Stacey Joy Bourdeaux
Almost all human beings struggle against being selfish. Almost all. But then there are those hellbeasts in human form who don’t struggle at all against their selfish urges. They have succumbed to their selfish entitlements, their needs, their impulses. They do whatever they want to do because they want to do it. And woe betide anyone who is vulnerable to their pathological selfishness and malevolent evil.
Stacey Joy Bourdeaux of Calgary, Alberta is one such hellbeast. She hid for years behind the mantle of mother and wife. She was married to Ted Fewer and had a little girl and a lovely baby boy, Sean Ronald Fewer. On December 27, 2004, little Sean was found in his crib, dead. He’d just had his first and only Christmas.
Stacey told police she had put Sean down for a nap, returned about an hour later and found him not breathing.
The medical examiner ruled 10-month-old Sean’s death as a case of sudden infant death syndrome. Poor Ted and Stacey, who were expecting another son in a few months. They had to carry on in their grief and prepare for the next child.
Well, poor Ted anyway. What he did not know is that Sean’s death was not SIDS-related, not accidental, but murder. Stacey never told him and he never knew. Stacey wrote in her private journal all about it 6 years later, shortly after Ted’s accidental death by electrocution.
“That night that (Sean) left us,” she wrote to her deceased husband, “it wasn’t actually while he was sleeping. Due to me being very sick at the time, I did what I didn’t want to do. The crying wouldn’t stop, so I ended up putting a pillow over his face and made sure that it was stopping his breathing… I knew that I couldn’t handle three kids, more or less on my own.”
And that makes it all right, to smother the baby? In her perverted mind it did.
So Sean had been dispensed with, disposed of like a used tissue. He was inconvenient, a burden, and he cried. The poor little guy whose only real crime was to be born to that selfish hellbeast, Stacey Joy Bourdeaux.
And Stacey Joy Bourdeaux had gotten away with murder. That is until she tried it again.
Her second victim was her second son.
Stacey Joy Bourdeaux found herself widowed suddenly in 2010 at age 33. It was a traumatic time for the little family, no doubt. But then her 5-year-old boy, in the midst of a temper tantrum on May 24, told his mom that he wished she had been the one to die instead of his dad.
That is so totally NOT the thing to say to a hellbeast.
Stacey Joy Bourdeaux hauled her boy upstairs in a rage. Her daughter, who stayed downstairs, heard him crying sporadically. Mom and son were upstairs for hours.
Those hours were spent by the murderous mom trying to kill the little guy. The beast tried suffocating him. She put her hand over his face, and then wrapped a pillowcase around his neck. His heart stopped a couple of times, but he kept reviving. Stacey Joy Boudreaux finally stopped her murderous assault.
I cannot imagine what it was like for that little boy to have his own mother strangling the life out of him and reviving him hour after hour, his brain and lungs shrieking for oxygen.
All solicitous and mothering after trying to kill her son, Stacey gave him Tylenol and cleaned him up after he threw up, urinated and defecated. No harm, no foul, right?
That evening a woman stopped by to offer her condolences about Ted Fewer’s death and learned from the little girl that her brother was sick and turning blue. Alarmed, the woman asked Stacey if he needed to go to hospital, but was told no.
The next day the boy was shaking uncontrollably, couldn’t feed himself, and couldn’t control his bladder and bowels. He was also falling over.
Stacey wrote in her journal, “I was trying to send him to you. And if I lose him now I am going to feel really bad, cause it would be my fault. I can say he’s very tough and a fighter.”
She continued, “I do feel bad about doing what I did. I’m just not sure why. It was the same with Sean too. To this day I still feel the guilt of losing Sean too.”
It sounds for all the world that she’s not sure why she feels bad about what she did. Un-friggin-believable.
Anyway, it wasn’t until three days later that Stacey Joy Bourdeaux asked a neighbour to drive them all to hospital. On the way she explained to the neighbour that she had tried suffocating the boy. He called police immediately after their arrival at Alberta Children’s Hospital.
Stacey Joy Bourdeaux’s son lived, but the damage was devastating. A once healthy child, he cannot speak any more, he has lost motor control and he now suffers from seizures. Both he and his sister were made permanent wards of the province. God bless them.
