Comments on: Andrew Kowalczyk

By: Mother

Mother — Mon, 07 Mar 2011 06:49:19 +0000

Here it is March 6th, 2011 our trial was set for the 8th and now its been changed to Aug. 23,2011. I am so tired of this long wait. I am thankful since there are others being charged for there role in everything. That at has happened and so on. One of the guys in Kentucky got 17 yrs 6mo and life on parole. Another is in Cali. waiting for trial. Anyways God Bless all of u who has helped out w/everything.

By: vcbecky

vcbecky — Sun, 16 Jan 2011 00:04:37 +0000

The system is set up to protect and serve the offender. All of the free services he’s getting should, in fairness, be going to you and your daughter.

Does anyone have any advice for ‘Mother’ that might help her? I know nothing about the laws in her area.

By: Mother

Mother — Sat, 15 Jan 2011 16:15:33 +0000

If there is anyone out there that has check for further notice. I’ll leave this little note to sum it up. My child was elidgeable for counslin cost for max of 6 mo., our boundries are very close to one another. Fear is still there and he still awaits trial. We still do not have anyone to repasent us in the case that work close to us. We are kept in the dark about everything so it seems. is hearing has be postpone tell May 2011. Remind you he was arrested in 2007, and commited this crime in happened end of 2005

By: vcbecky

vcbecky — Wed, 13 Oct 2010 03:38:13 +0000

Mom, yeah you probably should stop, though I wish you didn’t have to. Looks to me like you have a lot to unload. Looks like you’re about bursting at the seams to talk to someone. Are you, yourself, getting counseling? You know I’m not trying to be mean. Your daughter isn’t the only victim in your family – you are too.

Most of the regular posters on this blog are people who know victims, or were victims themselves at some point. We know where you’re coming from. After everything is done and you can’t harm your case by posting here, if you need to ‘talk’, we’re here to support you as corny as that may sound. I’m not asking for gossip, I just truly understand your need to tell someone what you’re feeling, and sometimes that’s easiest to do anonymously with complete strangers.

I do still hope you’re seeing a psych of some kind, so you can unload some of your own burden. NONE OF THIS WAS YOUR FAULT and you really need to start to believe that, deep down inside where you really live. It’s important for your daughter that you are her rock, and sometimes you can’t do it alone. Please get help if you don’t already have it.

Much love and support to you, from my heart.

By: mother

mother — Wed, 13 Oct 2010 02:45:24 +0000

My child was assigned to a chaperon during the field trip, to Oaks Park, it was prearranged through the daycare center for the children to get a ride home. Since there time would vary. Myself and others agreed w/them to do so. When all the kids were separated into there rides since the lady who was assigned to my child lived in my complex. In which I would of never thought in my life time that this P.O.S. female. (& much more), could or would of harmed or let harm come to my child or any child at that. She was always gental, friendly, seem to love kids. She never came accross as she would of done this. She had sold my child to this freak,POS, In which I believe I would of never got my child back if I never hounded her mother lived there, her aunt & uncle who also went and lived at our complex. I pounded the streets and there doors called athoritys, and so on Her mother reached her finally around midnight or so. I was standing out frount of her place paceing. Freaking out majorly. AS she was talking I was yelling get my child home now! I mean now, as i was kicking the door. Her mom opened the door slightly, w/chain link lock. Close to 4:30 or so she came home I was out walking up and down looking for the van,or anyone who could be or have my child, the female jumps out of a taxi w/out my child I freaked, what i done after that to get my child back I cannot state or discause w/the public at this time. I did get my child back and am so very lucky and thankful. My child is my Angle my everything. At the time my child was one month shy from 3yrs old. I never wanted my child to exspierence any thing in any shape or form. I had went threw being a victim of sexual acts as a child and raped at 18. I would never wish any harm on any child or person. I have a hard time w/everyday life. Working is hard if I don’t have someone who I could trust to help me,my child cannot be a normally child fear of abduction, being a victim again, so on, my child can not go to public affairs fear of this POS or one of the buyers of these tapes, seeing us and or the one who bought my child grabbing my child. For there own personal reasons, these freaks, monsters, POS. Are still alive. I never knew what he looked like tell he was locked up in Protective Custody. I need to stop before I screw up our case

By: Brooke

Brooke — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 15:05:45 +0000

Mother: I know you said you can’t go into detail, but are you implying that this monster that was into child pornography worked for the daycare center your child went to or was somehow connected to someone else who did work there? That is crazy! So these children went on a field trip and ended up in a motel room with this pervert?? How heartbreaking for you and your child.

By: mother

mother — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 07:02:00 +0000

Thank you for your comfort you are the first person who has made any statement towards me that had compation. Then again I never scommited until resently. For some reason I know better then say to much or somehow they will use it against us and twisted the law were things could dismised, or I couldd end up in hot water as he get luxary. Where do they draw a line at. If we were the predator we’d have a lot of people on our side offering legal advise,pertection,medical attention,and so on. My child was just a proved for her counsling to be covered. Why did it take us this long to even get there help. Is it becuase I am broke, single mother w/little knowledge of the law and my legal rights. I’m so tired of my child being put on the back buner time and time again. Anyways, I’m getting all worked up. I cannot state what I really want to stae. Untell after the trial Jan,18,2011. That is the date for now it seems to change so much. He seems to be released more the anyone w/such charges pretty easy also.When will it stop or will they pertect us. He’s quilty of more then Identity theft, that they keep refering to in the courts and much more damage then credit.My child will keep moving forward I will guide her the best way I can. All good things come for those who wait. Believe that. God bless!

By: vcbecky

vcbecky — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 19:16:52 +0000

“Mother”, I feel for you. From what you’ve said here, it seems you trusted people who should be trustworthy. There’s only so much checking you can do, and sometimes it just boils down to weighing what you do know, and deciding a situation based on that. If the trip was official, and it seems to have been from what you have said, there’s really nothing more you could have done to protect your child.

I promise you, no one here is trivializing what you must be going through. Some of us understand firsthand what you’re dealing with, unfortunately. We all wish this had never happened.

You seem to be a caring, intelligent person who got caught up in a nightmare. I’m so sorry you and your child have to deal with this. It’s horrible, one of the worst things to have to deal with as a parent. The legal system is set up to protect the monsters, not the victims. The system is broken.