would burn you alive but only for a few seconds at a time then put you out, so it takes a few days.
then I would vomit, poop and urinate all over your bodies.
SUFFER
YOU CUNT
DEAR GOD, NO!! NOT BRUSSEL SPROUTS!!!
Hahahaha, i think you have some anger issues…but yeah..whatever floats your boat!!
well I’m gonna tell u, what u told megan : “the world would be a better place without you”.
This article was obviously geared towards villifying Lori Drew. None of you know what drove her to do this because none of you have a daughter that suffered from bullying. If Megan couldn’t handle being bullied then she shouldn’t have been bullying Lori Drews daughter.
Suicides go to Hell.
Megan will never see Lori Drew ever again.
Trisha
YOU ARE A IDIOT! If two 13 year old girls are having a problem and one is picking on the other it does not give a grown woman the right to step in and become the Bully. You are right Megan won’t see Lori again Megan is at peace and Lori will and should never be. Also I might add that I can’t imagine anything Megan would have said that would justify bulling her in that way. If Lori Drew had any dignity she would have handled the situation like a parent not like a child. I hope she loses everything but it still wouldn’t be enough that Rhino gets to see her daughter every day.
Wake up Trisha. Your talking like a fool. I do have a daughter. She is nine. She is also as tall as i am already, and while im not 6ft, im not what you’d call short.
She has also started developing breasts and our family Doc say’s she is not far off from getting her period.
The other girls her age tease her terribly. On one occasion they pushed her to the ground and started kicking her. They call her fat, ugly, smelly, a bitch an slut…im tellling you, things got really bad there for a while.
I could have quite easily gone up to each and every one of those little girls and ripped them a new asshole. They were hurting my child.
Instead i did what ADULTS do. I went to her school teacher. I went to her principal and to the parents of the other children. When i felt i was getting nowhere fast, i wrote to my local member of parliament and our Minister for Education. I put my daughter into therapy and got her involved in as many after school events as possible.
The result is that two of the girls got expelled and others got suspension and in school suspension. The Minister of Education reviwed the school bullying policy and found it to be inadequete and the school was made to come up to standard. Teachers were sent to learn strageties and my daughters self confidence slowly grew.
She still has some sad days, but she is ok, and i didnt have to kill anyones child to get the result i needed.
Lori acted like a teenage girl instead of a mother. SHe set a bad example for not only her child but also for other teens that she had involved in her prank.
There is no such place as hell, but its times like this that i wish there was. Then fools like you would get what they deserve.
Amy, what makes you so sure there is no Hell? If your into not tellling others how to beleive like you have regurally told me, maybe you should change your wording to say “you don’t beleive in Hell”.
Well just thought you should practice what you preach. Or do your laws of posting only apply to us?
Fine then Penny. I dont believe in hell. Does that make you feel better?
Any other childish swipes you want to take?
I already said i was not going to argue with you, and i mean to stand by that statement.
So keep taking pot shots darl. Your not hurting me any.
God Bless you Penny. Your one of a kind:)
I don’t believe in Hell, I just hope it exists for people like you, you sick fucking whore.
Ummm Trisha White.. You are in the WRONG PLACE if you are looking for a “Lori Drew pity party” this site is called “people you’ll see in hell”. Since Lori earned a spot here yes the article cast her in a negative light. Oh and where is the proof that Megan ever bullied anyone, including Lori’s daughter? I have never heard anything besides teenage girl hearsay, which we all know is sooo credible. And even IF SHE DID Lori was wrong. She’s an adult and there was other ways to handle the situation.
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I don’t think all the bad things people think or feel about Lori Drew will in anyway make things better. That being said it is hard not to be hateful against this poor exuse for a mother / pittiful human being. She shows no remorse for her actions. There may have been a depression issue with Megan but what Lori Drew did could have caused any teenage girl with hormones and emotions running wild to harm themselves or commit suicide. I am so angry that Lori Drew is escaping harsher punishment in this case all because “she never read MY SPACE terms of agreement.” That should not have even been allowed as a defence. Everyplace on the internet has rules if you are on a site you know has terms of use agreement behave yourself or at the very least read the rules. She had to know deep down that she was doing something wrong. At the very least she was commiting fraud. If a 40 year old man had the same conversations on line with a underage girl or boy pretendenig to be someone there own age interested in a relationship with them people would scream child molester (including Lori Drew if it were her daughter) So that alone should have come to her mind and she should have said to herself I might be breaking a law or at least bending it!!! She is one idiot!!
She knew she had broken the law. Otherwise she would not have kept what she did to herself and told others to keep quiet about it.
She knew. And she still had the audacity to attend the girls family and interact as a friend with her greiving parents.
She wanted to speculate and see the outcome of her actions up close and personal. She wanted to gloat at what she had achieved.
She is 100% pure, unadulterated BITCH!
I’ll have an excuse for a toast (it’ll be an excuse for Dom Perignon, even) when I get the news that Lori Drew has an incurable,looooooong, and VERY PAINFUL lung cancer.
I feel horrible for both people in this case. Lori Drew didn’t have the right to do those things to Megan and I’m sure she had no clue the poor girl would commit sucide.
For one thing where were the parents? Megan was a 13 year old on Myspace. I thought Myspace was only suppose to be for 18 year olds? Her parents should have been watching her!
The thing is that Megan did not commit sucide JUST because of Lori Drew. That poor girl must have had a ton of different things going through her head during that time. She needed help way before. That’s why I wonder where the parents were in that time span. Sounds like the mom didn’t have much of a hold on her for yelling at her right before she commited sucide.
I pray for Megan and I feel horrible for the poor thing. Knowing she was feeling sad and hurt during those last moments. It’s sad. I pray for her soul, family and friends. I wish her parents would have been around more for her, maybe then they would have stopped this.
Lori Drew was playing a horrible sick joke and I dont think she meant any serious harm. Yet for doing this toa child is wrong and shouldn’t have happened and hopefully she will learn from this but I feel bad for her as well because now she has to live with this even though it wasn’t all her fault.’
Pray for them all. God Bless.
” I dont think she meant any serious harm.”
The messages she left Megan say otherwise. She WANTED to hurt the girl. SHe wanted her to suffer.
She may not have wanted her to die, but none the less, she did mean that young woman harm.
idk, lori drew knew that girl was mentally unstable and suicidal before she put her plan into action, so that leads me to believe she just might’ve wanted her to die.
I believe she wanted to get back at the girl for hurting her own daughter. I think it was wrong…yes. Because she is an adult but still I don’t believe she meant to have her kill herself. IF thatpoor child killed herself it goes way farther back to a deep depression. NOT just a bad email from a fake person. This child was seriously ill and hurt deeply way before that lady did that.
Where were the parents? I thought Myspace was for 18 years and older…why didn’t they check that out before she got on that site. That’s not great parenting.
if u were smart lynn um her parnets were checking her myspace her parents figured it out and tried to make things better but culdnt do then megan killed herself ooh and lori drew had no reason to do that 2 megan she is stupid and she didnt even say srry lori is selfish and she deseerves to b arrested ooh just to let u know im an adult 2 aand people older than 18 were checking it and tried to make it safe
Um yeah lynn…what the fuck!!! How can you defend that bitch for doing something so disgusting to that 13 year old girl?? Maybe you need to get your head on straight cause no matter what the circumstances may have been its still not an excuse. Fuck that bitch and hopefully you get your head out of your ass!!!
Many people stand at the edge of a cliff and think about jumping off. Just because they think about it does not give someone the right to come up beind them and give them a push.
Lori pushed.
Ok send that bitch Lori straight to hell!! She is a waste skin and and I hope that guilt consumes her.
Lynn I hope YOU burn in hell with Lori
By the way, tell Lori Drew she’s a bitch and the devil’s wife and she WILL burn in Hell. There is no forgiveness on earth or in Heaven for an adult who did such a despicable thing. And the sexual conversations? From a 49 year old woman to a 13 year old girl? Don’t blame Megan. Blame LORI- the perverted disgusting bitch who is the lowest form of life on earth. You are predator AND a murderer. And anyone who supports that evil bitch can burn with her! Lori, do the world a favor and off yourself as soon as possible. The earth will BE a better place and smell better without the stench of your vile evilness!
Wanda, you are so very INCORRECT.
There is forgiveness on this earth. I could forgive her. And I hope you see how immature your post was. If she turns her life over to Jesus Christ, she will be saved. Wish I could say the same thing for you.
And guess what? If Megan was christian before she died, they will be forgiving each other in heaven. There is no room for hate up there. And let this be a lesson for all of you!
So you are some weirdo Christian bitch. Well, that explains a lot.
If you are capable of forgiving people like her, then you have the hell-ticket booked for sure. Hope you get raped by Mr. Satan. Anally, of course, and without lube. Smelly Jesus-freak cunt, ewww.
Any decent adult understands teens are vulnerable. period. It is sick and illicit to lead a 13 year old into a relationship that developes sexual context if you are an adult. It is particularly sick if your motive is retaliation for your own child over gossip. What kind of adult interacts with any child this way? I find it really weird that a mother who has an issue with the way a child may have gossiped about her kid then attacks the child. She doesn’t call the other parents, or the families of other students, or deal with any adults – no she seduces a child with lies. Meanwhile, she maintains a pseudo-friendship with the family the way a sexual predator would.
I am sure she didn’t intend for Megan to commit suicide. I will assume that she isn’t that evil, but I could be wrong – maybe she just didn’t think she’d get caught. At the least, she is guilty of sexual conversations with an underage girl with purposeful malicious intent. If she was a man, and Megan hadn’t died, Lori would be prosecuted for illicit conduct with a minor.
I wonder if this would have played out differently if Lori had come forward immediately expressing absolute guild and remorse, and taking responsibility. If she had admitted her full culpability and stupidity, and said she never thought Megan would be so devastated, maybe we wouldn’t hate her so much. Maybe instead of thinking she was evil, we would just say she was bitchy and immature, but didn’t mean for this to happen. IDK.
How can she not be sorry? How could anyone who did this not be overcome with shame and remorse? For messing with a child? A child of people she treated as friends?
