Dr. Kirk Michael Smith
This is 36-year-old obstetrician, Kirk Michael Smith.
Kirk Smith was a well-respected obstetrician who practiced with the SouthCrest Medical Group in Tulsa, Oklahoma after graduating from the University of Iowa in 1999.
Healthgrades gives Dr. Kirk Michael Smith a good score, with no disciplinary actions in the last five years and no malpractice claims.
They might want to update that, for a number of reasons.
Healthgrades didn’t quite pick up on the fact that in November of 2001, Kirk Smith was denied a medical license, based on allegations of inappropriate contact with some of his female patients during his residency at a hospital in Kansas City, Missouri. The complaints were from women who all mentioned different levels of “weirdness” regarding Kirk Smith’s examinations. One patient reported that Smith “cupped” her breasts. Two patients reported feeling uncomfortable during pelvic exams, and another during a rectal exam. Of course there was nobody else in the room at the time of the examination.
After the Kansas City residency program placed Kirk Smith on leave in November of 2000 due to the allegations, he began seeing a psychiatrist, who diagnosed him with obsessive compulsive disorder.
According to the psychiatrist’s report, Smith testified that because of his OCD, he was extremely rigid and focused during the exams. This caused some of his patients “to feel uncomfortable and misinterpret his actions.”
Later, Kirk Smith was accepted into the University of Iowa’s residency program, and Iowa’s medical board granted Smith a restricted license in April 2002. There were conditions, however, as the board said Dr. Kirk Smith should always be accompanied by a chaperone while treating female patients and that he should definitely continue to see a psychiatrist.
That’s good medicine right there.
Was he your doctor? Would it creep you out a little bit to know that your obstetrician was also a child molester? Would it be a little weird to remember Dr. Kirk Smith’s hands on you, the same hands that he used to molest a little girl?
Dr. Kirk Michael Smith is married to a woman who brought a 10-year-old son and a 6-year-old daughter into the marriage. As Dr. Laura would tell you, stepfathers and stepmothers aren’t all that great a thing, and the statistics tend to support her argument, with stepfathers making up a sizable percentage of sexual abusers.
The journal Pediatrics reported in 2002 that:
Children residing in households with adults unrelated to them were 8 times more likely to die of maltreatment than children in households with two biological parents. Risk of maltreatment death was elevated for children residing with step, foster, or adoptive parents.
And research published in the journal Child Abuse and Neglect found that:
…a girl is seven times more likely to be molested by a stepfather than a biological father. What is more, the nature of sexual abuse by stepfathers was more severe than by biological fathers.
So I think you know what’s coming next.
On the 25th of July, 2008, a friend of Dr. Kirk Smith’s stepson stayed overnight for a sleepover, as 10-year-old boys do on a regular basis.
Well, in the morning, after Kirk Smith’s wife had left for a while, the boys got up and came downstairs to look for the 6-year-old girl. Kirk Smith got a little upset with the boys and yelled a bit, telling them to go back upstairs for a while.
Later, the boys found the door to the master bedroom had been locked. Kirk Smith was presumably inside the master bedroom with his stepdaughter.
45 minutes after that, the 6-year-old girl came out of her stepfather’s bedroom, crying.
Because his sister was upset, the 10-year-old boy and his friend asked the girl what was wrong. According to the girl, her stepdad, Dr. Kirk Michael Smith, had been doing bad things to her.
This 10-year-old boy’s friend was a good friend, and they talked for a while about what had been going on. The 10-year-old told his friend that something very similar had happened two weeks ago, but that he hadn’t told anybody.
Well, now they told somebody.
The 10-year-old’s friend called his dad, who called the police, who came to the house that Kirk built.
Police had the girl examined and signs were found that she had been sexually molested, which is a wonderful treat for a mother to find when she comes home.
Dr. Kirk Michael Smith was arrested that morning, on the 26th of July, 2008, and booked into the local jail, charged with two felony counts of lewd molestation and two counts of forcible sodomy. Detectives have gone through Kirk Smith’s house and taken a video camera, disposable cameras and his computer, which will all be examined with a fine-toothed comb.
