On the 4th of March, 2008, hours after being convicted of repeatedly molesting a young girl between the years of 1989 and 1994, 52-year-old Carlos Eduardo Tello climbed up to the ninth floor of the Central Justice Center in Santa Ana.
Now, exactly why Carlos Eduardo Tello was allowed to walk around after being convicted of continuous sexual abuse of a child, lewd and lascivious acts on a minor and oral copulation of a minor, when he knew that he was facing a possible sentence of more than 20 years in prison for his crimes, I have no idea. Perhaps Superior Court Judge Greggory Prickett felt that Carlos Tello would just meekly accept what would basically be a life sentence for a man in his 50’s.
Maybe Judge Greggory Prickett’s experience led him to believe that Carlos Tello would return to the courtroom at 4:30 like he was supposed to and go calmly with the nice officers - despite being told by the Deputy District Attorney that when Carlos Eduardo Tello had been arrested in 2006, he had been carrying a suicide note and that just letting him wander around might be a bad idea.
As it turns out, Heather Brown, the Deputy District Attorney, was shown to be right, as alarms sounded throughout the courthouse, indicating that someone had crossed a line somewhere and entered a restricted area.
A sheriff’s special officer who heard the alarm, came out of his assigned courtroom and saw Carlos Tello standing on a restricted balcony, looking over the edge.
As the bailiff approached the trespasser, Carlos Tello told the officer that he was going to jump. The officer tried to stop him, fighting for a minute or so to try to get the suicidal individual down to the floor - but Carlos Tello managed to fight free and hurl himself off the building to the concrete below.
Carlos Edward Tello died instantly. When his body was recovered, authorities found a suicide note tucked into his clothing.
When convicted child molesters commit suicide, it’s hard for anyone other than another sexual offender or a close family member to feel much sympathy.
Carlos Eduardo Tello will probably not be missed by many people, but he will make an excellent footnote in judiciary instruction manuals.
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Man…I’ve been by that court house. That’s gross man. I don’t even wanna think about someone being splattered.
Those ghanstars in OC J don’t mess around either. Same thing with Theo Lacy (I’ve had some fucked up friends)
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good riddance
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Now if only we could get them to do this before they decided to destroy a child.
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if i where there, i would’ve clapped, good to see he did the right thing in the end.
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Other child molesters should take note of this and consider doing this themselves!
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i KNEW EDDIE AND HE WAS NOT A CHILD MOLESTER. HE WAS APPEALING THE CASE DUE TO MATERIAL EVIDENCE AND ONLY THE GIRLS TESTIMONY. THE WAY THE ARTICLE IS WRITTEN MAKES HIM SOUND LIKE A BORDER HOPPING DIRTBAG. HE WAS RAISED HERE FROM A VERY YOUNG AGE.HE WAS FULL OF CLASS. HE WAS GENEROUS AND KIND AND VERY FUNNY. HE HAD A SWEET SMILE AND EVERYONE LOVED HIM. HE WORKED FOR THE SHERIFFS DEPT FOR 16 YEARS, AND WAS WORKING AT A 5 DIAMOND HOTEL IN NEWPORT BEACH AS A DRIVER. HE WAS THE NICEST SWEETEST PERSON EVER. IF I READ THE ARTICLE AND DIDN’T KNOW HIM , I WOULD BE DISGUSTED TOO. I HAVE NO SYMPATHIES FOR ANYONE WHO HURTS KIDS,EVER! THE BACKGROUND ON THIS CASE WOULD SUPRISE YOU. IF YOU KNEW ALL THE DETAILS YOU MIGHT NOT BE SO QUICK TO JUDGE.UNFORTUNATELY, THEY DON’T TELL YOU HE WAS APPEALING THE CASE AND IT WAS TAKING OVER HIS LIFE. I AM NOT A FAMILY MEMBER , BUT SOMEONE WHO WORKED VERY CLOSELY WITH HIM. HE WAS A TRULY SWEET GENEROUS KIND BEING. NOT A CHILD MOLESTER, IF HE WAS , I WOULD SAY GOOD RIDANCE TO ANOTHER DIRTBAG. I JUST WANTED A DIFFERENT SIDE OF EDDIE TO BE SEEN. DO NOT THINK I AM STUPID OR NAIVE. ANYONE WHO KNOWS HIM KNOWS HIS STORY AND HIS COURT STRUGGLES. UNFORTUNATELY, HE COULDN’T TAKE ANYMORE AND WAS LSOING EVERYTHING AND ENDED HIS LIFE. NOW HE WILL ONLY BE KNOWN AS THE CHILD MOLESTER WHO KILLED HIMSELF. HE IS MOST DEFINITELY ON THE LIST OF PEOPLE I WILL SEE IN HEAVEN….NOT HELL.I AM NOT ANGRY AT ANYONE’S POSTS. YOU ONLY KNOW WHAT YOU READ. RIP EDDIE , I GOT YOUR BACK.
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Meaghan reply on March 6, 2008:
“Border-hopping dirtbag”? I don’t think the article mentions this national origin at all.
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jay reply on March 6, 2008:
makes me laugh how most people think that if someone is a police officer or ever was, that they are perfect and wouldn’t harm a fly.
but in retrospect, police officers are usually some of the sickest fucks out there. they use their power to rape, molest, and beat people and usually never get in trouble for it.
i really wish people would STOP praising these sickos if they were cops or served in the army or whatever.
i don’t care if the guy saved my own life, if he has sex with little girls/boys, he deserves to die and feel every bit of pain and humiliation the child did.
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Amanda reply on May 11, 2008:
Really. Seriously. Did you KNOW, you FREAK, that 87% of child molesters and freaks like this dude who abuse our children are CLOSE to the kids and TRUSTED by them AND their parents?? Dumbass. Ted Bundy worked with, or somehow knew, Anne Rule for years, hence her book, “The Stranger Beside Me,” while he was killing people, too. Nobody suspected him, either. It just goes to show, you think that you know a person, but you will never know someone’s inner demons. Until they do something horrific like this freak did. His suicide said it all.
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PantalonesDeDios reply on May 12, 2008:
OMG CAPSLOCK FURY!
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Wow. It’s amazing how 99% of all child molestors are really innocent.
Also interesting how ’someone’ always claims that the reporting has been inaccurate, and that ’someday’ the real truth will come out. But it never does.
“THE BACKGROUND ON THIS CASE WOULD SUPRISE YOU. IF YOU KNEW ALL THE DETAILS YOU MIGHT NOT BE SO QUICK TO JUDGE”
And, someone always has to say this. But then they don’t bother to give the so-called details.