Wasn’t all her fault?
She created the account with intention to hurt her as much as possible, which worked.
The woman is completely crazy. Even 13-yr-old would deserve electric chair for this, let alone adult woman.
Every kid I know has a my space including my niece who is 13. She is moitored very close but even still you can never be sure who the people she talks to really are. It is scary but it is the world we live in the age of computers and I would assume most (not all) but most kids have a my space, some with the knowlege of there parent(s) and some without. Megans parents knew she had a my space and it wasn’t that they didn’t know or care who she was talking to but they thought it was a boy around her age not a grown woman who was gathering information with the intent to harm their daughter. Lori may not have planned for Megan to end up dead but she did intend to harm / humiliate her. I don’t really agree with forming romantic relationships on the internet but it seems to be the norm these days for grown ups and teens and that is what a 40 something woman formed with a 13 year old girl under the cover of being a young boy. She commisioned the building of a my space page complete with pictures of Josh and formed a relationship that made Megan trust Josh enough (over the course of many months) to discuss personal matters.
Then “somehow” and by “accident” (yeah right) she leaked those private thoughts for all to she. She/Josh also became very mean and hostile to Megan all withing about 2 hours and I am expected to believe she didn’t mean her any harm. Even a stable 13 year old girl would be devestated knowing people read her expectedly private thoughts and feelings. Then to have a friend or boyfriend (however you want to view it) be responsible for it and also tell her horrible things such as the world would be better without you. Lori Drew did all of that posing as a young boy. Lori also had knowlege of Megans condition. She ment to harm Megan and she did. I will never feel sorry for Lori no matter what anyone says. She has not even gotten what she desevrves. I hope Lori and her daughter Sarah (who is not little miss inocent by the way) get to read all of the nasty comments about them. I hope her Sarah feels lower then Megan did that day and that Lori and Sarah cry themselves to sleep. The thing is they know this is comming they are prepared for this wrath and Lori can comfort Sarah. Lori turned on Megan so fast that she had no chance to be comforted she died hurt and humiliated because of Lori and Sarah. Lori may not have killed Megan but she caused her die without comfort or peace. Rott Lori Drew you could lose everything and it still would not be enough.
I do indeed hope that The Drews theselves die a shitty life indeed. They messed with a little girl and may they see wrath. I feel sorry for the meiers, and the guy who was used. The pic of josh evans, i feel sorry for the dude who’s pic was used. Damnit, this ain’t fair.
Innocent life. Gone.
At least ashley drew admitted and sais sorry/fuck the drews.
I didn’t even think about that. Some guy is out there with the face that they used.
Amazed that Ashley apologized. Its a miracle she has a heart after coming from those people
Is it weird that they’re not in protective custody beings that I think most of us share your sentiments with even more people liking nothing more than to smack this bitch in her face?
that’s really crazy. how could she call someone fat when she herself look like an elephant?
this might be dumb to some of you but here it goes. lori is stupuid dumb basterd and she should go to hell she should be the most hated women in america and she is she should get arrested for calling a child with add problems and telling her that she is a shitty slut and the world would be better with out her the world would be better with out her and her fat assed daughter so if anyone wants to disagree with me go ahead and do that no one should because this is all very true
I wrote this.
What is your people PROBLEMS? DO I HAVE TO FEND FOR LORI EVERYWHERE?
She was labeled the most hated woman in a America. I feel sorry for Morgan, but I feel pity for Lori. Hopefully, she will not rest in hell, but be in peace in heaven. Read my post, please.
Only she can decide if she goes to hell or heaven. Only she can, and no-one but the devil himself deserves to remain in hell forever. Even Hitler could have gone to heaven, dispite all the demonic and horrible things he did. Who was worse, Lori, a mom with a typical girl revenge and gossip habits, or hitler the man who massacred millions of jews? Even Stalin was worse than Hitler, and he could have gone to heaven.
P.S: Think, do not be spiteful and immature.
O, I think alright. I think this bitch will get everything coming to her. What she did is inexcuseable for any parent. And I damn well guarantee if your child took his/her own life because of the sickening actions someone life Lori Drew orchestrtated, you would not be anywhere as quick to defend them. Lori Drew will not get my pity, and never will. She decides nothing now. She made her bed and she will lie in it. God decides where she will go. No one else. The fact that you even associate Lori Drew, Stalin and Hitler completely kills your merit for an argument. She may not be as evil as Stalin or Hitler, but she definitely wasn’t a Ghandi.
Eh, perhaps. But change can come to any human being.
I am not being quick to defend her, there is a bigger reason for that. Read the bible about gods love and forgiveness. True, if i was in her position, I probably wouldn’t forgive her in fifty years, maybe all my life. But who am I to challenge god. I have nothing more to say, and I stand my ground on forgiveness.
You stand on a deserted island then.
Lori Drew has not shown any remorse and has not repented. You have to earn forgiveness.
As far as comparing Lori Drew to Adolf Hitler and Joseph Stalin, granted they are all evil, but her actions is nowhere comparable to that of Holdomor and Holocaust, which claimed millions of lives. Drew is no doubt reviled like Hitler and Stalin and has Machiavellian tendencies.
You xian right are all the same (one of the only groups in society that I blanket stereotype). Hypocrits.
When it suits you, you espouse that “all sin is the same in the eyes of god” yet when it suits your arguement you claim things like “Who was worse, Lori, a mom with a typical girl revenge and gossip habits, or hitler the man who massacred millions of jews?”
Well acording to your own thinking, they are both as bad as each other and they both will feel the eternal fires in Hell for eternity.
I dont think your dumb at all ashley…i agree with you.
I see a lot of angry people here, and their should be, this is a situation bringing out the most deep seeded reactions to a situation that should never have happened. Here are some of the factors that should be considered.
1. Should a 13 year old be given access to a MySpace account considering this is a new medium of communication that the parents know little to nothing about.
2. Lori Drew a 40 year old woman gets involved in “protecting” her daughter from another 13 year old. I think Lori Drew needs therapy and meds. What makes her even more liable is the fact that she knew this child personally. Even if she didn’t tie the belt around Megan’s neck, her goal was to hurt her emotionally and possibly for life. (As all 13 year old girls feel about life ending drama)
3. everyone else involved in this where pawns to Lori Drew. Her Employee (what would have happened if she looked at her boss and said “Grow Up”) the other girl in the neighborhood was just following a (and I use the term very loosely) “Grown Up’s” lead on a teenage game.
Where was I going with this??? Oh yeah considering all the angles… I’m done….Lori Drew, I am so happy your business will suffer; I hope you had to let go of Ms.Ashley because of dwindling sales. I know this is affecting your husbands business. So all in all your little Girl will probably need therapy and meds too… to boot her Fat genes.
Lori must have been a little troll herself when she where young… all this anger pent up in her, she must have thought you where defending her daughter, something her mother probably didn’t do for her. Its funny in the past parents knew their kids where trolls or not. Builds character to have them learn and deal with these life issues. So her life accomplishments are.
Making a 13 year old kill themselves (mind you who suffers from depression)
Destroying your daughter’s image of you. (Unless she thinks you’re still great then she needs therapy)
Making your husband consider whether to re marry or make you suffer.
Moving and changing your name. (Mind you we will find you)
But the best part is changing your all American life to on the run from America…
A woman in her 40′s acting like a child and knowing that this girl suffered depression but yet still pretending to be a boy and then beating this 13 yr old down into causing her to kill herself is disgraceful. Lori Drew is meant to be a mature adult and obviously showing signs of being disturbed and should be treated as so.
The woman is almost 50. She is probably a raging psychopath in a mid-life crisis and lacks maturity.
I agree. no adult could act this way without being seriously f*ck*d up. Although most people in a mid-life crisis, or menopause/andropause, are never this irresponsible or intentionally harmful. They buy convertibles or date a 25 year old, not verbally assault a 13 year old. What is so sickening is Lori continued acting like she was a family friend the whole time. She’s a predator.
True, mid-life crisis don’t cause people to do evil things. Lori Drew had a mix of envy, resentment, self-hate, paranoia, and psychopathy. She projected her self-hate by harassing Megan with her daughter and Ashley Grills by calling her “fat”. Also I think Drew has some latent homosexuality and is afraid of being identified as one. She is no different from Fred Phelps of the Westboro Baptist Church and the fact that she does look like him. Granted, Phelps is psychotic and delusional. Paranoia is a recurring theme in a lot of evil people from Drew, Phelps, Osama bin Laden, and Adolf Hitler. Not that I am comparing to someone who commits terrorism and genocide.
ok well lori drew should face the fact that some one doesnt want to b her daughters friend like she doesnt want to b ur daughters friend then deal with it dont b a spoiler and get her back 4 that and dont b like a little kid and prank some one just caus ethey did some thing u didnt like people want 2 move on with there lifes and another thing is that she knows that megan had a problem so then why did she prank some one on myspace that has a nproblem megans mom was a good parents she tried everything she culd 2 make megans life safe there was lori that came in a made thing dangerous she lied she pranked and that was wrong and lori didnt even care that megan died people mite say that megan killed her self but lori made life dangerous 4 her lori made happiness 4 megan then she turned it in 2 a never ending nite mare and i hope that they make that a law not being able 2 do that
well i hope that lori drew learns that it is wrong and i not saying that she should go to hell but she needs to learn that it is wrong to do stuff and she should really apoligize and she shuld give gifts to megans parents wen it is
Does anyone here on PYSIH believe in aliens?
Cause i think Lori could do with a good old fashioned anal probe. No lube allowed of course!
I agree, I want an anal probe too.
I think we may have an imposter Amy…
I just heard about this.. and I’m sickened. No jail? No punishment? The legal system really screwed up here. When a little girl dies at the hands (not literally hands) of another, punishment must be dealt! Lori, no punishment is good enough for what you did.
well all i have to say is that well this is a old story so people need to forgive and 4get and if lori drew doesnty apoligize then she feels that it wasnt her fault cause she didnt make megan kkill herself then that is wat
Forgiveness has to BE EARNED. Lori Drew must repent, which she has not done yet. Don’t be so ignorant. Frankly, I have very low regards for Lori Drew. She has to be the most vile and worthless person besides Charles Manson, Jim Jones, and Osama bin Laden/September 11 Terrorists. And no, I am not equating Lori Drew with thousands of people getting horribly killed.
