She will Rot In Hell if she indeed Did have anything to do with their deaths!

It seems like I am late for this discussion, but I will go ahead and comment anyway.

This is a tragic case, but to me, it is far from an accident. I was a mother at the age of 19 and my husband, who is in the United States Army, had been stationed in Fort Bragg, NC. I moved back home in Bedford-Stuyvesant with my parents and had my son Dewayne. After having him, I didn’t rely on my parents or my three brothers to watch him, I watched Dewayne and slowly learned how to become a mother. Granted, there are some self-help ‘How to be a Mom’ books, but I didn’t read them, I used a thing called common sense, discipline, and nuturing to form my mothering skills. 2 1/2 years later when we were stationed to Hawaii, my daughter Destini was born. My husband deployed for the first time and it seemed like our family was in crisis. Here I was, a single mother, by myself in Hawaii, and my husband in a war-torn country. I did not fold, I preservered and became stronger. I did work, sometimes pushing more than 40 hours a week. My two angels were left in the care of a close friend whose husband was also deployed at the time during the day, and at night I fixed them dinner, ironed their clothes, bathed them, read them stories, and then bedtime. Flash forward to 2010 and my husband is once again deployed (this time to Afghanistan) and I am doing my motherly/fatherly responsiblities and raising my children the right way while attending Washington State University.
To make a long story short and get on with the point, this bitch shouldn’t have ever had children. It seems like she was more interested in finding a friend with ‘benefits’ than raising her own offspring. She was just a stupid fat bitch that put all the responsiblities of rasing her two children on her parents and hoped to get a free ride. It sickens me to think that those children suffered while she slept, dreaming of God knows what. I am not trying to insult her, and yes accidents do happen, but things like this are certainly avoidable. Who lets their children play in the driveway while they are unsuprovised? Sure the speed limit is about 15 mph, but you get an occasional ignorant jerk who wants to drive 45/50 mph through a residential area. That is one reason I do not let Dewayne and Destini out of my sight when they are playing outside. Most of the time, when they are playing outside, I go with outside with them and play. Again, this stupid bitch of a mother was just lacking common sense, the drive to be a good mother, and the maturity that comes with being a mother. I wish I could have lived in the same time that this slime lives in because I would have a few choice words with her. RIP Jasmine and Nathan Mendieta, I wish you two precious little angels could have had a better, more mature, more devoted Mommy. I hope you find true love and peace in Paradise. Burn in hell for all eternity Stacey Mendieta-bitch.

P.S. I hope Stacey Mendieta gets the gas chamber on this one. This was betrayal of the worst kind.

Also, when I was traveling to Kuwait to visit my fiancee, I didn’t pay for those plane tickets, my fiance did. All the money I made went to my kids and bills. My kids were very well taken care of and loved more than anything on this earth. Many parents have experienced something where they can say, “that could have been us” or “we were lucky”, unfortunately, we were not lucky. Many parents come up to me and tell me that they have taken naps with their children, and when they wake up their kids are already awake getting into things, some even outside playing, or others just playing quietly, and those parents never heard their children wake up. I’m not making excuses for what happened, I’m just saying it does happen, more than most would like admit.

As far as The J.E.N.A Project goes… I have completed well over 50 presentations, have participated in several safety expos for cub scouts, safety days, etc. My case was dismissed last month, which I’m sure you guys can find that out since you’re such great researchers. There have been 49 hyperthermia deaths in 2010 to date, that’s the most on record EVER. The JENA Project is also on Facebook if anyone cares to stay updated on hyperthermia tragedies and news. Also, the website is constantly being updated, so maybe you should check your facts first.

And for your information batman, I chose to stay in Colorado with my kids.

The worst thing anyone can do is be ignorant and say something like this could never happen to them. Being aware can prevent this from happening to you.

And all the hateful, cruel, ignorant things anyone says on here, isn’t going to change what happened. But I guess for those that do say these things, it probably makes you feel much better about yourselves, rather than giving caring, supporting words for people that are going through such horrible tragedies and loss. Accidents do happen, most preventable, but some just not so lucky as others, and when an accident does occur, something not intentional, something so heartbreaking and terrible, there’s always going to be people out there to ridicule and judge no matter what. I think for the individuals that intentionally commit such horrible crimes on other people, that have no mind for others and that are just plain evil, then save your cruel comments for them.

Stacey Mendieta

I’m going to go out on a limb here and give Stacey the benefit of the doubt. Let’s just assume that she is a stupid fat bitch who was sleeping on the couch while her kids climbed into a car on a moderately hot day.

I did visit the JENA project website which describes the full account of what happened that day. (Sort of…it’s Stacey’s account. )

http://www.thejenaproject.org/wordpress/?page_id=2

What the hell was she doing asleep while her kids were playing in the driveway? I don’t take naps anyway, but even when I’m sick and need to get some extra rest, I make sure that there is someone around for my son.

She admits that her daughter was holding back the 2 year old from going into the street. This easily could have been a case of a run over 2 year old due to neglect rather than two children dead in a car. Once again, what the hell are the kids doing outside playing while their mother is asleep?

Stacey admits to heading to Kuwait to visit her “fiance”. How much do plane tickets to Kuwait cost? She claims she was broke, so what the fuck was she doing wasting her money on plane tickets halfway around the world?

I was also somewhat irresponsible in my youth. I ended up getting a woman pregnant. She decided she didn’t want to raise the child and took off. I managed to work, finish college, and raise my son by myself. I didn’t have the benefit of parents that could take me back in. So when I see that Stacey’s parents had the generosity to help her, and she spit in their face by wasting her money and time on someone half the world away…. its like a kick in the nuts to those kids and every single parent on the planet who has sacrificed finding the things they want (or even need sometimes) for the benefit of their children. I gave up everything for my son, and every morning I put him on the bus to school and see him wave at me through the window… it’s worth it. I’d do it again in a heartbeat. Christ, i’d give more if I had to.

What the fuck is wrong with some of these parents? I’m really sorry that Stacey managed to marry and fuck some Honduran cock sucker who ran out on them. That sucks for the kids. However, that doesn’t mean it’s time to waste all of your money on the dating market. You make sure those kids are secure, with food in their bellies, and a roof over their head. If you are going to date, make sure that the time and expense isn’t going to jeopardize them. Of course, if mommy and daddy are paying your way, then all of your money is for you right?

Even worse, instead of Stacey actually getting a real punishment for her neglect, selfishness and stupidity, she gets to go out and canvas the local community, state, even country about her dead kids.

Bravo to the Colorado state judicial system for managing to glorify a woman who exemplifies everything a parent shouldn’t be, just so they can save money on filling up prisons with yet another emotional deadbeat.

I visited that site today, and noticed that there hasn’t been an update since 9/23/2009. (That’s pretty much right after her sentence.)

It’s October now, eight months after she claims she’ll go “full force”. In fact a google search of the project shows nothing recent other than the Jena Project (for making Semantic Web Pages).

I’m willing to bet she still hasn’t hit that mark of 50 presentations, despite the fact that her MySpace was updated in April of 2010. Was that a new picture of you and your beau up there Stacey? DId you manage to go out there or did he come here?

Maybe this is a lesson to a lot of people out there. Maybe if you know you are a selfish person, or stupid, or just plain irresponsible…. you should find a way to keep your fucking legs closed or your dick in your pants.