SouthCrest Medical Group has decided that they do not want to employ child molesters and put Kirk Smith on suspension until the investigation is finished up. The medical group was good enough to point out that until he was arrested, Kirk Smith had been in no trouble with the law and had given no indication as to his predilection for pedophilia.
Kirk Smith had no problem posting his $200,000 bail and is now free.
Does Dr. Kirk Michael Smith deserve Hell?
- Yes (96%, 477 Votes)
- No (4%, 22 Votes)
Total Voters: 499
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I say the same thing. No step parents. Especially step dads. It is rarely a good thing.
Mandi I don’t know how it there goes, but here that kind of thing is not an usual thing! I don’t either know is it a good thing but I can’t see step parents a bad thing. I rather would encourage every parent to think very carefully what kind of a man/woman they are taking to as a partner/stepmom/stepdad. I also think that some times bad way of handeling divorce and arguing can affect on child’s life with their parents and step parents.
I am a step dad, and have been for 12 years. My “step-daughter” is now 14 years old. I take total offense to that remark.
admin – Of course you would. Any good step-father would. The problem is, not all step-fathers are good ones, just like not all step-mothers are good ones. The statistics do not lie, and of course the bad step-parents always seem to get the attention. A friend of mine at work is, by all accounts, a fantastic step-father.
My dad is a good stepfather. I actually tend to forget my older half-siblings are, in fact, half-siblings. He’s raised them since they were young and refers to them as his children, like me and my full brothers. It’s a shame that a rotten minority of stepparents give the whole of step-parenthood a bad name.
I always thought Dr. Laura was a man hater………
Statistics don’t lie, as you say — and they show that *most* stepparents are in the excellent-to-adequate category. Dr. Laura, as usual, emphasizes the upsetting minority for the ratings kick.
Statistically, the majority of people who abuse children are family and/or friends. Does that make family and friends bad ideas?
Though I know it won’t be popular….know your mate before you get married, and once you make a commitment to marriage, STAY MARRIED!!! I know there are extreme cases, and I do not expect anyone to stay in an abusive relationship, but for the sakes of your children, don’t leave their father because “you aren’t in love with him anymore”.
Kids need their mom and dad to be together. Period.
And if you get divorced, please, please, please don’t leave your precious little girls (or boys!) with your boyfriend, new husband, male friend, uncle, brother, guy you met on the street….you get the picture.
Kids first.
Yes, I know there are many great step parents out there.
My husband is a good man!!!! I know he reads this site occasionally, but being on training would have no room to respond to this even if he was offended, which I am FOR HIM!
My mom’s last boyfriend was a total POS who took discipline a little too seriously, but he never touched me in a bad way, despite being a giant pos. My husband has dealt with my daughter’s temper tantrums, car seat kicking, screaming, throwing things, dog kicking fits since she was three, and has done so with the utmost patience, all things considered. He is the LAST person that would hurt her, and that includes her bio dad who used to do things like slam my head into car windows….
I am LUCKY to have found such a good and KIND man, and to have someone who doesn’t even know him or us judge him and my decision to marry (smart enough not to marry the bio dad, thankfully) just PISSES ME OFF! Just because someone is a step parent doesn’t automatically make them a giant douche. And just because someone is a biological parent doesn’t stop them from microwaving their infants…..
