Nicola Jane Clunies-Ross and Peter Gurdulic
This is 21-year-old Nicola Clunies-Ross.
Nicola Clunies-Ross is cute and politically well-connected.
The Clunies-Ross family, of which Nicola is a member, is a famous West Australian dynasty that settled the remote Cocos-Keeling Islands in the Indian Ocean in 1886 and have since played a dominant role in the island’s history.
Nicola Clunies-Ross likes walks on the beach, long nights in front of the fire with her boyfriend, 19-year-old Peter Gurdulic, and periodic trysts with her lover, another 19-year-old soldier from the same unit she was in.
Dislikes? Cheaters, guys who lie and hepatitis C.
On the 28th of October, 2006, Nicola Clunies-Ross asked her lover over to play around for a bit. She told him that she had something “special” in mind for them.
She did have something special planned, but it wasn’t exactly what her lover had in mind.
Nicola Clunies-Ross was a mite bit annoyed with him, you see, believing that he had been seeing an ex-girlfriend behind her back and that, as a result, he had given Nicola hepatitis C.
Nicola Clunies-Ross greeted her lover at the door, dressed in a hot pseudo-police uniform, complete with thigh-highs and a short skirt. She had champagne set up, along with a ball gag, some handcuffs and other restraints, and a wooden chair in the middle of the room.
Not a bad way to spend a Saturday night.
After making out for a bit and getting her lover all hot and horny, Nicola Clunies-Ross stripped her lover naked, took him to the chair and tied him up nice and tight, complete with a ball gag in his mouth.
He readied himself for a night of ecstasy.
But then, once her lover was secure, Peter Gurdulic, Nicola Clunies-Ross’s other boyfriend came out, carrying a “very big vibrator” and a digital camera.
Once Peter Gurdulic walked in the door, Nicola Clunies-Ross, who was sipping champagne, looked her lover in the eyes, smiled and said, “I’m going to destroy you.”
This would be the point where most guys would be closing their eyes and saying, “Oh shit” around the ball gag.
For about an hour, Nicola Clunies-Ross and Peter Gurdulic beat on the poor guy, holding a knife to his throat while anally raping him with the “very big vibrator.”
Pictures and videos were taken of the event, with Peter Gurdulic threatening to put the images on an army computer that was accessible by most army personnel.
Then Nicola Jane Clunies-Ross and Peter Gurdulic let him go.
Hailing a taxi, the soldier went straight to a superior officer and asked for advice. The advice given? “Call the cops, man.”
So the police were notified, and the shit hit the fan.
Both Nicola Jane Clunies-Ross and Peter Gurdulic were charged with assault, aggravated sexual penetration without consent and deprivation of liberty. They chose to handle those charges in different ways.
Peter Gurdulic killed himself in his dorm room.
Nicola Clunies-Ross is pleading not guilty, blaming everything that happened on Peter Gurdulic, saying that she was coerced and forced to rape the other soldier.
Considering that Peter Gurdulic is conveniently dead, her defense just might work, depending on what the jury thinks about the videos and pictures that will be shown shortly during the trial.
Do Nicola Jane Clunies-Ross and Peter Gurdulic deserve Hell?
- No - neither of them, I do this every weekend (12%, 72 Votes)
- Yes - but only Peter Gurdulic (2%, 15 Votes)
- Yes - but only Nicola Jane Clunies-Ross (13%, 80 Votes)
- Yes - both of them (73%, 455 Votes)
Total Voters: 622
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I don’t think this is hell worthy. I think it’s kinda funny in a way. Really I do. they had the guy thinking he was gonna have some kinky ass (no pun intended) fun and well they had some ass fun. Well for two of them. Yeah he’s been anally raped but other than that not too injured. They didn’t kill him. And he wasn’t an infant. In my eyes that’s not that bad.
It’d been a pretty good night if it wasn’t for the attack of the vibrator
Let me tie you up and anally rape you against consent Brittany and let’s see what you have to say then. Stupid bitch.
Brittany, so you think being tied up, beaten up with a knife at your throat, and anally raped by a LARGE vibrator for an HOUR is not so bad? You’d best hope such a thing doesn’t ever happen to you. You are sick.
Sick wench.
Where’s your cop costume?
oh I’m not gonna be the one to wear it. I like the wenches for myself. Come admin. And maybe a lil bit of a role reversal. I’m not into be tied up but doing the tying for sure. Only for good times nothing sketchy like this. No attacks from anything. Hell I don’t even need to bust out the batteries.
Admin…you left me no choice.
she might be kinda hot in a cop costume.
Rape is wrong. There’s never anything funny about it. Just because you can’t relate to a male victim as easily as a female is no reason to laugh it off.