Forgive and forget? Oh hell no!! Fuck Lori and fuck you too for that matter.
This fat assed bush pig desroyed a child. She destroyed a whole family. And why? Because she could. She doesnt apoligize because she is a selfish, fat fuck who thinks he had the right to act the way she did. She is a totally, pathetic excuse for a woman, mother and person. Im personally sick to death of seeing her ugly, smug face.
So just fuck off you twat!!
No forgiveness, no salvation.
No one will forgive Lori until she realizes that there is wrong in what she did. USS Yorktown is right “Forgiveness must BE EARNED”. If Lori never repents how can anyone forgive her?
tai yra labai neteisinga nemegstu laura visais
yay let’s all BULLY lori drew because she BULLIED megan.
such a vicious cycle.
Well you sure shamed me into changing my opinon of Lori…NOT!!!
i’m sorry, i didn’t want to change your opinion. however, i think all the name calling and fowl language is inappropriate considering this story. you do realize you are bullying commentors just as lori drew bullied megan?
and please, don’t call me any names such as ‘fat ass bush pig’ because i will hurt myself. (i have weight issues)
Wow… We have a huge assed elephant impersonating a hypocrite on a computer that can type…. Damn I’m impressed it can put down the twinkies and burgers long enough to type out a message…..
So… What knife would you like to use? I highly recommend clorox as a means of losing weight… Drink 2 gallons and within a few minutes you’ll feel weightless….
The Clorox Diet. Ya know, i think its marketable Danger.
Lori bullied a child. A child with mental health issues. I dont think there is a lot we are saing here that isnt true, so its called ‘honesty’ not bullying.
As for your weight issues, try eating less and doing more. Its the only way.
Sorry you fat ass bush pig, Two words SLIM FAST.
This is just another example of bungled and unequal distribution of law.
First to Megan and her family and friends I apologize for the hurt poor Megan had to be feeling to do what she did.
For the Drews and all involved in that shocking display of tasteless and mindless not to mention cruel punishment they felt so eager to flail upon a young tomrented girl. I personally feel that nothing that happens to the Drews by way of loss of business, or being ignored by those around them is strong enough.
All kids have disputes and in a few days they are thick as thieves all over again. No one with any sense pays attention to that. These kids would have settled it amongst themselves in no time if “MOM” would have not added fuel to the problem and fed it with her own stupidity.
If a person has a heart condition and another person badgers and harrasses then to the point of his/her heart failing, it is called manslaughter in most places. If Drew caused this person to commit suicide she was just as gulity as causing a heart attack in a coronary patient.
She should be in prison, and I can almost guarentee if it were a man, he would be in prison.
Yeah, talk about a double standard right there. Of course, who would want to be Lori Drew? I don’t want live a life of being shunned up to death and being hated after death. She is the most hated person besides Fred Phelps, Casey Anthony, OJ Simpson, and Osama bin Laden.
I totally agree. If she were a man who posed as a kid on myspace (or any site) and seduced a 13 year old into discussing sex while gaining that child’s confidence – that would be considered predatory and end up on Dateline “Catch A Predator”. Who the fuck deals with a 13 year old this way?
well all i have 2 say now is that this story is old lori shuld atleast apoligize and make this over with
now lori drew shuld go 2 heell unless she apoligize and she ask 4 gods forginess
Yeah, the law is a joke. It only applies to certain people. THough I did hear a journalist that exposed her and gave out Drew’s private info AND that Drew’s property had been vandalized. So, even though she may not go to jail, she’ll still be punished on the outside. I do hope she suffers.
P.S. – Stupid Congressmen!
lori drew will burn in hell, die a horrible life u fukin bitch
Darkstar, you do not grant a wish for Lori`s death. You should be merciful and kind unto Drew as God will be merciful to you. Darkstar forgive Lori and do not tell her that she will die a horrible death, please be merciful unto Lori and forgive her with kindness and compassionately love. Darkstar I want you to forgive Lori as your Heavenly father will forgive you. May God show his Mercy to Lori. Lori needs God`s Mercy, not death.
What Lori Drew needs is to learn a lesson, and she needs to be punished in some way for what happened. She did irreparable damage. A 13 year old girl, a CHILD, is dead because of her. Think about how you would feel if that were your child. Think about how, just a few years earlier, your child was carefree, playing with dolls, thinking boys had cooties or whatever, and before that girl had a chance to experience what life is like outside the world of her small community and the walls of her school. God created a beautiful child, who sounded like she was really a great girl who communicated with her parents and was cautious, and Lori Drew took her away.
But Lori didn’t just destroy the girl’s life and her family’s life. She has harmed her own child as well. Instead of taking the girls’ spat as a teachable moment, she taught her that hate and retaliation is an acceptable right to a wrong. This girl has not learned how to deal with situations in a mature and responsible manner, and her social and emotional growth has been stunted to the point where she may never be a fully functioning adult. Jesus taught love, Lori Drew taught hate.
My sympathy, and my prayers, are with the victims in this situation, mostly the dead girl and her family, but also with Lori Drew’s daughter.
Any time a parent chooses to particpate in “REVENGE” on a child, they should have their home taken, and their children taken. We should ship them off to one the sinking islands. I wonder how easy adult forgot what it is like to be 13, one simple thing can set you off. When you are 13, that’s all you have, and that’s all you know. I recall wanting to die because of boy broke my heart.
That cow who calls herself a woman, should off herself, as he lard ass is ruining my world. I hope she get hit by a truck and dragged and he familt watched helplessly. I wish I coul dfind her home address, so I could send her a photo of the child she help murder
Unfortunately for this site, a person can not go to hell simply by sinning. The only way to go to hell is not to believe in Jesus Christ and letting him into your heart, to transform and lead your soul.
It may seem bad for the Drew’s, but if you actually do the research, this sounds like typical girl revenge. Not to sound sexist, because not all girls do that, and others can restrain it.
Coming from what I’ve picked up along the way, both girls got pissed at each other, I’m not sure why. For all you know, Sarah Drew could have been the person who started or ended it. Naturally, a mother would feel protective and sneer at the “offender” which relates to anyone other than her daughter, simply because it’s her daughter.
Oh, then comes the gossip. A fake Male account? That’s dumb and smart, if the other person isn’t very bright. The mother probably wasn’t aware that the girl had depression issues, thus disregarded barriers.
So, she tells her husband and an employee, to keep the “joke” going. They spread copied-and-pasted quotes from her, and the word gets let out at school, she is constantly pestered with names, like she had been for probably many years beforehand.
I’ll bet you most of those people had Myspaces as well. Hers something most of you overlooked, however. Who was it that started the sexual digging? When did she get others in on the joke? The Employee and daughter likely did what most girls do – gossip, and tell other people the email and password to the fake male account, thus letting probably fifteen or so people in on it.
However, evidence points to Drew being the sexual digger. The mom felt she had a right to know, like most girls. It’s all very sad.
My sincere regards, Morgan. R.I.P
P.S: I hope that Lori Drew becomes a Christian, and gives her heart over to god. I also hope you all learn a lesson about keeping your nose out of where it belongs. And don’t make any fake accounts ;)
I find it interesting Mead that for someone who feel for this girl you can’t get her name right in your posts, It is MEGAN not Morgan you idiot. Also defending what was done to her is just as bad as doing it. I believe like most religous freaks you are probably a sexual preditor in sheeps clothing. Don’t get me wrong I have nothing against religon or freedom of beliefs. Its just when you start preaching to others as if you know your beliefs are ritious, holy and that things such as going to hell are only how you see them that makes you a freak who loves religon because it validates you and makes you feel superior.
All, ya have to do is believe in Jesus? Thats it? So i can go murder, maim and steal. I can covet my next door neighbours husband and blaspheme and curse…and i STILL get into heaven??? Wow, not much incentive there to do the right thing is there.
Go back and read your bible again. Remember that bit that says “Faith without works is dead.”
See, that means that no matter how much you believe in Jesus…if ya dont back up that belief with action-ie, living by Gods laws- then your still up shit creek without a paddle…Lori is not exactly living by Gods standards is she now?
These people probably never read the Bible. The Bible said don’t murder and it is in the Ten Commandments. And yeah, Drew is not living by the Bible. She is living like what a rotten scumbag does. She lives like one.
Lori Drew was certainly aware of the fact that Megan suffered from depression and took psychiatric medication. Megan often went on trips with the Drews, and Lori Drew would have been aware of Megan’s medication needs. The fact that this ADULT woman became involved in a hateful scheme to inflict emotional pain on an emotionally troubled young girl is INEXCUSABLE. Throughout all the time that has passed, Lori Drew has never taken responsibility for her actions or expressed true remorse. I think her soul has already gone over to the devil.
I hope not. That would be a miracle if she did become a christian. I also hope that if she does, she won’t laugh in your face.
And although it may seem impossible, God is way over our heads, far beyond all comprehension.
At least one of you sees how powerful god is. Lori Drew’s actions may seem horrible, but God’s Love is far greater, and for that, I congratulate Mead Schaffer.
O geez. What is it with you Bible thumpers? You come here and tell us “Well God said never to judge.” Well I have news for you, I’ve been a devout Catholic since the age of 7. Yes, I’m aware that God says not to judge. Well I’m positive that while God never said anything about MySpace, I’m certain God wouldn’t approve of a grown woman torturing and manipulating the mind of a 13-year old year girl. I study the Bible, but I have never forced the Bbiel on anyone who did not ask for it. Leave your religious prefences out of these matters. God is over EVERYONE’S head, including yours, so please keep your spewing off about how you are carrying God’s message to yourselves. Lori Drew’s actions don’t SEEM horrible, they ARE horrible.
Really man, I’m sure if God needed a spokesman, he’d probably pick someone a little less full of themselves than a Born Again. I wouldn’t be surprised if he picked a Buddhist, since they don’t have a dog in the fight and are more likely to speak what’s been spoken to them without any personal editorials or interpretations.