Anyone can appeal a verdict. Doesn’t mean they are innocent. I am curious how someone could supposedly be ‘appealing’ anything, since this POS supposedly killed himself on the same day he was convicted. His attorney is a miracle-worker if they’d somehow already started appealing on the same day as the conviction.
The only other info I have read says that it is a family member that he was convicted of molesting, and that it spanned a period of 5 years.
I would like to know how this POS was supposedly appealing his conviction on the same day he was convicted.
Just a thought, for all his supporters….
Lots of sweet, funny people have the bad habit of liking to molest children. All molestors don’t act/look like Charles Manson, y’know?
Of all these cases where some family/friend comes on here to yell in all caps, about how nobody else is privvy to all the ‘details’ that they have…. not one has come back at any time and actually provided any of those details, or any other info about the crime, other than to say that the perp was a ‘great person’. Lets hear those details, eh?
I tend to think lots of people are ‘great people’… well, until they start molesting their family members. I draw the line there. I’m just weird that way.
c
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yeah Frank, what are these so called details?
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Frank - just because you knew him does not make you the voice of reason. I am certain that he did not go around telling people that he was molesting a little girl. It makes little difference what you think because you are not the trier of fact. Why would the background in this case surprise me? Do you mean that the background in this case is such that any rational person would see that he was not this bad person? I believe there were 12 jurors. I’m pretty sure they were rational. They heard about the background. WHY WOULD IT SURPRISE ME IF IT DIDN’T SURPRISE THEM?
Look Frank, I can’t say that I feel sorry for a guy that has just been convicted of child molestation and then decides to end his life. His conviction proved he was guilty. His suicide was an admission of that guilt.
Finally, unless this guy was sentenced to death his conviction was not automatically appealed. What you meant to say is that he WOULD have appealed…(had he lived).
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I will Miss you But
always hate you
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Hey everybody i knew Eddie for a long time he did not do this just because the way the media is talking about it doesnt mean he did it
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now im mad and wasnt before. I said I knew eddie. I would know if he was molesting someone for four years. As for the appeal, you show your ignorance of the law. You can appeal before sentencing and after conviction. his sentencing was to be at 4:00 that same day. As for the border hopping comment. There was a comment up here yesterday that said “this is why we should close the border, to keep out dirtbags like him. ” I am hispanic, and was trying to make the point that his ethnicity is not a relevant topic to this dicussion. Children do not usually lie about being molested. period. In this case someone did. I was there when the whole thing went down. Remember, just because someone is convicted doesn’t mean our legal system doesn’t make mistakes. I belong to project freedom. In ten years as attorneys we have freed 375 people from jail who were wrongly imprisoned. Thirty of those were on death row. we assume a conviction follows guilt. usually it does. I believe from personal and professional experience with Eddie that this was an example of the failure in our lehgal system. No i was not his attorney. I knew him well though . If my own father molested someone and jumped off a building i would not lose any sleep over it. As for all of you who seem to think you are lawyers today. you do not know the case, the charges, or the proof required by calif state law. the law does not require that you prove you were molested. it is based only on testimony and the reliability of said testimony. there was no physical evidence, and there usually is not. are you all no naive to think a conviction always means guilt as someone mentioned above? ignorant. Also suicide is not an admission of guilt. that is the most ignorant statement of the day. because of the charges, he had lost his job as an architect with the sheriffs dept. I never said he was a cop. Someone assumed a fact not evident. he was going through a divorce because of the stress and had spent all his money on a defense.this is why he took his life. the suicide note said he was innocent, and couldnt face the life that had been taken away from him and the reputation he had accrued. i am disgusted at the complete lack of knowledge and forethought of the posters here. You dont have to believe anything but it is my right to say it. I typed in all caps last time not beacause I was yelling, as someone mentioned, but due to a malfunction on the office computer. my opinion is not based on the fact that he was a nice guy. There are two sides to every story. you were not in court. whether you hate him or not I am putting forth my opinion. Next thing I know I am getting attacked. see you bitches in hell.
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FRANK reply on March 8, 2008:
MALFUNCTION ON THE OFFICE COMPUTER.? ARE YOU KIDDING. THE COMMUNITY LAPTOP YOU MEAN? WHAT MALF? I POST IN CAPS ON PURPOSE. I KNOW WHO YOU ARE NOW………………
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UH THAT POST ABOVE IS NOT MINE. ANOTHER FRANK MAYBE? I POST IN CAPS, BUT STRANGELY HE IS POSTING AS FRANK AND ANSWERING QUESTIONS FOR ME. HOPE THE INFO YOU ARE POSTING IS TRUE, BUT NEXT TIME POST UNDER YOUR OWN NAME ‘FRANK’
admin - Uh, “FRANK” - there’s only one person who has been posting as “FRANK” and he has posted 3 messages, including this one. All comments have been made from the same IP address. You’re odd.
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FRANK reply on March 8, 2008:
IT IS A WORK COMPUTER AS STATED BEFORE. IT IS POSSIBLE THAT SOMEONE ELSE POSTED UNDER MY NAME , AS IT SEEMS TO AUTOMATICALLY POP UP WHEN I LOG ONTO THE WEBSITE. THEY ARE ALL FARMILIAR WITH THE CASE HERE, I WOULD HAVE HAPPILY TAKEN CREDIT FOR THE POST, BUT I DIDN’T WRITE IT, MAYBE THE PERSON DIDN’T EVEN REALIZE THEY WERE POSTING UNDER FRANK. WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT OF POSTING AND THEN SAYING I DIDN’T POST?
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I am in no way siding with anyone on this..I don’t condone anything that involves hurting a child…and I don’t post here very often..I’ve been content to observe, but Frank seems to know what he’s talking about. Far too often details are left out of stories to make them more appealing and morbid. I mean, would any of us find this as facinating if the story had been told in a different way ? I’m not saying the guy did or didn’t do it, I just wanted to point out that we are all too quick to believe everything thats put in front of us to read. I’m guilty of that myself. I visit this site regularly and have a few times hit the ” send em to hell button “..but without knowing the whole story on this one, I just can’t sit here and allow myself to judge this guy.
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FRANK reply on March 8, 2008:
THIS WAS THE POINT I WAS TRYING TO MAKE BELLE, AND THANK YOU. FAR TOO OFTEN WE BELIEVE EVERYTHING WE READ. THE MEDIA SPINS EVERYTHING TO SENSATIONALIZE STORIES AND SELL PAPERS. IS IT SO WRONG TO THINK THERE MAY BE ANOTHER SIDE TO THE STORY?