I have no idea who wrote this column, but I have never seen a more biased piece of journalism.I am a very good friend of Nicolas and happen to know that she would never do anything like this off of her own back. The finger of blame should be pointed firmly at Mr gurdulic. Yet another instance of where the media have twisted the truth into what will sell a good story. Get your bloody facts right
I’m with Nissa on this one. If her boyfriend found out SHE was cheating and raped her, no one would be making any jokes.
Isn’t it ironic that people NEVER believe that their friends are capable of this kind of abuse?
Anon, she teased the guy! She said, “I’m going to destroy you!” How in the world does that turn into it only being Gurdulic’s fault? Puh-LEASE!
http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,25197,23088501-5006789,00.html
http://www.thewest.com.au/default.aspx?MenuID=77&ContentID=11806
http://www.thewest.com.au/default.aspx?MenuID=145&ContentID=55328
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/asia/article3226032.ece
These are ALL wrong? Just looking for clarification.
Anon- Well, then I guess you don’t know your friend as well as you think.
You obviously didn’t know that she liked dating men who like ball-gagging and ass-raping other men. Who just happen to be the other guy she was dating. If what you are saying is true about her, anyways.
I suppose now you are going to say the dead ass-raping guy was the one who was wearing the cop-uniform and thigh-highs? And that boyfriend #2 didn’t run when being greeted at the door by a cop-uniform, ball-gag carrying DUDE? He was probably all into it, and poor POS was all like “Oh, my gosh! You’re going to put that where? I didn’t even know you could do that”!
Puhleese.
I kind of understand why Brittany isn’t so bothered by this as sexual assaults towards women and children.
On the one hand, everyone is so shocked and horrified when some woman is raped/sodomized… but it’s not all that believable to me, since anal sex has been turned into the ‘new’ normal sex, that women are supposed to enjoy and seek out. So, just because men haven’t jumped on the bandwagon and joined the new ’something in the ass every time or it’s not a good sex romp’, I’m supposed to feel more sympathy for his violation?
Sorry, my first thought every time I read things like this is…. if that doesn’t sound like fun to you, then stop thinking it would be any more fun for someone else. I guess that means it’s really only good fun for the ass-raper, and not the rapee? But gee, that contradicts all the porn.
What’s a poor girl to think?
I’ve done very well, when asked to participate in anything I’ve been ‘iffy’ about by simply saying, ‘Sure- you first!’.
Being threatened with a knife? Bad. Getting a dildo up the ass? Supposedly every girl’s wet dream. No wonder the world is so effed up.
Now it’s so effed up the perps have gotten to the sick point of claiming that children love that kind of fun, too.
Arghhh.
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it was rape and torture, how anyone finds it funny is beyond me but then again, this is what happens with male victims.
Peter Gurdulic got what was coming to him now its Nicola’s turn! :)
if this was two guys who had tortured and raped a woman, people wouldnt find it so funny would they. Double Standards!
make and example of her, and i hope she is reunited with Peter real soon.
God-
Actually, if it was a guy and a girl who had tortured and raped a woman, MOST people wouldn’t find it all that funny.
They would have some ’splainin’ to do about why they like seeing that exact same thing over and over on their porn sites, though.
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That poor man. NOTHING about rape is funny. Whether the victim is male or female, it results in the same life-blighting feelings of shame, humiliation, guilt etc.
Apparently another name for hepatitis c is Crazy-Bitch-itis, and it’s cure is taking some poor bastard down the log ride. Wheeee! On a serious note, why would you help your skank cheating girlfriend assault her OTHER boyfriend? Like “hey so I kinda caught hepatitis from this guy I’ve been kinda seeing…. Um, can he help me f*ck him up?” what a pair of jackasses.
at least Peter Gurdulic did the right thing when he got caught, hopefully Nicola will get the idea and follow suit.
it doesn’t matter if the rape victim is male or female, rape is rape imho.
to all those who think this is funny, what will happen to the next guy or person that ticks her off? This scenario won’t work again so what will she do? Hire someone like she did this time to beat the person up? Or do something worse? As to the people defending her, as usual, I don’t care if they were Mother Thresea before they committed their acts. Aside from mental illiness, if a person commits a crime like this, that says all you need to know about them.
Obviously rape is wrong either way and if guilty she should get the same as a man would. Although that would most likely be acquital and the victim would be asked questions like: What were you wearing?; Come on you were asking for it! Why did you let her put the ball into your mouth? How many times have you enjoyed having a dildo in your anus? etc
He is lucky they took vids and pics otherwise he would be portrayed as a guy who woke up with a sore anus and decided he did regret it after all!
I never let my ex tie me up – too much risk of revenge for all those late nights out! If you’re into that kind of thing the only safe way is to do it in public or pay a professional!
Has anyone told her whether or not the guy she thought she got hep C actually had it – not that it is relevant to the offence but she must be curious.
