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I don’t think it’s the 50 lbs. I think it’s the attitude.
In real life I am lucky enough to have never have dealt with the 50lbs thing until after my second son, which was quickly resoved, and I’m usually described as being introverted, quiet, and well-mannered, shy. (I’m an INTJ), The people along my life who have gotten to know me better, (and gotten a taste of my wicked humour) and gotten past that, have ended up being people who’ve flirted with me for 20 something years now.

Everyone is not just naturally attracted to the people with attitudes, whether they are 50lbs plus or not. I am not attracted to men with attitude. It’s a massive turnoff. My experience with people with attitude are that they are either compensating, or that they have no boundaries or limits, neither of which is attractive to me, because they are both versions of attention-seekers for attention’s sake. I prefer people who don’t REALLY (vs pretend) care what other people think about them.

I like that poster, and most of the other ones on the demotivational site, simply because they are so sarcastic/ironic, and in this case because the stereotype is so very recognizable. I have to admit it does make me think it’s a little unfair to whoever the lump in the hall is, just because having little undies and showing your ass doesn’t make you a memorable person, in my experience.

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