Great, more self-righteous people here. They seem to come in waves.
Well, with them damned polygamist ranches closing down, thye need somewhere to go.
LMAO! I wonder if Westboro Baptist Church is next to close down. Speaking of that, I wonder if Lori Drew’s defenders are followers of Fred Phelps and does she have any plans to join WBC.
Mead and Halley, I suspect that if Lori Drew’s actions had resulted in the suicide of your child, you might feel less gracious towards her.
Yes, God is capable of and willing to save people–but a person needs to take responsibility for their actions and express true repentance from their wrong -doings, neither of which has this woman done thus far, to our knowledge.
Lori Drew will never laugh in my face. Unlike her, I HELP children and adults who are in crisis. I do it full-time for a living, and I do it as a way of life. The only way she and I would cross paths is if she were to wind up in my office for therapy–and I’ll look forward to seeing that happen as I look forward to seeing pigs fly.
People like Lori Drew cannot be treated. She is a clear cut psychopath.
lori drew should burn slowly
I know what she did was despicable. But I’ve got news for you: Well, you’re doing exactly the same thing Lori did to Megan. Pushing a person to the limit, pushing a person off a cliff with all the hate messages. She’ll have her punishment either by law or divine if you believe in God. Let the Law manage this situation.
Fuck sympathy. She toyed with the emotional heartstrings of a 13-year old girl to the point of suicide. What makes you believe she deserves sympathy? If she wanted sympathy she should have thought twice. As far as I’m concerned she deserves all she gets.
No sympathy for this world class scumbag extraordinaire. She got what befalls her. When she goes to prison, she could share a cell with Bernard Madoff, Robert Stanford, and Charles Manson.
No, no we aren’t. Because she is an adult who seduced a child into trusting her and then verbally assaulted her. She isn’t a child and she isn’t a victim.
The point is: Lori is an ADULT. Megan was a CHILD. Lori’s daughter Ashley was a CHILD, and even if she asked her mom to help, Lori is an ADULT. She was an adult who involved other CHILDREN in her game. Children who trusted her because she was an adult.
The ADULT is responsible. She approached Megan. She gained her trust. She betrayed her and tormented her. And she acted like a family friend while she did it.
As much as I am appalled by Lori, I would never attack her daughter because she is a child who should be able to trust her mother.
I don’t think Lori Drew did it because of her daughter. It was because Sarah was called a “Lesbian” and she saw it as an attack on her, not her daughter. She lives through her daughter, a symbiotic relationship with the child, like we saw with Wanda Holloway. She is afraid of being outed as a homosexual and will do anything to stop that, like what Fred Phelps does.
I always thought she did it simply because she is a BITCH!
[...] People You Will See In Hell-Lori Drew [...]
exactly! lori is a azz
This woman is sickening and I hope she finds no peace, ever!!!
ummmmmmmmmmm lynn it is 15 and older soo umm gey ur facts str8
I guess this Lynn and Mead Schaffer must be somehow Lori’s relatives or friends, that she is really really eager to defend her…..
U know Lynn and Mead Schaffer… try to imagine if it was ur daughter… I would really love to know if you still defend and pity for her..
Imagine if it was ur daughter that Lori bullied and then committed suicide…
You just said ur comments because u r not in Tina’s Meier position… try to spend your “smart” brain to position urselves in her position.
and add Halley Strombaum too to those who have to consider if it were her daughter…. Dont be smart ass when u didnt even feel what Megan’s parents feel or what Megan felt..
To Mead Schaffer,
Wohhooo … so u think … after people do bad things… they can suddenly go to heaven n not pay for what he did just because he surrendered to Jesus … wow … so that means u can kill, rape, rob, physically abuse anyone… then after tht u regret n surrender urself to Jesus … n u go to heaven … wow … sounds very easy to run away from crimes …. gosh .. if it is always like that… there will be more criminals in this world u know … U’ve gotta be Protestant … cause i know most protestants do not believe in karma… but I m really sorry for those who believe…. for those… that means u still have good principal :)
And for Haley and Lynn… you must put urself in in Megan and her parents situation … think if you all are called slut all over and get published as slut … think how u will feel…
And watch if ur daughter gets the same experience… find her hung herself to death… I m curious if you still react like above…
It is true… U r all smarty pants… you can say u forgive her because u r not the one she bullied….
I can not understand how a grown woman of 40 years of age would want to get even with a 13 year old girl?1?1? I don’t think Lori or her daughter wanted Megan to die, but I do believe that some serious jail time should come their way. Reason being, they knew that Megan was on anti- depressants regarding her weight and not having too many friends. As a former 13 year old, I can understand the name calling and threats can feel like the end of the world. However, from what I read above, Megan had some serious problems relating to depression. Her parents should have made her go to a psychologist to work out her problems. Now, as I read, it appeared that Megan’s mother knew of Megan and Sarah’s falling out and should have monitored her daughter a little more. As for Lori, it is not up to me to judge her fate, but she will have to live with the guilt for the rest of her life. Lori knew what she was doing, I do not sympathize for her one bit. As far as Myspace goes, I personally, don’t think it is very wise to let your 13 year old children to have an account. in closing, the direct result of Megan’s death falls into the hands of Herself, her family, Lori, and her daughter. Some people may disagree, but if I were Megan’s mom I would already have beat the SHIT out of Lori!!!!
You know how a 40 year old woman, mother and responsible member of a community should get even with a thirteen year old girl who insults her own 13 year old child?
Step 1. Talk to your daughter about the importance of being your own person. Describe to her how people are judged by their actions and their words, and that no one can be perfect in all eyes.
Step 2. Continue to support your daughter by correcting bad behavior and supporting positive behavior.
Step 3. If things with the other 13 year old escalate, contact the mother and father of the offending girl, have a polite conversation where you state only what she did and offer and make clear you have no offer of a path to discipline their child, but felt they should know why you were banning her from your home for a period no less than 3 months.
Step 4. There is no need for anything more than step 3.
Lori Drew is 50 years old.
I was incorrect. She was 48 when the crime was committed?
She was 47 when it happened in 2006.
Probation, fine recommended for Lori Drew in cyber-harassment case.
http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/news/stories.nsf/laworder/story/06DA20BB7F2338CB862575AC00091662?OpenDocument#tp_newCommentAnchor
Don’t know how this will pan out.
I am the mother of a 14 yr old and unfortunately this situation is not all that uncommon. Bare with me I have lots of comments to make:
1. The problem of unchecked use of a new technology such as “MySpace” is not the whole story or problem. WIth the use of social networking sites you also have instant messaging, cell phone use and just plain old face to face gossip all of which afford a new “privacy” that people my age (43) and older never knew (except plain old gossip). I might add that my daughter has been the victim of torture and humiliation in all these forms. I think that we as parents need to learn to use the technology that our kids so easily pick up on because no matter how much you ban the use of MySpace kids WILL get on it. I know too many parents who do not know how to use Google let alone MySpace and their kids are all over the place on the net.
2. I think that parents are not teaching their kids empathy anymore … kids do not know how to be friends with one another and they do not know how to NOT be friends with one another. When my kid was having a rough time made sure to make it a “teachable moment” after I consoled her and I would point out to her to remember how this feels and never do it to anyone yourself. I have also noticed that too many parents are too quick to attack the other kid for meaness and not listen to other parents especially when there is evidence that their kid has been just as bad …. NOT my little darling.
3. In general being a helicopter parent has pretty much become the norm …. NEVER letting your kid feel anything but happiness and never letting them work out their problems. With all that said you add to the mix an immature adult such as Lori Drew and you have the recipe for disaster. I don’t know why but there are a large number of adults out there who seem to be more interested in being their children’s friend instead of their parents as well.
So what is my answer? I think that we need tougher laws regarding the use of MySpace and other social networking sites to protect our kids …. Perhaps we apply for the use of these sites with our SS# in order to assure that a person is 18 yrs and older? I think we must go after people who pose as other people on the net in order to manipulate another. Lori Drew should have been found guilty of a felony and gone to jail. I think that parents need to slow down and spend time teaching their kids how to be morally responsible users of new technology. I think churches need to stop bashing technology and start teaching people how to live with it cause it is not going away. Character does count and teaching our kids to walk in another person’s shoes is important. As for being a helicopter parenting …. I don’t know except that these kids are not being done any favors and we will see many self absorbed, socially inept adults in 10-15 yrs. Again, Lori Drew needs to more severely punished and I hope this is a stepping stone for more legislature against cyber stalking and manipulation.
Prairie, you make some great points, but I don’t think we need more laws. At least not those kinds of laws. What we need to do is to hold people accountable for crappy decisions, and hold PARENTS accountable for neglecting their children when the child does bad things. Of course, we need to use reason… if a kid sneaks out and does something terrible, the parents probably can’t be culpable, but when the parent does not even try to discipline the kid, they should be held accountable.
We do that with our damned DOGS! If a person has a pitbull who attacks we hold the owner liable, but when a kid goes and beats or rapes someone, we give the parents a free pass. What is that all about?
Laws and regulations do not work. They only keep the law- and rule-abiding people in line, and those people are not the problem. My daughter has had completely free reign on her computer since she was 15. She knows stuff that I wouldn’t necessarily want her to know (like two girls,one cup), but I have never worried about her making bad decisions online. On the other hand, she has always known that I reserved the RIGHT to check her computer at any time, and if she gave me even a minute suspicion, I would do it.
Parents need to protect their kids. And if they don’t care enough to do it, then they need to pay the piper when the kid screws up.
And, one other small point of disagreement – it won’t take 10-15 years. We are already seeing a generation of narcissistic, egocentric young adults who think that the world owes them something, and that all is fair, so long as they get what they want. I suddenly feel really old.
Yes, we DO need the laws…so there is some legal recourse for those that have been harmed by people NOT taking personal responsibility and achieving in harassing other individuals.
The good book basically SAYS that laws were made for the unjust…not the just, which keep them naturally.
