Becky Jo Tatum
This is 41-year-old Becky Jo Tatum.
You may not realize it by looking at this, but 6-foot-tall Becky Jo Tatum has had a number of run-ins with the law. After having pled guilty in 1997 to a misdemeanor charge of attempting to traffic drugs, in 1998, she pled guilty to promoting prostitution, along with misdemeanor charges of attempting to possess drugs and attempting to receive stolen property.
Becky Jo Tatum has been under investigation a number of times by the local Department of Children’s Services, who have been repeatedly frustrated in their attempts to pin something on the woman, despite accusations of inappropriate conduct with and lackadaisical care of her 17-year-old daughter and 10-year-old son.
The past year has been a full one for Becky Jo Tatum, who has claimed to have been burglarized twice and robbed once during that time, filing police reports that don’t quite add up, according to local detective Bob Cuschleg:
There are some discrepancies in all of the reports.
Now Becky Jo Tatum is on the run after being exposed as a sexual predator.
Early in the month of March, 2008, Becky Jo Tatum held a party in her house for a bunch of her teenage daughter’s friends.
Alcohol was passed around and everyone was feeling pretty good.
While everyone was drinking, Becky Jo Tatum was flirting with the girls, hugging this one and that one, touching another one on the shoulder.
Finally Becky Jo came to a 14-year-old girl, took her by the hand and led her upstairs. The girl, who had been drinking enough to get a buzz going, went willingly enough, and she probably knew what was going to happen. Despite that, no 41-year-old – male or female – should be taking a drunk 14-year-old girl upstairs for a lengthy oral sex session.
After Becky Jo Tatum had finished, she told the teen that they had done something bad and took her back downstairs.
Apparently, Ms. Tatum likes doing bad things because according to Becky Jo’s daughter, Becky Jo has had sexual intercourse with a bunch of her daughter’s friends, including a 17-year-old boy:
She’s done this before with my friends, I’m kind of used to it.
All this interesting information about Becky Jo Tatum and her switch-hitting sexual escapades was revealed to authorities after a drug investigation led to the confiscation of a computer with several sexual images of two 16-year-old girls and a younger teenage boy having sex. The kids were tracked down and interviewed, which led to more people being tracked down and interviewed, which led to the 14-year-old girl having to explain to her mother why she and Becky Jo Tatum were getting it on.
Becky Jo Tatum has been charged with unlawful sexual conduct with a minor. She has disappeared and a reward has been offered for information leading to her arrest.
Authorities are quite anxious to get Becky Jo Tatum behind bars so they can continue their investigations into her sexual activities with teenagers, which are thought to be quite extensive.
Does Becky Jo Tatum deserve Hell?
- Yes (59%, 376 Votes)
- No (41%, 264 Votes)
Total Voters: 640
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Gimme 2 rubbers so I can be der sure fer sure that I won’t catch anything and I’ll do her!
While the boy may have been willing, she should know better than to mess with teens. While a teen may be better than most adults physically, there is still a such a psycological difference between an adult and teen that she should know better and stay away. Now as far as the girls go – if you have to get them drunk – maybe they are not that interested in the forst place?
Let’s be fair and treat her like a man – roast baby!
Although if suddenly she does not believe in equality and wants to be treated as a woman – sen her my way – I’ll gladly put her through hell!
I wouldn’t shag that, she’d want to shag my young cousins. Horrid.
You can’t do that to teens. That is still illegal.
Damn pedo’s. I’d kill the bitch if that were my daughter she ‘tonged’.
Ouch. Nobody deserves to get tonged.
Other than that- that’s one of the perks of only having sex with appropriate people who are legal- and mature- that they don’t go around telling anyone else who’s tongue has been where. It’s called being ‘intimate’ for a reason.
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What’s the problem? A horny drunk girl got her pussy eaten by her friend’s mom. Sounds hot to me! I’m sure they both enjoyed it. It’s you Puritans that can go to hell…
I’m sure you’ll be the 1st to volunteer your underage daughter the next time ol’ Becky Jo gets the itch. How hot does that sound to you jack?
i know beck jo she didnt do half of the stuff they are saying and i am one of her daughters freinds and she didnt do anything… also her daughter never said she does it all of the time they get that from what a girl at our school said who hates her so stop making a big deal out of it.
Sure, Alex. Of course you are and Becky’s 100% innocent; so innocent in fact, that you can practically see her halo in her photos.
i think alex may have been to an earlier party. i think it is funny he says that she didnt do “half” of what she is accused of. well, good for her. now she can do 25 years instead of 50
Would you feel the same way if it was a guy who did this to the child? Fucked up adults having sex with children is not hot.
