William Robinson and Monica Hussing
For those of you who do not have children, when the doctor places your firstborn child into your arms and you look into their eyes, you are instantly filled with awe at what you have created, intense love for the little being in your arms and a strong sense of responsibility. As you stare at the slimy mass of goo that is crying and changing colors, you are instantly transformed from being a woman into being a mom. You know that you will do whatever it takes to make sure that your child is safe, secure, happy, and healthy.
The most chilling words that a parent can hear are, “mom, it hurts.” You are instantly running for the thermometer, spray disinfectant, barf bag, and slapping your hand on their forehead while machine gunning questions at the child to identify the source and severity of the pain and whether or not they have a trig test in the morning. You don’t ignore the child’s complaints and you do everything in your power to ensure that your child is on the road to recovery, or drop kick their butt out of the house to take their test if they are faking.
William Robinson and Monica Hussing must not have gotten that memo. When their 8-year old son, Willie, first complained of a growing lump on his neck with stomach pain in April 
2007, they ignored him. I guess they thought a growing mass on the neck of their child was normal, like a new accessory. Even the extended family noticed that something was wrong with Willie.
Sheila Slawinski, the boy’s aunt, first noticed that the child appeared sick at a family function. She stated that Willie did not play with the other children and complained about the lump growing on his neck and of his stomach hurting. “He cried. I called him Casper the Ghost because he was so pale” Slawinski said. She asked her sister Monica about it and this mother of the year told her it was nothing.
As the months progressed and Willie’s condition seemed to worsen, Slawinski again confronted the parents and asked them to take the child to the doctor. She was told again and again that it was on their “to do” list. Finally, Monica told her that they could not afford the medical care. Slawinski volunteered to take Willie to the hospital, but Monica told her to “stay the fuck out of my life.”
Slawinski witnessed an incident where Willie was standing at the bottom of the stairs begging to go to the bathroom. It appeared as if the boy was not physically able to climb the stairs, while Monica screamed at the boy to “get his ass up the stairs.” Slawinski became so concerned and outraged at her sister’s behavior, not only with Willie but also with his five other siblings, that she finally called the Trumble County of Child Services in Ohio to file a neglect complaint hoping that social services could force the parents to seek treatment for the child. When Slawinski complained that she felt that social services wasn’t doing enough to help Willie, “they told me their job was to keep families together,” said Slawinski.
From July 2007 until February 2008, Trumble County social workers claim to have worked with the family, yet Willie was not once seen by a doctor. Social workers who visited the home claimed that Willie appeared healthy and active. Slawinski says that either they were blind or more likely, they were shown a different child. When the agency finally decided that the family was “uncooperative” they made the final ultimatum. Marilyn Paee, a department manager at the Trumble County Department of Child Services, said that agents were working with Willie’s family until a month before the boy’s death.
“Our initial goal is always to work with the family and if they’re cooperative, then the idea is to work to resolve the issue,” said Paee. “When it became clear in January 2008 that they weren’t following through with our demands, like enrolling the kids in school and getting a doctor, we told them we’d go to court.” All the family did was pack up and move to Cleveland. Trumble County closed the investigation because the family was no longer in their jurisdiction.
On March 22, 2008 Willie collapsed and died. In the days before his death, it was reported that he had begged his parents to take him to the doctor. Willie lost the ability to walk and his bowels stopped working. In response, mommie dearest fed him laxatives. Willie knew he was extremely sick and continued to beg for a doctor. But they had refused because they claimed to have not been able to afford the medical care. However, they were able to afford to take the family dog to the vet for an $87.00 flea dip. Makes you wonder how long the little boy laid on the floor dying before they finally called someone.
Social services finally decided enough was enough. It only took the death of an innocent 8-year old boy. Cuyahoga County Department of Children and Family Services finally took the parents to court. In April 2008, a Juvenile Court Judge found the parents guilty of medical and educational neglect. But he allowed the parents to maintain custody of the surviving five siblings and ordered social services to monitor them. I mean they did such a bang up job helping Willie, I’m sure they crossed their hearts and promised to comply with seeking medical care for their children and doing a silly thing like enrolling all of the children in school.
Both mom and dad took advantage of the offered grief counseling (their beloved son had just died, you know), underwent court ordered drug treatment for marijuana abuse (OMG, they used drugs? Shocking) and took parenting classes although neither seemed to bother getting a job. According to court records, they were finally complying with social services and the family court. A little late for Willie.
An autopsy was performed on Willie. Cuyahoga County coroner Frank Miller ruled Willie’s death a homicide. He also finally answered Willie’s question of “what’s wrong with me?” Willie had Hodgkin’s Lymphoma, one of the most treatable of all childhood cancers with a 93% recovery rate when caught early and treated. Willie also had pneumonia, which was a direct result of the Hodgkin’s. Miller testified that Willie appeared gaunt, pale, extremely thin and even to a person of average intelligence, extraordinarily sick. Miller also testified that the parental neglect inflicted upon Willie was just as responsible for his death as the cancer.
Cuyahoga County prosecutor Bill Mason called the boy’s death one of the most “tragic cases of abuse” he’s ever seen. Willie would have endured excruciating pain, nausea, shortness of breath, joint pain, high fever and unexplained sweating. He would not have been able to eat or drink and the high doses of laxatives that his mother was feeding him would have caused severe upper and lower digestive cramping. He died a painful, agonizing and unnecessary death. “They never once took him to a doctor,” Mason said. “It just is not right. This kid should be alive today.”
On March 25, 2009, William Robinson and Monica Hussing were arrested and charged with involuntary manslaughter, endangering children and felonious assault charges. They are being held on $150,000 bail. Willie’s siblings are staying with relatives. Both Robinson and Hussing have pleaded not guilty. Deborah Forkas of Children and Family Services says this is one of the worst cases she has ever seen. “It’s horrific, it’s horrific, to see the death of a young child like this is heartbreaking.” And it was completely preventable. “He was the most loving and sweet little boy. I don’t know how they could have done this to him,” said Willie’s aunt, Sheila Slawinski.
It’s a shame that Willie didn’t get fleas instead. His parents might have gotten him a flea dip.
Editor’s Note: I found Monica Hussing’s MySpace page – She goes by the screen name “love to you gurl lol”. It’s set to private, but it’s still worth a look just to see this woman’s pathetic attempt to act like she cares that Willie is dead. But in spite of the huge picture of her son in the background, she can’t help giving us a peak at her true character. The greeting on her page reads (including her spelling):
“love to you gurl lol keep comeing by my house i dont crae but i got ur tag numbers and i truned them in to the cops so keep on (coming by)”
You can see Monica’s MySpace for yourself by Clicking Here
Do William Robinson and Monica Hussing Deserve Hell?
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This is horrible. That kid strongly resembles my own son so I think that makes it a bit worse. How could any parent ignore cries for help? I’m guilty of ‘waiting for the bad thing to go away’, but no one in their right minds would wait for something like this to ‘go away’. I hope they both rot and I hope that any social workers who knew go down with them.
THEY HAD $15,000 CASH TO GIVE TO BONDSMAN TO GET OUT OF JAIL.THEY NEED TO GO TO JAIL.SORRY AS PEOPLE JUST DONT KNOW ANY THING BUT SEX THEY HAVE 10 BETWEEN THE 2 OF THEM HE HAD A FEW BEFOR HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so sick of hearing about someone contacting social services and in return… they do nothing. Not only do they do nothing… they do it for months and months and months, because hey… that’s protocol! Fuck these disgusting people, and fuck those social workers who let it happen. I am just so angry. How could you not do your job when it involves helping innocent children? And how could you be such a shitty mother and father to your son? I can’t fathom it.
Tell me about it. I was turned in to the state a month ago, for putting my suicidal seven year old in a psych ward…all because she wanted to be spiteful and tell them lies, such as my husband and I hung her upside down by her ankles and spanked her nude rear.
LIES!
The worker had the audacity to ask me “Who am I to beleive? You, or your daughter?”
I said “Lady, my child has been battling with a mental illness since she was five. I’m not going to sit here and admit to things that she dreamed up just to gain attention from you, and the staff at the hospital. I love my child, and that is why I sought help for her. If you choose, you can beleive her..but obviously you have NEVER met a child that would lie to people like you because she’s angry at her parents for sending her away. Have you? I’m dying to know. My home is clean, my children have nary a mark. You still willing to believe my daughter over me? I’m NOT a bad parent. My husband and I don’t do drugs, RARELY drink, if ever. I take them to all their appointments, and they have everything that the mister and I didn’t as children. Can you sit there and honestly tell me that my children are abused? Hmnn?”
She shut up, walked out the door…and I haven’t heard from her since.
My daughter has some mood disorder, and she becomes VERY violent…it tries my patience, yes…I would NEVER EVER hit my child because I was frustrated with her.
People like these two losers for parents make me sick.
My kid would have been seen right away as soon as I noticed a lump.
Fucking social workers are becoming more cooked and in it for their own financial gain. They don’t care about the children anymore.
It’s things like that! Social services took (by force) two perfectly happy and well taken care of children away from their home in portland where they were being raised by their maternal sister, just to throw them into foster care in the state of virginia where their actual parents live. The two children were also seperated from one another. Their sister cooperated with social services, asked to be notified of court hearings, and they never kept her informed. Yet… low life crackheads and deviants are able to keep their children, abuse them, neglect them, and even kill them, ’cause socials services “keeps families together”. Excuse me, but are they known as the “keep families together” organization or.. “child protection” services? It just makes me sick.
You are just doing the best you can for your child, a child with special needs, which is a situation some people would not be able to handle. But you do it anyway, not because you feel like you have to, but because you are her mother and you love her and would do anything for her. How other people, like the ones mentioned above can even be called moms or dads when they don’t understand that, is just wrong.
The “mother” looks simply annoyed that she has to deal with being charged. I’m sure she’s thinking how great it would be if she could just get back home, smoke some weed with an alcoholic beverage on the side while watching amusing TV shows of some sort. Perhaps it’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia or The Mighty Boosh, and fall asleep on the couch. At least that is how I feel when pulled over for speeding or forced to take traffic school. But with her, the whole letting your son slowly and painfully die then having to “face the music” as some might say is her apparently minor annoyance. Disgusting.