The most important question is who should play Nicola in the telemovie?
I know its not funny, but this is now a world news story and does translate well from Dutch….
“A 19-year old soldier thought to have an exciting evening when his girlfriend got a set of handcuffs emerged. Unfortunately, the young man, however, be disappointed. The cosy together soon changed into a hell.
The friend of the military, Nicola Clunies-Ross, was convinced that there vriendjelief had betrayed her with another. “I will destroy you,” she said threatening, and soon came a colleague from the soldier, Peter Gurdulic, the bedroom inside. The soldier was heavily armed with a veritable vibrator.
Nicola spoiled her young soldier in all holes with her vibrating friend, while Peter filmed the whole action. Peter threatened while filming the images on a public legercomputer to continue, so that everyone could see the movie.
After an hour long military was horrific torture, he was finally liberated from its plight. “I tried to scream very loudly, but by that prop my foot was not much,” said the unfortunate soldier.”
@Randolph,
Read that back please, it hardly makes sense…..
i read that in the telegraaf as well btw.
So let me get this straight Brittany. Let’s say you are having relations with a guy, and he tells you to come over for a romantic night, and then some hot sex afterwards. You are excited and pleased with his invitation, and proceed to his house. He makes you feel special and beautiful, and then ties you up to pleasure you. In walks his girlfriend. He and his girlfriend rape and beat you. Still funny?
In my mind, and in my world, having something shoved up my ass is one of the worst things that can happen to me. And, apparently, like 16 years ago, it had the same effect on most men because when I was going through basic training in the air force, that was one of the threats the drill instructors used “You think that’s funny, speed bump? how about I shove this baton up your ass, would you still think it’s funny?”
Our world is turning sicker and sicker.
for starters – Nicola is not, and never was, a soldier in the Australian Army… one “fact” wrong in this article may imply some other inaccuracies…
Her trial will determine her guilt or otherwise – not a gossip column like this one.
I am not advocating Nicola’s (or Peter’s) actions as it is not right to take vengeance into one’s own hands… but there are always two sides to every story and, by many first-hand accounts, the “victim” here was certainly no angel either.
Three immature people who all made mistakes and have all had significant consequences to their actions.
good riddance to peter. what a screwed up woman, pity her family.
Where to start -
1. If my girlfriend still has an X or old boyfriend thinking that he can get something from her, then I am going to assume that she is not / has not been faithful, so unless we decided to have an “open” relationship, I’d dump her right then and there.
2. If she’s got 2 boyfriends, how many other “people” are in her life? Maybe the Hep C came from somewhere else?
3. Murphy’s Law “Never go to bed with anyone crazier than yourself”.
She may win a jury over on hot or cute, or may loose a jury ob cold or skanky.
Ok my point is as to why I’m not that bothered: he obviously got into the chair by himself and allowed her to put the ball gag on. Did it ever occur to you that maybe they’ve done this kinky stuff before? I’m sure he knew something was coming from behind if he so easily cooperated into getting into the chair. Maybe the knife against his neck was new. However a lot in S&M relationships stuff gets kinky.
Maybe the “I will destroy you” comment was a little extreme. Maybe Peter killed himself because he was enlisted and didn’t want to deal with it. Either way what’s done is done there really can’t be that much harm and foul in this story.
Carressa – I’d have to say I can’t imagine myself in that situation that you described. I don’t get naked in front of guys. I don’t have sex with guys, but if I ended up in that situtation and a sexy chick came walking out I’m pretty sure I could get out of her raping me. AND I wasn’t saying that the rape was funny I’m saying that he came over for some hot fun and well he had another thing coming. But like I said, I’ll re-instate the fact that he may have been in some kind of similiar situation before
Oh, Brittany- I was just waiting for your take on this one. Now I was seeing it more like… If your hot GF invited you over, wearing some sexy nothing, and asked YOU to have a little fun tying her up, etc., when poof! Out of the bedroom comes this MAN (don’t think they need a dildo in this scenario)……. wouldn’t that be more of a comparison for you? Those are the kind of mistakes people make when they assume everyone has the same gender preferences.
I agree with you about the ‘been there, done that’ aspect. After all, I’ve wracked my brain trying to think of how the assault could have happened to a person seated, tied to a chair, unless they were seated in a less-than-ordinary position. Maybe he wasn’t sitting. Maybe Miss Cop ordered him to ‘Spread ‘em’, and tied him like that? Gross, I know, but the logistics confuse me. I don’t know too many men who, with no previous kink experience would allow someone to put a ball-gag in their mouth. Men like to talk too much for that. (wink)
Trace- You’re right. How many times do you hear insults to men that refer to getting it up the ass? I’ve heard it plenty. Ever get passed over for a job? Wow, you just took it in the ass! With so many negative comments about the practice, it’s one of the reasons why I always wonder why it’s so popular in porn (and seeping into real-life) when it’s such an insult… unless it’s happening to a woman.