I enjoy looking at the lesbo porn sites as well. But those girls are usually getting paid and are consenting.
When i was in high school, I would have loved to do a few ofthe teachers and our seond principal! There were a few others that would have required some alcohol.
But my geometry teacher Miss Wideload?
So get with the program – porn is not reality. As far as lesbain “couples” go, there are few where both are “hot chicks”. Usuallly one is good looking and the other is fugly or both are no loss for straight men.
Sure I like to see older women (30’s and 30’s) doing younger men – gives me fantasies about what high school could have been. crack open the yearbook, look at the pictures and face the reality – many of the girls in my class were hot, and most ofthe faculuty was becoming has beens quite fast.
Whie I said that I’d do Becky Jo, I am 40. The girl she tounged is probably hotter, but the reality is that Becky would be more my speed.
So the next time you think a older woman is hot, open your yearbook to a random page and imagine doing the teacher on that page. I’ll be willing to bet that the chicken behaves more like “Mr Turtel who satys in his shell”
Fred, were you drunk when you wrote this one? Or did your keyboard flip you off and input everything its own way?
don’t see what the big deal is…..didn’t Bill Clinton say that oral sex wasn’t ’sex’
Here’s a better poll for you: Do you, or anybody else have the right to pass judgement and send someone to hell?
What she did was wrong, as is you sending her to hell.
Like we, on a web site can send anyone to hell.
Until I see God for real contributing to the web site, all we can do is state why we think they should go to hell.
Get a gip on reality or go in a corner and get a grip on yourself and enjoy!
LOL I loved this reply. Its so true
You’re asking me if I can send someone to hell?
I dunno, let’s give it a try – Hey, minime, go to hell. I mean it – go to hell. I’m not going to tell you again.
LoL….Now that’s funny!
None of us believe we can actually send a soul to hell. I know, it’s hard to believe, but it’s true. According to Christians the kingdom of Heaven is a pretty exclusive club, so you can say with absolute certainty that everyone posted here will be denied entry. And we all judge, it’s in our nature to do so.
as an athiest i do not believe in hell. i think of this as more of a “people i want to see suffer like they made others suffer” kind of place.
Sounds like ol’ Becky Jo has a few issues.
So this chick is hanging out and partying with teenage girls? And no one thought that was a bit creepy?
And Becky Jo’s daughter knows that Becky Jo is fucking her friends? I’m trying to imagine my 17 years old daughters reaction if I started sleazing on her friends, maybe putting a wading pool full of Wesson oil out back, a little beer, a few pornos on the 32 inch Magnavox – oohhh yeah. I’m cool.
Then I could maybe become a hooker, excuse me, pros-ti-tute, ’cause nothing wrong with that. Throw in a drug conviction or two and I’m good. I’m sure my kids would get used to it. And if the teenaged girls and boys go along with, it’s okay, because the way I’m acting shows that mentally we’re all about the same age. So what’s the problem? Geez, you people, lighten up.
Becky comes into the bar where i work, and she is one of the weirdest people i’ve ever met…. ie a total psycho. This doesn’t surprise me at all. total chester molester!!!!!!!
let’s not forget that this is a police investigation and your bar could be next which is may not be good for business or maybe it will be…?
You guys make me laugh.
Fred- I’ve had quite a number of friends who are gay or lesbian. I’ve also seen a few pornos of lesbian sex. I would guess that they aren’t really accurate, considering they are filmed to appeal to the male gender.
Of the friends I’ve had, more than a couple have had a crush on me, so needless to say. if I ever got a wild hair up my ass, I think I’d find it easy to hook up with some chick. Nice to know I have options.
That said, my esperience with gay guys is that they don’t have much of a problem telling you what they do and what they like. My lesbian friends, on the other hand, are much more tight-lipped about it. Pun intended. They don’t talk about what they do intimately- but they have told me that it’s nothing like what’s on porn.
Of course, that’s not such a surprise, considering that from all my straight girlfriends, straight porn doesn’t reflect real life sex either. Unless you’re being pressured to copy something someone saw in a porn video.