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Alanna….I totally agree with you that just because someone is a stepparent, it doesn’t mean their a POS. I have a daughter from my first marriage and my current husband has a son from a relationship he had while he was in his late teens & early twenties. My husband was not married to my stepson’s mother…..I am the only person that my husband has ever been married to and my current husband is my second husband. So, we have two children (each from a previous relationship) and we do not have any together. We wanted to have a child together, but I am unable to have more children because of an attack by my neighbor’s brother while I was pregnant with my daughter. Anyway, my husband and I have been together since my daughter was 3 years old and my stepson was 5 years old. My daughter calls my husband-her stepfather “Daddy” because it is the only father she has ever known. My daughter knows who her real father is, but she has not seen him since she was 4 years old. She saw him (biological dad) once when she was 4 and he promised he would take her to Chuckie Cheese, and she kept talking about it and was very excited about it. Well, biological dad didn’t keep his promise, and her stepdad was the one who took her to Chuckie Cheese. Biological dad doesn’t pay child support (he owes me over $18,000 in back child support, but I won’t ever see a dime of it. I really don’t care. My husband has always wanted to adopt my daughter to become her legal father and not just be her stepfather, but I always told him that I wanted to wait until she was old enough to make that decision because I didn’t want her to resent us for making that decision for her. We do not talk bad about her biological father, but I always answer her questions about him truthfully because she deserves to know the truth. She is know 13 and she has decided that she wants to go ahead and do the adoption because, according to her….”I love my Daddy. I know he’s my stepdad, but he is my real Dad because he is the one who takes care of me and makes sure that I have everything that I need.” Also, I have always treated my stepson and my daughter equally. My stepson does not live with us, but I have always tried to make him feel like he means as much to me as my daughter does. I keep a room set up just for him so that way he has his own space when he comes to stay with us. If I take him and my daughter somewhere and they want something, I always make sure to get them both something and both items must be in the same price range. There is nothing I wouldn’t do for him, just like there is nothing I wouldn’t do for my daughter. He is now 15 and my daughter is now 13, so all they can remember is my husband and I being together. My stepson and I get along really well and there are things that he will come to me about before he goes to his mother or his father because he knows that I will listen to him and hear him out and not get angry with him. I have always told him that I would never try to take his mother’s place, but I can love him and be there for him. He’s a good kid and I hope he will continue to be. No matter what, I will always be there for both of my kids. I consider my stepson to be just as much my child as I do my own daughter. When you marry a person with children you have to go into the relationship understanding that the children come before anything else. It’s sad when people like this bring negative attention to the issue of stepparents. I definitely agree that the statistics do not lie and that children are more likely to be abused or molested by a stepparent than a parent, but I wish that the biological parent(s) of the children would take a harder look at their prospective mates before they rush into marriage. Sadly, some people put their own wants of “having a man/woman” in their life over the safety and well being of their own children. It’s also unreal to me how this woman could honestly doubt these children. I understand that kids can sometimes make things up, but she seems like the type of woman that I was just speaking about. Having her man is more important than having her kids. People like this should be sterilized. I hope these children are safe and placed in a positive and loving environment. I hope the little girl gets the counseling she is going to definitely need to deal with the abuse that she endured, and also help her deal with the abandonment issues I’m sure she is feeling due to the rejection from her mother. My thoughts are with these children and I hope they can move on from this tragic event.
What’s wrong with you? You think this kind of thing is normal? I have a kick- ass 10 year old stepdaughter whom i have raise from the time she was 4. And let me make it clear, THAT IS MY DAUGHTER NO MATTER WHAT! We build tree forts and go hunting together. I don’t lock her in a bedroom and sodomize her. The misconception between parent and step parent is ludicrous. I have a stepdad. He taught morals, values, truth. He didn’t teach me sodomy, rape, and pedofilia! The statements I have read between the links in this article and the article itself are ridiculous. “Stepparents are rarely a good thing”…. SOunds to me a there are a few of you here with some astounding issues. Sorry your parents sucked so bad.
This guy is one sick f**k! That’s really about it. And his breath smells like he’s been eating ass all day. This guy was my ob twice, I didn’t like him and ask to be switched. I switched to the woman dr there, didn’t like he either, then switched to the other dr at Southcrest in the same office. LOVE him! My new baby was seen by Pedo Smith once, it makes me SICK. He WILL rot in hell! I hope they f**k him up in prison!
Mam you sound like the kind of lady I would like to meet. But if you are married then I would settle for a cup of coffe and knowing that there are more people on this planet that think along the same lines as I do.
most likely they will, child molesters are VERY popular in prisons and i hope some of the wards are willing to turn a blind eye when they make “friends” with him.
WIth all that moving around its quite apparent that you just want multiple people touching your cooter at all times.
SlimPickins – Haha NO! Actually NONE of them touched my “cooter” but the last doctor.
Mulch – I have been in my relationship for 7 years, but coffee wouldn’t hurt :)
Finally someone who can take a fucking joke.
Instant Death for this piece of shit…nothing else to say. This man was no ordinary man…this guy was a doctor you would normilay trust with your child’s life. As a father of 4, you best god damn believe i investigated and interviewed the people who would be the ones to bring my children into this world.