The only reason we HAVE a reasonably safe society and democracy here is BECAUSE overall, as a society, we respect the law. BECAUSE when someone harms us or our families; we have a legal way of redressing it through our court system.
There will always be those that are willing to consciously or unconsciously harm others….with or without a ‘law’ in place…however, by having a legal standard we make it possible for the victims to more easily seek redress without being tempted to take revenge into their own hands.
Our laws and our judicial system are WHY we do not have to have posses anymore in our society.
Just because something is not clearly ‘illegal’ does not make it right; nor does it preclude private individuals from pursuing civil suits that may initiate legal precedents from which later similar cases will be judged. Though it is much more costly to pursue a private civil suit rather than have a society supported District Attorney to pursue a criminal charge; only those with financial means tend to pursue civil suits.
For the rest of us, criminal law MUST keep pace with the daily realities that we are living and the sorts of threats we may be facing from others if we are going to continue to respect that law as individuals and society and not be tempted to enact our own private revenge.
you are a bad parent
LORI DREW’S ADDRESS!!!
269 Waterford Crystal Drive, Dardenne Prairie, Missouri 63368
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2007/1120072megan1.html << source // an online copy of a police report filed by her after she had been confronted by a member of the Meier family
I saw that report from The Smoking Gun, which verified it did really happened. When I first heard of the story, I thought it was too bizarre to be true. The address is outdated because the Drews moved out, most likely in Los Angeles. Drew was tried in the same courthouse as OJ Simpson and Charles Manson, the three most hated people.
This young woman was depressed and suicidal long before this happened.. Her parents were just as responsible for this as anyone else. I think her parents should have been paying more attention to her. Sorry, that’s the way I feel.
To blame the Meiers is very naive, foolish, and stupidity. It is blaming the victim. By your thinking, we should be blame the victims of Jeffrey Dahmer, Eric Harris/Dylan Klebold, Seung-Hui Cho, and the list can go on and on.
The point is, anyone who sympathizes with the Drews are sick too. Lori Drew is the most vile, worthless excuse of a person right next to Osama bin Laden/September 11th Terrorists.
Clarification, I am NOT in any shape and form, equating Lori Drew’s action with 9/11 Terrorist Attacks, Columbine, or Virginia Tech Massacre. Anyone who had to go through it, gets my utmost sympathy. That would be very offensive to anyone who survived and lost loved ones. What I mean is that blaming the victim is wrong and disgusting and I used them as examples. I know after Columbine, there were people blaming the victim and some were blaming America for 9/11. Now, they are people who blame the Meiers. That is called blaming the victim and that is shifting the blame.
I really hate to admit this, but I just don’t understand why most people don’t hold her parents at least a little responsible. Or even Megan herself *dodges tomatoes*? Let me be clear: Lori Drew WAS WRONG! I will definitley admit to that, and she is very deserving if some form of punishment, but to brand her as one of the most hated people in America? I can come up with other people more deserving of the title. Now I admit I was all on the “Lori is the devil” bandwagon but recent life events have altered my views on this. I just want to put it out there that Megan ended her life because some boy on the computer that she had never even talked to told her he was done with her. Megan ended her life because of things that I know happen to teenagers everyday. she didn’t think of her parents or family or any of the friends she had she focused on a few people that didn’t like her. I just have to wonder what her home life was like that she placed soo much importance on that social interaction? Like Candice said she had theses issues before so while Lori and friends were definitley a catalyst I just can’t blame them completely. Okay everybody don’t jump me at once:) I just been thru somethings lately that made me look at things different and I wanted to get that off my chest.
Let’s put this into perspective. I’m an adult, and maybe you’re an adult. Maybe you work in an office in a professional field, and I impersonate someone who can offer you a better job. I get you to say and do a variety of things you’re not proud of, but I promise discretion and that invites more disclosure. I get you to extend your sexual boundaries and I share this information with people you know, maybe even people you have to deal with on a daily basis where you work. When I finally break things off, you’ve quit your job and made a variety of arrangements that depend on the income I’m offering, and I so publicly humiliate you, you’ll never be able to work within 100 miles of where you live.
Now imagine that I’m an adult, and you aren’t, and the pushes on your psyche were sexual overtures coming from my adult knowledge of what sex is, and an understanding from experience of how naive you are. I built a trust based upon embarrassing things, the very things some terrorist networks use to convince young girls in Iraq and Palestine to serve as suicide bombers. I prey on the distance that man teenagers start to feel from their parents. They aren’t the near deities they used to be. The limitations they place on you seem draconian and the hormonal surges that surround doubling your mass and growing sexual characteristics give you a short temper and a wildly swinging emotional compass that someone who claims understanding can subvert and abuse.
I think your perspective is wrong, because you won’t bother to look at all of the angles. There are humans and there are predators and Lori Drew was most certainly a child predator, very much like the young woman who recently raped, killed and disposed of her daughter’s friend in a suitcase, Lori Drew found someone weaker than she was and used the feeling of anonymity that the internet provides to predate upon another person. She merely revealed how little she actually resembled an actual human being.
You really can’t blame Megan. Look, I had some issues with the kids at my high school, they harrassed me, because neither of my parents finished school, my brother had adhd, and the only friends I had were special-ed. I was a senior. I couldn’t even get a date to the prom, because I wasn’t one of the popular kids. Teens run in packs, and they pick on and try to take down the weakest or the solitary kids. I can totally understand why she commited suicide.
I really hate that just beacuse I am in the minority on this one all of you automatically just classify me as wrong. Thats why I went back to my lurking status. Look I definitley see where you are coming from, NavyCop and in reading your previous posts I can definitley see that you are a sensible person. Look I know what you mean my school days werent all that great either I was skinny awkard ugly and had the worst clothes money could buy. I was constantly picked on and harrassed. And as I got older and things got worse there were situtations that occured that pushed me to the brink of suicide and I began self mutilation. HOWEVER. I never followed thru and the reason was I had my parents and my family to always reassure me and get me help for my issues. And when I publicly threatned suicide once they became my prison wardens. Not more than 5 minutes went by when they wouldnt check up on me and I had a therapist. If something happened that day like a schoolgirl crush went wrong or a fight with a friend at school my parents would take the time out to do things with me to make sure I felt loved and appreciated and that I was worth it!. I just feel like it cant be both ways.. people want to make it seem like Megan was a happy normal girl with a loving family who killed herself solely because of Loris actions and I just dont get that. I cant blame ONLY Lori because somewhere else somebody was wrong. Her parents didnt care enough or Megan was to entranced with her sociial life and forgot that people did love her.
Maybe it’s because Megan and I share the same first name, but I just can’t bring myself to blame her. Suicide is commited for one of three reasons. One: You hate life and no longer want to participate in it. Two: You love yourself too much to let anything else bad happen to yourself. Three: You have nowhere else to turn, you’ve been betrayed by people you thought were your friends, you can’t bring yourself to trust anyone, including your parents.
I had a bad depression in highschool. I cut my wrists and still have the scars to remind me of that darkest time. But obviously I didn’t follow through, because I had a good friend who I could trust.
Maybe Megan fell into the third category…Maybe she thought she couldn’t trust her parents. She already knew her friends had shafted her royally. Death was a release for her. No more pain, no more torment, no more taunting.
someone needs to find you and make you stand on a chair
I think lori Drew is a fat fucking dumb cunt that should be tired for murder. I could say that she should lose someone she loves becuase of someone else and she how she feels
Lori Drew people like you deserve to die
AMEN!
That no one at the state or local level thinks this is a crime is a crime itself. This lady is a sexual predator and is responsible for the death of a child. Who doesn’t get that?
If there is one thing I have learned as a parent, it’s this: You have to be your child’s biggest advocate, because no one else will. If someone is harrassing your child online, contact police and track the IP address. If some little shit is bothering your child at school, you go to every single person you need to get the message across “My child doesn’t go to school to be harrassed, this stops right now.” Because the law does not protect children. No one wants to pay for more people to enter the overcrowded prison system. People like Lori Drew? Oh yeah, no threat to society there, just a threat to her daughter’s ex friend. You have to be your child’s #1 because no one else will. This is something that seems to routinely escape most of the people featured on this site.
It was with great dismay that I read today that Lori Drew has been acquitted of the crime of cyber bullying; although in my opinion is should have been manslaughter. Lets just hope now that everything this woman touches, (and I use the term “woman” extremely loosely) failes miserably.
What pisses me off the most are the comments Megan’s parents are receiving on their bulletins.
One person actually had the audacity to tell them to ‘let the girl rest in peace, because she’s gone and it’s been 3 years.’
WTF?!?!
First off, Megan was only 13, still learning the difference of right from wrong. We all go through that trial and error phase at that age.
Secondly, YOU DON’T TELL A GREIVING PARENT TO LET SHIT GO WHEN SOMEONE ELSE CAUSED THEIR CHILD’S DEATH!
Third…that would be the most moronic thing to say, because we can tell people like that have NEVER had to go through with the tragic loss of their own child, let alone have children themselves.
In my opinion, statements like that are callous, and the people that make them should be shot along with the perpetrator.
It’s that way of thinking that has brought our society into ruins.
LET THE PARENTS GRIEVE!
Their movement is more justified than that stupid bitch (Lori Drew) defending her own kid (which btw was more elementary than anything I would ever do for my daughter, because I would tell her that if anyone she associated with treated her like that, they don’t belong in the friend category)..
Society has taken a few steps (hell, a leap as far as I’m concerned) back in morals and values.
And that sickens me.
By the way, where are those bulletins you refer to, mother of 3?
As for the judge’s decision, I’m not really going to argue against hate and anger, because it’s right to hate Lori and right to be mad that it turns out there’s a way to murder a child that falls between the cracks of the legal system.
But keep in mind before you lose hope what has been accomplished in this case.
First, the case told big parts of the story for all time. Lori’s own daughter testified as to Lori’s gleeful involvement every step of the way. Lori’s hairdresser testified as to how Lori went around town bragging about how she was going to humiliate Megan. Lori can never distance herself from what was done to Megan ever again.