I am going to presume that most people would agree that good, exciting, enjoyable sex (at least among straights) differs wildly from porn. I have never seen a porn video that showed some woman getting oral sex for 20 minutes before she orgasmed. In fact, I seriously doubt any of the porn I’ve ever seen has shown a real woman having a real orgasm. And what the vixen women are being paid to pretend to be doing does not reflect the basic physics of what it takes to make a woman orgasm in real life. I have not talked with one woman who has not agreed with me on this. I don’t have a problem with porn in general, but if anyone thinks that any of the things people are doing in porn reflects what people do in real life (or that they wish they were doing if their lover is just lame), is not understanding that porn is about fantasy, not reality.
It was mentioned that some gay women don’t look all that girly. This is true. And normal. What is not normal is for two completely heterosexual ‘hot’ women having sex so that men who enjoy seeing that can watch. I would guess that a lot of men who claim to want to see two women having sex would be disappointed by watching two real lesbians having sex. So lesbian that they’d have no interest in then fucking the guy who’s been working himself up about seeing some supposedly lesbians performing for him. What they really are wanting is to see two straight women pretending they’re having ‘gay’ sex. And pretending they’re having gay orgasms.
I’m not trying to ruin whatever enjoyment anyone gets out of normal porn- I’m just trying to say it has no relevance regarding reality.
And, teens shouldn’t really be participating in activities like that with adults, no matter how tittilating (pun intended) it might be for those reading about the story.
Suppose the old fatty pedo loser was actually bad at oral? The poor teen is going to think that’s what’s ‘normal’. If she isn’t actually gay, she’s going to feel uncomfortable with any guy doing things with her that she now associates with being ‘gay’.
People get so up in arms about forced juvenile rape… and sometimes it seems they don’t think it’s all that bad if it was adult woman/boy or streetsmart girl/man.
Molestation is just bad. No matter what sex is doing it to what sex, no matter if porn now is glamourizing it or normalizing it. It’s the first sexual experience of that child, and they are going to carry that forward.
I was lucky enough to have been able to dissasociate myself from my pre-6 years, and I had a stellar first boyfriend who also had no real experience sexually. It was fun, fun, fun. I highly recommend that instead of molestation.
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I know that I was a bit over dramatic, but I wanted to get a point across. The world of porn is way different than reality and one should not give a green light to something that truely happened because they saw it on a porno video.
How many of us watched the Dukes of Hazzard and drive like that?
Exactly – Keep it real.
awww, why weren’t my friend’s mums like that when i grew up?
whoopsie, did i really just say that?
I actually worked with BJT for a while. First off, I’m 6′, BJ is not. I’d say 6′2 or 3”. We totally thought she was a shemale. First day of training she walked up behind me while i was filling my drink and started singing all deep and nasty into my ear. I almost threw up. I saw this on the news and knew it was her. Not surprising at all.
Do tell – what is the rest of the body like?
I’ll take it that she’s either
1. Not that hot looking (fat, flat)
2. Kinda hot, but skanky
What she looked like does not excuse what she did to a girl, but if it were a boy and she was hot, she still screwed with a child, BUT most 14 year old boys are not going to be as tramatized by a hot woman vs. something fugly!
Simple fact of life…
not hot. scary. trust me.
Normally, I haven’t got any patience for a pedo. This chick sounds like a serious case of arrested development. Someone so desperate for friends and attention she did some pretty stupid shit. Still, she’s a menace and needs to be locked up. She’s just nasty.
WOW…. Mabby if she was hot it would have been O.K …lol
I know a few M.I.L.F’s I would have done!!
To be honest, everyone on here is quite lame. Everyone just needs to realize that this family needs help and support not judgement. In fact, this family lives about 5 houses down from me and when i heard about this, all i wanted to do was help. But i guess thats my nature of doing things. You all need to have some heart and think about if you were the “tatum family” how would you feel about people posting awful comments on your life. It just sucks, so take some time to think about feelings. I’m not saying what has happened isn’t wrong or didn’t happen, i’m just trying to look at it in a different way. Hope that touches someone :) thanks
oh no!!! another one from that neighborhood hoping to touch someone….lol
She is not the monster that the media has pertrayed her to be. She is a loving mother that has sold herself for her children. What would you do to provide for yours? Sending her to hell is only for God. Everyone that is paassing judgment is commiting their own sins. Its easy to point fingers at others. Has anyone thought about the reliability of the 14year old girl? Did it happen? We (community) do not know. And to falsly quote her child is as disgusting as the pending charges. She has not been found guilty in the court of law. The media has been the judge jury and exectioner in this case. Let her be, let her children be. It is for her and God to hash out. I love her and her family. Everyone has their own issues, but yours are not being broadcasted for the entire world to view.
Me- “What would you do to provide for yours?” Let see, maybe I’d get a job that doesnt involve whoring myself!