And I’m pretty sure most states at this point have very low rate to free health insurance set up for kids. Plus if she was so concerned about money perhaps she should have cut back on the marijuana. She is also most likely one of those morons that drops $100 or more a month on such a necessity as cable TV then whines she’s poor. This bitch was also probably glugging the booze and shoving fast food down her face as well. Someone ought to expose her to radiation and let her ride it out a year, then hit her in the head with a cinder block. I don’t know why this one story upset me so much.
These two assholes didn’t even have jobs, so they definitely had the advantage of being covered by medicaid. They could have taken their son to the doctor and paid little to nothing I am sure.
As much as I agree with what you have said, I’d just like to throw in that the father is equally to blame. She is a bitch he is an asshole. They were both responsible for his care and they are both responsible for his death.
The picture you have up of this little boy breaks my heart. His eyes are so sad. I guess that is to be expected with what he was going through. Social services… Wish I was surprised. Great write up, btw.
Let me just say, social service agencies seem to be the same everywhere; big $$ in government funding, decent paychecks, benefits, etc., and filled with people who are more concerned about protecting their cushy jobs than protecting the children who need them. I’m sure there are the rare few who are dedicated AND frustrated and probably ostracized when they try to go the extra mile. However, they seem accountable to no one for their actions (or lack thereof) until the unspeakable happens and even then, a “slap on the wrist” seldom happens. Governments are long overdue in overhauling this pathetic “system” which advocates “keeping families together” at the expense of a precious child’s life. I mean, really, how much abuse does it take for ‘them’ to realize that some parents are just too fucked-up to for such an enormous responsibility??
Any normal parent would certainly give their life for their child, NOT sit by, watching it slowly slip away in a pot-induced denial. There’s lots of things I can’t really afford for my children either, but hell, I’ll do without to give them what they need…you know, stuff like food, shelter, clothing, healthcare!!!
These two selfish pricks could definately use a lesson in humanity and maybe one day, (me being optimistic), they will realize how truly fortunate they were to have had such a beautiful little boy in their presence. In the meantime, I pray they never breed again.
RIP Willie.
Daisy,
I couldn’t have said it any better!!
Rest in Peace Willie.
dont most states have some type of program for poor ppl to get insurance? or even if they make too much for it dont most states pay for treatment for cancer? idk maybe im just making up shit in my head, but i think it maybe true. Besides how can you ignore a big lump on the back of your childs neck… seeing it everyday… knowing that he needs to go to a dr and just fucking ignore it. Thats just crazy. If it was me id sell everything i owned to make sure my kids were ok….
i just want to go to bed and cry now.
As most stories here do, this one teared me up something awful. I can’t imagine how any mother could just watch their child grow sicker by the day and do nothing about it except berate the child as if it’s their fault. If my child even gets something as minor as a bug bite (we live in the country), I’m monitoring it until it goes away to watch for allergic reactions or something. I thought that is just what mothers do. It part of that eternal biological urge to protect our young at all costs.
Very well written…. although I did throw up in my mouth a little, but all in all, very well written. As for these parents… wow. I wish the parents could go through the pain that Willie went through. I say that social services is just as responsible as the parents, and they need to be held accountable and charged with murder.
okay to all who dont know anything about whats going on you all need to stop.I’m Willies big sister and was there all of his life I know what went on at our house and we all were taking care of including Willie.Whenever he wanted something he got so if he would’ve ever cried about pains or anything we would have done anything in the world to help him.My brother did have a lump in his neck but children services checked it out and told us that it was simply a swollen gland.We have papers from children services stating that my little broter’s health problems were resolved.The lump would come up one day and go down the next so before you tsalk stuff and down my mom and step-dad know the truth about went on.I thought the law says you are innocent until prven guilty what the hell happend to that?All you people out the are listening to my aunt,Sheila Slawinski,she didnt even know my brother she seen him maybe 6 times his whole life and went like a whole year before he died and didnt even see him and as far as anyone keeping her from us thats completly a lie we dont and will never want to see her again…so quit talking shit until you know the whole stort
I am sorry for your loss, Lillian. And I know that you want to believe that your mother did everything she could. But the sad truth is that your brother did not have to die. A social worker is not a medical doctor and cannot diagnose a medical condition. Pediatric Hodgkin’s is one of the most curable childhood cancers. Even if caught in second stage, Hodgkin’s has a more than 50% cure rate. Had your brother seen a doctor, a real licensed medical doctor, he would probably be alive today. I can understand your anger and if it makes you feel better to scream at me, and wish horrible things to befall me, go ahead. But look at the facts for yourself. Look at the info on the web regarding child Hodgkin’s. Understand that a lot of adults, made horrific mistakes in judgement regarding your brother. But learn the facts for yourself and then make a decision. Adults are not always right and people in authority often make mistakes.
And everyone else – back off of Lillian. Let’s let give her some respect because of her age and the fact that she is dealing with things that no teenager should have to. Let her rant.
O.K. YOUR PARENTS HAD NO MONEY TO TAKE HIM TO DOCTOR BUT SOME ONE CAME UP WITH 15,000 CASH TO LOSE TO A BONDSMAN IN A MONTHS TIME. SHOULD HAVE SPENT ON COUNCIL .BECAUE THEY HAD MONEY FOR DRUGS AND $15,000 CASH TO GET OUT OF JAIL JUST PUT THEM IN JAIL AND THROW AWAY THE KEY.AND IF THEY GET SICK DONT TREAT THEM. THEY MAKE ME SICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lillian, it’s time someone told you the truth, because up until now, your parent have been feeding you a line of garbage. For instance, you say, “My brother did have a lump in his neck but children services checked it out and told us that it was simply a swollen gland.” First off, that makes no sense at all, because it’s neither their job to make medical diagnosis nor are they even remotely qualified to do so. I’m sure that your Mom and Dad told you that story, isn’t that so? If you have papers stating that Willie’s heath problems were resolved, then they are fakes, because without seeing a doctor there is no way to know that, and since he died from his cancer, it’s obviously not true.
Someday when you’re older and away from your parents influence, your eyes will be opened and you’ll see the truth for yourself. Until then, I suggest you stay away from sites like this. People like us are only interested in facts, and we rarely are fooled by the fairy tales that guilty people tell. You love your parents, and you want to believe the best about them – that’s commendable – but be prepared for a not so happy ending to an already sad, sad story.
Lillian:
I will NOT back off. I don’t care how old you are! If you aren’t OLD ENOUGH to know that a lump on your neck and pain/sweats etc is NOT NORMAL and that your brother was a sick sick little boy the you have no business posting on the web. Don’t show off your ignorance! DONT YOU KNOW THAT IT COULD HAVE BEEN YOU?!!! Or do you think your parents love you more so they would have taken you to the Doctor? Shit child, what they did was wrong! You will totally know that some day when you have kids of your own!
By the way, in case you didn’t know, WELFARE BENEFITS and MEDICAL are for people who cant afford the doctor. They also have low cost clinics which charge on a SLIDING SCALE.
If you are too young to understand that, it means that your parents either are just plain stupid, or simply cared more about themselves than their kids. Think about it! I grew up with no medical care, none at all, NO DENTIST, NOTHING! Yet I’m fairly sure that as big of a loser as my mom was (no drugs though haha), had I come up with a lump on my neck and became unable to use the restroom, that sorry woman would have gotten me to a doctor.
Oh, and if you haven’t figured out that CPS (“child services” to you) is a crock of shit for one, and for two ARE NOT DOCTORS AND CANT TELL YOUR ASS FROM YOUR HEAD, then you are just screwed. I don’t have to hear shit from your “aunt who doesn’t know better” or anything.
By the way Lillian, I do understand that you are sad that your brother is dead and that those are your parents but that DOES NOT CHANGE WHAT HAPPENED. What happened is that they failed in their duties to protect their family by sheer negligence and that CPS sucks. I do hope that things get better for you, but it is likely that they will be punished by the law. This may be cold and blunt to say to a young person but we all had to get our dose of reality at some point, and I get sick of patronizing the younger generation saying “there, there” when it does NOTHING to help them other than give them a short dose of comfort placebo style….
HAHA IT FIGURES! My mom is from Cleveland! ROFL
I see you spell just as gud as ure inbreeded pice of shit momma, you uneducated lying little snot. I tend to believe your aunt before a piece of shit mother and step father you have. the could care less that one child is sick and the other ones do not attend school, as it shows in your spelling . your mama looks like a worn out hag on her myspace, she also looks like a alcoholic. from the two pictures of YOUR baby brother, anyone with half a brain could see how sick he was. so shut the hell up and let your mama and step daddy come on here and stick up for their own slimy asses. oh they can’t huh, ain’t they in jail?
This is just sad! I will never understand how any mother can treat her child that way.. And wtf is up with them having internet (her myspace) but they couldn’t take him to the hospital!
Just wondering if you all had seen the latest article out about a 7 year olf boy, who was shot for trespassing? The names of the couple who shot him are Gayle and Sheila Muhs
Yes, thanks for the tip Electra, I was just reading it. The little boy died about an hour ago. They have a sign in front of their house that reads, “Trespassers will be shot. Survivors will be reshot!! Smile I will.” What a pair of fucking red necks. I’m thinking of writing them up, unless someone else want to take this one.
My God, I just read that story on the Muhs…
WHAT AWEFUL REDNECK SCUM! How can you fire on people with kids just trying to go to the bathroom! =( You could say it was a mistake but thats definitely a little trigger happy all things considered
Hmmm, i just read that one myself. The 7 yr old boy is dead, the 5 yr old girl suffered injuries to the elbow, the 30 yr old family friend is in a serious condition in hospital with a head wound, and the father suffered a gun shot wound to the shoulder.
Now im all for protecting my property…but against a 7 and 5 yr old??? What were they gonna do? The Muhs are definately candidates for hell. WHat sort of people open fire on a couple of kids?
I just read the article about those two tweeker rednecks. The booking photos are scary. It looks like the husband has some abscess protruding from his cheek. Eeew. They look tore back for being in their forties, that is for sure.