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Frank you dont
know what your talking
about because i was in that Court room
and he was guilty and he didnt say
a thing that he was innocent
So frank FUCK YOU! You dont know Him at all
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FRANK reply on March 8, 2008:
I WAS THERE TO JOSH, AND I KNOW WHO YOU ARE TOO. HE ENTERED A PLEA IN THE BEGINNING. WHAT WAS THAT PLEA JOSH? DONT TELL ME I DONT KNOW HIM . I WORKED WITH HIM EVERY DAY AND SPENT ALMOST EVERY DAY WITH HIM OUTSIDE OF THE ISLAND. WHY ARE YOU BITTER.
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FRANK reply on March 8, 2008:
P.S. JOSHIII, FUCK YOU? NICE, REALLY NICE. IS THAT ALL YOU BROUGHT?
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If details will help,here ya go. The case was ongoing for only three years, he was picked up from is work 2 years ago this april. One year prior the the step daughter approached her mom and step dad after a threat she made to Eddie 2 weeks rpior, ” I’ll get you for this”, because he had asked her to leave the house at the age of 21 or 22 after bringing her newborn to live with them, as she wasnt married. Why would a girl who was molested my her step dad bring her newborn and live with them again? Where was the psyshologist that interviewed and analysised their situation and found NO evidence or indication that molestation had taken place? This Dr. also claimed in an interview that the wife was a liar. How could a young women after ruining her mother and step father lives ever confess the truth without abandonment from the family completely? She didnt press charges for 11 months later, why? Why after the accusation did she wait so long? Was she pressured by others? the answer is yes. Why did the phychologist not testify in court? Well, because he wasnt available at the same time the attorneys and judge were. Eddies atty had a golf ternament to go to and a vacation that would occupy his time for the rest of march? So why not postpone to April?, becuase the $250,000 bail interest was due again at $20,000. something a valet cant afford. Eddie was not a cop he was a project manager for the sheriffs dept, as the OC registered indicated. He had to quit in order to access money to pay for the atty. The he got a simple humble job as a valet. He lived in this county since he was 11 but never became naturalized, why?. … lazy mostly. So if he was guilty why didnt he flee after being bailed out? He spend two years waiting for his attys to have time to gather evidience and interview people. They didnt interview anyone other than a maid and the psychologist. No one else was approached, why? coz the atty didnt feel he should submit character witnesses, or hearsay … but the DA did … even though he was stated as “hearsay” the jury still heard it. All I can say is the absence of love is what began this ball rolling, a ball that couldnt be stopped without more hate being introduced. Eddie is dead now, he is an innocent man that trusted his atty too much, that gave up hope when he lost his ability to see his adopted daughter (not the step daughter), who attempted suicide herself a few months ago. I’m not asking for anyones empathy, but its amazing how much isnt told …. and how people assume the worse first. i guess its human nature. But I think we need to share our stories, get involved, particiapte and learn from one another. Hate begets hate guys … love is the only answer and the only way to heal ….
Eddie didnt say he was innocent because he wasnt asked. Even if he would have said it … who would have beleived him? Eddie was already planning his suicide before the verdict. He wasnt going to do jail time. he lost hope and now he is free.
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FRANK reply on March 8, 2008:
THANK YOU FOR THAT POST. I AM NOT ALLOWED TO POST SPECIFICS, BUT I AM GLAD YOU DID. THANK YOU FOR STICKING UP FOR EDDIE.
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If he is so “wonderful” why didn’t he just wait in jail and hope to see his daughter (not stepdaughter)
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Because he was innocent you idiot he did not need to go to Jail
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Hey Franky and So Sad,
I love your twisted version of the truth!!! Were did you get your timeline?? Eddie? LOL… Anyway, you can judge the step daughter all you want and call her a liar, but unless you were glued to either Eddie’s hip or the step daughter’s hip then you know NOTHING!!!!!! BTW, Frank and So sad, were either of you in the courtroom when the step daughter or Eddie were testifying? You must have been there to support him since he was so innocent and the charges were completely false. I heard that there was a phone convo that was being taped by the police. Where in almost for an hour she was bringing up the allegations and NOT ONCE DID HE DENY THEM. Rather than denying them he was apologizing!!! But you know Frank and So Sad, “you know him”, so you must know all this info and just by mistake left them out of the details above, right?!!! YEAH WHATEVER. Claim all you want, you know only the things that you want to believe. Good luck defending him, he had one of the top defense attorneys and even he couldn’t prove his innocence. Why you ask? CUZ EDDIE DID IT!!!!! One other thing, since the jury found him guilty and there obiviously was enough to get him arrested, the jury and the district attorney and the judge all must be in conspiracy with the step daughter. UH HUH!!! You two are idiots!!!
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Ramonaballer reply on March 8, 2008:
prcutydic
You are so ignorant
Eddie was inocent
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FRANK reply on March 8, 2008:
BITTTER BITTER LITTLE MAN YOU ARE. YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO YOUR OPINION. I HAVE A RIGHT TO MINE AND I THINK YOU SHOULD STOP ATTACKING PEOPLE. YOU WERE NOT IN COURT. I POSTED ORIGINALLY TO MAKE PEOPLE AWARE OF THE EDDIE I KNEW. AND THEN , EVRYONE STARTS FIRING AWAY AT ME WITH NASTY COMMENTS. I UNDERSTAND THIS IS A VERY EMOTIONAL CASE BECAUSE IT INVOLVES A CHILD. IT IS EMOTIONAL FOR ME BECAUSE IT INVOLVES THE DEATH OF A FRIEND AND MANY RUINED LIVES. I WILL REMEMBER THE EDDIE I KNEW. I THINK IT IS UNFAIR TO CALL ME AN IDIOT AMONG OTHER THINGS ON THIS BLOG. I AM WELL EDUCATED AND WELL VERSED IN THE DETAILS. NO ONE ASKED YOU TO AGREE WITH ME ON THIS, BUT THE GENERAL VIOLNT AND ANGRY TONE OF THE POSTS IS DISSAPOINTING.
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Unfuckingbelievable-
“comment number 16 by: so sad
March 6th, 2008 at 11:54 pm
If details will help,here ya go. … ”
You are attempting to claim that the stepdaughter completely made up 4 years worth of molestation because the stepfather had asked her to leave the house at the age of 21 or 22 after bringing her newborn to live with them, as she wasnt married?
. “Why would a girl who was molested my her step dad bring her newborn and live with them again?”
Perhaps because her mother lived there, and mothers often end up taking care of their grandchildren?