“She is a loving mother that has sold herself for her children. What would you do to provide for yours?”
So she’s a prostitute too? Is there a part of this story I’m missing? My mother is a particularly loving one. She’s nurturing, stable, responsible and hardworking. Oh! And she never got me and my underage friends so drunk that one of them wound up having sex with her.
In my mind, that’s what makes a good mother. But what do I know? Maybe being a hooker (as you insinuated) or a child molester is just as loving and noble.
Oh puhleease!!!! I have been a single mother. I have done the hard yards to provide for my children. I have worked my ass off to make sure they had food on the table and a roof over their heads. Not once did i have to sell my hole to do so.
Was cleaning toilets too crappy a job? Waitressing? Anything…absolutely anything would be better than pimping yourself out.
Being a ‘good mother’ includes providing a good moral example for your children. I think Becky failed on that one!!!
I’ve been a witness to Becky Jo’s inappropriate behavior. She is a raging cocaine addict and alcoholic. She clearly needs an intervention. I feel sorry for her children, the oldest of which I know personally.
This 14-year old girl is a family member. She is the closest person I have to a sister. She’s going through an extremely difficult time right now. It’s unfair to question her reliability. No teen I can think of would dream of making this up. Who would want this spread around? Let’s be a bit more respectful to the minor involved.
She’s old enough to know better! The lil’ bitch is FOURTEEN not three!
FRED – Girl on girl is HOT – When they BOTH ARE OVER 18!!!!! NOT 40 AND 14 THATS JUST GRODY!!!
And to the person who was serinaded by Becky – ISNT SHE WANTED??
She may very well be beyond intervention psychologically and rehab obviously didn’t work. Or I could be wayyyyy offf like I hope for her son and daughter’s sake. The children need a mother not a friend, not someone who goes out and parties all of her money away and wrecks multiple expensive cars…..I hate to say it as much as her daughter scared me when she drove, she has shown that she is a better driver than her mom by just the amount of cars she simply hasn’t wrecked. But it is true Many people in bexley “strongly dislike” the tatums and there are some that will do anything to help them. I used to not want to have anything to do with them but their lives are going downhill right now and i would much rather try to help them in thier time of need than be the usual asshole that I usually am to them but that was only because I was returning the favor. I don’t feel obligated to help them but I would if they didn’t give a rats ass about me…. I guess what I’m trying to say is the golden rule still applies and this is a case of people spreading too many rumors about other people and both sides are guilty. its just one side got in more trouble than the other. Like I could have NARC’d about the car that she was driving right down to the area of the complex she was parked in and got a new car with the reward money, but I sooner thought…what goes around comes around….that would b fucked up but i would b a cool $2,000 richer. God knows I need it. but then I would have become the very thing that I hate about bexley shittalkers and NARC’s. If people respected the police force and had quietier parties and sold less shit people wouldn’t find this kind of trash about people on the news. still what she did was wrong. but I’m also sure that the word was passed around the school before it ever got to the cops and someone went asking around were it originated from and its like Circles by Soul Coughing spliced with The Violent Femmes, people without good support systems will eventually relapse and it will only get worse than the time before, but it could also influence the children’s future choices, it could keep them flying straight or it could veer them off course……there…. I spoke my piece and I have nothing more to say on the subject, I fear that I have begun to ramble on about it in different ways to better explain myself to the rest of the world out there reading…..ahhhhh the freedom of speech, the greatest right that is regularly abused by typical bexley residents.
ok well lets not all be the judge and jury on this
right now from what i seen on the news is a she said she said complaint. though she has been in trouble before with drugs and promoting prostitution. LET US ALL NOT FORGET ABOUT ALL THE PRIEST WHO HAD SEX WITH BOYS AND WAS NEVER CHARGED WITH THE ACT. and the priest are still with the church. she paid for her past mistakes lets just see what evidence they will have, the pics on the computer dont make them hers if it is a family computer. HE THAT IS FREE FROM SIN LET HIM CAST THE FIRST STONE
so we shouldnt punish people because–#1-we are sinners. #2-others have gotten away with it. great idea. of course she will have the opportunity to give her side before they find her guilty.
151 people really don’t think she belongs in hell? What she did was illegal, those kids were underage. And all these damn religious zealots… God did give us the ten commandments and to a certain extent, we are to govern ourselves. And He tells us not to have sex unless we’re married… Look it up, it IS in the Bible. Those teens obviously weren’t married to her, so what she did was not only illegal by our standards, but by God’s, too. Get your damn facts straight if you’re going to bring God into it, okay?