The police uncovered Stacey’s journals in their investigation, and Sean’s murder finally came to light. The hellbeast was arrested and charged with attempted murder and 2nd degree murder.
Stacey Joy Bourdeaux pleaded guilty to manslaughter, attempted murder and failing to provide the necessities of life. She is expected to return to court very soon following the completion of a pre-sentence and psychological risk assessment. (I’ll keep you readers posted when I hear of developments.)
Her earlier psychiatric assessment found she had NOT been suffering any disturbance of the mind when she had murdered Sean.
Not a disturbance of the mind, just a complete lack of a soul.
Long may you rot, Stacey Joy Bourdeaux. And may the judge sentence you to an eternity in prison.
To view a Calgary news report on the investigation click HERE.
Does Stacey Joy Bourdeaux deserve hell forevermore?
- Hell yes, she chose to attack and to kill her helpless children. (98%, 605 Votes)
- No, she was just a stressed out mom trying to cope. (2%, 13 Votes)
Total Voters: 618
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Wow…that poor boy. And we all know Canada will try to rehabilitate her rather than fry her dumb ass.
Of course we here in Canada believe that the Devil himself just needs a shoulder to cry on and someone to talk about his problems. We even charge people who defend themselves, you kill someone you need some help, if you jay walk well, shoot you belong in jail for a very long time.
OMG…I answered an ad on day…bout 6 yrs back…a babysittin ad…A single mom of 2 was looking for a job babysittin…my girls were 5 and almost 2.. Stacy looked after my children…and when I tried to contact her …I left my number…the next day I got a call from the police…the sent an officer to my place…and told me what she had done…..I was blown away!!!!! thank God,my children are fine…but poor lil Curtis,such a cute lil boy,I dont understand how a mother could do the unthinkable…wow….so I have been very causious ever since…MAY YOUR SOUL ROT!!!!
*I* am a stressed out mom trying to cope. This woman is a monster. Not even close.
My thoughts exactly.
She does deserve hell, but I think you misinterpreted her writings when you said that she didn’t know why she felt bad after she killed Sean. She writes “I do feel bad about doing what I did. I’m just not sure why.” I believe the “not sure why” applies to doing what she did, not feeling badly after it. Just sayin’.
I suppose it can be interpreted both ways…….who knows what this psycho actually meant. When I read it, I translated it as she “was not sure WHY SHE FELT GUILTY” as though in her mind, one shouldn’t feel guilty for killing her son!!! and I think that’s how her twisted mind works.
I’ll admit I’ve had my selfish mommy moments. I’ve heard my baby crying while I was in the shower and finished up rather than rinsed off and went running. I’ve put my daughter in a playpen so I could sit on something that wasn’t the floor for five minutes and check my e-mail with both hands. I’ve even left the kids with the hubby a couple times so I could go out alone with my friends. The topping on the cake must be when I told my husband, after staying awake three nights with a crying newborn, that I was taking the night off, the pumped milk was in the fridge, and kicked the two of them out of my room. I think each of these have taken me from mommy about to lose my shit to a calmer mommy who was ready to be a better parent to my kids. I have NEVER thought that my child, who was crying and inconsolable, needed a pillow to the face to shut them up. Five minutes in the crib while mommy went to the other room to regain composure? Yes, but not death.
This woman is no mother. Egg donor gets tossed around on this site, but I think even that is too good. How do you attempt to kill your child for HOURS? I don’t even think the devil is that cruel.
Those are not ‘selfish’ mommy moments, KHR. None of them caused your kids the slightest bit of harm.
I know. But they positively horrified someof the other mommies in my now-former mommy group. How dare I let my babies cry while I finish a shower or take a minute to myself or go to the bathroom or whatever! They were horrified that I refused to wake up to feed my baby every few hours that one night because she needs the ‘bonding time’. I finally quit when the breastfeeding dictators freaked out that I was using a bottle because my body decided to stop making milk and I didn’t want my baby to starve waiting for it to come back in.
I love my kids, more than anything else, but I refuse to be a ‘helicopter parent’. And some mommies seem to think that if I’m not constantly by my daughters and giving them whatever they want I’m ‘selfish’ and a bad mommy.
I’m tempted to print off this article and show them what a true selfish mommy does.