” Where was the psyshologist that interviewed and analysised their situation and found NO evidence or indication that molestation had taken place? ”
Gee, another stellar witness who was not there at the time, but is qualified to testify about events they were not privvy to? But the stepdaughter and her mother aren’t qualified to, even though they WERE there? You have some strange ideas about who should actually testify in court. And you CLAIM to be an attorney? Oh, wait… that’s one of the ‘FREDs’, not you, wink, wink.
“This Dr. also claimed in an interview that the wife was a liar. ”
Oh, really? WHich interview was this, and how did you get access to it? How did you get access to any reports of what would be considered to be confidential reports, unless they were released to the court, which no doubt you’ll claim weren’t? I’m guessing the mom just lied for no reason, and then divorced the guy because they just weren’t spending any quality time together anymore? Or maybe it’s because she thought dear hubby impregnated her daughter and wanted to be rid of him?
” She didnt press charges for 11 months later, why? Why after the accusation did she wait so long?”
Gee, do the math.
“Why did the phychologist not testify in court? Well, because he wasnt available at the same time the attorneys and judge were. Eddies atty had a golf ternament to go to and a vacation that would occupy his time for the rest of march? ”
This is the lamest excuse I have heard in a long time. And not believeable in the slightest.
“So why not postpone to April?, becuase the $250,000 bail interest was due again at $20,000. something a valet cant afford. Eddie was not a cop he was a project manager for the sheriffs dept, as the OC registered indicated.”
I thought one of you wackos claimed he was an architect? My dad is an architect- far cry from a ‘project manager’ for LE. Get your stories straight.
” He had to quit in order to access money to pay for the atty. Then he got a simple humble job as a valet.”
Because it’s so much easier to get your hands on the magical $20k ‘interest’ when you work as a valet? And which is it- that the trial wasn’t delayed (and the mysterious psychologist’s testimony magically disappeared) BECAUSE he could not afford $20k interest on a valet’s salary, or that he had to QUIT ‘project manager/architect’ job in order to pay his attorney? How do you pay your atty when you quit a well-paying job for that of a valet? Something smells a bit funny. Like LE doesn’t usually appreciate molestors working among them.
” He lived in this county since he was 11 but never became naturalized, why?. … lazy mostly. So if he was guilty why didnt he flee after being bailed out? ”
Oh, people are racist if they point out someone’s nationality or legal status, but you aren’t racist when you bring it up to imply that a ‘GUILTY’ illegal would run for the border, but an innocent one would not?
“He spend two years waiting for his attys to have time to gather evidience and interview people. They didnt interview anyone other than a maid and the psychologist. No one else was approached, why? coz the atty didnt feel he should submit character witnesses, or hearsay … but the DA did … even though he was stated as “hearsay” the jury still heard it.”
You seem to be under the delusion that just because YOU say something makes it ‘fact’ or ‘detail’. How about a document proving that the mysterious psychologist was playing golf? How about a copy of his report calling the stepdaughter and her mother liars? How about the Attys name, and a statement from them claiming they had no interest in interviewing anyone?
“…that gave up hope when he lost his ability to see his adopted daughter (not the step daughter), who attempted suicide herself a few months ago.”
Generally they don’t allow people indicted for molestation to have contact with any children, adopted or otherwise. Perhaps you have a statement from her stating that her alleged suicide attempt was not because her adoptive father had been molesting her, too?
“I’m not asking for anyones empathy, but its amazing how much isnt told …”
And it’s amazing the hearsay that’s being presented here as insider knowledge and ‘truth’.
” … love is the only answer and the only way to heal ….”
Tell that to a molestation victim and see how far that gets you.
Eddie didnt say he was innocent because he wasnt asked.”
Well that’s the funniest claim in this whole pile of tripe. Are you not allowed to say you are innocent unless you’re given and engraved invitation?
” Eddie was already planning his suicide before the verdict. He wasnt going to do jail time.”
As far as I can tell, this is the only truthful thing you’ve written. And the proof of that is the suicide note that was on him both this time and when he was arrested. And his statements that he was NOT going to do any jail time.
Why was he so sure that he was going to get serious jail time? Probably because he knew when he was arrested that there was enough evidence to convict him, and when convicted, he knew it’s kind of stupid to appeal a crime you’ve obviously done. His only mistake was not getting an atty that could get him off on a technicality even though he was guilty.
There are only two good things to come out of this— that it appears for once that the mother didn’t stick up for the molestor in the long run (even if she did for the short run), and that the POS finally was successful at something. He wanted to commit suicide, and he did. Give him props for acheiving that. Like most selfish POSs, and even suiciders, they trash people’s lives (and the pavement), and someone else has to clean their shit up. Suicide is not something to feel sorry for someone about. It’s selfish and cowardly.
You should sell your amazing story to Hollywood. Make a movie. You could start the movie with the POS falling on the Wicked Witch of the West. It’d be about as believeable.
c
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FRANK reply on March 8, 2008:
HE WAS THE PROJECT MANAGER FOR ALL ARCHITECTURAL AND DESIGN IMPLEMENTAIONS.
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He wasnt innocent
He told me he did it himself
So please dont give us all this
crap frank and so sad cause
he did it himself and you know what
i dont feel bad for him one bit
and ******** You go! You are right
i have your back! lOL
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Well I appreciate the new facts of the story. I didnt realize that the girl was in her 20s before she mad alligations. Admin should reaserch the stories better and use more facts than opinion. That is the problem with media!
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Meaghan reply on March 7, 2008:
Does it actually how matter how old she was at the time? Haven’t you heard stories about people who were molested as kids but didn’t come forward with their story for years and years?
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Nebraska Mom reply on March 12, 2008:
Right, Look at Boys Town. That was like 40 years ago but just brought out into the open.
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Even if the girl was 20 in 1994 when the charges made it to court, I’ve read nothing that says when the alleged abuse started or ended- only that it lasted 4-5 years. If she was 20, it could mean it was from 12-17, or from 14-19.
So many facts are missing from the hearsay that has been posted here, that there’s no way to get an idea other than ‘THE GREAT GUY WAS INNOCENT’.
No date/age of when the mother married the stepfather. If he married her when the girl was 5, it sets a different timetable than if she was s 13.
For the people who keep posting with “insider info”, they do not give pertinent info, such as the date of marriage, the age of the stepdaughter then, the age/date at which she made the first accusation vs when it ended up in court. When the mother first backed the allegations or when she divorced POS. The judges name, the DAs name, the psychologist that did not testify, any details about the supposed hearsay allowed in court.
As far as I can tell from the internets, Admin has it right in that he was arrested for molestation, convicted by a jury of his peers, had threatened suicide on arrest, had claimed he would NOT serve time, and his suicide before sentencing.