I dont understand what these rednecks have that they think is so valuable that they would wontonly shoot someone just for coming onto their property. I mean, do they really think that their tv guide collection, year supply of gpc’s, and 1982 Chevy is all that?
Poor kid, I hope these rednecks are locked up for a long time. It is scary when you think about the actual people who take advantage of the gun laws. Because it sure as hell seems that the only ones who regularly practice their constitutional right to bear arms have zero common sense. And zero teeth.
No offense to NRA members who are not lacking in those two above mentioned areas.
They were trying to protect their brains from absorbing socialist propoganda.
you guys dont know anything i was with him everyday there wasnt any warning signs of him being sick.My brother and I played all the time he never once complained about anything and the spot on his neck wasnt hardly noticeable we tried for welfare and everytime we did we were denied im sick of people on here talk all kinds of shit and not knowing a thing.My life is hard enough and fore you people getting on here talking about shit that is none of your buisness.My mom and step dad didnt give my brother cancer so shut the hell up.and my mom and them dont have me brain washed into thinking shit so back the fuck up and stop talking shit.I dont care if you back down or not but my mom and step dad are already living a life fulll of hell cause you ignorant assholes.they didnt do nothing but love y brother and if thats against the law then lock us all up and throw away the damn key.All you people out there talking your shit will someday know the truth about whats going onj so please just stop all this its heartbreaking enough to put up with what i have to so just fucking stop
Number one lillian: Stop cussing so much. It makes you come across as a foul mouthed little brat. Nothing more nothing less.
Number two: While yor parents did not “give Willie cancer” they didnt help him either.
Number three: Please dont tell us that your brother was the exception to the rule and exhibited no symptoms at all. If your parents were too stoned to notice anything was wrong then thats not our fault.
Number four: We “ignorant assholes” are not in anyway to blame for whatever it is your parents are going through. THEY FAILED. Not us. THEM!! If they at any stage cared enogh to get help for Willie, he would be alive and well today. And as for welfare saying it was just glands….how fucking stupid are your parents??? A mother KNOWS when something is not right. Its called ‘instinct.’
Number five: Noone sent you a written invitation to come and visit us here. We dont really care if you post or not. So please, if this site upsets ou so much, go visit ” enablers.com” or some other site that will piss in your pocket and tell you that your parents are victims in this. But you wont get that here.
yeah well you can look at myspace and see all the atuff you want to see search lillian hussing and you can see how hurt we are my parents arent the best but im sure you all have made mistakes
I make mistakes all the time. I forgot to send my girl in her regular clothes for picture day a few weeks ago (though I had just spent 100 bucks on regular pics)… and I’m as good at procrastinating as anyone, but my daughter is still alive and healthy, as are my pets, my husband and most of my houseplants. Gosh, amazing how responsibility works.
Lillian, I’m going to do you a big favor. From now on I’m going to delete any comments that you make to this site. It’s not because you’re doing anything wrong, but because I feel I have to save you from yourself. Trust me when I tell you that everyone who has replied to you so far has been remarkably considerate of your feelings and has gone very easy on you, but I’m afraid that there are people out there who won’t bother to consider your age or what you’ve already had to endure. The world can be a very cruel place, and I’m not going to be responsible for making a bad situation worse. Our story on your parents was fair and accurate, I made sure of that myself, but I have no control over what other people say and do.
Lillian, I am a mother who is not perfect by any means. And I do not have MD after my name although I can claim a bunch of other letters granted to me by institutions of higher learning. I am not speaking to you as a professional, but as a mom. You are young, very young. I know that you desperately need to believe that your parents were not responsible for your brothers death, that he died from cancer not neglect. But the truth is your parents are responsible for his death because they did not seek out medical care for him. One day, if you are blessed with having children you may understand the responsibility that goes with being a parent. Parents have a responsibility to ensure the safety, security, health and education of their children. That is what being a parent is. Being a parent means listening to your instincts no matter what a professional is telling you. When your instincts tell you that something is wrong with your child, you do everything in your power to find out and hopefully resolve the problem. You do not sit back and do nothing. You do not ignore obvious signs of physical illness. Some parents, due to religious beliefs, choose not to treat illnesses. They believe that their faith alone will cure their child if that is God’s will. From everything that I read, this was not the case. Your parents willfully chose to ignore an obvious sign that there was something wrong – a growth on the neck, complaints of nausea, weight loss, hot flashes and pain. At best, they are suffering from denial. At worst, they were negligent and should be held responsible. I cannot stress the importance for you to learn about Hodgkin’s. This is a hereditary disease and could affect you, your surviving siblings or your children. Please, life goes on. Live your life. Go to school. Grow up, fall in love and have your family. I wish you well.
Of course lillian. Your right. I am not perfect and i hae made plenty of mistakes in my life. But none of those misakes resulted in any of my children dying a slow and agonizing death. One day, if/when you have a child of your own, you will understand ( hopefully) that the neglect shown by your parents is not what constitutes a “mistake.”
Please stop posting here, its for your own good. You will only end up hurting more than you already are.
Lillian:
I’d be willing to bet I’m at least 10 years older than you. And I’ve seen some shit. i’ve sat through the goddamned line in the Welfare office trying to get Medi-Cal. In fact, I’ve sat through the goddamned lines and did all the paperwork to get my kid into Healthy Families or whatever when she was little and I was broke.
I’ve seen what happens when “nothing” becomes something. And because of that, I take MY child to see the doctor for any little thing. BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY.
So I CAN talk shit, because my shit happens to be somewhat informed. Especially these days when there is programs for every goddamned broke person in the world, ok? DUMBASS IT COULD HAVE BEEN YOU!!!!!! You get it? Or are you too busy crying that your parents are up shit creek without a paddle? They may have just been too dumb to know the kiddie was sick, but guess what?! THAT IS NOT AN EXCUSE!
There is no “fact” that makes it makes it ok that your bro died due to lack of medical care. NOT ONE! Like I said, grow up, have a kid of your own and see if you still see it that way. If you do: I feel sorry for your kids and hope to god they don’t get cancer, because they will be fucked. All of us are here saying that your brother should NOT have died and that your parents FAILED in their duty to protect him. And that, my friend, is a dead on FACT.
Grow the fuck up.
Lillian, please, please stay away from sites like this. I know you are angry. I know you are hurt. I know you want to lash out. But posting here cannot help you. As Max said, we only care about facts. And the fact is, autopsy reports do not lie. Please do not subject yourself to getting into a battle of words with adults, especially here. You cannot win.
They say that the apple does not fall far from the tree. I think that after reading the words from the fruit of these ignorant, self-centered parents, I think it must be true.
I don’t think Lillian should go away. I think that it’s important that she see how normal people react to the kind of dysfunction that she is obviously being raised in. She needs to hear, over and over again that this is NOT COOL, that it is NOT the way that children should be raised. If she does not hear it over and over while she is still developing, she will end up as ignorant and self-centered as her parents, and perpetuate the cycle. There is a small chance that we can reach her, and at least plant the seed of doubt in her mind.
Lillian – listen to me. I have NO REASON to hate your parents or to lie about them, do I? I don’t even know them. Probably no one on this site knows them. What we do know is that your brother is dead, and we care about that. We CARE about you too. It may not make sense to you, but go to dictionary.com and look up the word altruism. There are lots of people who really do care about people who are not in our own family, who we don’t even know. So, why would we – who have no reason to hate your parents, all say the same thing? Because of EXPERIENCE honey. We have seen people like your parents blame everyone in the world except themselves for bad things. We have even seen family members who were raised in these kinds of homes, who grow up thinking that it is NORMAL to blame everyone else. And we even know that people who grow up this way are angry and ignorant.
We don’t want you to end up angry and ignorant. Talk to a counselor at school. PLEASE? seriously, you can break free and have a good life. I promise you.
Dear Lillian.
You are so full of shit.
That peice of shit mother and step father of yours deserve to rot in hell, because that is where negligent parents who don’t give a fuck about their children go.
Do not feed me that line about “the tumor would go up and down” DUMBASS!!!! Kid has a tumor on the neck, YOU TAKE THEM TO THE DOCTOR IMMEDIATELY!
Don’t care if you have medical or not.
That child needed seen ASAP (for your degenerate mind ASAP stands for as soon as possible.)
We know your parents didn’t give him cancer, nimrod. It’s not a contaigious disease.
Unlike you, we have common sense.
We also know when is the appropriate time to take our children to the doctor…namely when the child takes on a pale color…THAT SHOULD BE A FUCKING CLUE THAT HE NEEDS MEDICAL ATTENTION.
How about…weight loss? Does that ring a bell?
Pay attention to your other siblings. That kind of cancer is hereditary, and it’s possible that someone else may develop it.
So…if another sister/brother grows a knot on his neck..use your halfa brain cell, and take the child to the doc..because your parents won’t be able to…behind bars.
Sorry about what you are going through right now kiddo. I’m sure it really blows with losing your little brother and your parents. As adults/parents we have a level of responsibility to our children to make sure they are loved, and cared for and provided with education, health care, food and a safe home. Willie did not get all of this or he would not be dead. A person don’t just die from a cureable disease unless you neglect it. You’re going to be angry at everyone right now, and blame everyone except your parents because children are loyal.. to a fault. Children are loyal to their parents even if they are the abuser and it is not expected you would be any diffrent. However, you will figure it out… we all do.
Oh my. The first photo of Willie looks scarily like my youngest son.
How can anyone NOT seek madical care for their child? Shit, im down the emergency room so often getting injuries seen to ( my boys are full on kids) that i swear they must know my name off by heart now. Most of the time, it turns out to be merely a sprain, but on the off chance that something is broken, i get i checked anyway.
They get a cold and im off to the doctors. Anything worse than a cold and im in a bit of a panic. Yes, im parinod about anything happenning to my kids. But only because i love them.
How did they show such indiffrence to their childs suffering??? Too busy toking on a bong maybe???
Now dont even get me started on social services!!! Their job is to “keep families together”???Well shit!!! I must be deluded cause i thought they were there to protect children. Not help displaced families cover up their abuse.