This is not an everyday thing, so he held a very trusted position. His actions have violated every precept that society holds towards those…the “givers of life” doctors. If anything, he should be dragged out of jail, placed against a wall, and shot in the most violate, public way possible.
Again, those who voted NO, trolls or otherwise, think on this: Next time this may be your child in the hands of some sick fuck like this. No “almighty god”, no ancient book of ridiculous superstitions is going to protect them….it’s up to you.
Instant death? Psshh. I say we give him a couple rounds of “forcible sodomy” with extra large prison cell mate first.
Ok, I like your version better hehe
Wait, didn’t your wife bring your children into the world?
No, she gave birth to my children. And unless you are a board certified OBGYN…or whatever the fuck it is, neither did you…if you’ve had children anyway.
Neither my wife, nor I, are doctors…so Id say no. Any woman can give birth to a child….the trick is to have the baby in a supportive environment….aka THE HOSPITAL or with a doctor attending. I have 5 children…and after five I know no more about delivering them than i did the first….can’t speak for my heart….she was high on whatever drugs they give women when they have to pass a watermellon out of their…um love holes. So i know for a fact she doesn’t know more than I lol.
Back to the point….NO, nor has any woman who even pretends to follow modern medicine…..midwives and the like are a thing for the dark ages….the doctors AKA ob’s are in charge. So while a woman will nuture and grow a child within her womb, these days it is the doctor themselves who bring children into this world. This only means they each and every one of them must be virginal, prestine and clear……who in their right mind would wish their child being brought into this world by a human shark….a gd sicko pedo!
Child molesters go directly to hell, they do not pass Peter, they do not collect salvation
Kudos to the brother and his friend that were smart enough and brave enough to take some action.
Totally agree! Way to go boys!
Per the Tulsa World: Dr. Pervert was accused several times of inappropriate sexual contact during his residency program in Missouri, reports show.
Despite the accusations, the Oklahoma Board of Medical Licensure and Supervision licensed the doctor, Kirk Michael Smith.
In November 2001, the Iowa Board of Medical Examiners denied Smith’s application for a license, citing allegations of inappropriate contact with female patients during a little more than a year at a residency program in Kansas City, Mo.
According to a report from the board, four female patients complained about unwanted contact during exams with Smith. One patient reported that Smith “cupped” her breasts. Two patients reported feeling uncomfortable during pelvic exams, and another during a rectal exam. No chaperone was present during any of the exams.
After the Kansas City residency program placed Smith on leave in November 2000, he began treatment with a psychiatrist, who diagnosed him with obsessive compulsive disorder, according to the Iowa report.
According to the report, Smith testified that because of his OCD, he was extremely rigid and focused during the exams, causing the patients “to feel uncomfortable and misinterpret his actions.”
Smith was later accepted into the University of Iowa’s residency program, and Iowa’s medical board granted Smith a restricted license in April 2002. The board said he should always be accompanied by a chaperone while treating female patients and should continue seeing a psychiatrist.
Lyle Kelsey, executive director of Oklahoma’s medical board, said Tuesday that the board was “well aware” of Smith’s past.
The board required Smith to receive further psychiatric counseling in Atlanta before it granted him a training license in May 2003, Kelsey said.
“The board wanted something a little more current that showed he would be OK to practice,” he said.
Additionally, Smith was in a “very supervised” setting and was required to continue treatment, Kelsey said, adding that “based on all that, he was safe to enter residency training.”
In 2006, Smith ended his residency and began regular practice. Oklahoma’s medical board lists no criminal history or disciplinary problems.
Smith has practiced family medicine for about two years at Tulsa’s SouthCrest Hospital. A hospital spokeswoman, Melissa Bogle, said he was suspended after his arrest.
If convicted, Bogle said, Smith would be fired. Additionally, he would likely lose his medical license, Kelsey said.
Why didn’t someone suggest a different specialty for this pervert, like Ear, Nose, & Throat or Podiatry after it became pretty clear he was a crack pot with an inability to keep his hands to himself.
OMG! How fucked up is THAT?
And just who the hell appoints Oklahoma’s medical board? How DARE these people decide that it’s OK for a guy with FOUR complaints against him, to go on out there and have “permission” to touch strangers?