Second, well, I’m 99.9999 percent against using the justice system this way, but this is the one time I’m okay with it, so I’ll point out, beating the charges bankrupted Lori. She had to sell her house last fall – it listed for only $229,000, and she probably had less than half in equity, defense lawyers run through that in no time. Her lawyer said wouldn’t be able to pay a $5,000 fine if one were imposed. The cost of the case was far greater than any fine the judge could have imposed.
Lori hasn’t worked in 18 months. She and Curt make their living in sales; if the decent people of the world decide never to buy anything from them again, what are they going to do about it?
Sentencing Lori to three years’ probation wouldn’t have ended this. Lori’s real punishment was always up to us. The verdict changes nothing in that regard. It’s in our power to make Lori pay for what she did every day the rest of her life, and we can do it without breaking a single law. Lori should get her life back when Megan gets her life back, which is to say, never.
It does not matter if she goes to prison. Lori Drew sentenced herself to a lifetime of being shamed and hated by all decent people and is SOLELY to blame for her fate. She is unemployable and will have to move constantly and end up likely a very remote place. She sealed it and cannot weasel her way out. It is her own doing and she deserves whatever befalls her. She can say that she lost loved ones in a horrific disaster or tragedy, but it will not change anyone’s opinion.
I can’t post the bulletins here, as they are on the homepage of MY myspace, but I could do a screen shot.
Your little spiel about Lori not being able to work and losing her house and blah blah blah (yeah I know the blah part was childish, but that’s how it sounded to me when I read it..), my reaction to that is…I am not sorry for her life going downhill after she did what she did.
That’s exactly what she wants…people to feel sorry for her. What about Megan? Where is the remorse? Lori’s sorry, but only for the fact that her actions caused such a drastic response. The only remorse she feels is for the simple fact that she has to face the music because she can’t behave like a normal, decent mother.
So….
what was your point again?
Either you read it wrong or I wrote it wrong. I wasn’t asking anyone to feel sorry for Lori. I was saying, take some comfort in what this case accomplished. The terms-of-service violation never could have given Lori the prison sentence she deserves. Only the felony conviction would have done it. When the jury deadlocked on the felony count last fall, it meant Lori wouldn’t do real jail time.
But some things WERE accomplished. As Tina Meier herself pointed out, the story got told with a clarity it never had before. And as I pointed out, the case wiped Lori out and made her finally move off Waterford Crystal Drive, which she would have done years ago if she were not a remorseless sociopath.
And I’m not saying that’s the end of it, let’s walk away. Quite the opposite. My favorite thing about the lovely work Thomas O’Brien and his staff did is that they laid an indisputable moral foundation for decent people to shut Lori down forever. It’s up to us now. And the wiki punishment of the world’s first pure internet murderer has been making a difference, and will continue to do so.
Someday the State of Missouri may get it together and prosecute this case the way they should, but for now we should thank Mr. O’Brien for his work and get started on ours.
does anyone have the Drews’ current phone? home or cell phone. or address so i can mail them some colorful words :)
honestly, i know its immature, but i want legal payback. make them feel like crap for making Megan? feel like crap.
i would pay 100 Galleons to have their current, working info.
oh! i might make a movie about them! and depict them as horrible monsters. and the mean girl too.
Goddamn, Lori Drew. You are a sick fucking monster who doesn’t even deserve breath. Words are futile, I’d be willing to spend some time in court for the opportunity to kick your fucking face in.
http://i148.photobucket.com/albums/s2/thecablelady23/meanpeopleonmyspace.jpg
I hope that link works, because if it doesn’t…I’m gonna be mad.
The link works. And yes, it is appalling. They are no better than she is. Lori Drew is going to be hated for a very long time. Adolf Hitler, Joseph Stalin, Osama bin Laden, and Eric Harris/Dylan Klebold come to mind. They are still hated even in death because they did something so atrocious. People still hate Gertrude Bansiewnski and she has been dead since 1990 and she tortured Sylvia Likens. Granted, Drew did not commit genocide, attack the World Trade Center, or attack their own school, but her action is abhorrent.
I can see the link but just as a couple of pictures, not a discussion that can be joined. Too bad, these are just the kind of losers that need the facts explained to them.
I don’t think there’s any philosophical problem with writing Lori’s name on the hate list forever. Leopold and Loeb killed “only” one child. Bruno Hauptman “only” killed Charles Lindbergh’s child. Should we have “let it go” after those children were three years dead?
That’s what Lori is betting, that if she beats charges on the technicalities and lays low we’ll forget Megan ever existed. It’s going to take time to make her understand that she’s wrong. It’s going to take years. But it’s going to happen. At some point she’s going to realize that she’s never going to get away from this.
One person who has not directly killed a person and is a public enemy. Actually, he may have, by contributing to a teenage girl’s death by drug overdose, whose name is Debbie Valgos. His name is Fred Phelps, the leader of the Westboro Baptist Church. He reportedly was dancing when she died. She was the fiance of Fred Phelps Jr., the eldest son of Phelps.
http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepages/michael_haggerty/expose3.htm
Long read.
I’m glad the link worked.
It wasn’t just the pictures in that link, it was what was said along with the picture aside.
Tina is getting more hackling from people who don’t truely understand how she feels about losing her 13 year old daughter.
I think this fat bitch should take her own advice and kill herself because the world would be a better place without pieces of shit like her! If this had happened to my child, she would have never made it to her court hearing, and nothing would have been thrown out except for her fat ass body into the fucking ground! GO TO HELL LORI DREW AND BURN FOR ALL ETERNITY YOU PIECE OF SHIT!
i know we’re all pissed about laurie drew, and yeah she did some really really horrible things, but aren’t you all doing what you’re so disgusted with?
It seems like most of the comments in here are ‘she should die’, or ‘her daughter is so ugly’ or an assortment of expletives followed up with horrible wishes. Let’s not stoop to the level that laurie drew has decided to stoop to.
Personally I think Tina Meier is right that although there will never truly be Justice For Megan, we can make Lori regret what she did and do it completely in the law.
As for people venting harsh feelings on a website largely dedicated to outrage, well, you’re equating two things that can’t really be equated. Megan Meier never murdered any children. She got into a schoolgirl fight with a friend. And that made her a legitimate target in Lori’s twisted mind.
Lori Drew is a child killer. I think the rules of politeness towards remorseless murderers are a little more lax than the rules regarding 13-year-old girls who live next door. If I say that Charles Manson has a bad haircut, will you consider me a cyberbully?
What Lori Drew did, was within the law. There was no law against creating a fake persona online and being a jerk to a teen girl. Does it make what she did right? People that are posting her personal info and making comments about her want her to kill herself the way Megan did. If Lori does kill herself from all the harassment, does that make all the harassers murderers too?
I’m with Confused_cog on this one. What most of the people are doing on here and other sites isn’t any better than what Lori did. Two wrongs don’t make a right. If her online harassment was wrong. Then all online harassment is wrong. I understand the outrage over the issue. But lynch mobs are never acceptable, cyber or otherwise.
A couple of posts down Bordyet says “The Devil’s going to have fun with Mrs. Drew.” I think he is going to have fun with a lot of people posting in this article.
you don’t seem to know very much if you think she was with in the law with what she did!
and also all these people are ‘harassing’ her on here and other sites and yea they are making her life suck by posting numbers and calling people and shit so she can’t make money…but THAT is perfectly within the law!
Last time I checked, phone numbers and address are in the public. It is legal to repost it elsewhere. Vigilantism and lynching are overused and involves people actually getting harmed and killed, which has not happened to Lori Drew.
Lynching is defined as:
lynch vt. to murder (an accused person) by mob action and without lawful trial, as by hanging.
Vigilantism is defined as:
vigilantism n. the lawless, violent methods, spirit, etc. of vigilantes.
Anyways, I have NO sympathy for Lori Drew. She deserves to be hated like Osama bin Laden and Casey Anthony.
The Devil’s going to have fun with Mrs. Drew.
Dear Bordyet,
I have never written to this web site before. However, I must take pen in hand and object to your implication that I would have any interest whatsoever in having sex with Lori Drew.
I have all manner of corrective measures at my disposal without resorting to an act that I would find repugnant. There are any number of former actresses and models down here. I do not presume to choose your sex partners for you. Why should you choose mine?
I will thank you to do your own job rather than mine in the future and not willfully create images that I have difficulty getting out of my head. If you can do so we can consider this matter closed.
Sincerely,
The Devil
Well said, Your Devilship! :)
“Women never completely grow out of it (= being catty to each other)”…?
Some don’t have to. My mother never had to; I never had to.
That’s because “cattiness” is pedestrian, lowly behaviour that, believe it or not, does not come naturally to ALL women. (Or even to most of them? I wonder.) And by the way: I have met many, MANY men who are every bit as “catty” as the worst of such women.
Human dignity, intelligence, and wit: those are the maxims that lead – more or less successfully – my own behaviour; and if another woman – or a man, for that matter – cannot handle it… tough. I simply walk away.
How id this relevant to the post?
Only insofar the article itself opened with a series ofgeneralised assertions, badmouthing women in general.
Pychologically deformed and morally degenerate creatures like Lori Drew and her offspring are not an offence to womanhood – they are a small but festering sore on the face of mankind in general, regardless of their sex or gender.
Lori Drew is asking the courts to get her to use the Internet. Well, she was hired, I don’t know where. Who would in their right mind would hire her? I wonder if she will Google her name up?
http://www.fox4kc.com/news/sns-ap-mo–internetsuicide,0,5863938.story
Gee..hard slap on the wrist she got! Now the court is going to revoke her restriction from the internet so that she can have a new job! I’d like for everyone to find out where that new job is and send 1000s of complaints until she gets fired. This is horrendous. This woman not only should have been convicted of causing a child’s death, but also for luring a child into sexual conversations which makes her a sex offender! So many people out of work…and this piece of work gets the job? Unreal!!