No offence, but if your little mommy group makes you feel bad for that you need to find another group of lesser ‘holier-then-thou’ group of people. I can guarantee your child will be better off then any of theirs in the long run. You taught your child something I wish all people would learn. The world doesn’t revolve around you. If they did, how much you want to bet half of these stories like this wouldn’t have happened? You’re child’s needs got met with in a reasonable amount of time, it didn’t harm them. And I’ll pay good money that those very same ladies to condemn you, do the VERY same things. People like the women you mention raise kids to end up on sites like this 20 years down the line.
I love your reply!! It is sooo true!! My son went to nursery group where all the women were ‘Stepford Wife’ types. One became the group leader a few years later while the rest became school Governors etc. Guess who’s kids have been in trouble with the police numerous times by the age of 14??!! I had a far more laid back approach ( which of course was frowned upon….) and I’m happy to say that my son and I have a very close relationship and he talks to me about 95% of his daily life, any problems etc. ( I would like to say 100%, but 1) he’s a teenager and 2) I don’t want to kid myself and tempt fate). And yes, I did gloat every time I found out about the ‘Stepford Children’ getting in trouble with the police….
“I’ve even left the kids with the hubby a couple times so I could go out alone with my friends”
You say that like you’re confession to some sin!! Unless he’s just a sperm donor, he’s half of the parental unit and SHOULD be spending time taking care of your children.
And I second what Gabby replied. You need some different friends….cause sister, right now it sounds like you’re living in STEPFORD!
I did join a new group, something based on an interest of mine, and I’ve found my kindred spirits.
No, it’s not a sin, but if you’d listen to him it’s like asking him to translate the Dead Sea Scrolls while on a treadmill set on high. He doesn’t seem to get it when I say “welcome to my life!”
We have six kids all together. He has two, I have two and then we had unexpected set of twins when my sons were half grown. (HALF GROWN!! I was this close!) Anyway I would get to complaining about the stress or what ever of taking care of six children and he would say something along the lines of, “How hard can it be?” Of course that tended to lead to a trip to Roswell, El Paso or Odessa.. Mainly it was for the quiet drive and lunch. No much but when your a mother it’s oh so nice. Funny how I usually came home to something like a new coffee pot, or stove… One time it was a microwave. (Don’t. Ask.) And a very sorry husband who said the words I always love to hear. “You’re right… I’m wrong…”
But of all the things that I came home that were broken. None of the children were… When my husband can put up with all six and all that I come home to is a brand new microwave. (Again… Don’t. Ask.) I don’t see any excuse for a person like this to hurt her child in that way.
On a side note: From what I gather.. Never nuke a Barbie Doll to dry it’s hair.
Your hubby is awesome. Though those things aren’t cheap, but
Umyeah I love that
New
Stove smell lol
Here’s a bad mommy story. Once when my three children were teenagers, they drove me insane to the point where I packed my bags, told them all to go to hell, and started walking down the street with my suitcase. I really had no intention of ever going back to the house. Some guy (really an Angel in Disguise) picked me up, bought me a drink and a piece of pizza and talked me into going back home. I never did it again but those are the lengths to which nasty ass teenagers can drive you.
Bad mommy!!!
I let my six year old drink my coffee and eat a ton of sugar so she would have the rush and crash and go to bed like her twin an hour earlier then her set bedtime.Truth be told, I think we all have bad mommy stories. My sister calls me bi-monthly telling me if I didn’t come get her kids she was going to knock the crap out of them.
By taking care of yourself physically and emotionally, you enable yourself to give your best to your children. That’s not selfish at all.
I really feel for this woman’s husband. Imagine sleeping with your wife every night, allowing her to console you in your grief, and worst of all, having two other children with her, and never knowing she was the reason your first child died. The husband died without ever finding out, but I’m not sure if that makes it better or worse!?
They might want to take a second look at the husband’s “accidental” death… I’m surprised if they haven’t.
Ted Fewer tragically died after accidentally being electrocuted by a power line while trying to dislodge a model rocket.
She’ll get less time in Canadian prison than her 2 sons got normal life on Earth.
You say that as if we are all retarded amoeba with no concept or love or life. FYI, we hear a disturbing number of news stories from the States as well, where the punishment is a slap on the wrist compared to the crime.
Not all of us enjoy slandering another country and it’s citizens or justice system based on one brainless tit living there who thinks killing your own child is alright.