I have nothing against consentual almost-everything, but have a problem with people wanting to do to other people something they themselves are mortally afraid of having done to them. Then it stops being about sex, and is a plain old power thing, in both rapes and relationships.
I would guess that although the one perp’s suicide may have been partly due to messing up his career, I’m going to bet that it was more likely due to the embarrassment of being found to have used a dildo on a guy’s ass. I kind of doubt he’d have been as embarrassed about it if it’d been on a girl’s.
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thank you Glory. You see where I’m coming from. I love how you threw in the gender bender reversal though. It made me smile. You see my point and well that’s my point.
I still can’t believe that he was forced into that position as if he’d never been there before. You have to admit, I have a fair point.
as well as my take on Peter’s suicide. Again though the “spread em” may have worked but you’re not gonna “spread em” and then open your mouth for a gag…
Now I have another thing (and no I’m not saying what happened was alright) since I love over analyzing these types of situations: What if this was all just a kinky home video gone wrong? What if the lover wasn’t about sharing “his girl” with someone else and was surprised when the other guy showed up that he decided to fuck the two of them over. Maybe Peter just couldn’t deal with the fact that there was “evidence” stacked against him so he offed himself. You never know…
It doesn’t matter much if the guy had been in that postion before, of if she had gone to town wth an even bigger dildo at some point in the past. The fact is that he didn’t want it done at that time. Having been raped in my own bed by an ex-boyfriend, it doesn’t matter how many times you have done something (kinky or not), it is a huge violation to be forced into sex, regardless of how many times you have consented in the past. I don’t care if he asked for the ball gag and specified a certain color. At some point (probably when the other guy walked out), he wanted out. He wasn’t given it, and for that she should be punished just like a man who does the same thing.
But how easy is it to have regrets the next day and then say “but that time I did not want it?”
Whit – You obviously don’t get my point and I can’t try to explain it any more. Like I said, overall the “rape” isn’t ok.
Nicola is a cold demon-spawn bitch from hell and I hope she burns.
It is a terrible thing to realise, that even though a friend is capable of great wrong, you can still consider them a friend. That you can try and block out the pain and suffering caused by someone you thought you knew. Perhaps I am too close to judge, perhaps I have no right to judge, but I do. She deserves every punishment given to her, and more. As do the people (probably her parents?) who made her into a monster. Every person in this story has wronged someone else, but she has caused most of them, and lived them all.
Rape is wrong regardless of gender.
If you want me to be all sympathetic about some guy getting some dildo shoved up his ass, maybe you should remove the 5 million pages of pics of women get various things shoved up their asses.
Oh, money. Nevermind.
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This story is more about humiliating the guy for being a real arse-hole than about commiting a sexual act on him, in itself… Just the means chosen to do so were a bit misguided and extreme.
Nicola is not a bad person, she (and her family and friends) has been through a lot already and going to prison (or hell – if we view this website seriously!?#) is not going to change what has happened or to compensate the guy (who, frankly, WAS/IS an arse-hole).
I am sure he is copping it just as bad in Iraq right now!!!
ooooh! My comment has caused the story to change!!! The bit about Nicola being in the Australian Armed Services has been removed for being false….
How does this stack up for the rest of the story being completely true!!!!!!!!
To truth-speaker:
You say Nicola should not be punished for her actions because putting her in prison is not going to change what happened. Exactly how far would you like to take this argument, hmmmm? Should murderers not have to go to prison since their incarceration is not going to bring the victim back to life?
I’m sure Nicola has “been through a lot.” But if even half of this article is true, she deserves all of it. And she put her victim through much more.
Bravo Meaghan, when I read Truth-Speakers post, I upped my lunch. Judging from what I have read here and in Australia she had an equal part in the rape and should suffer the same consequences of performing such an act.
Rape is Rape regardless of genders or in this case privilege connection. Saying that her family has suffered because of the negative press against a privileged name is bullshit, what about the family of the man that was raped have they also suffered?? or does that family like it when there son gets raped ? and they don’t suffer??
Nicola Jane Clunies-Ross did the crime now she must do the time.
See u in hell Biach
yeah…I think Brittany and Glorybug are my favorites.