I, for one do not want to see Admin start posting hearsay and rumour as anything other than that unless it can be substantiated. Nothing anyone else has posted can be verified.
c
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Ramona,
Deary please, answer me this….you used to talk with him for 5-10 min every few months???? How can you possibly say that “YOU KNOW HIM”???? Believe what you want, have you EVER thought of the fact that “good people” might have done some bad things or is that just inconceivable??? YOU ARE SO NAIVE!!! Open your eyes people, THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO REALLY KNOW WHAT HAPPENED WAS EDDIE, THE STEP DAUGHTER, AND GOD!!!!! Let it go. And Frank as for your facts…TOTALLY TWISTED. “Frank” and “So Sad”, both of you FRANKLY are just SO SAD!!! LOL, Damn I am clever!!!!
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Fankoradke reply on March 7, 2008:
Shut the fuck you Prcutydic knows what their talking about so shut up ramona
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Ramonaballer reply on March 7, 2008:
prcutydic
You do not know anything so why are you even talking
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Frank,Ramona, So sad
SHUT THE FUCK UP! You dont know how this hurt his family. The Adopted daughter was so hurt by everything she tried to kill herself. Dont you feel bad for the family yet you feel bad for him? As i read he also melested the adopted daughter for a while So he was a perv. PERIOD!
admin - Ok, enough with the stupid periods in place of names. Use whatever moniker you want, but use something other than punctuation.
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Excuse me the adopted daughter even said the Allegations were not true
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If he didnt “touch her” Then why would she try to kill herself? Cause she was so happy… ya right
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Or did your great friend Eddie tell you that Cause he would tell you “yes i like to touch my little girl”……….
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I heard he did molest his step daughter
and his adopted daughter but the daughter
who was adopted tried to kill herself thinking
it was her fault. Im one of the adopted daughters
friends and she was very depressed today comming
to school and telling me her dad died. She was in
tears asking me why did her dad do such a thing
to her sister and her and said she hated her dad
for touching her. So to all i know this story because
i know the adopted daughter
admin - Ok, last time before I ban both of you. Use a NAME. Not ………. not *********. Ok?
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Sorry Admin i thought i was
not on **** it said i was logged in on something else
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poor girl just lost her father
and being melosted by him
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The adopted daughter remains a minor today. Before the allegation, before her dad was asked to leave the house, she wasn’t depressed, nor feared her dad. He was everything to her. For her sake, I will not address her anymore. She has suffered enough witnessing so much hatred.
I clearly stirred up issues. My initial intention for identifying some details not presented in the original article was to remind all of us, that so much is untold in EVERY article we read. The way the article is written, clearly communicate a guilty man “deserving” his just cause. However, if you believe the court ALWAYS may the right decision, if you believe OJ is innocent, if you believe there are only guilty people in jail, please enlighten me to your lala-land, I’ll up for some fantasy. At best, the courts have an 80/20 rule, which is damn good if you look globally. The courts are the battle grounds for attorneys to Win or lose, NOT to find truth. The media like to sensationalize too ..all agreed?
This case has sooooo much untold, so many emotions are pushed, manipulated and twisted, as demonstrated in the above 35 messages. It touches all of us like daggers cuz we, as a culture, cherish kids. I’m wondering if we can ever look at an article like this and instead of placing instant judgments of hate, we ask ourselves, I wonder what isn’t told, I wonder what kind of hopelessness has to exist to finally act on suicide. There are so many questions an article like this could stir up to bring us all together more compassionately as a community, instead of tear us apart even more, as demonstrated in the dialogs above.
Mr. Tello will have hundreds of people show up at his funeral with tears in their eyes with grief and feeling a great loss. This community of people will all share a common experience of a kind and gentle man that respected and accepted everyone as precious. Mr. Tello didn’t know how to fight not even for his life.
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I am friends with the adopted daughter
She had told me earlier today
she was depressed and wanted
to see her dad one last time
And was afraid to go to the funeral
because of the fathers parents
She feels so unwelcome she had told me
I am only one of her closest friends
Named Tyler yet, i feel that she
was abandon so much. She told me today
” i feel trapped in a world that is dark
and no light will ever come on”
She told me she misses her dad
yet it doesnt make it right for him to touch
her.
-Tyler-
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Karen reply on March 22, 2008:
You are a liar Tyler. Eddie is survived only by his mother, so how can the adopted daughter be afraid of the father’s parents?
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I am friends with the adopted daughter
She had told me earlier today
she was depressed and wanted
to see her dad one last time
And was afraid to go to the funeral
because of the fathers parents
She feels so unwelcome she had told me
I am only one of her closest friends
Named Tyler yet, i feel that she
was abandon so much. She told me today
” i feel trapped in a world that is dark
and no light will ever come on”
She told me she misses her dad
yet it doesnt make it right for him to touch
her.
-Tyler-
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so sad reply on March 7, 2008:
tyler, tell the adopted daughter, she is welcome to come to the funeral. Everyone would love to see her and give their condolenses. she knows who to call. the grandparent loves her.
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Sorry admin. I thought i was logged on!
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So sad- I do not believe a thing you say.
“Before the allegation, before her dad was asked to leave the house, she wasn’t depressed, nor feared her dad.”
This is the kind of bullshit I’m talking about. Before her dad was asked to leave? You mean her adopted dad? And adopted at what age, and for how long? Asked to leave by who? Oh, yeah…. by the adopted girl’s mom? Because he was molesting his stepdaughter? I’ll take a wild guess and bet that the adopted daughter continued to live with the mom. What does that tell you?
Please do not throw the “adopted’ sympathy card around so negligently. I am adopted, and I know all about adoption. Saying the word ‘adoption’ doesnt automatically draw sympathy like you think it will.
If you know these people as well as you claim, and you have written so personally about them here, no doubt they know about it. So let them write for themselves. Let them come here themselves. Don’t forget about the IP address thing, and just let them day what they want, without you bullshitting a bunch of crap, ok?
c
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so sad reply on March 8, 2008:
your so funny with your anger ..here ya go … eddie adopted his daughter from south america and brought her back at the age of 6 months. Of course the adopted daughter lives with the adopted mom, her birth mom lives in south america. … I had no intention to drop a sympathy card on adoption, only to help identify which daughter was being discussed. The adopted daughter was Eddies greatest gift. And as stated here by tyler, she misses him too.
Glorybug, my knowing the family isnt why I posted, its to remind everyone to be cautious of what you read in newspapers, courts arent full proof and there is always more than meets the eyes.