You’re going to find these hellbeast criminals, weak sentences, and judicial blunders everywhere you go. The whole world is going to hell in a hand-basket.
For some reason, reading this article sent chills up and down my spine. What she wrote in her journal about smothering her 10 month old was really scary and creepy. Just another story that makes me sad and doubt God unfortunately.
Okay, is it just me or this woman look like a teenage boy that hasn’t went through puberty yet?
I sure want her to do every single day of the rest of her miserable life in jail, but we all know that probably won’t happen. Hopefully someone will take care of her ass so the fine tax payers won’t have to pay for little boy looking ass.
I agree – she should have married one of those pervy priests that like little boys!
If this bitch didn’t want kids, she should have kept her goddamn legs closed!
Seriously, if my parents killed me for every nasty thing I said, well duh – I would have only said 1 nasty thing…..
The boy deserved a smack in the ass or a slap across the face or maybe a soap snack…….
It looks like she won’t be seeing her husband – ever!
Maybe she’ll look up from hell and see him with a real nice woman, like my sister’s sister in law – never married, loved her nephews…
That poor five year old boy. 0.0.
I really hope that woman has a “fun” time in lock-up. I hope she has a fun, *fun* time in lock-up…
discusting. I could never harm a child. THe parents are another story. SHIT you know what causes BABIES. IDIOTS I swear.
discusting. I could never harm a child. THe parents are another story. SHIT you know what causes BABIES. IDIOTS I swear.
May that woman have her genitals grow shut.
She could of just put the kid up for adoption. Ill never understand this excuse and I will most certainly never sympathise with that sort of monster. Bitch! Some people shouldn’t be able to have kids in the first place.
I always wonder why these “parents” can’t call 911, or drop the baby or child off at the police or fire station, or any one of a hundred, or a thousand, other scenarios that leave the children ALIVE and SAFE. The world is filled with loving, decent people who would be thrilled to foster and raise these poor babies.
But there I go, assuming that hellbeasts would think like human beings.
These dumb ass ppl!!!!!! Excuse me but what a dumb bitch!!!! If you can’t handle the kids that you have then don’t keep having them. Maybe you should have stopped at 1 or maybe you shouldn’t have had any at all…….All these stories with these moms killing their kids now adays, leaving them in dumpsters, drowning and suffocating them? I don’t get it. There are so many other options out there than this. You may not want to take care of them but someone else would love the opportunity!
When i was 19 my 4 and 1/2 month son died of SIDS, it was and will always be the worst thing that ever happened in my life. I loved him more then i ever knew i could love a human being. I hate that this woman was able to get away with murder by saying SIDS.. i hope she rots in hell
I pondered this, then read each and every reply. I have a hard time rapping my mind around this. Being a mom, yes, I thought I would lose it a few times. The kids know how to push each and every button you have, but, here we are, my children are alive, healthy, and I get a hug each night before bed. I love time out. I just send mine in the room, and if mine throws a tantrum, the longer the time in there. They learn, It is also okay to let a baby cry for a little while, it develops their lungs.
We as parents can be pushed, and pushed to the point, we wants to throw ourselves on the floor and mimic the childlike tantrums..
But, from what I read, it dose not appear to be ppd, But, what has me pondering and a little concerned.. Where was dad when this happened.. Why did he not get up to take care of the child… Why was it all put on her… Some of this makes me say huh? and other parts make me angry and sad…
Cant believe she babysat my kids for months!!! never thought she was so deseatful,and a total piece of work…Im glad I didnt know,I wouldve made her struggle for breath!!! Choke her out!! I hope the lovely ladies in prison,give you what you deserve!!! you dont deserve to breathe the air!!!! Knowning lil Curtis will never have a normal life because of a piece of shit like you!!! BURN IN HELL
Yea, Burn in Hell you Asshole! More injustice from the Sickos! Maybe now that Ricky Smyrnes aka Wesley Spectrum Enabling School, run by Greed is going to be put to death, we can only hope that this killer will indeed “burn in hell’
Agreed! “Burn in Hell you Asshole” Subjects like this need to go to prison and have poisoned particles shoved up their asses. Ricky Smyrnes of Wesley Spectrum, rewarded by school administrator for crimes on kids will burn in hell. PS Fuck Off MZ Enabler