Lillian, Why are you even on a site like this.. Everyone here is not going to clap and say your parents are good parents.. Obviously they are not.. I know you are hurting, but being on a site like this and complaining about us bitching about your parents not seeking medical help for your brother, which killed him, it’s not doing any good for you. You won’t change our minds..
Facts are facts. If your parents had done what they were supposed to do, your brother would not be dead… Your brother’s life was taken so you could have internet, and your dog could be flea dipped. Yeah, that’s good parenting.
WTF? Drug treatment for marijuana? ROFL.
Next. It is a parent’s responsibility to take their child to the Doctor. Every child in this country is eligible for free medical care. If those two were too loaded to even do that, then they should have not been parents to begin with. Just plain ignorant.
Sheez.
And I feel bad when I am late on my cat’s physical by a couple of days….
“As you stare at the slimy mass of goo that is crying and changing colors, you are instantly transformed from being a woman into being a mom.”
Oh my God. What a cliché. Either you don’t have children, or you have immediately felt a mom but but you totally don’t realize that perfectly normal women might not have the same experience as you. Many women feel nothing for their offspring at first, they have to build a relationship slowly, and they generally feel terrible about it because the myth of maternal instinct makes them feel like they “should” feel something extremely strong for their baby immediately after delivery. Not falling in love at first sight with your child has nothing to do with becoming an abusive parent, let alone a murderer.
ROFL. Me? Don’t have children? Right now I’m laughing so hard I’m crying. No children. That’s good. I sure as hell did not make a jalapeno pancake with grape jelly for breakfast this morning, but I suffered through a couple of bites. Washed it down with coffee that had chocolate milk and if I am not mistaken, a little bit of lemon juice because the one didn’t know if I took cream in my coffee or lemon juice. And then THANKED THEM. No kids. HAHAHAHAHAHA
One of the first things they do when your child is sick is sit you down with the hospital social worker. They go over all resources available and make sure you get the help you need. The social worker will also fill out the mountain of paperwork. Unlike CPS, the hospital personnel work as a team to make sure your child is well taken care of. No child is EVER denied life saving treatment. Unfortunatly, I know this from experience. It about killed me watching my little girl go through the chemo. I can’t imagine how anyone could sit by and watch their child die and not care enough to get him help.
Damn, Happy Mother’s Day. That’s unbelievable, or would be if I didn’t read this site every day. That poor kid.
W-T-F!!!! Gah, give me custody of all these kids and I will take care of them!!! What is wrong with these assholes? I mean, there’s National Holidays for almost anything. Happy Mother’s Day, btw! Is there a National Holiday for Burn in hell for all of these peons? I mean or atleast a day where you can chant BURN BABY BURN to all these scumbags to there face all day long w/ the pictures of their victims dangling in front of there very eyeballs? Kids are so helpless & look to their parents or gaurdians to protect them & in this case – lil miss mamma and poppa failed to do so. No sympathy for these guys.
Lillian honey – sorry for your loss of your dear brother Willie – RIP now sweet angel! But girl, this is the time now where you have to face the facts of reality. This is your life – your parents failed and I’m sorry that it’s hard for you to take in. I know that you’re in denial and want that fairy tale of your parents being the heros that they are supposed to be. BUT they WEREN’T! It hurts and it will – it’s normal. Get off this site if you don’t want to read the non-sugar-coated facts of life & read of the evil in this world. I will conclude with this tho’ – The sooner you deal with the facts of life, the sooner you will stop being slapped in the face with them.
Lillian,
(I must admit that when I see these post from relatives of the offenders I think TROLL – but what the hell … let’s assume you are who you say you are).
All other things considered … you CAN’T get away from the fact that your mum & step-father have been charged in relation to Willie’s death.
The police/DA have INVESTIGATED everything, including your parent’s explanations and have still charged them.
Now maybe we are misinformed and the stuff that is up on this site is all BS (personally I have been lurking here for quite some time and I have a lot of confidence in the research of our authors) … but the people ON THE SCENE with ALL THE INFORMATION have deemed it appropriate to initiate criminal proceedings against your parents because of their neglect.
Dear, dear Lillian: I hear you. I know where you’re coming from. I had parents (and step-parents) who will never, ever, win an award for any outstanding attributes in child rearing. But they were all I had and all I knew. It’s understandable, in that regard, that you would feel compelled to speak in defence of your parents. However, within the realm of what is factual, logical and responsible, your parents failed on all counts and it cost your brother his life.
As Alanna stated, perhaps the coin will drop for you, if/when you have a child of your own. It did for me. And you will have a choice, as did I, to repeat history or learn from it. I chose the latter and I hope, sincerely, that with time and wisdom, you will do the same.
Someone already asked this question, but I will ask again. Note: I think the parents are scum and deserve to die, along with the various Child Services organizations…but I digress.
If two parents work, but don’t have any health insurance, how would they pay for medical treatment for themselves and/or their children? Do States have certain facilities for people who cannot afford to pay for medical care? If so, why have Health Insurance at all, if one can avail themselves of State funding? Not an American, so was curious.
To answer your question, yes and no, Steve. There are low cost clinics, several of them in the larger cities, where they charge on a sliding scale. When I was a teen and had an “Uh Oh” moment or two, I would go there, and they would provide me with a little card with my information on it. Then I could go there and meet with doctors and nurses who would help. They charge on a sliding scale, which is to say that if you have no job and no money, the services are generally free. Hospitals as well CANNOT turn away someone due to lack of insurance. So if you are really sick and go to the Emergency Room, they will see you…. and you’ll get a big bill, but FIRST you get to talk to the Welfare/Medi-Cal Agents who will explain the bill to you and sign you up for Medi-Cal, which will generally retroactively pay the bill.
“…why have Health Insurance at all…?” Easy answer, Steve. If you’ve ever sat through the lines in the Doctor’s office of one of the providers that takes Medi-Cal, be prepared to sit there forever, have usually bad customer service, be rushed through your appointment, and get a Dr and/or Nurse whose English you can’t understand. Not that it can be any better with real insurance xD Also,again, those clinics charge on a sliding scale, and Medi-Cal has income guidelines. If you aren’t pretty damned broke, they won’t take you. EVEN STILL, to kill Lillian’s excuse for her parents, they have various Healthy Kid programs,which give kids health insurance for very very cheap. Hope that answered your question ;)
This one is actually simple.
Step 1: Take child to the Emergency room where all states require that the child at the least be seen,
Step 2: contact St. Jude Children’s hospital http://www.stjude.org/about with the diagnosis.
All patients accepted for treatment at St. Jude are treated without regard to the family’s ability to pay.
Step 3: move into Ronald McDonald House with your family, right next door to the Hospital providing the care
http://rmhc.org/who-we-are/
Step 4: work every second of every day for the few moments you spend with your sick child until that child is well
Step 4 should be roughly 99.999% of your time.
Pretty simple stuff when it is broken down. Even a moron can find basic medical care for their child in this country. It is interesting to me how easily asshole parents like this can locate cash benefits, low-cost housing, food stamps, and whatever else benefits them without any issues.
But when it comes to ensuring that their child has medical attention? Then they play dumb. I see it everyday in my line of work. There is no excuse for it in the least.
Part of my intake is to ask two questions. One, how much SSI does your child receive per month and two, when was the last time your child has a physical. You would be amazed at how many people can answer the first question down to the penny amount, but cannot, for the life of them recall the last time their child has been to the Doctor. And these people GET free medical care.
This is a case of negligence, plain and simple.
Steve, our system is ass backwards. Have you seen “Sicko”? That will explain it all.
Granted, there are individuals who do use the state and federal benefits when they have a serious need-while they are getting back on their feet, but that seems to be the minority imho.
Personally, as a working female, I can see why women in this state (California) reason that they are better off taking presumptive eligibility with medi cal when pregnant instead of paying 300.00+ per month (1000+ for a PPO) through their jobs while working throughout their pregnancy to receive the very same care. If you are not wealthy, its a no brainer…..with private insurance, you get a better hospital with your own room and an ocean view in Cali, that is about it.
BTW, I pay for my benefits and still have to wait alongside people who are on medi-cal that get to see my Doctor…..
IMO Tricare is no better than Medi-Cal. I’ve had Tricare refuse to pay for Ultrasounds haha. And some of the doctors are unscrupulous… I remember the Medi-Cal office waits, and with the Tricare doctor I had in California, the waits were LONGER, the office staff RUDER, and the visits shorter and did not cover my concerns. Gotta love the doctors office. ;D
Lillian:
Your parents are complete idiots. Get away from them as soon as possible. Watch over your brothers and sisters so your idiot parents don’t kill them too. Anyone who stands around and watches a kid die from cancer should be shot in the head. Don’t give me that crap that he just keeled over one day – that’s a lie. Also, this has nothing to do with pot use. I smoked more pot than Cheech and Chong and I never “forgot” to take my kids to the doctor. At one point the ER staff at the hospital knew my son on a first name basis. If your aunt, who was only around every once and a while, could see that your brother was sick, then it was common knowledge and your parents are – YES – fucking idiots who managed to kill him through sheer laziness and stupidity.
I agree. Smoking marijuana does not make people stupid. This case is just a prime example of people who were plain stupid out the gate that happened to get loaded.
And Lillian, when you realize what fucktards your parents are, and you will one day, you will understand the absolute negligence and laziness of their actions which invariably cost the life of your brother. If you think it is heartbreaking now, wait a couple of years when it hits you. This tragedy did not have to happen.
Good luck and I also hope that you can get as far away from your parents as possible.
You should add the child protection services in this going to hell thing because they are as guitly if not even more (given their position) of letting the child die …tabarnak! I can’t believe it they JUST had to take him to the DR. and he would of still been ALIVE!!
If they didn’t care about him they could have just dropped him off in front of Gayle and Sheila Muhs’ house. Would have been real quick and he wouldn’t have had to suffer! Or maybe we should just take the parents out there.
God I haven’t commented on here in forever!
Yeah, what’s up with that Lind SAY? How’ve you been?