FOUR sexual related complaints in a year? Hello??? Everyone knows that relatively few women actually will complain about an exam. They “assume” that the doctor knows what he’s doing, and it’s ok. If four women came forward in a year, that is significant!
This board allowed a predator to go out there with THEIR stamp of approval. I say they should be sued.
I think everyone on the board should be made to endure a rectal/vaginal exam by Dr.Pervert himself.
What are the laws about OBs anyway? Every pelvic exam I’ve ever had has been supervised by a female nurse, regardless of doctor’s gender or place of employment. Maybe that’s decided by the state? Should be a given, and I always thought it was, especially for residents. This dickwad should never have been given a license to begin with. Fail. Yeah, the board deserves some rough speculum.
As fucked up as this story is, this is my favorite part and I chuckled a little too:
“The 10-year-old’s friend called his dad, who called the police, who came to the house that Kirk built.”
I know the two boys and I’m so proud of them for standing up for the little girl. Unfortunately, now the mom deserves to be put on this site. She publicly accused the children of making it all up, but I know the boys and I would believe them 100%.
Are you serious? The mom is backing up her meal-ticket instead of her kids? I am not saying that kids don’t make crap up. And these days, kids are pretty saavy and know a lot more than we did. It would not surprise me to hear some kid accuse a parent because he got grounded for not doing his homework or something.
But – hello? the article says there is physical evidence. That is much harder for a little kid to pull off.
Yeah one would think that “two counts of forcible sodomy” would be a little hard to fake but kids these days, who knows!?
Sadly i know of a woman who was raped repeatedly year after year by her mothers boyfriend. Finally she told her mother who`s reaction was: if your going to make that sort of a accusation your going to have to be the one to tell the police.
BITCH. She made it quite obvious that she didnt believe her daughter.
When the police came, the girl, thinking she wouldnt be believed no matter what she said, clammed up and said NOTHING.
So the rape continued until she finally left home and went onto a life of drug abuse and prostitution.
The saddest thing is that she now has two children of her own and hasnt a clue as to how to be a good mother to them and is failing miserably at it.
Those boys were so brave to speak up and the mother needs to be dragged outside and shot and then shot again, as does any mum who would believe a child making such a complaint is lying.
Amy, kids DO sometimes make stuff up. And sometimes, parents (especially moms who want a divorce w/ everything) will plant ideas. And, sometimes, well-meaning therapists will plant ideas – very vivid ideas – into a kid’s head.
These days, kids have so much more knowledge than they ever have, and most kids, by the age of 10 or so, know all about sex, what a child molestor is, etc. etc. etc… If they hate their step-daddy, making up a story might not seem like such a big deal to a troubled kid. They certainly have no idea how incredibly devestating a false accusation can be.
So? What is the mom to do if the child claims something horrible, and there is no obvious physical sign? I guess it’s this: She has no choice but to try and determine if the kid is telling the truth, by gently asking questions and putting two and two together. Then perhaps have a physical evaluation. And then, if it’s true, press charges like crazy!
Unfortunately, it all comes back to the bad parenting skills that we see so often. The mother is likely to either 1) smack the shit out of the kid and call them a liar or 2) attack the man, use the kid as a weapon, destroy whatever family the kid has, and leave the child sitting there bewildered and feeling a huge amount of guilt. And that is regardless of whether the abuse was real or fake. Or 3) hide her loser head in the sand, and pretend that the scumball is not helping himself to her kids as payment for her room and board.
It was well know within his residency program at University of Oklahoma that Dr. Kirk M. Smith was a sick and creepy wierdo. The major wierdness that was covered up at OU during his OU residency and OU OB fellowship, was that Dr. Smith took care of a patient, delivered her baby and then married her.
As far as step dads go – if step dad and bio-dad are friends, then both will look out for the children, less chance that step dad will treat the children badly.
If step dad has an axe to grind with real dad, the children may be the battle ground. Such sick fucks that use children need a striaght trip to hell, plain and simple.
this POS needs a few nights with his Bubba-Daddy as to prepare him for hell.