Who would hire her to begin with? If it was a large corporation, they would have a PR nightmare. Here is a computer algorithm on who the world’s worst person is. There are four, Adolf Hitler, Osama bin Laden, Bernard Madoff, and Lori Drew. It turns out the world’s worst person is Lori Drew, she scored the lowest. The next worst is a distant second, Bin Laden, and Madoff, and finally Hitler. This is considering that Bin Laden killed 3,000 people on the East Coast on 9/11 and Hitler killed 30 million people in the Holocaust.
http://textmap.blogspot.com/2009/05/worlds-worst-person.html
lori was a kid across the street when i was a kid groing up, she hade a younger brother todd, we all hade a great childhood groing up in kansas city. her upbring was very good, they hade great folks. im sure it was a joke that went to long then bad. we can,t blame just her.
OK… then we’ll blame you too. Is that better? It makes as much sense as your apparent suggestion that someone besides Lori Drew is responsible for her actions.
Oh wait – I’ve got it! A ummmm.. bushy-haired stranger came into her house every afternoon and put a gun to her head and made her trick that poor little fragile girl…. yeah, that’s the ticket.
Or maybe it’s society’s fault for building the internet? Space aliens perhaps?
Don’t be an imbecile. Lori Drew is a nasty, spiteful, hateful woman-beast who thought it was OK to fuck with a little girl’s psyche in retribution for some stupid preteen feud that her daughter got into. If she had a good upbringing, it obviously didn’t stick with her. Good parents don’t DO shit like that. Ever.
Well said Mazzi. Actually, Lori Drew does have a younger brother named Todd Shreeves. I am not sure if he is a biological or half-brother. I have not heard of him in the news and I think he is estranged from her. It would suck having a sibling/half sibling/step sibling like Lori Drew. It would be embarassing and be like having Adolf Hitler as a sibling.
http://www.mariestimemachine.com/fam/fam00193.html
My guess as to Lori’s new job: phone sex operator. It’s a job that’s never filled by young hotties but always by 50-year-old housewives who are out of cash. And you can do it out of your house as long as you have a internet connection to take orders. And it’s the kind of company that wouldn’t be too picky about who it’s hiring.
And I think for some time to come Lori will have to work at a job where the customers don’t know who they’re actually dealing with. Although who knows, there are guys with all kinds of problems, maybe some of them would like to talk to a child murderer.
I think this fat bitch should take her own advice and kill herself because the world would be a better place without pieces of shit like her! If this had happened to my child, she would have never made it to her court hearing, and nothing would have been thrown out except for her fat ass body into the fucking ground! GO TO HELL LORI DREW AND BURN FOR ALL ETERNITY YOU PIECE OF SHIT!
Ditto Diito and ditto again my friend…With any amount of good luckSomeone much sicker than her will proclaim himself judge jury and excutioner of the law and pay lil mrs lori a visit.
Jason X you should be merciful to Lori Drew, don`t tell her as she must rot in Hell. That is not nice and Jason I want you be merciful and kind unto Lori and don`t wish for her death. Jason also please do not tell your enemy. Be gracious and compassionate to her, as God will have mercy on you. Jason, please don`t insult Lori, just forgive her and let it go. Let God have mercy on Lori Drew. Jesus died on the cross to save Lori, not to condemn her. May God have mercy on Drew.
Lori Drew is formally acquitted.
http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5h8VjD1bEqw_oqHiLz379ftjcFh6QD9AEGUAG0
I think she will be sued like what happened to OJ Simpson.
Just wanting to throw in my 2 cents since I’m new around here…
I think what this woman did is absolutely horrible. Two 13 year old girls, one of them her daughter, have a spat and what does she do? Talk to the parents? Talk to the girl? Make sure the girl and her daughter stay separated? No, she creates a fake profile and persona, lures her into divulging personal information (including sex talk between this 40 year old woman and a 13 year old girl), and humiliating her at great lengths. She got other people involved…she apparently bragged about it….she didn’t feel remorse about the suicide because Megan had attempted it in the past.
And now I hear she’s been acquitted. This horrible stupid evil bitch may not be serving any time, but she’ll now be branded with a scarlet letter and possibly her family will be too. Idiot.
well, now. i agree wholeheartedly that Lori Drew has stepped down to an all time low, and is terribly pitiful. alas! damn near everyone in this thread is following in her foot-steps by mocking each others opinion’s. for example the Patel issue earlier in the thread. again, I agree the Lori Drew is absolutely worthless, but please don’t fall to her level by responding to someone’s own view in the same manner.
disclaimer: i know i’m bound to get some hate-mail for this post as well, and i say now that i’m sorry for your ignorance.
that is all.
That is because those people who are getting ripped on are blaming the victim. Anyone who thinks that is serious out of their mind and should get help.
Maliciousguile’s post above is absolutely right. I was going to say it myself, instead I’ll just agree wholeheartedly with you.
Almost everyday I’m ashamed to call myself a human after seeing how others behave.
Here we have a person who avenged gossip with character assasination and how does everyone else on this site respond, with character assasination. Are you all so completely devoid of logical thought that you can’t see this. It’s as obvious to me as the nose on my face but most of you have fallen into the same snowball that wasn’t stopped with Lori Drew. Wake up people, you are fast-tracking the whole human race to the point of complete irrelevance (meaning we have no future).
Let’s see here….
character assassination
n.
A vicious personal verbal attack, especially one intended to destroy or damage a public figure’s reputation.
Nope, that wasn’t Lori Drew’s crime. Lori Drew, as an adult, impersonated a minor and a love interest in order to inflict emotional harm on a minor. The crime was so new and so atrocious, that Missouri’s State Legislature voted unanimously to enact “Megan’s Law” (not to be confused with the California law of the same name).
http://news.cnet.com/8301-13578_3-10320274-38.html
What we’re doing here is vilifying Lori Drew for doing something so horrible, we had to make a law so we could prevent anyone from ever doing this again. Once upon a time, it was perfectly legal to get drunk and ride your horse around town. If you ran over someone, you could use the “I was drunk” defense. Then folks got angry enough that they passed laws. These laws, later, followed the car, airplane and hopefully will follow us into space. How exactly do we enact laws likes this?
Through public cause and action. Through informative, one-sided and brutal honesty that reveals the perpetrators of the first instances of the crimes to result in loss or near loss, as monsters and villains who deserve justice. We engage in character assassination.
You argue that “[we] re fast-tracking the whole human race to the point of complete irrelevance (meaning we have no future).” I retort, we instead are engaging in the natural and conclusively useful process that allows a mob, possibly composed of less than highly functional members to be guided by the injured into provided safety and succor. We harnessing the mob, and refusing the traditional bloody end of the mob by reserving our anger and judgements for the support of incarceration and convictions.
I think that’s fairly positive versus the alternatives of “letting this slide” or “letting the mob tear her to pieces.”
If Lori Drew got herself vilified that is her own doing. She brought it onto herself. She rightfully deserves it besides Osama bin Laden, Nadil Malik Hasan, Charles Manson, and Casey Anthony. Besides is there any proof that Sarah Drew was called a “Lesbian” by Megan? Even true, that is still wrong.
Oh, and Lori Drew will be infamous for years to come and she cannot get out that for sure. She is part of a small group of notorious figures ranging from Adolf Hitler, Joseph Stalin, The Rosenbergs, Charles Whitman, Ted Bundy, and Osama bin Laden.
This bitch is a bona-fide cunt. She *SO* needs to be in prison … for the rest of her life. If she’s ever unlucky enough to run into me, I’ll spit in her eye before I start dissin her and her bitch daughter.
I hope Lori Drew gets a nasty case of breast cancer and has to have both of her tits cut off! Then I hope she gets a nasty case of ovarian cancer and dies!
I’m sure I won’t go to Hell, but I’m sure people who do will see her there! ROT IN HELL, CUNT!
I dont believe this website, “people you will see in hell”. there are two things i must say about this.
there is no way NO ONE, except God, knows who’s going to hell or not. how do you know if Lori is going to hell? are you going to Hell as well to see Lori? I hope not.
and Lori Drew will NOT go to Hell unless she has confessed her sins to God, our Savior, Our Sovereign Lord, Jesus Christ. if she forgives her sins to the Lord and really mean it, she will go to heaven just as all of the former murderers in heaven who converted from athiest to Christianity in the very end–before their deaths occured.
This is what I have to say; since I am a christian, and Christians learn how to FORGIVE people, I do forgive Lori Drew for what she has done. what i dont understand is men and women from all over the world rape and then murder children twice as young as Megan meier, but yet you guys are NOT wasting your time posting a comment on that. Just Drew. is it because Drew had a chance to get on the news for what she did? you guys just look at the murders, who arent on the news and probably are nearer to you than you think, and just go on with your life. talk about that not Drew. She knows what she did. QUIT DRAGGING IT OUT! YOu guys are wasting your time posting something that occurs every single day–but yet Drew is a BIG person who is hurting inside right now. Just FORGIVE her and move on.
I so happened to get on this website and saw every message you guys sent. Im not saying Christians are perect. But forgiveness is a way to soften your hearts. just forgive Drew, YOu’ll feel so much better than you are now.
Trust me.
I lived through my life not forgiving a certain someone for what he or she has done to me IN PERSON.
you guys are posting messages based on rumours…..you dont know the real story behind it all. The MEDIA say things wrong all the time. Not everything they say is true.
Just forgive Drew.
That’s all I’m saying.
Good-bye.
^___^
Oh jesusfuckingchrist – you’re kidding, right?
First of all, you’re the one that needs to ask for forgiveness. You need to ask God and Jesus and anything more intelligent than a toad to forgive you for being such a fucking moron. You need to beg me for forgiveness for wasting my time.
Be glad I’m not God because I’d throw your stupid ass into hell right now, just for shits and giggles.
Here’s the deal, dumbass – if Lori Drew hadn’t acted like such a little bitch, none of this would’ve happened. There would be nothing to “DRAG OUT” – see how that works? Don’t be a total douchebag and get your name in the headlines. Don’t cause people to die. Live an honest life and you’re clear. If you do fuck up, accept responsibility for your actions. Lori Drew did none of this.
So you choose to forgive Lori Drew – well good for you. I choose not to – why should I? I might have, I might have considered it all a horrible, tragic mistake. But Lori Drew had to act like a total fuck afterwards. She blew it – not me.