Been Good – Work is on Lock down ;-) That’s why I haven’t been posting but trust – I check daily!
what a stupid bitch…I hope she wakes up one day and realizes what she’s done
I like so totally agree tha “keep families together” is of the utmost importance, so I’ll gladly use a pipewrench and reunite the grieving parents with their child.
its child welfare services, what do you expect? for them to actually CARE about these kids? all these child protective agencies need revamping, and all the losers who allow children to fall threw the cracks should be thrown in jail…
Too bad these parents didn’t have to endure what their child did and have to suffer with his pain. I have two children myself, one of which has medical issues and there is not a day that goes by that I don’t wish I could take his pain away so he didn’t have to suffer. But I guess that is what makes me different from these “parents”…I care about my children. I don’t think hell is bad enough for them unless their hell consisted of the constant pain their child was in with no relief. BTW, can I vote for hell more than once???
I’m with you, Tina. I find myself wanting to repeatedly press the Yes button until I just can’t anymore. Maybe we should have phone voting, like American Idol so we can just keep voting for the ones we think are the most despicable.
Next top “scum of the earth”??? Sounds like a very interesting show to me!! LOL
wtf i cant belive people like this live where i do!!
i thought people around here had a little more sense.
i mean how can you not see it when you own kid has cancer!!!
and i think we can all agreed child services does jack crap for these kids.
i mean hell at least cops make an effort around here!
The people who are responsible for this is the Child Social Services.
They are even more corrupted than the parents.
WRONG!
CPS is not responsible for this. The PARENTS are responsible. CPS is an ineffective organization that is designed to intervene when parents are too fucked up to take care of the spawn they produced. CPS is just there to try and clean up the fucktard parent’s messes.
CPS sucks sometimes. But they suck because some individuals do not do their jobs, or they target families that don’t need intervention. CPS is bad because they have almost unlimited authority and can wield it on a whim. But you cannot blame them for the fact that these parents DELIBERATELY ignored their child’s care. The parents lied, feigned, tricked and bullshitted CPS, who sound as if they were rightfully concerned. But CPS can’t just go busting in there, tie up the parents, kidnap the kid and get him to a hospital. If they did, we would all be screaming, and rightfully so.
So, CPS’s hands are clean in this one – at least from the information we have. It’s the parents who are 100% at fault. If they are too fucking stupid and stubborn to take their sick kid to the hospital, then his blood is on their hands, and ONLY theirs.
Oh please!! The blame lies wholely with the parents. If parents were to acually do the right thing and not abuse and neglect their children, there would be no cases like this one and CPS would be unnessasary.
Yeah dude- CPS personnel were not the ones who sit and WATCHED while this kid slowly and painfully died. That was these PARENTS, who are obviously monsters. Don’t get me wrong, there was obviously ball dropping, but if I read correctly they were TRYING To make a case when the family moved away, starting the process all over again. These vile parents are the ones ultimately responsible for what happened to THEIR child.
Exactly Diana. And that is probably a large part of the reason that CPS has such problems. Can you imagine how frustrating it must be to go into social work hoping to help people, and facing scumballs like this every day? People who won’t lift a finger to help the children that THEY brought into this world. Having to follow the damned rules, and fill in all the right boxes to try and protect children who’s parents are so fucking ignorant and evil? And then, once you follow the PROCEDURES, and just about can actually help the poor kid, having the turds just pack up and laugh at you as they move away from your jurisdiction? It would be enough to crush most anyone’s spirit.
Don’t get me wrong. I really hate most everything about CPS, but I think that MOST of the people who go to work there do it to try and help. But I can’t imagine it takes long for them to become completely ice-covered.
As much as I like you Mazzi..I am going to have to disagree with you on the possibility that there are some decent Social Service workers…WRONG!!
All of them are pretty much corrupt and are only in it for financial gain.
They do nothing to better the welfare of the child…by twisting the parent’s words and making them seem to be sick and twisted freaks who get off on hurting their children (when the vast majority of the people being investigated don’t even spank…)…Yeah.
Remember…CPS workers are given a commission check for every child they place in foster care.
In my case…there was one worker who was being quite admant on my daughter being placed in foster care immediately, just because my daughter said these unspeakable things happened to her.
I’m the kind of parent that cries if I yell at my child.
So spanking them would be a hard task for me to fullfill.
I just love how these adults who were supposedly educated in psychology would take the word of a mentally unstable seven year old, who so happens to be pissed at her parents for putting her in the psych ward, over the parents, who are wiling to tell the truth.
I guess critical thinking has gone out the window and people are quick to judge one for their past transgressions.
Just because I admit to experimenting with drugs YEARS before I even got pregnant, it makes me a bad parent.
Automatically.
God..doesn’t matter I quit a year prior to becoming pregnant.
Doesn’t matter that I’m going to school for a higher education.
Doesn’t matter that my husband works his ass off in a dead-end job.
Doesn’t matter that our home is clean, and the children have nice clothes, and shoes.
Doesn’t matter that there’s food in the cupboard, and they see the doctor for every cough and sniffle.
I got paperwork yesterday in the mail..the findings report..
They made it seem like being overly attentive is a bad thing.
I wonder if those twits could explain to me how I can be just the right amount of attentive.
At least I give a rat’s ass about my children. Some people just let their kids run the streets any time of the day and not give a fuck what happens to their children.
Idiots piss me off.
Anyway…my point is,
NO..they aren’t in it for the children…they could give a fuck less. They place em in foster care, forget about them, and move on to the next family to destroy.
Hey lady,
Much as I hate to disagree with you on this one… and I really REALLY hate disagreeing with you on this one!!! I think that there are SOME good people that try to get into social worker positions. I once knew a supervisor of mine and that was her desired degree. I know for a fact that she loved children, and wanted to help. She was a real ball buster, but she had a TON and a half of common sense, and if she ever makes it into the field, she will help kids.
I know that if there is one person, there are probably a few who have tried their best to be decent people… more than likely they burn out or have to quit for the sake of their own sanity.
Trust me, I think CPS workers are a bunch of hellbound, asshole mother fucking douchebags. There were times as a child where I SHOULD have been removed (in my opinion) but wasn’t, because they don’t care, and I had to deal with a couple of them during the whole custody battle thing. One was worthless. The other, a woman, was angry at being called to my house, just livid, and said that she would notify my ex that there would be repercussions if he continued to make false stupid reports. She said that there are hundreds of other kids that NEEDED her visit and she was there with me and my healthy well cared for child just “WASTING TIME”. Anyway, just to keep open the possibility that not 100 percent of the CPS workers in the world are shitbags… maybe just 90 percent or so. ;D
I have friend who used to work for CPS. She is a great person who wanted to make a difference. But after two years of following rules set out by the beuracratic assholes and not being able to make one iota of difference she gave up and quit. She now works for a group called CAHMMS. which is a child mental health facitity, as a child counsellor. She felt she couldnt save them from the hurt but she could try and mend them in the future.
She didnt quit because she didnt care, she quit because she cared too much but had her hands tied on so many occasions and felt she was failing.
Im not saying that there are not some really big assholes working for CPS. They seem to make up for 98% of the staff. But there are those few, who really do give a damn and do great work.
Yeah..I am sorry about that..I was just venting.
I have dealt with CPS twice in the whole time that I have been a parent, and both times I haven’t had very good experiences..
I was generally referring to the ones that I have encountered..
The first time they were called, a neighbor called and said some things about me that weren’t true because I had her boyfriend arrested for stealing stuff out of my apartment…so she retaliated by calling CPS and making up some off the wall shit.
Things like..I put cigarettes out on my daughter (who was 15 months old at the time)…we didn’t even smoke inside!
Besides..a few days prior to her call, my child had seen the pediatrician…he told the worker “funny..she doesn’t have any burn marks..if she would have, I would have reported it.”
I laughed at that accusation…
Seriously…the workers around here give too much flack to the parents that don’t deserve it, and the ones that do are given a slap on the wrist. Pisses me off.
There are good people out there, but they seem to be few and far between.
And that upsets me.
I wish there were more people who were truely in it to better the dynamics of a family, and not make it worse..
But…from all these stories that i have read here…
CPS has failed soooo many children.
Prime example: Baby P, or Peter Connolly.
17 months old…was seen THREE DAYS before he died, by a CPS worker.
There is no way chocolate is dark enough to cover bruises.
Those people failed him.
You guys have only named two good people in that field…
that actually have a passion for helping children.
I don’t mean to sound rude or anything..so I apologize if you feel insulted by this post.
Hi guys – been offline mostly for the last week, with finals and moving to a new house (when it rains it pours). Anyway, just saw this, and believe me Motherof3, I understand your need to vent. I would do exactly the same in your position.
It’s the system that is fucked up though. I think there needs to be some kind of repercussions for deliberately false accusations. Stupid, ignorant people can use it to just bring some misery into an innocent person’s life – but we can’t really blame CPS workers for that.
Plus, I think I wrote something last week that explained why innocent parents are often hardest hit – because they don’t know how to “play the game”. These welfare mama’s know the rules better than the workers do, and they don’t worry about it. If the heat gets too much, they just hand over the kids, take the required classes and get the kids back – a free vacation – wooohooo.
For decent parents, there are two reactions – first OUTRAGE that these people DARE to interfere with their family, when they are not harming their children, and second a rebelliousness to this interference. Both of these attitudes MUST piss off the frazzled caseworkers. But both attitudes are absolutely normal for good responsible parents. I guarantee you that if a CPS worker had ever showed up at my door, I would have gone ballistic.
So – maybe whet we need is sensitivity training for CPS workers on how to respond to angry families. Rather than letting the CPS person respond in frustration and anger, maybe they need to be screened and trained how to diffuse the situation, get the information they need and then get the fuck out.
Seriously, if one did show up at my door, and I went ape shit, but they said “look, ma’am – I don’t believe there is really a problem, but we have to investigate for the children’s sake, I am really sorry for the intrusion, I know this is embarrassing and insulting, yadda yadda yadda, I would probably calm down rather quickly, and say – “yeah.. OK.. I guess so”.