It becomes a sad day when you can no longer trust a Doctor, someone who you thought had your best interest to get well and become healthy. Each day I come to realize that hell is here on Earth. Yesterday I hurled in my toilet after I read about a guy that cut a mans head off for no reason on a Greyhound Bus in Canada.
I so want to lock my doors and never come outside and cry in my bed.
I vote that the biological father takes the kids, he seems to know how to act appropriately. This was going on in Mom’s house for how long???
Does anyone know if the kids are out of mom and Kirth, the step dad’s evil, clutches?
There are three children in the family, all with different biological fathers. All of the kids are in state custody.
This guy is sounding like the typical child predator.
Plan:
-Find a woman with low self-esteem
-Make sure woman has children who have not been treated well in the past
-Offer woman a better lifestyle than she had before
-Remind woman continually how bad her life was before, and how much you are giving her
-Subtly remind her that if she doesn’t cooperate, she’ll be back on the street with nothing
-Start your nasty business with the kids
-Tell the woman that the kids are bad bad children, and that they are liars, and if they don’t “behave”, you’ll have to throw them all out on the street (don’t admit that you are at ALL at fault – they are just BAD kids)
-lather, rinse, repeat
A woman with three kids from different daddies is not likely to be the most self-assured female out there. And the kids are statistically likely to have been abused/neglected already.
Many men have no natural instinct to be good fathers to other men’s children. Just like animals, it is survival of the fittest, and just like in nature, it’s OK to kill those infidel offspring. (Humans are the only ones who generally RAPE them, though although defining “rape” in nature is a tough one).
And, my apologies to the men who ARE good step-fathers. There are (fortunately) many more of them than the other kind, but the other kind are still a significant number. And when they are SPECIFICALLY targeting the mothers who qualify, it’s a disaster waiting to happen.
It’s not rocket science.
And, the kids being in state custody? That is not really a sigh of relief in my opinion. God only knows whats gonna happen to them now.
There is always an idiot (or 12) that think people like this don’t deserve hell. It doesn’t even matter about the whole stepfather thing. What matters is he sodomized a small child, so even if he has a pencil di** that had to hurt like hell. All I can hope is that some guy hung like a horse does the same to him in jail, if he ever goes back, so he can know how that poor little girl felt.
While i understand that some messed up kids DO make false complaints, in cases such as this one where there is physical evidence and the mother still publicly states that the childeren are lying, that is when she should be shot.
Update on the case…
http://www.newson6.com/global/story.asp?s=9347703
At a hearing on Nov 13, the “mother” was arrested after evidence was presented showing that she was trying to prevent the children from testifying to the truth.
I hope that the mother is never allowed around those children again. She has serial problems and has no respect for her role as protector of her children.
These poor kids – I looked up the court records of Michael Kirk Smith, and looks like this ones is gonna drag out for ever. However, It was fun to follow how they decided to charge mommy with the two counts of ‘Preventing a Witness From Giving Testimony’.
She has to be the worst kind of piece of shit mother that’s ever walked the face of the earth. To actually call her own flesh and blood children liars in public – and do God know what to them in private – all for the sake of that child molester she married is just mind boggling.
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That’s it Smith, hold nice and still
Sniper Kitty doesn’t Like diddlers OR their wives, especially the ones who pimp out their young kids to the new husband.
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Hey dummies, Did u ever hear the mother say on T.V. that her children were liars NO, you heard the news reporter say she said that. Go figure
Hmmm… So they are arresting people now for what reporters say, and not because they have some presumably valid reason for doing so? Well, gee, that makes sense, Daisy. How do you know the mom?
You’re an ass daisy. Prosecutors had more than enough evidence to charge “mother”, including the testimony of the two kids. She’s worse than a pimp, selling out her own kids for the sake of this sack excrement she decided to marry. So unless you can provide more than insults and worthless innuendos, shut the fuck up.
I’ve got a bad case of the flu, and I still feel like dogshit after a week, but someone like you can always piss me off enough to forget about myself. Asshole.
Yay, Max!
Sorry you feel like shit, hope ya get better soon.
thanks diana, I’m trying to – this sucks :)
Hey Max, hope you feel better soon.