You haven’t bothered to look at this website at all. We attack baby rapers, killers, people that harm animals, drunks and druggies, and the self-righteous defenders of said asswipes.
Which brings me to another point – you claim to be Christian and forgiving and know that only God can judge, but I know that you cannot forgive without having judged first. I’m pretty sure you’re judging me now and you’ll probably pray for me and forgive me. Whatever blows your bangs back – whatever gets you through the night.
So, Christ Jesus, go say a little prayer and continue to think you’re better than us. Snuggle up with your God and realize you are incapable of being honest with yourself, let alone anyone else, then pack your bags and go to hell – because I do know the real story behind Lori Drew and the real story behind you.
HELL YEA MIWIST TELL THE FUCKER HOW IT IS,IMM SICK OF FUCKERS LIKE THEM,U KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
You are an idiot……..Goodbye and please don’t come back….asshole….That’s all I’m saying
Great, someone who calls themselves a Christian. What next? You’re no better than a serial killer groupie.
THis is the problem I have with religion, why should I live a sin free, pious life for 80 or so years, foregoing earthly fun just to go to heaven when a rapist, murderer, child molester can just hedge his bets and get forgiven at the last second and end up there with me?? Now what incentive does this theory give anyone to live a sin free life? Anyways, I for one would prefer not to go to heaven if the likes of Charles Manson, the child murderers on these pages and so forth will end up there to be my neighbor-yes I am being sarcastic. I do hope there is a god out there but I don’t believe he lets these scum off as easily as you seem to think. I don’t have to forgive Lori Drew or any of these scum-and I don’t think-if there is a god-he is going to either
I think you forgot about the ‘repentance’ part of the forgiveness deal.
SHE IS HURTING?SHE IS HURTING?! AT LEAST SHES ALIVE TO HURT AND I HOPE SHE HURTS THE REST OF HER FUCKED UP LIFE. FUCK YOU AND UR SO CALLED GOD SHIT.
bo, honey, use your inside voice *laugh*
Just kidding buddy….
max my main man,i can dig it dude,im on ur face book now.of course not under this name,but i am on it.
I like bo. bo just gets a bit excited.
It’s all good, bo. Now run along and stay out of the street.
i try to but the streets always find me,,lololol.
Interesting read. There is currently quite a lot of information around this subject around and about on the net and some are most defintely better than others. You have caught the detail here just right which makes for a refreshing change – thanks.
On a related topic, there is another case similar to Lori Drew and it is in Massachusetts. Phoebe Prince committed suicide after being harassed in real life and online. The bullies are this her classmates and their names have leaked out. Looks like they will end like Lori Drew.
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,584187,00.html?test=latestnews
Agree with those in support to the Meier family. Some are lacking the maturity to grasp that Lori Drew was an ADULT participant and perpetrator in harassing a 13 year old girl and STILL does not accept personal responsibility for her role. Online or off, it was unacceptable.
We, the ‘adults’ in the world, are the ones responsible for guiding our children and being their role models. I can think of a thousand more functional things that she could have done including counseling these children instead of adding to the drama and ‘teaching’ her child the methods of manipulation and bullying. Our society is in a sad state when THIS is how ‘leaders’ in our community teach their children to get ahead.
I am with the guy that said had Megan been his daughter he would have taken a hockey stick to Drew. I concur; had this happened to my child I am not sure that I would have had the self control to pursue the legal route that the Meiers have; and I commend them for their self control. Drew appears to be so naive and ‘entitled’ from an easy middle class life as not to realize how incredibly lucky she IS that this child didn’t come from a different family, or she could have easily found herself not breathing long enough to make it to court.
PYSIH grew largely because of Lori Drew. Lori Drew is one of the most hated person at this site, in America, and worldwide. She gets the same hatred that Osama bin Laden gets.
Does anyone have an active cell number and address to the Drew family?
I know this is old news, but I refuse to believe this fucking whore got into no trouble.
this a shame from that mother and daughter
but wishing death or such things to someone is for someone low of mind
lets just turn our heads around and forget that they existed, they are shameful people and do not have the rights to be talked back to and be offered anything including friendship etch
heks; I couldn’t agree more with you. People like this in life are those that we have to just look at and say “I will pray for you”
I’m a 22 year old college student in Nebraska and I have watched shows, read articles and researched this horrifying incident and am still shocked that things fell into place the way they did in the end. I have lots of opinions about things but for some reason, this particular story inked me to my core…..Such a tragedy for such a young, beautiful girl to take her life due to the pathetic nature of a mother, obviously living vicariously through her daughter…..May God have Mercy on your soul Miss Lori Drew.
There were many reasons why Lori Drew outraged so many people and is really reviled.
1.) She is a bully.
2.) Nobody likes over involved parents, AKA helicopters parents.
3.) She never faced criminal charges connected to Megan Meier.
Lori Drew is most likely insecure, rageful, bitter, and paranoid. Lori Drew has many traits similar to Fred Phelps, Diane Downs, Jeffrey Dahmer, Osama bin Laden, or Adolf Hitler.
That is beyond fucked up. I say throw her in dark cell and play a tape of megan laughing forever until lori dies of starvation or somethin.
Lori Drew must die!!!
Harry Q. Hammer you should love your enemy. Do not wish for her death because that`s not nice. Please forgive Lori and God will forgive you. Remember don`t grant a wish for anyone`s death. Harry be merciful unto Lori and show kindness not hatred.
Do you know what’s not nice? Bullying a 13 year old to the point where she thinks suicide is the only option.
What exactly was it that Megan did that made Lori Drew and her daughter want to do this? I am not saying it makes it O.K. but no one wants to acknowledge she may have done something first to start this.
OF COURSE Lori Drew was wrong to spend her time doing something so immature and stupid and it seems to me she won’t be able to live her life without everyone she meets hating her..she made her own bed there so let her fat ass lie in it.
I do not feel such pity towards Megans suicide. Yes, it is sad a person so young did something so selfish as to ruin her families life by taking her own but COME ON!!
“Oh someone was mean to me on the internet” BIG DEAL I, and millions of others, have been through worse. We all get depressed and we all have horrible moments, but we all don’t take such a cowardly way out .
No pity from me considering her killing herself.
and do all of you that say Lori should kill herslef or the family member of the Virginia Tech student should kill themselves, even realize if they DO kill themselves on your advice, that you are now exactly like lori Drew and should be as haed as her?
There is absolutely nothing a 13 year old child can do to “start this” with a grown ass woman. No one’s talking about it because it’s IRRELEVANT. She had a disagreement and a parting of ways with Lori Drew’s daughter. It happens.
I’m having a hard time being civil to you. You clearly don’t understand 13 year old girls, let alone what it means to be suicidal. I’m repulsed by your comments here.
You sound like an enabler. I have heard enablers are worse than the aggressor. You are just as bad as Lori Drew. Lori Drew must of felt threatened about being a 13 year old girl. Sounds like Adolf Hitler felt threatened by Jews, Joseph Stalin felt threatened by “Kulaks”, or Osama bin Laden feeling threatened by “Infidels”, when they were the source of the problem. Sure, the scale of destruction is quite different, but same mentality and mindset, whether it is Lori Drew, Osama bin Laden, or Joseph Stalin.
Evil like Drew or Stalin have a chip on their shoulder and feel persecuted and wronged by the world. Lori Drew has a lot of issues of insecurity, like the South Hadley 6 or Fred Phelps, which she ranks along side besides Osama bin Laden and Joran van der Sloot. Megan had reasons not be friends with Sarah. Likely they would be friends again. It’s called being a teenager.
Fuck you, Lori Drew.
I hope your room in Hell is full of bloodthirsty men who rape women.
she needs to be hung!
Hell doesn’t exist. So she got off scott free. Sorry people. Wake up. She did something horribly despicable and she’s a horrid, fat cunt of a human being, but there is no hell and she isn’t serving jail time so she wins. Tough shit for the rest of us who don’t condone manipulating children into killing themselves. What an awful, immature, idiotic, lazy, self-indulgent, retched cow. I wish hell existed. Just for her. And I sincerely hope that anytime someone who knows what she’s done sees her, that they throw shit at her. Literal feces.
Pat Brown, Hell is a real place. Hell is the place for unrepentant sinners. Hell does exist, word Hades is mentioned in the bible. Satan the devil rules in Hell with his children and fallen angels. Pat, don`t deny the existance of Hell because it is a very real place of unquenchable fire.
Go do some studying on ancient history. Hades is much different than the modern-day version of Hell. Originally it was thought EVERYONE went to Hades. There were different sections based not on how you lived, but how you died. Warriors went one place, children another, etc. There was even a part where people went to wander for centuries before returning to the world of the living, which is something the Bible soundly rejects. The concept of Hell has always been fluid, so don’t use a mention of Hades in the Bible as proof of it. Until I see the River Styx I’ll continue my beliefs about Hell, and let you worry about your fire and brimstone.
Let’s see. Someone has a fight with your kid or whatever. So, you manipulate them into KILLING THEMSELVES. Yeah, makes perfect sense. Bitch.
Look, whatever Megan Meier supposedly did to her daughter did not warrant her being humiliated to the point of suicide. You can’t come back from that. What they did was, for the lack of a better word, overkill. They went to far. Why didn’t her daughter tell her how she felt to her face? They could have had a fight at school or in the neighborhood and have been done with it. Instead, they resorted to this.
If there is a Hell, I hope Lori Drew suffers. And all else involved.
Lori Drew did it because her daughter Sarah was allegedly called a Lesbian. I bet the real reason was she was consumed by self hatred like Fred Phelps and Dharun Ravi.
Seriously? Calling someone a lesbian warrants you dying? She was clinically depressed. THAT’S why she killed herself.
Let’s see, one called a kid a lesbian. Another bullied a clinically depressed girl to SUICIDE. SUICIDE! Don’t you find that messed up? You can’t come back from death. Lori didn’t handle it the right way. The girl is DEAD. It wasn’t self hatred, she had clinical depression. They drove her to the edge. Humiliating someone to death is not proper punishment for calling someone a lesbian.