I also have just one question. I have been thinking about it (bad imagery, let me tell ya). If the guy was seated in the chair as the story goes, and handcuffed…what kind of chair was he in where they could get a “large vibrator” in his ass? I mean…sit in a chair, a slight forward movement and you have some vacuum lock to the surface of the chair going on. This kind of puts the whole “They’ve done it before” thing in perspective. I for one wouldn’t sit naked in a chair that had a hole in the seat just right for a vibrator to fit in.
ok visual – regular chair then he’s sitting in it backwards like Slater did on Saved By the Bell all the time; his hands wrapped around the back and handcuffed low to where his head was just above the back of the chair and if he was slanted just right, well his ass would be hanging off.
but thanks for being my fan Kenny!
that’s just how I pictured it as soon as I read the story.
well she belongs in hell… i saw her in court today (took bloody forever) and well she is GUILTY no doubt in my mind. she is still wearing the same clothes has seen in the pic above and looks like shit. and cried for a short time when being told she was a lair (what she is) she lied to the police in her statement and then changed what she said while in court, the prosecutor took great joy in this (me also while having a laugh in the back) we also saw the videos that she was in seeing her put the vibrator up the poor boys backside and a few other things ie him tied up with the ball in his mouth. all i can say is that i hope the jury can see what a lying bitch she is and she gets locked up for a while. shes fucked in the head
GUILTY………..
Thank God the Jury could see what a lying bitch she really is.
“Woman guilty over abusing soldier lover
January 25, 2008 – 10:25PM
A woman accused of handcuffing her Australian soldier lover and sexually abusing him has been found guilty of depriving him of his liberty.”
Rape her in the arse
“A jury today found her guilty of depriving the soldier of his liberty but cleared her of the other two charges”
Nicola lied in court and has lied and deceived throughout her life. She is an accomplished manipulator and liar, as evidenced in court and accurately evaluated by the prosecutor and she manipulated both men, unfortunately both were fooled by her and wronged by her. Peter was in a longstanding relationship with Nicola but she had already betrayed him before he joined the Army and moved to Darwin. She forced herself back with Peter and moved thousands of miles away from Perth in order to manipulate herself back into Peter’s life. He should have told her to PISS OFF there and then but the silly boy though perhaps they could make a new go of it. But whilst in Darwin Peter already heard “rumours” that Nicola was cheating on him behind his back. But Peter was away from family and friends and was too trustworthy and chose to give her the benefit of the doubt. But when his best mate from high school joined the Army just months before Peter entrusted him to look after Nicola while he was away ungoing serious military training in Melbourne before being deployed to Iraq. His “mate” then betrayed him with his cheating girlfriend! How do you think this made Peter feel. Here was a nineteen year old young man, he was training for Iraq for He was betrayed by both his girlfriend and his highschool and army “mate”. Yeah, that’s Army mateship for ya! The worst thing you could do to your mate!. OK Peter got rid of Nicola and had a big punch fight with his ex-mate.Would you blame the man! Then Nicola found out that she had possibly contracted Hep C from Peter’s ex-mate, the guy she cheated with. She wanted revenge on the guy, and goaded Peter to help her and instead of stupid Peter walking away and saying he wanted no part of it, though he was still seriously hurt by the betrayal and probably didn’t take much coaxing he got sucked in by her for the last time
I was at the trial also. Nicola was convicted of depriving the “cheater” of his liberty, attempted sexual penetration and common assault. Two of the convictions were down graded from the initial charges and the jury did their job well.
The above article is pretty accurate. Essentially a girl who was pissed off at this army trooper for cheating on her and at the time believing that she may have contracted hep C. So she wants to have payback and rings her ex boyfriend and convinces him that both of them should get back at him even though Peter had settled his dispute previously in a fight with the “cheater” and was “over it”. That Sat night is the only day they can do it as Peter arrives from Darwin that morning and the “cheater” leaves for Darwin on Sunday. The point was to “teach him a lesson”.
IMO it is highly possible that the “penetration” part did not occur and was spiced up by the “cheater”. But nevertheless it was premeditated and there was overwhelming evidence that both were involved voluntarily.
No one has though that the “cheater” should go to hell because really he did the dirty on Peter then he did the dirty on Nicola. He is the whole reason this happened
I dont have a huge problem with what Nicola had done to this point, but I do have issue with what she said in court. There was so much overwhelming evidence that there was no way she was going to get away with blaming Peter. Her evidence was full of lies trying to blame it on Peter and portaying him as Violent and Domineering WHICH HE IS DEFINATELY NOT. Her defence lawyer was mad thinking that he could win the case blaming Peter for it also. Nicola should have been honest, pleaded guilty to the charges or slighly lesser charges and explained what truely happened. I am sure the judge would have made a large concession for the circumstances of what the “cheater” did.
It is very sad and tragic that we lost Peter as he was a wonderful boy. We miss him.
Yeah, Peter made a wrong judgement call. Though Nicola had her defence have Peter painted as violent and disturbed and that he threatened her to do what she did to the guy. What alot of billshit.She was with him for 5 long years and Peter tried to get away from her by joining the Army and moving to Darwin, but she followed him up there despite having a job and studying in Perth. She was the principal instigator of all that followed, Peter was the dumb sheep, she incited Peter into being involved the day he came down to Perth for his last 2 weeks R&R before his deployment to Iraq. He didn’t plan it. Nicola wanted to seek revenge on the guy because she thought he had cheated on HER and given her Hep C.