Thanks Blondie…
Dr. Smith was my childrens doctor for 2 years. It is very disturbing to me that he touched my children and I still to this day have not told them he is a child molester. One of my kids is speical needs and we were at the doctor office frequently….Luckally he was never alone with my children! I remember him going on a long rant about children acting out sexually. I tried to explain that my kids were sheltered and that was not an issue in my house… he seemed determened. Shortly after that event this story broke.
A few weeks after the death of my husband a friend of my mother who was also widowed young warned me that a certain breed of men may well target me as an apparently vulnerable woman, at the time i’l admit i thought she was being a little cynical, but sure as god makes little green apples they began to appear… Mazzi is spot on, bad men target women who are a little needy and lonely, and sadly a lot are so desperate to hang onto a man they are blinded to the obvious! Its no excuse, no partner should be put before a child, full stop! But i do think there are some great stepdads out there, these are the guys with the smarter women who DO vet potential partners and don’t get suckered by perverts and bullies, ultimately the mother is responsible for the welfare of her kids, i’m not against remarrying, not at all! Its just some people should not be near kids and as parents we are responsible for weeding those ones out… Too many mothers introduce a new significant male into their home and kids lives way too soon!
If someone is a victim, the predator’s sense it, the same as how the lame baby antelope always gets eaten in those nature shows. The men that you are talking about, whether they are just using the WOMAN for the relationship, money, or just plain sex… or using the woman to get at the children if they are that kind of sick fuck. I agree that a needy woman will often turn a blind eye to the faults of the new “love” of her life, sometimes to the extreme detriment of her kids. Sad, but true.
It was once stated to me by an acquaintance… that you know a lady with kids is down to fuck… because she already has kids. Sad, but there are a lot of “men” out there who think that way apparently.
In my case, I think I just became too damned mean to be easy prey. My husband is a VERY VERY patient man. He’s actually been praised as a saint by at least two counselor’s I’ve seen that have had the pleasure of speaking to us together. But hell, I guess if he can deal with a bitch like me, it’s probably easy to deal with my kiddo lol.
To be fair alanna i’ve become far too happy in my own skin and home to even imagine sharing that home with a man… Its called hardened i think lol! But there a lot of women who don’t think they can live alone because they never try! Us awkward types expect more i think, because we know we deserve to be treated right, what you said about the predator was what my mom s friend meant i guess, and yes some men do think women with kids are up for it… Also a lot think we desperate for it! The more neanderthal types anyway! Ah well… Such is life! ;)x
Dr. Kirk Smith was my original doctor. My mom came with e for my first appointment with him. During the exam, my mom told him to get his hands off of me because i felt uncomfortable the way he was touching me. He felt for lumps in my breast and would squeeze them like he enjoyed himself. He would breath deeply each time he came close to me. I felt almost dirty while in his care. I told my mom i didnt want to see this Dr. again because i know what its like to be molested and i felt that way with him. My next vistit i had a new Dr. not just by request, but also earlier that week he had been arrested for molesting his daughter. I new he was an evil man from the moment i met him.
Why were they allowing this guy alone with patients during pelvic exams? ALL of the clinics, GPs and hospitals I’ve been in have required that a nurse be in the room during any exam of that nature.
I have to comment on the bit about step fathers. Yes, they make up a large chunk of sexual abuse cases, but that does not mean that the majority of step fathers are abusers. It’s only a small fraction of step parents who molest their children. People like Kirk Michael Smith target children because they’re pedophiles and sociopaths, not because they’re step parents. If his step daughter hadn’t been a convenient target, he would have found a way to act out his sick desires somewhere else.
Holy shit! I had my son at Southcrest. Thankfully, I had a wonderful female doctor.
That poor little girl :(
FEMALE NURSES ARE PERVERTS AND UNPROFESSIONAL TOO!
Awww, Steve! Are you still angry about that thorough sponge bath Nurse Bertha gave you the last time you went in to have your inner caps lock adjusted?
Get over it, man. Your taint was crusty. Someone had to intervene; it was obvious you weren’t doing the job. Nurse Bertha did a public service when she scraped your sack. You should send her flowers. And a manicure set, man, ’cause… DAYMN!
Dumbass… Male obstetricians are pretty perverted too. Why else would a man take a job that requires he looks at snatches all day long?