As morally deplorable as it sounds, she didn’t rape anyone. I know the law states that someone that young isn’t capable of giving consent and I understand that, but people like her have a sickness that needs to be treated, not condemned to hellfire & damnation.
she didn’t rape anyone???… well.. she raped several someone apperently.. even if they said yes, they were children which makes it statuatory rape. AND… then you have #2… she got them drunk *(yet another law broker)which made them unable to render judgment. So even if said 14 year old child said “yes old lady do me hard” her judgement was not only imparied by her young age, but also by being drunk. = rape.
Well put, dansergrrl. I couldn’t have said it better myself. The other thing that bugs me about Michelle’s post is that she thinks we believe we’re really sending people to hell. The vote just shows our disgust with these people, and our moral outrage – it’s not an attempt to usurp God’s power. So take your religious fervor down a couple of notches, OK Michelle, because you sound a little bit nutty right now.
Max – I’m rather new to this site… i just started responding to some of this.. and i’m amazed. Granted, i realize i’m in the minority in this country of being a well educated, well adjusted, female – but it still humanity never fails to astonish me (and i’m not talking about the dirtbags that this site is focused on). First off… umm, how do people not realize that the “send to hell” is a figure of speech and not an actual order (as if we have the power to make people do stuff, esp go to some metaphysical place) and second.. something i’ve noticed about the bible thumpers – they almost all come back with “it’s not for us to judge only god can do that” — well.. actually, last i checked we lived (and i’m talking about those crimes committed here of course, other countries have their own laws – but i’ve noticed most of the bible thumpers are “red blooded umerikuns”) in a democratic society and are under mans law.. not this so called “god’s law” business… and these monsters are judged by a pannel of their peers…. who JUDGE them… so yes, it is up to us as citizens of this nation to judge those who break our laws.
I think i in luv here max… dansergrrl has all dis rednecks ideas wraped up na cute liddl package…
Well said Dansergrrl….
Ain’t she great brother?
dansergrrl, you are so right on about everything you say, I’m left with nothing to do but agree with you and pass on a compliment or two. Common sense like this is so hard to find (except on this board), I hope you decide to have lots of babies to balance out the children women like Becky Jo have saddled us with already.
Wait a sec here… ya mean my vote don’t send thim to hell? dam it, nows i’s gutta fine a nu weigh da hirt dem….
thanks guys… i gotta say, this site… good times, all wrapped up in a sick, twisted, effed up, gramatically nightmarish package. Again, not talking about the actual dirtbags… b/c well… that’s all a bit too obvious – i like to dig a little deeper for my dirt, and… well, it’s not hard to find, point at, and then laugh.
Michelle, are you aware that the law is clear that a person who is under the influence of alchohol/drugs is not legally capable of making a decision to give consent to sex? Guess what, if a guy has sex with a girl who is drunk, the next morning sober she can call rape. Now it may be difficult to prove, but not impossible. Now, mix in a 14 year old who has no legal right to consent, alcohol and you have a powder keg for rape.
“She’s done this before with my friends, I’m kind of used to it.” Oh really? Kind of used to it? WTF!!!!!!
“for a lengthy oral sex session.”
Wow.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank my single mother for not banging any of my friends. What a creepy lady.
Quoted from Fred in response to a post about how we bad it is that we are sending folks to hell….”Like we, on a web site can send anyone to hell.”
ha ha ha….
As for this story, the daughter knows of these escapades that the mom has with her friends?? oh-kay…and why are we surprised at all this?? it’s literally a family affair…so if this woman is still on the run, guess what, i am thinkin’ the daughter knows where she is…
I was actually her daughter’s friend, when I lived in Bexley. I went to a few of her parties, but nothing like that ever happened, that I noticed anyway. It was kind of weird though, now that I think of it… we were like 14 and 15, and her mom always had to do things with us, like watch movies, sing, dance, play games… she always had to be a part of it. Her daughter is actually a good girl, with messed up parents. I knew her mom was really bad on coke, and booze, but never really thought she was a chester. Makes sense though. She was just wacked in the head. Her front room mantel picture was a blown up shot of her when she posed for playboy. Kind of weird… It doesn’t really surprise me that it was one of her friends… Most of the other girls she hung out with towards that time were, well, let’s just say easy, and very stupid. Doesn’t fix anything, but it’s true.
Please forgive me for being middle aged and now living in Africa, but I’m missing something. What does “chester” mean?