Still, it would be nice if whatever ignorant fucker who sent them got their ass prosecuted for harassment.
william robinson and monica hussing, there is a special place in hell waiting for the two of you. what you did, or didn’t do for your son, is absolutely DISGUSTING and i can only HOPE and PRAY that you two wastes of life get whats coming to you.
i hope monica and william get realll old and decrepid one day, and i hope their other kids leave them to suffer from bed sores and shitting on themselves, etc. i hope they are never fed or never breathe fresh air.. most of all, i hope they die just a miserably as the death they condenmed their beautiful son to. rot in pieces you sick f*cks! man, i WISH i lived in ohio right now…
There should have been something done. That’s all i can say, or I can say CPS should learn from this mistake, but i guess they will never learn.
The flea dip comment is somewhat disingenuous. $87 in healthcare might cover, MAYBE, a blood test. Insured, their son’s treatment would have been more likely $8700. Uninsured? How about $87000?
That is still no excuse for not taking their son to see a doctor, but the relative costs of things should be put in perspective. Healthcare is outrageously expensive in the US.
Additionally, if they truely could not afford healthcare, if they took the kid in they might have ultimately been forced into bankruptcy and been unable to care for their other kids which would then be taken by the state thus destroy the family. By letting their kid die, as cruel as that was, they at least get to keep their other kids.
But that is a cold calculation and the conclusion is likely wrong anyway. These parents were simply lazy, negligent putzes. CPS too.
87 dollars would have paid the majority of the Urgent Care bill necessary to see a doctor. Then that same doctor would have said: “We need to test for lymphoma”
The parents then say: “We can’t afford that”
to which the Doctor responds, “You may be eligible for SCHIPS”
http://jfs.ohio.gov/ohp/bcps/schip/ but even if you are not eligible, Children and adults in this state are eligible for emergency medical care regardless of a patient’s ability to pay.
You have to fill out forms, you may have to deal with hospital bill collectors, you may have to struggle to dot all of the i’s and cross all of the T’s, but as I said above, the real steps are as simple as an emergency room, followed by a call to St. Jude’s. Some Americans pay very large amounts of money into the tax system and I hope few would grumble about the fraction of a penny on the dollar they pay to provide this particular social welfare to a young boy with Cancer.
Forced into bankruptcy? The story clearly says that neither of them have a job. They most likely didn’t own their house either, since they were able to just move when the pressure got too great. Why would they worry about dramatic medical bills? They wouldn’t. They would almost certainly qualify for medicaid if the kid was sick. As far as paying for the initial treatment? Everyone knows that no ER can refuse treatment for sick or injured people. period.
This was not about money. It was about a lack of care or motivation for their kid. And the fact that they could cough up $87 bucks to get care for the dog is just a slap in the face. Of course it would not have paid for the kids care, but it serves to show their priorities. A sick kid? ignore him. A flea-ridden dog? That could cause THEM discomfort from flea bites – so it needed to be dealt with.
Look, I am not with the majority when it comes to health care. I am not a fan of invasive treatments, and I support the individual’s right to refuse treatment, even for their children, for moral reasons, and yes – even if it means that they or the child will die. But I do NOT support ignoring the child. There is no religion that I know of that will not allow a diagnosis to be made. And none that I know of that will not allow certain types of treatments and certainly none that refuse pain treatments at the end. These were not parents with a moral dilemma, they were neglectful, or possibly even abusive. Fucktards.
“By letting their kid die, as cruel as that was, they at least get to keep their other kids.”
wow, seriously? you really think they’re going to get to keep their other kids? They’re being charged with KILLING one of their kids and you think the rest of them will just be handed back? I don’t think so. And I’m sorry, but if you’re playing favorites with your kids to the point where you chose which ones live and die, then maybe you shouldn’t have kids. Just maybe.
my kid gets a sore throat and we are on our way to the DR. I dont care how much it costs…… could be swine flu. I like my child ALOT and I dont have back ups.. maybe thats what Lillians parents were thinking…….. they had replacements . Some people dont deserve drivers licenses either… but they get em… Alot of stupid, crazy people in this world. People who intend on becoming parents should be aware that they MUST teach their child to function in NORMAL society.. obey the 10 commandments and all that. (no stealing, no killing etc…) Hey the big man didnt write those rules for nothin…………..
I just want to say that they can afford to get themselves out of jail…there is no reason that they couldn’t take that boy to the doctor. ALSO, there are government medical programs specifically designed to help kids without insurance. Too lazy to fill out the paperwork, I guess. At least she’s still keeping up on her myspace, she was logged on 2 days ago….and her mood is loved. Lucky her, I bet her son never could have put that as his mood. They both deserve hell…and a long time in jail first.
These are not parents, these are two people with stunted brains that don’t see the need to bother with any possible personal responsibility in life. For example, see the large amount of children between the two. Why bother with birth control? That would cost some money I won’t be able to spend on something fun, and would take some forethought, which I lack the ability to do.
Willie’s physical complaints were a pain in their ass. “Stop whining!” How often do you think this kid heard that one? They didn’t take him to the doctor because a)it wasn’t fun, b)it would take some forethought to schedule an appointment or drive him, and c)they just didn’t feel like it.
They lack the ability to empathize with someone else’s pain, but I’m sure they are well in touch with their own needs, feelings, and desires. People that are this way often don’t manage well in the world of adult responsibility, but they do tend to enjoy animals.
Which may explain why a flea dip was on the agenda, but doing something for the whining, sniveling, pain in the ass kid was not.
They will NEVER feel remorse for what Willie went through because they had no remorse for what he was going through while still alive.
Others here have nailed it on the head, what they will be greiveously upset about is their inability to have others “stay the f out of my life” from here on out.
Mr. and Mrs. Wastes of Space. The other children will be lucky if their lives are mediocre and crime-free. They will have lived in a family where they watched a fellow sibling suffer and die.
This is just heartbreaking! My son turned 9 a few days ago, and my daughter is 7. I can’t stand to see them suffer in any way. The thing that really galls me is how the parents added to this boy’s suffering. On top of having cancer, being weak and in pain, his parents denied anything was wrong with him. That is mental cruelty imo. Despicable. Poor Willie, so young and having to deal with all of that shit, on top of being very sick. It just isn’t right.
I am an adult, and I am sick, and I was for years surrounded by people who denied how sick I was, including my ex husband. And let me tell you, it really screws with your head! I wonder what Willie thought, that he was going crazy? That he was not worthy of care? Did he have any inkling that his mother did not love him? How crushing!
Peace to you Willie.
I see that it’s been awhile with no comments on the death of little Willie. I also see that my niece Lillian has not made any more comments. I would like to say that Lillian is having a very hard time right now!!! I also want to let Lillian and her siblings know that I LOVE THEM ALL VERY MUCH!!! my heart breaks everyday over what has happened to our family. Lillian and I us to be close to each other. But now I’m the aunt that she hates. Lillian is right I DID NOT GET TO SEE THE 4 YOUNGER CHILDREN AS MUCH AS I WOULD HAVE LIKED TO. FOR THAT I’M TRUELY SORRY THAT I HAD TO MISS OUT ON SEEING THE YOUNGER ONE’S MORE THAN I DID. BUT IT’S WAS MY SISTER THAT UPED AND MOVED 1 HOUR FROM CLEVELAND TO WARREN. IT IS ME THE SISTER THAT HAS ALWAY’S WORKED AND TOOK CARE OF MY HOME( AND MY CHILDREN FIRST OF ALL) THE ONLY TIME THAT I EVER GOT TO SEE ANY OF THE CHILDREN WAS WHEN I WAS THE ONE THAT WENT AND GAVE THEM A VISIT AND CHECKED IN ON THEM. I ALSO WOULD LIKE TO SAY THAT, AS HARD AS IT IS I LOVE MY FAMILY! I DO NOT HATE ANY OF YOU, BUT I HATE LIKE HELL WHAT WAS ALLOWED TO HAPPEN TO OUR LITTLE WILLIE AND THE REST OF THESE CHILDREN. I BLAME MY SISTER FOR NOT BEING A LOVING AND CARING MOTHER TO HER CHILDREN WHEN THEY NEEDED HER THE MOST. I BLAME BILLY ( WILLIAM) FOR NOT BEING A FATHER THAT PROVIDED FOR ALL OF HIS CHILDREN. I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT IF BILLY WANTED TO HAVE FULL MEDICAL COVERAGE ON ALL 10 OF THE CHILDREN HE VERY WELL COULD HAVE. YOU SEE BILLY WORKED FOR OUR COMPANY THAT PROVIDED FULL MEDICAL. HE FAIL A DRUG TEST, THAT HE WAS WARNED THAT WAS COMING UP, SO WE HAD TO LET HIM GO. I BLAME SOCIAL SERVICE FOR NOT DOING WHAT THEY WERE CALLED TO DO! I BLAME MY FAMILY FOR NOT DOING MORE THAN WE DID. I BLAME THE CHURCH THAT WILLIE ATTENED THAT DID NOTHING TO GET HIM HELP, OR THE OTHER CHILDREN. MEMBERS OF THE CHURCH KNEW THAT WILLIE WAS SICK, THEY ALSO KNEW THAT THE CHILDREN HAD NEVER BEEN SENT TO SCHOOL. THE CHILDREN COULD NOT EVEN WRITE THEIR NAMES ON SUNDAY SCHOOL WORK. I BLAME MYSELF FOR EVER TRUSTING THE ONE THAT KEPT LYING TO ME ABOUT THE CONDITION OF LITTLE WILLIE AND ABOUT THE HOME SCHOOLING. YOU SEE WHEN SOME PEOPLE