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Sorry Admin, it won’t let me change my name!! I need to throw this in. Isn’t it funny that “so sad” is welcoming the adopted daughter to the funeral. Has she forgotten that the adopted daughter has claimed molestation as well. Oh and the grandparents love her? Yeah right!!! When was the last time they even attempted to contact her or write her a letter telling her that they miss her. Please So Sad, allow her to receive condolences??? WHAT??? Even though he wasn’t convicted of molesting her doesn’t erase the fact that she had claimed this as well. Sound like a bunch of bitter influenced people who can’t see past the end of their noses to me.
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so sad reply on March 8, 2008:
sigh … so much anger … please see tylers response. yes, condolenses, her dad just died.
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GloryBug reply on March 8, 2008:
No, ’sosad’, her dad didn’t just die… her adoptive-father just killed himself after being convicted of having molested one of his other ‘children’.
Semantics, eh?
c
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GloryBug
You dont even know what happend or dont know details stop trying to act like you know something
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SHe said she wants her grandparents to
call today and tell her that they
want her there cause she is not
beliving they do want her there
Tyler
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so sad reply on March 8, 2008:
ok I’ll have her call
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TO EVERYONE. TO EDDIES FAMILY, REGARDLESS OF WHAT HAPPENED: I AM SORRY FOR THE LIVES THAT HAVE BEEN RUINED BY THIS. UNLESS ANY OF US WAS WITH EDDIE 24/7 WE WILL NEVER KNOW FOR SURE WHAT HAPPENED. I HAVE MY OPINION. IF I FOUND OUT OTHERWISE I WOULD GLADLY POST A RETRACTION. HOWEVER HIS FRIENDS PREFER TO REMEMBER HIM THE WAY WE KNEW HIM. GETTING ANGRY AND BELITTLING A POST IS IMMATURE AND USELESS, YOU ONLY BREED MORE HATRED. EDDIE WAS A GOOD MAN AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED. HE ONLY HAS ONE JUDGE AND IT IS NOT ANY OF YOU. I HAVE NOT BEEN NASTY OR UNKIND TO ANYONE ON THIS POST, AND I RESENT THE FACT THAT I CANT POST WITHOUT FEELING BEATEN UP. YOU SHOULD RESPECT PEOPLE AND THEIR TIME TO MOURN, WHETHER IT BE FOR EDDIE OR HIS FAMILY. EDDIE SPENT ALOT OF TIME WITH HIS MOTHER WHO DOES NOT SPEEK MUCH ENGLISH AND RELIED ON HIM QUITE A BIT, I FEEL FOR HER AS WELL. I AM SORRY I EVER OPENED THIS CAN OF WORMS, BECAUSE EVERY WORM HAS CRAWLED OUT NOW. I DID NOT POST THE LONG NOT IN CAPS POST. I ALWAYS POST IN CAPS WITHOUT EXCEPTION. I WOULD NEVER POST SOMETHING DAMNING YOU ALL TO HELL. NOT MY STYLE KIDS. PLEASE DON’T POST ANYTHING REGARDING ME AS I WILLNOT SEE IT. I AM DISGUSTED AT THE COMPLETE LACK OF RESPECT AND DIGNITY PORTRAYED HERE. MY NAME IS NOT FRANK, IT IS UNDISCLOSED DUE TO THE FACT THAT ONE OF YOU MIGHT KNOW ME AND DO SOMETHING WEIRD. I AM PROUD TO HAVE KNOWN EDDIE AND WOULD GLADLY USE MY REAL NAME, BUT I HAD A FEELING FROM THE POSTS BEFORE MINE THAT A FEW CRAZIES WERE IN HERE. NOT CRAZY BEACAUSE YOU THINK HE DID IT, BUT BECAUSE OF THE HATE AND ANGER IN YOUR POST. SO, IF ANYONE POSTS UNDER FRANK FROM HERE ON OUT, IT IS NOT ME, AS I WILL NEVER BE BACK. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE GOING TO FOLLOW THIS UP WITH A POST SAYING SARCASTICALLY “AWE SO SAD THAT FRANK WONT BE BACK” SAVE IT, I AM SAD, MY FREINDS ARE SAD, WE LOST SOMEONE. REGARDLESS OF YOUR OPINION OF THIS CASE YOU ARE ATTACKING PEOPLE WHO ARE GRIEVING. I THINK THAT SUCKS. NO ONE ACCUSED ME OF MOLESTATION, I HAVE NEVER HURT A FLY, SO YOUR ANGER TOWARD ME IS MISPLACED. BE ANGRY AT EDDIE, BE ANGRY AT WHOMEVER IS INVOLVED. BUT LET THE PEOPLE HE LEFT BEHIND BE ALLOWED TO BE RESPECTED PLEASE.
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Jeez, FRANK, you’d think that YOU and THIS thread are the only ones on this site!
I doubt you are important enough for anyone to bother hating, other than for your insistence on using all caps and YELLING every idiotic thing you feel you need to vomit up. Did it ever occur to you that people might be less annoyed with you if you followed simple internet protocol? Or are you too special for that?
I have a feeling that this is not the only website where people just don’t like you/misunderstand you/are weird/crazy… blah blah. Maybe it’s not everyone else. Maybe it’s YOU. Maybe your annoying ‘I’m the only important person who knows the TRUTH, but it’s a secret and I can’t give details, or your eye-gouging use of all caps is the reason people respond to you the way they do.
It may not be because we’re all just sooooo mean on this site- it may be because you are so annoying and unlikeable.
And you need to come to terms with the fact that your friend, whether child-raper or not, CHOSE to commit suicide, and he was successful. He WANTED to die, and he accomplished that. It’s not a tragedy, it’s a success story.
Anyone who kills themselves after being convicted of any crime doesn’t really appear to be an innocent person who will fight for a reversal and end up winning other people’s respect. They will look guilty, and they know it. Choosing to do that anyway tells you something about this person.
c
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JUST TO LET YOU KNOW I TYPE IN ALL CAPS DUE TO A VISION PROBLEM, I LIKE TO READ WHAT I WRITE. AND I AM FORBIDDEN BY COURT ORDER TO DISCLOSE ANY INFO PERIOD. SEE YA
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Jason reply on March 10, 2008:
To help you read your writing and to help others get past your capitals, may I suggest the following course of action.
In Windows go to Start->Run type notepad
hit enter and notepad will open up.
On Notepad go to format->font
Change the size to 72 and type your message in notepad. When you’ve cleaned up all of the errors, you can right click, select all, copy and then paste it into any webform and then post the message with pride that you’re going to make a little bit more sense than you normally would.
If you have a Mac, there’s a word editor that lets you do something similar and if you’re using Linux and type everything in Caps, let me be the first to cringe in horror and run away screaming.
