Comments on: Stacey Mendieta http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/ Your daily dose of evil Sun, 01 Aug 2010 07:59:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Stacey http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/#comment-59888 Stacey Fri, 12 Feb 2010 01:14:52 +0000 http://pysih.com/?p=1689#comment-59888 Everyone- This is Stacey, mother of Jasmine & Nathan. It has been nearly a year and a half since that horrible day, and it still feels so fresh and unreal. I understand that many of you still judge me, it's ok, because I still hate myself. To make everything clear on my sentencing... I was offered a 2 year deferred judgement. NO jail time, fines, anything like that. I have to either complete 300 hours of community service OR 50 presentations on the dangers of children in and around cars. (not leaving children in cars - for the person that said that). I don't have to report to any probation officer or anything. If I complete the requirements within the 1st year, the 2nd year will be dismissed along with the case. And to make other things clear, "the guy in kuwait," it wasn't just an internet relationship. I've been over there a few times, and he loves Jasmine & Nathan as they were his own. As I had mentioned the last time I posted on this site,about starting up and educational foundations, well I have. I created THE J.E.N.A PROJECT. I have made 7 presentations so far, with 2 more scheduled this month. I plan to go full force in March, being that's when these types of tragedies start to happen. Even if you don't believe me with what happened, please help spread the word on this cause. Visit: WWW.THEJENAPROJECT.ORG ~Stacey Everyone-

This is Stacey, mother of Jasmine & Nathan. It has been nearly a year and a half since that horrible day, and it still feels so fresh and unreal. I understand that many of you still judge me, it’s ok, because I still hate myself. To make everything clear on my sentencing… I was offered a 2 year deferred judgement. NO jail time, fines, anything like that. I have to either complete 300 hours of community service OR 50 presentations on the dangers of children in and around cars. (not leaving children in cars – for the person that said that). I don’t have to report to any probation officer or anything. If I complete the requirements within the 1st year, the 2nd year will be dismissed along with the case. And to make other things clear, “the guy in kuwait,” it wasn’t just an internet relationship. I’ve been over there a few times, and he loves Jasmine & Nathan as they were his own.

As I had mentioned the last time I posted on this site,about starting up and educational foundations, well I have. I created THE J.E.N.A PROJECT. I have made 7 presentations so far, with 2 more scheduled this month. I plan to go full force in March, being that’s when these types of tragedies start to happen. Even if you don’t believe me with what happened, please help spread the word on this cause. Visit: http://WWW.THEJENAPROJECT.ORG

~Stacey

]]> By: Max The Cat http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/#comment-59709 Max The Cat Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:59:41 +0000 http://pysih.com/?p=1689#comment-59709 You know what? You're alright April. You've got a good head and an really big heart - just the kind of people we need around this place. You kind of remind me of myself in a way, except I have a really big head and a defective heart....LOL. You know what? You’re alright April. You’ve got a good head and an really big heart – just the kind of people we need around this place. You kind of remind me of myself in a way, except I have a really big head and a defective heart….LOL.

]]> By: ApriL http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/#comment-59705 ApriL Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:34:38 +0000 http://pysih.com/?p=1689#comment-59705 ***it doesn't normally just happen one day (for a 5 year old) to just get up and get their sibling to go in the freezing cold to sit in the car and die. ***it doesn’t normally just happen one day (for a 5 year old) to just get up and get their sibling to go in the freezing cold to sit in the car and die.

]]> By: ApriL http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/#comment-59704 ApriL Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:27:28 +0000 http://pysih.com/?p=1689#comment-59704 Did the judge state that he KNEW she was telling the truth? Maybe the judge cried for the lives of the children. I know that kids can learn to open doors, and get into things/places they shouldn't. I also know that it doesn't up and happen one day. I am sure the children had opened her door before, or got out before (if it happened the way she stated) and she didn't do anything to stop it from happening again. I have an extra bolt on the top of my doors, that my kids CANNOT unlock. My daughter got up from her nap while I was in the shower, and got to the porch, I heard the door close and ran out there to get her. I installed the new locks, hasn't happened since. I don't know about you, but I get up multiple times a night, whether it's to use the restroom or get a drink, I check on my kids EVERY time. Did the judge state that he KNEW she was telling the truth? Maybe the judge cried for the lives of the children. I know that kids can learn to open doors, and get into things/places they shouldn’t. I also know that it doesn’t up and happen one day. I am sure the children had opened her door before, or got out before (if it happened the way she stated) and she didn’t do anything to stop it from happening again. I have an extra bolt on the top of my doors, that my kids CANNOT unlock. My daughter got up from her nap while I was in the shower, and got to the porch, I heard the door close and ran out there to get her. I installed the new locks, hasn’t happened since. I don’t know about you, but I get up multiple times a night, whether it’s to use the restroom or get a drink, I check on my kids EVERY time.