Peter was NOT violent. He was a sensitive soul that got involved with a betraying seductrice, and his best mate betrayed him on top of it all. He was surrounded by betrayal and was seriously hurt by it. He didn’t suicide because he was ashamed of the events, he did it because he was afraid of what it was going to do to his family. He did it in a misguided sense of selflessness, but how wrong he was.
Peter was a handsome, beautiful, artistic, sensitive young soul, who was ultimately betrayed by so many in life and now in death.
Nicola blatantly lied and tried to pin everything on a dead man. Good defence…Dead men can’t defend themselves She may have the face of an angel but she is a manipulating seductress…but can’t blame her because of her upbringing. The trooper who was assaulted was not blameless either…he cheated on both his long standing school AND Army mate! And that’s the worst kind of betrayal. I’m not saying he deserved the punishment but he brought alot of the crap onto himself through his own actions. Peter is not blameless but he is more stupid than anything and should have washed his hands of both his ex-girlfriend and so called mate and not involved himself when Nicola lulled him into her plan. But he was deeply wounded by everything that had gone before and couldn’t let it go.
I feel sorry for Nicola now that she has been convicted. But she lied in court and tried to blame Gurdulic for everything, and falsely described him as violent and that he threatened her into doing what she did. None of the three are blameless but to base your defence on blaming a dead man, who you once showed you compassion and who looked after you in your time of desparation and need and supported you finacially and emotionally, is so cold and ruthless. Nothing excuses the assault, but disloyalty, betrayal and revenge proved fatal.
Peter had been hurt and betrayed by people throughout his life. He was the sought of guy that valued loyalty and trust upmost. He would take a bullet for his mate’s because that’s the kind of person he was. His self-esteem had been shattered from events throughout his life. But the way he was depicted by the defence as violent is an untruth. He was compassionate and was the first to extend a hand of support to someone in need. He is not blameless but the plan was not initiated by him but by his scheming ex who convinced him to take part. And the stupid boy went along. I don’t feel anger towards Nicola though because she is not responsible for her upbringing either, which made her the way she is. God will judge us all in the end. Let those who are without sin caste the first stone.
Hateful comments regarding the deceased party should be left out as he is DEAD and can’t defend himself. The accused was found guilty but you are presumed innocent until proven guilty.Let him RIP.
I agree with ‘reader’.
I never had anything in depth to do with Nicola except on one occasion when there was clear deceit by her to me. The story she concocted for the court case was ridiculous considering all the evidence that was there. Her police interview video tape completely contradicted nearly all her “oath evidence” to the point that she claimed under oath that she lied in most of the police interview.
To be able to lie to this degree and to EXPECT people to believe it in the face of all the evidence against her amazes me. I guess her lawyer just played with it knowing instead of pleading guilty with mitigating circumstances and getting paid for 1 day in court, going along with her story he will get paid alot more days in court. To be a defence lawyer you really gotta have a bit of an imagination and the ability to put the spin on like he did (i,e crap on).
Why is Nicola such a liar. Why did Nicola think its OK to sleep with her mates ex boyfriend. I think part of the explanation on the second point may lie with her mothers reputation with men. The daughter sees what her mother is like with male relationships and then it impacts on the way she thinks where the boundaries are.
I hope Nicola reads this and thinks hey, I haven’t been fooling anyone and now I have created myself a bad reputation. Maybe from today I should start anew and accept the consequences of my actions and STOP lying. Nicola forget about considering appealling the case, cop the time in jail and get on in life.
I think the “cheater” (not sure why his real name is not being used by I will refrain for his sake)seems to have acknowledged some of his errors in this matter and hopes he fully understands where he erred.
Poor Peter. His suicide is complicated to understand but here are a few issues that didn’t help. When someone is taken to a top QC and told that its going to cost $100000 to defend his case it scared him and didn’t want to put this burden on his family. Together with a particular unsuportive hysterical lunatic calling him evil and bad did not help. And there was someone else who was advised by Peter some days beforehand that he had attempted suicide but this person decided himself not to tell anyone even though he was briefed a few days prior by Defence Personel that if Peter displayed any suicidal signs notify us immediately and we will offer our services. This may give you a little insight. This was not a case of depression or mental illness. It was a very selfless act.