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This is Tyler and she said
they havent called
-Tyler-
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so sad reply on March 9, 2008:
they called and no one answered. they didnt leave a message
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So that shows
they dont love her
-Tyler-
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Cindy reply on June 19, 2008:
not true. They do love their granddaughter. They are sad and hurt cause she never bothered to call while her dad was still alive
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Tonight i leave
Her saying her own words
for me to write
” I forgive my dad for what he has
done but doesnt change the fact
that he did it to my family and
i personally havent recieved a call
from my grandparents so please
dont lie i am already in enough
pain “
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As her friend
i say she has been strong
and very quiet about everything
going on in her life. She has lost
so much in 3 years that she doesnt
know how to hold it all in and
that her dad has died she tells
me it feels like it never ends.
As her friend i look up to her
and believe she will be ok
-Tyler-
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To All you haters Eddie was innocent believe what you want
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Well keep trying to
call her Dont just
give up once
as i said it shows
a lot
-Tyler_
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He was convicted - he’s dead - I’m not hard to please.
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Well theres two side of the story so believe what you want
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Personally I have
seen how the family is Ramona
and well its true
your just not open minded that he
did it. I heard you told the (adopted daughter)
that she shouldve shut her mouth about
her dad touching her so personally i dont
like that you told my friend that
Tyler-
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Tyler
I never said anything like that to the adopted daughter all im trying to say is that he did not do it
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Personally you dont know
what your talking about
and also i even heard
his lawer even say he was
guilty. To my own thinking
I have known the adopted daughter
for a long time and still feel
like she has no say in anything
in her life as it is
You people say it never happend
it is like telling a girl
it was nothing that he touched her
and to shut her mouth.
By the way Fank and So sad
she still hasnt got that call so
i can see u lie
-Tyler_
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so sad reply on March 9, 2008:
tyler, I’m not lieing. Its difficult for the grandparent to call. the adoptive daughter knows why. She will keep trying. I have also written her an email. hang in there.
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Tyler i do know what im talking about its just i know all the details to the story and i know that didnt happend
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As I have said before, I think it’s strange that every time some nasty story comes up, it only takes a second before some ’so-called’ friend to sign on and start ranting about how “innocent’ the POS is.
At some point you have to consider if there is some pathology behind that. Think about it. I know you think that this thread, and your opinions are the cats’ pajamas… bit you are wrong.
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Oh, you type in all caps because you have a vision problem? Believable? Not much.
I have a hearing problem due to physical abuse as a child ( I had 2 curtain rings somehow pushed into my ears.)… does that mean I should force concerts to play louder just to accomodate me?
I also have what is called a Choroidal Melanoma, which means that I have a tumour in the back of my eye socket. As well as an ptygium in my other eye. Google those terms if you aren’t already an expert in those categories.
Does that mean that I should be allowed to FORCE people to do all caps because it’s easier for me to read?
So what is your physical handicap that explains why you don’t seem to know the most basic computer eticuette, such as knowing that all caps offends everyone on every blog? I call laziness and loserdom.
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It also is not helpful that you insist on writing in huge blocks without any paragraph spacing. It makes it sooo irritating to look at a huge chunk of idiocity.
Stop the caps, and start putting in some line breaks.. if for no other reason than that nobody can read your eye-raping posts.
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Ashesaid- “You people say it never happend
it is like telling a girl
it was nothing that he touched her
and to shut her mouth.”
Yes, this.
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Tyler- yes- it is good to have someone who knows the POS online that doesn’t include people who obviously seem to have personal problems with this thread. Keep posting, please.
c
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”tyler, I’m not lieing. Its difficult for the grandparent to call. the adoptive daughter knows why. She will keep trying. I have also written her an email. hang in there. ”
SHouldnt it also be difficult for the adoptive daughter?
Its not all about the grandparents you know
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Thank you glorybug
I also want to let you know
i heard he was dating this women
that worked with him
And she called to the adoptive daughter
to come
Personally glorybug dont you think thats
wrong of her and hurt my friends feelings
All i can say is that the women who was
close to him was really crazy the
adopted daughter told me she
had 3 daughters and was letting
Eddie around them?! UM LADY
THAT IS SOOO DUMB
HES A CHILD MOLESTER!
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Glorybug, hearing your tragedy when you were young helps me understand your anger. I’m sure its painful to hear about others going thru such pain. Your pyshical disabilities must make it very hard to forget, much less forgive. I’m truly sorry for your constant agony.
Tyler, you must have me mistaken for someone else. I never dated him. Nevertheless, she may have been told these things. dont know, nor does it matter. I sincerely hope someday she will find the light in herself again. I would imagine shes very sad.
Your right its not ALL about the grandparents, I was explaining it was difficult to call, because of a fear of rejection from others in the home. this no longer matters either, contact has been made. Its up to her now.
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Dont you get it so sad
He never said good bye to
the one thing he really cared about
in her mind thats what she thinks
Dont you think that is kinda of harh?
Personally i think the sad thing is
the grandparents dont love her really
and are trying to use her as
“oh see everyone were being nice
to her see” Thats what the adopted
daughter told me she feels like
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so sad reply on March 10, 2008:
sigh … he wasnt allowed to speak to her, how could he say good bye? he wrote her a note, her grandmother has it. I know she is hurt, dont ya think the only way to heal it for them to connect? ..like I said, its up to her, the invitation has been made. Very few people even know the grandparents. the jesture was for her to be a part of his community. But it doesnt matter. She doesnt have to go to the funeral, she can connect alone with her grandma. How about we butt out ..ok?
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Can’t you guys use another forum to communicate your personal arguments? This doesn’t seem exactly appropriate to me, though I suppose Admin would have to decide.
admin - You wouldn’t believe the amount of comments that we delete for being completely off-topic/completely stupid. We had high hopes for this one, but it’s sort of degenerating, isn’t it?
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so sad reply on March 10, 2008:
I agree, thank you …
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Innocent men dont jump.. I did read alot of comment’s however, like I said innocent men dont plan and have a NOTE ready ..sorry
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What I wanna know is, what did the note SAY? Did it say “These completely false allegations have made it impossible for me to continue living,” or did it say “I’m ashamed of what I did and want to atone for myself,” or was it more like, “TRY PUNISHING ME NOW, SUCKAZ!”
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SoSad
Just because Tyler is right doesnt mean
he should butt out! I personally am with
tyler on this. I mean he could’ve sent
her a email or sent her a letter!
WHat does this letter say huh?
I bet the grandparent has already
read it. People like you “Sosad’
Are just to stupid to see that
he hurt both girls and telling
the Adopted one that it was nothing
is wrong on your part! WOuld you say
that to your child? Yes, honey
a man touched you and hurt you
but hes a good man so forget about
it!