IN MY FAMILY KNEW THAT MONICA AND BILLY WERE GOING TO GET INTO ALOT OF TROUBLE WITH SOCIAL SERVICE, THEY STARTED TO LIE TO ME TELLING ME THAT WILLIE WAS CHECKED. THAT IT WAS NOTHING BUT A SWALLON GLAND, THAT THE CHILDREN WERE BEING HOME SCHOOLED. OVER THE PAST 2 YRS. I HAVE LOOKED BACK MANY TIMES ON WHAT HAS HAPPENED, AND ALL THAT IS STILL GOING ON. I DON’T KNOW WHY I BELIEVED WHAT I WAS BEING TOLD, I GUESS IN MY HEART AFTER THE UNNNESSARY DEATH OF MY BABY BROTHER JERRY, I WAS HOPING THAT THINGS HAD CHANGED. I WANTED TO THINK THAT MY FAMILY WOULD NOT JUST SIT AND LET LITTLE WILLIE DIE. AFTER WATCHING THE DEATH OF BABY JERRY I’M SORRY TO SAY THAT I WAS WRONG, AND BECAUSE OF THAT WILLIE SUFFERED A VERY PAINFUL DEATH. I TO WONDER WHAT LITTLE WILLIE MUST HAVE BEEN THINKING, DO ANY OF THEM LOVE ME? DO THEY NOT CARE ABOUT ME? AM I GOING TO DIE LIKE UNCLE JERRY DID WITH NO MEDICAL CARE? I TRUELY HOPE THAT SOMEDAY THE CHILDREN WILL BE ABLE TO FORGIVE ME FOR WHAT THEY THINK THAT I DID WRONG. I WAS TRYING TO GET HELP FOR THEIR BROTHER AND FOR THE REST OF THE CHILDREN AND YES FOR MY SISTER ALSO. I’M NO LONGER ALLOWED TO SEE ANY OF THE CHILDREN. MY MOTHER AND MY FATHER ARE NO LONGER TALKING TO ME, AND THEY HAVE MADE IT CLEAR THAT THEY WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH MY 2 CHILDREN. MY SISTER THINKS AND HAS CONVINCED THE CHILDREN THAT THIS IS ALL MY FAULT. IF I WOULD NOT HAVE CALLED SOCIAL SERVICE ON THEIR MOTHER THEN NONE OF THIS WOULD BE HAPPENING. BUT NOW THEIR BLAMING WILLIES DEATH ON THE GOVERMENT FOR NOT DOING THEIR JOB. I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHICH IS IT DID YOU KNOW THAT WILLIE WAS SICK OR NOT? I GUESS THAT MY FAMILY WILL NEVER CHANGE, THEY ALL SAT AND WATCHED MY BABY BROTHER JERRY GO DOWN HILL FAST TO HIS OWN DEATH. THEY KNEW WHAT THE WARNING SIGNS WERE, THAT A PERSON WAS SICK UNTO DEATH!! I CAN’T BELIEVE TWO LIVES CUT SO SHORT IN TWO DEATHS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED IF THEY WERE GIVEN MEDICAL TREATMENT. I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND IT. I THANK GOD EVERYDAY THAT HE GAVE ME SUCH A DIFFERENT LIFE THAN THAT OF MY FAMILY. WE ALL HAVE CHOICES IN LIFE TO MAKE, MOST OF THESE CHOICES THAT WE MAKE CAN CHANGE OUR LIVES FOR THE BETTER AND SET US ON A BETTER PATH TO A BETTER LIFE. IT’S WHEN WE MAKE THE CHOICES THAT ARE THE EASY WAY OUT, THAT WE PUT OUR LIVES AND THE LIVES OF THE ONES THAT WE ARE SUPPOSE TO LOVE ON THE PATH TO DESTUCTION. A LIFE OF HISTORY JUST REPEATING IT SELF. I REFUSE TO ALLOW THIS KIND OF LIFE FOR MYSELF OR MY CHILDREN THAT ARE GROWN. I REALLY DON’T CARE WHAT HAPPENS TO MY SISTER OR BILLY. WHAT EVER THE COURST DECIDE I WILL LEARN TO LIVE WITH. I ONLY CARE THAT THE TRUTH OF WHAT WAS ALLOWED TO HAPPEN TO LITTLE WILLIE IS TOLD. WE ALL OWE WILLIE THAT MUCH. I WILL NEVER ALLOW WILLIE TO BECOME JUST ANOTHER SKELETON IN OUR FAMILY CLOSET, THAT WE ARE NEVER ALLOWED TO TALK ABOUT OR MENTION. WE ALREADY HAVE WAY TO MANY BONES LOCKED UP NEVER TO BE TALKED ABOUT. I TRIED FROM THE BEGINNING TO GET MY FAMILY TO TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED, BUT THEY WOULD NOT HEAR OF IT. I’M SORRY TO SAY THAT THE CHOICES THAT WE HAVE MADE WE WILL ALL HAVE TO LIVE WITH FOR A LIFE TIME. I WILL ALWAY LOVE YOU AND YOUR SIBLINGS WILLIE. I’M TRYING MY BEST TO KEEP THE PROMISE THAT I MADE TO YOU, WHILE YOU LAID IN THAT COFFIN. IT IS KILLING ME SLOWLY EVERYDAY WHEN I THINK OF HOW MUCH BETTER YOU LOOKED IN DEATH, THEN WHEN YOU WERE ABLE TO TAKE A BREATH. YOU WILL FOREVER LIVE IN MY HEART, WHERE THE TRUTH AND MEMORIES OF YOU ARE SAFE. LOVE ALWAYS AUNT SHEILA.
If you go back Sheila, you’ll notice that I told Lillian that I was going to delete any further comments she made on this site. I did this because, knowing what she and her siblings had already had to endure, I didn’t want to be responsible for any replies to her that might be cruel or hurtful. She’s a mixed up kid, torn between what she has seen with her own eye and her love for her brother, and the love she has for her parents. It’s one thing for us to write and publish a legitimate article about William Robinson and Monica Hussing, it’s quite another to exploit a child’s confusion and pain – that’s something this website will never be a part of.
So feel free to comment here, but keep in mind who might be reading your words. Perhaps it’s time for some self-examination. Are you truly making these comments for the good of the children? I’m not suggesting you stop fighting for them, and I’m not questioning your sincerity, I’m just wondering if a public forum like this is the place to make your case.
Max The Cat
Editor, PYSIH
Perhaps it is, but where else is she to find any communication if people are being stubborn and stonewalling her? I know how stubborn and set in their ways people can be, to the point of ridiculousness if they decide that they’ve been wronged. It looks from Sheila’s words that her family is cut from the same ignorant cloth.
I feel sorry for the children and I hope that at least one of them can find the will to escape from the shitmess that is apparently their family tree.
I’m not sure either Alanna, I was just putting it out there. If Sheila believes her heart is in the right place, then I want her to use this board to post for as long as she wishes. God knows I’m the last person to judge anyone’s intentions – most of the time I’m not quite sure why I do what I do. – LOL.
I know that this not the place to make my case. I only miss the children. And I’m trying to do is best for the children. That’s all that I have ever wanted is what is best for the children. I have had to hire my own lawyer on behalf of the children. All of the children are still with my sister and Billy. I know in my heart that more than likely that Lillian is lost to the life style that she has been in for so long. How ever there are still 4 other children at risk of being lost to the same life of our family history repeating itself. I hope as the trial starts at the end of August the 24th that the death of little Willie and the suffering that these children have been through will be exsposed. There are times that I don’t know what to do, I have been told by social service that I needed to let my sister know that what she allowed to happen to Willie is wrong. I have tried to do this with out hurting the children. I know that there has been times in the past 15months that the children have wanted to reach out to me, but my sister finds away to stop it. All I keep hearing is that my sister and Billy have rights as the parents. I just want and have been for more than 2yrs. now fight for the rights of the children. You see I was raised in a house not a home, where me and my 4 siblings were abused and neglected. I would find myself often wondering why none of my aunts or other family members would do nothing to help us. I know someday our family must find someway to heal and to be there for the children. I know that Lillian more than the other children is hurting the most. Lillian is the oldest of the children 14yrs. old at the time of her brother Willies death. I had just spent 4 days with Lillian 2wks. before little passed away. I know that Lillian knows what truely happen to her brother. I also know that she still loves her parents and nothing that is said or done will ever change that. I to still love my parents after a horriable childhood. God gives us parents of his choice for His own reasons. If we are lucky we figure it out why God made the choice that He made for us. I know because of my own childhood I’m a better parent and have a great love for children that are suffering. It’s because of my childhood that I have a relationship with my true father God today. As a child God was the only one there for me to cry out to. With all that being said, your right Max this is not the forum for me to reach out to Lillian and to help the other children. I tried to do it through social service, but where did that get any of us? At this point if there is any place that I can reach Lillian and her siblings that’s what I’m going to do. I just want Lillian to know that I love you Sissy!! nothing that has happened will ever change that. I will never put all the blame on Monica and Billy. I can’t lie about what I know. I promised you when Willie first passed that I would alway’s be here for you if you ever need me. I’m here for my sister also if I’m needed, but I can’t lie. Some day you will grow and see what has happen. When this happens I never want you to be able and look back and say that I did not tell the truth, I would rather have your respect someday than to lie now and never regain your love. I will take your advice Max, I will not post on this or any forum again. I only ask that people go easy on Lillian and please keep the children in your thoughts and prayers.
Please don’t misunderstand me Sheila, because I want you to continue posting here if you’re comfortable with it and it helps you deal with everything that’s happened. It’s just that Lillian’s posts were on my mind – I wasn’t passing judgment on you or your motives, I was only saying what I was thinking at the time. Like I told Alanna, most days I’m not sure why I do things, so far be it from me to believe I know anyone else’s reasoning.
Why are they being charged with involuntary manslaughter instead of murder? If they’d beaten the boy to death it would have been quicker and less painful, but what they did was so much worse.
I can’t believe they can even argue it was a cost issue to get their kid treated! that makes me angry as hell, St Judes, Ronald McDonald house, catholic charities, and others will help out, and at the least they could have told social services they could not pay and given guardianship to the state who would have paid for treatment. My vet makes payment arrangements for animal owners that can’t pay the whole treatment amount up front! People like these lazy pathetic losers make me so angry…I had a pet that had cancer and could not bear to watch him suffer so I cannot imagine actually watching your CHILD suffer day after day after day and not have it bother you one bit? How in the hell could you sit there and watch that?????
