People have some of the weirdest sexual tendencies, I don’t really think he wanted someone who was willing. I heard a news story about some kid who kept getting caught screwing dead deer that he found on the roadside. They couldn’t charge him with animal cruelty because the deer were always dead. Never did hear what they finally figured out. Just saying it’s not about sex for the POS!

We did that today. We just got in the ol’ Kia, slipped a little Ozzy into the CD player, and drove up I-29 to Missouri Valley. Hit an antique store and ate at Burger King. We made goo-goo eyes and held hands and fell in love. Don’t know if I’ll get laid, but I’m in love and that’s okay by me.

Well, stop being a beggar! Be a chooser!

Get a strategy. Here’s my suggestions…

Don’t talk about sex. Don’t act like you want any. However, do a lot of touching, talking, ‘out-of-nowhere’ kissing. But don’t do any of that for more than 30 seconds at a time. Walk up behind your partner, give them a little squeeze and say ‘mmmmmm’. Then walk away. When you get ready to go to bed, give them a lookover, or a sniff, and say something positive. Something you like about them, and then something like- you smell gooood. Then, just go to bed.

If this does not end up with you getting laid the first night, do it all over again the next day. The key being that you are making positive advances with no connotation of wanting sex. It sounds weird, but it works. Instead of making it that YOU want to have sex, you’re setting it up for THEM to want to have sex with you.

Think about it. When you were dating, did you flat-out tell them that you were horny and wanted to get laid? Probably not. Because that would likely get you a ‘no’, unless you were both into one-night=stands.But, more than likely you were subconsciously sending them all those same signals without even knowing it. And obviously, since they’re with you now, they responded with a ‘yes’.

I hear a lot of people thinking that they have to buy their partner something, take them to dinner, things supposedly that will re-spark your love-life. I don’t think any of those things work well. Making the other person want it, making it their idea, is much better. And cheaper.

All this advice is absolutely free from me. You should, however, proceed with caution and not assume I know jack-shit about any of it, LOL. In other words, don’t sue me if it doesn’t work!!!

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LOL Fred. I have not been out of Texas much and I HATE big cities, so I don’t get much entertainment around here “people watching”. I do enjoy going to bars and watching people. Pretty funny stuff. Talk about a trip to the candy store. hahahah.

Personally, I have never had to force anybody. Hmmm…can women force men to have sex?!? :)