Comments on: Victor Lesley Urquhart and Robbie Sebastian Wheeler

By: michelle

michelle — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 01:12:55 +0000

I believe they were seperated. One is in Perth and the other is in Albany or Bunbury. Could be wrong.

By: michelle

michelle — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 01:06:28 +0000

I actually worked with Victor at Nulsen Haven, both at the hostel and when that closed at a house in Parkwood. He often talked about an ex-partner in Sydney who was Bi-polar and I often thought that he was talking about himself. He really didn’t like wemon a lot and even asked me to not wear sleevless tops as he :hated the look of wemons arms”. We worked with disabled people, and he was very good at dealing with behavioural problems. I would probably say that I was more a friend of his then partner John. He told me things went strange after they sold their house and went to Europe. A few years prior I had gone to visit them and had been told that Victor had Lukemia, had refused to have a nurse come in to help him and was very sick. { but still using drugs.} I forgot to mention that he often used Speed and said he had done Smack but it was too hard when he was working. I found a lot of this out years later, but I did notice that he was very “hyper and didn’t like to be touched” at work. Also drank lots of Coke and got me hooked on it! I thought our Supervisor knew but she was appalled when the shit hit the fan and couldn’t understand why I never said anything to her. I was under the inpression that they were very good friends, and he wasn’t the only one who used drugs at work. We had a fwe regulars at the hostel and a couple of our relief staff were praised for being SOOO efficient. Don’t make waves cause you only get caught up in the backlash. I don’t believe Victor was ever the submissive one of his partnerships. He was dominate in the workplace and with his then partner, I think he just felt like going alomg with Robbie, and what the hey he’s got Aids so whats he got to loose. It was probably all a good laugh for him. Oh I forgot to mention that he was a Black Witch, no I’m not joking, so maybe it filled another need for him.

By: JustAGirl

JustAGirl — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 20:11:37 +0000

I wish there was a way to know if the boy was lucky enough to have stayed HIV negative. If he popped positive because of that Ahole! They need to have additional time added to thier sentences (Which I think are still FAR FAR too short!)

By: meekdageek

meekdageek — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 17:14:09 +0000

BURN IN HELL x10

By: Jalmino Lanson

Jalmino Lanson — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 09:40:41 +0000

it’s not a problem for me to be understanding. Tell your son that Blake was a pretty solid boy at the time too, heck, I can fight bloody good, but I understand ANYTHING could happen to me. You don’t worry too much, after that, he couldn’t say you worry too much.

By: Amy

Amy — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 08:08:48 +0000

NO, thankyou for being so understanding. I know the Kelmcott area very well as my childrens Aunts and Uncles raise their kids there. I used to live North of the River in Nollamara but have since moved down south between Perth and Albany.
I wrote this story for two reasons, one being that it was so close to home. You read about stuff like this happening in other places, but when it happens so close to your own town or suburb it really knocks you. I also feel VERY strongly about abuse against children. When i did the research for this story it occured to me that my own son is not much younger than Blake was when this happened. At 13, he is a big kid. Not chubby big…but solid. He does weights and is on the track team at school. He is a smart kid and i have always taught all my kids to be aware of strangers and have educated them on self protective behaviours. But he thinks he is untouchable and that i worry too much. ( its a mum thing) and it scares me to think that something like this could happen to my children.

By: Jalmino Lanson

Jalmino Lanson — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 00:20:48 +0000

Thank you. I am sorry to hear that you have gone through the same thing. Yes, that is enough to please me, as well as him. Thank you again

By: Jalmino Lanson

Jalmino Lanson — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 00:15:06 +0000

I better be right