Sheila,
I feel for you, I really, really do. I have a sister myself who was the baby of the family. Pampered, spoiled, and, in my eyes as a child, loved waaaay more than I was. I had an alcoholic father who did and said terrible things to me, but never to his little princess, she was kept safe. What resulted was me being very confused and depressed, and her being very selfish and self-absorbed. As we grew, she got worse. I still loved her and just hoped that one day she would just grow up and realize that the world does not revolve around her. Well, we are both in our 30’s and she is worse than ever. She has cut everyone out of her (and my neices and nefews) lives, and cries how hard she has had it all her life. It pains me to know how ridiculous she is being. She tells people total lies about my parents and I. She is very good at munipulating and telling stories to suit her needs. She has fallen into a life where she is not much different from your sister. It’s the stereotypical trailer-trash life. She knows how to twist the law to work for her, she knows how to utilize any benefits that she can squeeze out of any organization there for hard-off people, but likes to play dumb when the time suits her. I want to get her in a room for 15 minutes, duct tape her damn mouth shut, tie her to a chair and slap the stupidy right out of her. BUT, I have pretty much given up hope that she will ever come around to any good sense. To give you a sample of how nasty she is, 14 years ago, I delivered a beautiful baby boy. Of my 5 pregnancies, he was the healthiest one that just seemed to go perfect. Right on his due date, I went into labor. My husband and I, excited about our new addition, were ecstatic. We get to the hospital and find out that he was dead. He was stillborn, my beautiful boy. He died the night before while I laughed at the most amazing kick I’d ever felt, not realizing that was his last movement he’d ever make. It is a very heart-wrenching experience that I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemies, even if I had any. Three years later, my sister informs me that she is mad at me and my parents because they didn’t go to her high school graduation, because they were at their grandson’s funeral. In all fairness, she ran away from home, she dropped out of school for 2 years and relocated to the other end of the country. My parents are on a very fixed income and my baby died, but all she could think of was how she had no family there to snap pictures. Don’t get me wrong, we were very proud of her for going back to school and finishing, especially since she had a child, but she see’s it as if it was something I did to be spiteful to her. She is more angry at me then at my parents, but there is nothing we can do. Only she can do that. Right now, I am trying to build somewhat of a relationship with her oldest daughter who is about to turn 18. I will never discuss her mother with her. She is her mother, she loves her and I never want that to change. I don’t know how it will go, we don’t have nearly the problems between us that you do, but if you asked my sister, her story would be harder than yours. I wish you lots of luck, and all I can say is, do what I plan on doing. Just love those kids and keep reaching to them. Assure them that you do not want to interfere with their love of their parents. I will refuse nicely, to not discuss my sister and our issues with my niece, because I want our relationship to be based on us, not everything else. Persist, persist, persist, but in a loving way. Even if you don’t see results, maybe in 20 years, they may come looking for your ear and/or your love. It could happen. Good luck.
look im his cousin sarah boone and yes i know they dont deseve there kids maybe one day they will relis what they did willie didnt like to play with other kids he always road bikes but he didnt in 2007 in april i think monica and bill should take there life my little cousin was 8 years old when he died and they knew he was sick they just didnt care abou6 them to only thing they cared about was weed ima tell you so,ething if i have a cold my mom is going to take my to the doctos because shes cares i cant believe monica would do this to all the family take a sweet lil willie away from us dont worrie willie they will git what they deserve and i cant wait to see it happen R.I.P. MY LIL COUSIN WILLIE LOVE YOU FOR EVER IN ALWAYS I DONT GO A DAY WITHOUT THINKINGG OF YOU!!!!
I’m so sorry for your loss. :(
look this is his big cousin and yes i know what there mom did is wrong but idk i just think monica and william should get there life took just like myu lil cousin did R.I.P. WILLIE LOVE YA AND MISS YA LIL CUZ
You know what really burns my ass? You have to have a license to have a dog, and drive a car, but any fucktard can have a kid.
You know what’s even worse than that? There are millions of couples out there who WOULD take care of these kids and are totally deserving of kids, AND CAN’T HAVE THEM! I just don’t understand. I don’t understand the logistics of it all.
I have an eight year old son, and I freak out if he coughs. Ok, maybe that’s a little bit of an exaggeration, but come on, your child has a heaping mass growing out of his neck, and you think it’s nothing? Is God on vacation up there or what? Who the hell is giving these idiots children??!!
“stay the fuck out of my life.” A woman expresses great concern that your kid is sick and urges you to take him to the hospital and THAT’S what you say? What a horrible bitch. It sounds like neither parent wanted to be bothered by, you know, parenting so when this problem with Willie arose, they just went into severe denial. They didn’t seem to care at all for him and that’s terrible.
I have been reading here for a little while, but this csae is just … I don’t know what to say. If they had got him to a doctor as soon as he had begun to feel unwell, he would almost certainly have made a full recovery. They were his guardians, it was their duty as parents to ensure he was looked after. These people deliberately did not take their child to the doctor for all this time, shouldn’t this by murder of the first degree?
Gah, and that was meant to be ‘case’ and ‘be’. My brain is on the fritz today:S
So you finally ran into a story you couldn’t stomach to the point where you had to say something, huh? Hehe. That’s how I started posting. Be careful with that!
they deserve to die slow, horribly painful deaths as well, preferably on live tv so we could watch. it was pure laziness and neglect that resulted in that little boys death. with that many kids and i’m sure a low income they could have gotten medicaid or CHIPS or something like that, but i’m guessing they didnt even try. yeah, the paperwork sucks but its sooo worth it! i just sent in my 6 month eval for my kids’ medicaid letters. the envelope didnt even need a stamp. my kids go to the doctor when they need to, and for their check ups. they also go to the dentist, and attend daycare while i go to school and my hubby works. i’m constantly terrified that CPS will come knocking on my door (not cuz i beat my kids, but because i’m a paranoid nutcase about it) and from the sounds of it i could probably dance jigs on their ribcages and nobody would say/do anything! very despicable, and these two wastes of sperm and egg and opportunities deserve whatever they get!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
despiseful! send em to hell!
sorry, grammatical mistake on “despiseful”…its actually “despiteful”…
Hey! I liked ‘despiseful!” I was planning on using it in the future! DAMMIT!
OK there have been a number if questions about NavyCop and myself. Well not about us but about our time together.
so I decided, after asking my squid, to post the hightlights. No inteem detials. Any requests will be ignored. repeated requests will be met with a shovel to your face and a boot to the gut. Remember that before you hit the submit button.
I was about an hour ealy to pick her up. Better early than late. First impressions and all that. So I thought not only a smiling face was needed to but maybe a little something extra. So I picked up 2 very nice early blooming roses. Very cool I thought. A cup of coffee later and he plane landed. She came in to the old part of the Frankfurt Airport. the better part I think. So many memories for me…..Really took me back a long way.
So I walked over to terminal B to wait for her to clear customs. Shouldn’t take long as she’s flying on a military ID. The door opend and I saw her. “she’s tired” was my first thought. She saw me right away. How could you miss my smile? She had her duffel and another small bag on a cart. She wheeled them around the barrior as I was walking to her. A hug! WOW!!!! Her hair smelled good.
She wanted to have some coffee but I also thought that she’s hungry. Airline food is not food and should not be given to a rabid dog let alone people.
So we got a coffee to go. I warned her that German coffee is stronger than Folgers. She ignored me. WHAT A WOMAN! She said the coffee is good as it should be! NICE!
After paying $7 for parking (I know peple in Seattle think thats cheap) we drove a little on the Autobahn. I wanted to show her what it’s like to drive 13 mph. She fell asleep! No fear or back up in this lady! Well wehn we got off the Autobahn she woke up. She seemed a little refreshed and downed the rest of her coffee.
The resturant. I had never been there before but I heard and read all about it. the best Schnitzel in all of Germany.
NC was like a kid in a closed and locked candy store. She wanted to try the beer. She wanted to try the wine she wanted to eat a little of everything. We settled on a bottle of Dornfelder (A very good German red table wine) and a bottle of water. Wienerschnitzel fried potatoes and a small salad for her and a Turkey schnitzel with fries for me.
She commented many times about how good it was. REAL FOOD!
the wine was good and I enjoyed it completly. the company I was sharing was so much better. After the sun went down not many lights were turned on. A waiter came around and lit a candel on our table. Very correct. Very warm and very nice. After we ate I picked up the check and we left to the hotel. I figured NC wanted to take a shower and relax.
The room was simply perfect! 2 beds with a night stand between, bottle of bubbly on ice, big TV. The bathroom was the best. A full shower AND a full bath. But the bath tub was more like a jakuzzi! Holy crap this was very cool! Well NC was tired and she wanted a shower. So I left the bathroom to her.
Next post will be the next day……
Day 2
I get up early. I’m talking 04:30. NC told me she gets up early for a run then a shower. But I knew different. A 9 hour plane rde over multi timezones and a bottle of wine…..yah you get up early OK. :-)
The day before I ordered breakfast to be served at 07:30. Brötchen (breakfast rolls) assorted cheeses and meats. Hot black coffee, hot water and assorted English breakfast teas. Fresh pressed orange juice to top it off. I have expressed my love for bacon many times in my life but I wanted to show NC what a real German breakfast really is.
A lihgt knock on the door let me know breakfast was there. I had a major problem in front of me. How to wake NC. Now her being navy she might get a laugh at how we in the Army would be woken. Feet raised at arms length over my head and dropped. Or should I ***********edited at the request of my squid.
I decided to be gentle and call her name softly and shake her lightly on the sholder. ***********edited at the request of my squid. I told her breakfast was ready and if she would rather have a shower first I would wait for her. And off to the shower she went.
I decided to pick up a little and see what was on the TV while I waited. Found a documentry about bonheads in America. Boneheads are racist skinheads. Not nice people and not atomic scientests either. Anyway I was laughing my ass off when she came out of the shower…… She had on a hotel robe. She had washed her hair. Beautiful doesn’t even come close to describing her at that moment. Angelic? No idea but I couldn’t breath or think. I damn near fell off the bed.
So I woke up real fast and told her about what we were going to eat. She dug in like a Marine that was been on an FTX for 9 weeks! What a woman! After breakfast it was time for my shower.
After I was telling her about what I had planned for the day.
Rest of day 2 to follow….HAY A GUY HAS TO EARN A LIVING DON’T HE?
You sir are a lucky man.
That hasn’t been lost on me at all.