]]> By: USS Yorktown http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/#comment-59703 USS Yorktown Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:17:08 +0000 http://pysih.com/?p=1689#comment-59703 Addressed to Chris M. Addressed to Chris M.

]]> By: USS Yorktown http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/#comment-59702 USS Yorktown Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:12:47 +0000 http://pysih.com/?p=1689#comment-59702 And you are full of shit. No? And you are full of shit. No?

]]> By: vcbecky http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/#comment-59700 vcbecky Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:53:12 +0000 http://pysih.com/?p=1689#comment-59700 Chris, I have another suggestion for you. If you're so intent on making sure things are up-to-date on this site, why don't you donate some money to it? I mean, surely a good Samaritan interested in complete and accessible truth like yourself can see his way clear to clicking the link at the top of the page and hooking PYSIH up by way of PayPal, hmmm? Or you could buy a mug! Or a shirt! The link for that is just under the one that goes to PayPal at the top of every page!! The Flippercat mug is quite the sexy Valentines Day gift. I'm just sayin'... Chris, I have another suggestion for you. If you’re so intent on making sure things are up-to-date on this site, why don’t you donate some money to it? I mean, surely a good Samaritan interested in complete and accessible truth like yourself can see his way clear to clicking the link at the top of the page and hooking PYSIH up by way of PayPal, hmmm?

Or you could buy a mug! Or a shirt! The link for that is just under the one that goes to PayPal at the top of every page!! The Flippercat mug is quite the sexy Valentines Day gift. I’m just sayin’…

]]> By: Max The Cat http://pysih.com/2008/08/31/stacey-mendieta/#comment-59697 Max The Cat Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:32:29 +0000 http://pysih.com/?p=1689#comment-59697 You know what Chris, you can kiss my white ass. We haven't been truthful? Well I'm here to tell you we are ALWAYS as honest and truthful as we can possibly be about the stories we write. You, on the other hand, are very skillful at telling half-truths. For one, Stacey was actually sentenced to 2 years in prison, but the sentence was deferred if she completed 300 hours of public service or 50 public presentations on the dangers of leaving kids in hot cars. If she completes all of the obligations the deferred judgment would be closed and she would not be permanently convicted of the felony crime. She received this sentence because her lawyers worked out a plea deal, where she plead no contest to felony child abuse. But let's look at a few of the facts - Normally, at the time they died, the children would have been in daycare, but Stacey pulled them out to save money so she could move to Kuwait and marry her Internet boyfriend. She fell asleep for SIX hours before she got up to look for them. We've already gone over other unwise things this "mom" did that led up to this tragedy. At best, Stacey was incredibly foolish, but I tend to lean towards her being self-centered to the extreme and her kids being victims of a series of her bad decisions. As far as missing the update goes, well excuse the fuck out of me for running a one man operation at the time and missing this one. Instead of being a shmuck about it, you could have left a comment, or sent an email letting me know about the final disposition of Stacey's case and you would have seen you update on the front page ASAP. Ask anyone here if I hold back updates just because we don't get the result we were looking. You might just learn to hold your tongue and do a little research before you accuse people of dishonesty. You also seem to resent some of the comments left here. That's fine, disagree if you want - that's what this board is about. But if you try to stay civil you'll find we're not a bad bunch and will give you a decent debate without a bunch of name calling. I gotta go - I've got an update I need to work on. You know what Chris, you can kiss my white ass. We haven’t been truthful? Well I’m here to tell you we are ALWAYS as honest and truthful as we can possibly be about the stories we write. You, on the other hand, are very skillful at telling half-truths.

For one, Stacey was actually sentenced to 2 years in prison, but the sentence was deferred if she completed 300 hours of public service or 50 public presentations on the dangers of leaving kids in hot cars. If she completes all of the obligations the deferred judgment would be closed and she would not be permanently convicted of the felony crime. She received this sentence because her lawyers worked out a plea deal, where she plead no contest to felony child abuse.

But let’s look at a few of the facts – Normally, at the time they died, the children would have been in daycare, but Stacey pulled them out to save money so she could move to Kuwait and marry her Internet boyfriend. She fell asleep for SIX hours before she got up to look for them. We’ve already gone over other unwise things this “mom” did that led up to this tragedy. At best, Stacey was incredibly foolish, but I tend to lean towards her being self-centered to the extreme and her kids being victims of a series of her bad decisions.

As far as missing the update goes, well excuse the fuck out of me for running a one man operation at the time and missing this one. Instead of being a shmuck about it, you could have left a comment, or sent an email letting me know about the final disposition of Stacey’s case and you would have seen you update on the front page ASAP. Ask anyone here if I hold back updates just because we don’t get the result we were looking. You might just learn to hold your tongue and do a little research before you accuse people of dishonesty.

You also seem to resent some of the comments left here. That’s fine, disagree if you want – that’s what this board is about. But if you try to stay civil you’ll find we’re not a bad bunch and will give you a decent debate without a bunch of name calling.

I gotta go – I’ve got an update I need to work on.

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