All 3 were to blame. It was betrayal from all angles. Not one of them is guilt-free. They all acted stupidly and one paid the ultimate price. 2 were still in their teens and the 3rd was barely out of his teens. They had all been good friends at some stage. Then there was the betrayal. The female betraying her longstanding BF . The trooper betraying his Army mate having an affair with his GF while he was away on military training for Iraq, the trooper betraying the GF with an old GF and then the GF (accused) wanting pay-back cos the trooper cheated on her and possibly gave her Hep C and involving her old BF to seek her revenge. It all back-fired
The suicide note that is referred to in the newspaper article in the West Australian 26 jan 2008 is no “confession” by the deceased as suggested by NCR and her defence. The deceased wanted to clean the slate for everyone and take the blow for everyone before he killed himself. He felt betrayed but he didn’t hate anyone in the end. He took the bullet for everyone. RIP
NCR was never under duress and PJG was never violent as suggested by the defence. He may have waved a knife, but it was just for dramatic show, never any intent as suggested to hurt anyone. He had been bashed by a gang of dark-skinned men a few years back so do you blame him for carrying self protection. Who doesn’t these days. There are a lot of lunatics out there. NCR was the initator of what happened and was never under any duress or threat of harm or death at any stage. That is a blatant lie. She was a voluntary participant and the mastermind behind the whole ordeal. She betrayed and then was betrayed by the man she eventually assaulted.
Intersted bystander is right. I have never known Peter to raise his voice to me, let alone a fist. He would defend himself and anyone else who needed it, but HE WAS NOT A VIOLENT PERSON. He was a very sweet, charming, quite often old fashioned boy.
To Interested Bystander – - – waving a knife around “just for dramatic show” is not violent ????????
PLEASE listen to yourself !!!!!!!!
It doesn’t sound like you are simply an “interested bystander”, it sounds like you have a very BIG vested interest in this story, not objective bystander at all
violent : acting with or characterised by uncontrolled, strong ,rough force (macquarie dictionary)
I think waving a knife in that manner is more threatening.
Nevertheless its not nice to happen to anyone.
Brittany was stupid enough to make the very first comment, speak her mind, and show her true feelings about this.
Now I don’t care how much she rationalizes her way out of this, she is stuck with her true opinion of men. All her idiotic follow up can can easily be disected to see that she’s desperately trying to rationalize her way out of it.
Shitty weak minded people like her are a perfect example of someone taking full advantage of political correctess (societal bullshit) of certain situations.
We all kow that it’s absolutely unacceptable to make any odd or humorous comments on a woman getting raped. But, fuck that. I’d like to see Brittany get ass raped and posted on here. I’ll be the first to comment (you can guess the tone of it), and would love to see some of the hypocrisy laden comments.
See something like that I don’t even know where to start my rebutal.
I’m sure at some point Glory will have a thing or two to say on this one.
“Brittany was stupid enough to make the very first comment, speak her mind, and show her true feelings about this. ”
Stupid huh? Ok…no. Yes I did speak my mind and showed how I felt about kinky situations. I’ve also stated that I don’t agree with rape but at the same time someone who hasn’t ‘been there, done that’ to get into that situation.
“Now I don’t care how much she rationalizes her way out of this, she is stuck with her true opinion of men. All her idiotic follow up can can easily be disected to see that she’s desperately trying to rationalize her way out of it.”
My true opinion of men huh? How do you get that my ’s&m’ knowlegde rationalizes my opinion of men. I don’t like penis. I’ll be honest. I don’t want it near me, I don’t want to look at it unless I have to (at work sometimes I have to) and even then I don’t want to. Men are men. Some are assholes, some are nice guys. No one deserves to be forced anal sex, but some guys like it because yes, there is a g-spot in it. I’m just guessing that, like I’ve said, ‘been there done that’.
“Shitty weak minded people like her are a perfect example of someone taking full advantage of political correctess (societal bullshit) of certain situations.”
Politics are bullshit. They’re not equal. Plain and simple. I’m not weak minded, I might be young, but I am strong. Believe me politics are not on my side. Period.
“We all kow that it’s absolutely unacceptable to make any odd or humorous comments on a woman getting raped. But, fuck that. I’d like to see Brittany get ass raped and posted on here. I’ll be the first to comment (you can guess the tone of it), and would love to see some of the hypocrisy laden comments.”
I’d like to see a guy get close enough to me to ass rape me. It’s not going to happen. I don’t put myself in those situations. I make sure of my surroundings at all times and if I’m around guys in a drunken environment (usually the only time I’m around guys in a none work environment) I’m not alone. No guy, or girl at that, is going to have the opportunity to ass rape me. I’m sorry, but you’ll have to find someone else to mock.
There was no mocking there you idiot. That was a very staightforward response to your self incriminating idiocy.
Now your further elaboration, regaring your dislike for men, pretty much proves the reasoning behind your joy for rape.
You might wanna consider shutting the fuck up, ’cause the more you run your mouth, the deeper you dig your hole. lol
I think it’s great that she was foung guilty
Nice try trying to cover up your misandry. LOL
I really do think there was justice prevailing however I don’t understand how you get that I have a undeniable joy for rape.
