Was at the park the other day formothers day with my little fam and my currently toilet-training two year old did a little combo surprise in his dacks.Before I had time to get to him,he had whipped everything off and was walking bare-bummed over to me…well I nearly had a seizure.
My eyes went into instant scan mode,darting feverishly around for any pervy looking adult who might have been copping a look.
His shitty pants were back on him in an instant,despite his very loudly vocalised disapproval of it and I was hot footing it to the nearest toilet and it’s safety from prying,pedophilic eyes.
I seriously have never been an over-protective mum but I also have never-up until recently-known the full-on depravity and evilness that exsists and occurs on a daily basis.
I don’t like that I am a bit paranoid now..actually I don’t like that I know I have justification for feeling paranoid about my childrens safety.But hey,I am glad that I have lost my naivety if it means that I am a bit more clued up on looking out for my kids.
Even if it means that any new person I come into contact with unfortunately gets weighed up on their potential for murder,mayhem or molestation.

Access to role-playing hookers is another thing entirely.
1st, a sex worker is illegal in most states and counties in states within the union.
2nd, the sex worker cannot be coerced unfairly or illegally into her profession, even where prostitution is legal.

Those two criteria met, the prostitute would have to consent to the event, and at that time, while still expressive of the deviant sexual behavior(paraphillia), it would be expressly legal only if both parties were fully aware of the legality of the event–ie they know they’re both adults.

IF you or I or anyone else is to be called a bigot, because we stress the disdain we have for people who are sexually aroused by the predation of children, then I fear that the actual hypocrisy of our actions is not expressly demonstrated enough to call us bigots. Perhaps realists would be better?

I can’t say that I want him to suffer in the afterlife, both because I loved him even though he hurt me badly, and because I’m a Christian, too, and I’ve done stuff that I would rather God not punish me for, either, ranging from sexual experimentation when I was a little kid to promiscuity to being a bitch to people who didn’t deserve it.

Now the guy who raped my brother when he was five is another story. That guy is an unrepentant bastard, and while it would be nice if he found some faith and showed some regret for the things that he did (he’s in jail after it came to light that he had been raping his own little girl for years), but it would also give me grim satisfaction to see him suffer for all of the lives he destroyed…which is another sin for which I’d rather not be held accountable when my time comes.

The whole thing just makes my skin crawl.

1. Is rape okay?
2. Why is it not okay?
3. Our society has established that you cannot give consent until you are age 18, because you are not mentally a full adult until age 25, but you are often capable of reproducing by age 13 or 14. 18 is a compromise, as are some States acceptance of 16, in as much as we accept sex that is safe for both partners and can be deemed at least reasonably consensual between the two partners.
4. A child might eat candy until their belly hurts, ingest poison, chew on and swallow lead paint, play with a firearm and shoot themselves in the head, do we condone these as sexual preferences that are within acceptable behaviors?
5. An adult might kill a child, beat a child with a baseball bat, rape a child or even torture a child, these aren’t acceptable behaviors.
6. How can a child, who we cannot recognize as being capable of making a fully qualified adult consent, consent to a sexual practice?
7. If a sexual act is not consensual, how is it not rape?
8. How can rape, of any kind, be acceptable?