-Tylers Friend-
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There are a lot of tragedies in this case, but the POS’s suicide is the least of them.
There’s a stepdaughter without a stepdad now. If she was indeed molested, then it’s tragic that his suicide stole from her any closure she could have gotten.
There’s an adoptive daughter, who now has no adoptive father. If she was also molested, then she’s also been robbed of seeing any justice served.
I’ve heard rumours that either one or both of the girls have attempted suicide. This is pretty common for molestation victims, because when they’re molested, a tiny, but very important part of them dies inside, deadens them. It is tragic as a child to have trust in other people betrayed.
There is a ex-wife, who now has no ex-husband, and she also now has no avenue for closure or justice. Believing your children when they say they were molested is the right thing to do, but it must be harsh to find out it was your partner, someone you chose, who did it.
This POS could have served a day, a year, 20 years… he could have appealed and won, if there’s so much ’secret’ info some conspiracy junkies claim….. and nobody would really care much. His name and crimes would be forgotten as soon as the next POS came along to hold people’s interest and make the news.
But no. Because of what this POS did, the stepdaughter, the adoptive daughter, the ex-wife, the grandparents…… will always be connected to the man who ‘was convicted of molestation and committed suicide’.
Suicide is one of the most self-serving, selfish things a person can do. If this man really was innocent, then he is an even bigger POS for committing suicide and leaving this bloody mess for his family to deal with. Not very manly or fatherly, IMO.
If he was guilty, as the jury found, then he’s still a POS…. for not admitting it and serving time like a man, for doing it in the first place.
Whether he was innocent or not, how he chose to handle it was cowardly. Perhaps, if he was innocent, he did it to make everyone feel guilty, especially his accuser. And, if he was guilty, perhaps he did it to make everyone feel guilty for reporting it.
My guess is that he didn’t think about anyone but himself- certainly not the aftermath he created, that other people now have to deal with.
All in all, from any angle- a POS.
c
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Thank you glory bug
that is what i can see from this story
I know the adopted daughter and she actually was the one who tried to commit sucide after everything.
I personally hope she will be ok and that this scum bag eddie will burn in hell for what he did to his family,friends,daughters.
I mean think of what is going through the adopted girls mind
-Tyler-
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Ramonaballer reply on March 12, 2008:
Tyler
Watch your mouth buddy and and maybe in your mind hes going to hell but in a lot of other people he wont
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Would you like to know one thing that I have learned in my long and detailed study of the typical guy that commits this sort of crime? They aren’t stupid. Looking innocent and playing to the collective sympathy of others isn’t tough for most child molesters. This type of behavior and the urges that causes it leads these men to develop the worst sort of manipulation techniques. I’ve read over these posts. Several people are countering the conviction with a universal argument, the sum and substance of which sounds something like this, “I knew him, and there is no way he could have done it.” Then they cling to the facts of the case that favored the defendant (and there are ALWAYS facts that favor the defendant, even in the worst dog-cases) and choose to believe that those facts were sufficient to prove reasonable doubt.
I will say this: many men who are attracted to children and molest them for sexual gratification are unknowable in the traditional sense. Best I can describe it? It’s like a switch. That switch never gets clicked on until they are in certain situations (private) with the right people (children). They are extremely adept at hiding their feelings otherwise and go to great lengths to enjoy their pleasures. I have seen guys marry a woman they didn’t love for her children. I have seen guys “groom” children for years…teaching them the concepts required for being a reliable and consistent victim before they actually choose to begin the abuse. A guy that is capable of that kind of evil is capable of anything…yes, even fooling his neighbors into believing he is a saint.
My opinion? He wouldn’t have offed himself if he didn’t do it. A tangental comment? You have no idea how many people like this there actually are…and you have no idea how many kids, that thought nobody would believe them, go back to eat T-Giving dinners with their abusers…being a sex toy for a sick bastard isn’t a very good job, but there are kids that are manipulated into it everyday.
Don’t feel bad for this guy, if he could have beat the rap he would have. Feel bad for the tens of thousands of kids out there that have a little “secret” that only they and their abusers know about. Justice is a lot worse at reaching them than most people think.
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So your saying that
he wont go to hell because
he touched a littler girl
When she couldnt even protect
herself 1.
2. She was so scared of him prob.
3. It was her parent, children
think the good of their parents and
if that meant to turn them in
they prob. wouldnt
or 4th No one would believe them
I know from what i have seen with the
adopted daughter that he did it.
She told me the details and it was
so scary for me to hear how this man
got away with it! You have no right
to say she wasn’t touched. She had
to live through it and knew
Like people like you would not believe her!
-Tyler-
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I think, a large part of the problem for people that knew him, is they are unwilling to believe that they made such a monumental error in judgement about him. They would rather quiet and demean his accusers than ever believe they might have been wrong and that this seemingly “great guy” wasn’t so “great” after all.
Honestly, how do you imagine pervs would get access to their victims if they couldn’t fool people into trusting them so easily? It’s very simple logic.
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Yes you are right
Harpy lady
They’re too afraid to
admit that they are wrong
Personally as i said
i know the adopted daughter
and from what she has told
me everything her father has done
that i am mad that other people can
say he was a great man
-Tyler-
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Tyler: you and I are in total agreement…you would need to read everything I read in order to discern that.
Let me put it bluntly: people that are sick enough to use children for sexual exploit ought to be locked in cells where they themselves will be sexually abused on a regular basis by the other inmates…either that or shot outright.
Better?
This guy wasn’t a great man and, given my limited knowledge of the facts, I’d still say it fits into 90% of the regular abuse scenarios I’d seen.
I’m not sticking up for that guy. Trust me on that.
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Tyler
Believe what you want i know Eddie didnt do it and he was totally innocent
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Oh really?
Did he tell you?
Did he tell you he doesnt hurt
his daughters?
Tell me how you know?
Cause you knew him for what?
A year or 2?!
-tyler-
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So then your
Adrienne Farrar?
The Other women
EVERYONE THIS WAS
THE WOMEN WHO WAS
BEST FRIENDS WITH A CHILD MELESTOR
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Oh really
Seriously why would you say
on here you were
Too shy?
As i said i am tyler one of the
Friends of the adopted daughter
so what you know her more then
i know her?
-Tyler-
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... reply on March 15, 2008:
Na im not to scared why would i tell you
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“Why would i tell you”
That only proves that i am right!
I want to let everyone know the
adopted daughter is alright
but please keep her in your
thoughts thank you
-Tyler-
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