I can run my mouth all I want and dig as many holes as I want cause I can pull myself right back out.
hey…… how many “Interested bystanders” are there???
Um, ok. Where do I start?
The ass-rape thing? Let’s get rid of that first. I have not been on here that long, but I’m sure people have gotten the idea that I don’t like that idea for either prisoners or women.
I guess it’s ok for men or women, if they like that, but I’ve just never met any who was ok with that yet. Plus, it’s said in such a negative, insulting way that it’s hard to see any positive in it.
The comments that were made about Brittany- It’s hard not to see them in an anti-lesbian way. It’s possible that the poster has no clue about the openness Brittany has provided about her personal life, but not likely. It’s more likely that they have read her other posts, are negative about lesbians/gays, and posted the nasty things they said because of their feelings about that.
I dont think you have to be gay or straight to say that men are confusing. Everyone likes to stereotype it as ‘women are just soooooo un-figure-out-able’. The truth is that men are not any easier to read, and the contradictory messages they send out do not make it any easier.
I think that’s something that many men are afraid of. That if they relax, they might reveal something to a woman that will embarrass them later. The whole Samson and Delilah thing. I have been incredibly lucky in my life, in that although I have not had just ONE lifelong partner, I have had enough relationships with men to figure out a thing or two. And they have told me things they do not admit to other people.
I don’t like reading things that present men as inpenetrable and hard. I have two boys. I don’t want them to be incapable of relationships because of what they’ve been told ‘being a man’ consists of. I want them to have rich, private relationships with whoever they choose, and I hope they are longterm. If I had girls, I’m sure I would want no less for them. Somehow, as usual, the original topic gets corrupted.
In this situation, people appear to be trying to make a lot of the ‘kink’ factor. In my opinion, that’s kind of white-bread nowdays. 50 years ago it might have been the norm to have a 5 minute ‘encounter’ with your spouse that consisted of 30 seconds of foreplay and 3 minutes of missionary-position sex. I’m going to guess that is not the norm any more.
I think creative sex is the norm now, no matter what your gender preference is, although I doubt many people carry it to the extent of threatening or wielding a knife towards your intended sex partner.
Forced sex, no matter who it is committed against, and no matter who is the committee.. is wrong. Stereotypes that imply that men should appreciate being essentially ‘raped’ because men should always be stiff and ready to fuck someone… I think are very insulting. I have 2 boys, and I do not want them thinking this is normal. This woman and her boyfriend committed what is essentially rape, and they should be prosecuted. That the other party committed suicide is even sadder. It shows they knew it was wrong.
I still do not believe this is the first time this couple ‘experimented’…. but even so, it’s not a valid rationale for raping someone, whether it’s a man or a woman.
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Bout damn time Glory! ha ha . thanks girl!
Ugh, I hate Australians, they are soo full of themselves. They think they can pull America down with them, it is so funny.
OK Jayni, theres no need to make this an “our country is better than yours” pissing competition.
but heres the magic question…
did they ever find out who gave her the heps?
they murdered Mr Gurdulic and made it look like SUCIDE so the very rich babe with powerful connections could walk free — she now going to get a SUSPENDED SENTANCE — ITS BEING DONE BEFORE
Well it would seem that its all over. A suspended sentence. From my highly biased view it hardly seems fair, but then I was also following this for Peter, a crime that Nicola cannot be charged with. I guess we will never have the answers, never know what really happened. All we are left with are more questions and hollow ‘justice’.
Sometimes there is justice in this world! Nicola Clunies – Ross may come from a “well to do” family but that doesnt mean she hasnt had a hard life, I think people should stop believing what they read and take a long look at themselves and wonder how a girl gets into a position like this, do you honestly think that if the judge had any doubt in his mind she was the mastermind behind this ordeal and a threat to the community he would give her a suspended sentence! Yes things are more complicated than they appear, and no her family didnt “kill Mr Gurdulic Off” I think that any person sad enough to pass judgement on another person without knowing the whole story is a complete imbecile or maybe not human after all.
Oh boo-hoo..lets all go have a cry for Nicola. I hope her liver shrivels up and she turns a nice shade of yellow from her hepC.
I hope she dies and her cunt fills up with sand.
again, “anyone who judges” read your own post before you post it. At least some people admit that they are biased.
Nicola is a selfish, evil, manipulative, evil bitch. PERIOD!
I love how she got all mad that the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with MIGHT’VE been cheating on her. I repeat: the guy she was CHEATING ON HER BOYFRIEND WITH might’ve been cheating on her.
Even if he were cheating on her, she had absolutely no right to get mad since she was also guilty of cheating on a significant other. Dumb entitled bitch. What an idiot.